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Better to meet for a drink first or jump in to bed
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just like to meet in a public place so I can see them
I don't need a night out, one drink is all it takes for me to know if I want to shag them
I don't like to commit myself to shagging someone I have never met, people don't always look like their pics and i dont want to walk into a hotel room to a guy who's pics where from 10 year and 5 stone ago
Easier to get out of a meet in public |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to get right to it but I have never been in bed with a meet - most likely on a sofa or on a bed....or a floor....in a bath....you get the idea  "
My kind of women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer to get right to it but I have never been in bed with a meet - most likely on a sofa or on a bed....or a floor....in a bath....you get the idea "
Bath....noted for next time  |
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I like to have a drink first but it depends on communication beforehand. I've had messages like "are you free?" and I reply "and you are?"  Sometimes it's a request for a skype call which is good because then you've flirted with them a little bit.
I appreciate people want to get down to business but sometimes a bit of build up is important, especially as you still don't really know much about them. |
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"I just like to meet in a public place so I can see them
I don't need a night out, one drink is all it takes for me to know if I want to shag them
I don't like to commit myself to shagging someone I have never met, people don't always look like their pics and i dont want to walk into a hotel room to a guy who's pics where from 10 year and 5 stone ago
Easier to get out of a meet in public"
same here. I've done one social which was really good but I just don't have time for hours of drinking on a meet usually. We both know why we're there so why waste time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is best for when you meet someone for the first time.
Meet for a drink or just jump into bed with them?  "
Drink and a chat in the living room then if it goes well to be different not a good bye and part politely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends on who it is you're meeting and the circumstances that have led up to the meet. A drink might be just fine, similarly straight to it might be preferable - there are no rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is best for when you meet someone for the first time.
Meet for a drink or just jump into bed with them? "
I like to book a hotel and then meet a couple in the bar. If we're all happy then we go upstairs and take it from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is best for when you meet someone for the first time.
Meet for a drink or just jump into bed with them?
I like to book a hotel and then meet a couple in the bar. If we're all happy then we go upstairs and take it from there."
That's how I like to do things
Meet in a hotel bar, have a drink and take it to a room if we get on |
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Personally I prefer to get into things rather than go for drinks and coffees.
I tend to find socials with guys so awkward, especially if we've been talking via text and calls teasing each other for weeks and I just want to jump the person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most def social first.
Twice I arranged to meet just for sex. Never again.
There has to be an attraction in person. Saves embarrassment on both sides if there's no attraction. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the person your talking too and if you can keep your hands off them for a period of time ... From past experience socials never end up socials if you get my drift
Anyone want a social in that case haha ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally meet at a club, either i arrange to meet a guy there or just simply meet someone there i like, then its easy enough to know if i want to play or not.
I hate socials, as in getting a drink of some kind, as i don't wanna chat with them, if its got to the stage where we are meeting then usually i will know by now if i want to play anyway, if they dont look like their photos then i dont bother to say hi but i will txt them to say that to them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just wouldn't feel comfortable turning up at a hotel and going straight upto a room and knocking on the door to have someone I had never met before open it and invite me in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to meet for sex, usually chatted enough beforehand to know if I want to meet them, met for a drink occasionally but just depends on the situation |
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"Thanks for all the post. Very much down the middle hehe "
Best place to be!
It will depend on the person you're meeting and how the communication between you has been. Sometimes it's a slow burner and sometimes it's dynamite! But I'm easy-going enough to leave most of those parameters to the women I meet as I want them to be relaxed and not feel pressured. For me, it's not just about sex, it's about the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some men have come a long way to meet me,they get to the room first and wind down before I get there. I will have already got a good idea of what they are like by chatting beforehand,some for months before meeting. They have actually been my best times on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've met some where I've chatted to for a while on here but there has been no chemistry when I've actually met them & others I've not really felt much for them online but thought they were nice & when I've met them for a drink I've found it hard to keep my hands off of them  |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"I prefer to get right to it but I have never been in bed with a meet - most likely on a sofa or on a bed....or a floor....in a bath....you get the idea
Bath....noted for next time "
Oh yes please.....we are overdue a watersport day |
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but a drink in bed to break the ice woukd be nice lol 
moment. Much easier than saying, come round and we'll have sex, of course you can stay the night, then have the 
*disclaimer,this is NOT a look at me post 
