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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"I've been arguing with a good friend of mine this evening as he can not see why I won't play bare and try to avoid those that day they they prefer it.

His argument is that as I lick pussy, suck cock and have other woman's gush etc in my mouth.. And on rare occasions guys cum in my mouth that its a bit silly that I am so against bareback.

Now I've researched this a lot myself and have been told by the experts that my risks are minimal compared to if I had bare sex every time I swung. Common sense suggests that condoms should always be used unless it is a regular parrtner . I always use condoms with the exception of a few regular meets who want it without . I only ever had a problem once when a lady literally mounted me at a swingers club during foreplay before I had a chance to put a condom on . For me condoms are essential.

Bare in mind that we play as a couple a few times most week with others x and will at least once a week have one other sexual partner each..

To me there is also the risk of pregnancy... Not just to me but I worry for my partner to.. as I work bloody hard to keep my contraception so I don't get caught but I figure the implant and the pill ( on medical grounds ) and a condom is about as near to 100% as I can get and I always prefer a guy to come somewhere near my face x

Don't get me wrong... I have had accidents and even chosen to on the odd occasion go without but it certainly wasn't somethjing that was a mindless thought x and to be honest thy worry after was terrible x

So what are your views.. am I deluding myself that I'm safer not doing bare vaginal or anal sex or is my friend right that the amount we play with others ( ie fingers, tongues and mouths etc) that I am just really using them for no reason.

Before anyone says anything I personally believe that oral sex even to completion is a.lesser risk than full sex x "

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"I've been arguing with a good friend of mine this evening as he can not see why I won't play bare and try to avoid those that day they they prefer it.

His argument is that as I lick pussy, suck cock and have other woman's gush etc in my mouth.. And on rare occasions guys cum in my mouth that its a bit silly that I am so against bareback.

Bare in mind that we play as a couple a few times most week with others x and will at least once a week have one other sexual partner each..

Before anyone says anything I personally believe that oral sex even to completion is a.lesser risk than full sex x "

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple over a year ago

near cardiff

My brother had a t shirt with "an armchair killed my brother Neil" on it

Makes you think..how did an armchair kill him?did it fall from the sky?

Did he trip and cave his skull in?

Was he swinging on it wearing a condom at the time?did his conquest cave his skull in?did she drop the armchair on his head.....but at least he didn't get an STI