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Very bad experinace at a club
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By *aysmit OP Man
over a year ago
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Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that. That is a really shitty thing to do to another human being. Try not to let it knock your confidence, try again at a different club and I'm sure you'll have a great time. After a few good visits youll forget the bad experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been swinging for about 2 years and we think size does not matter... It's personality that matters more in the swinging world. And of course the usual hygiene etc.. But don't let it affect you mate... Xx |
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Unfortunately there are arseholes in every walk of life.
Sticks and stones and that jazz, don't let him put your off the clubs, let it hang free and show everyone your damn proud of it. Lol. Good luck.  |
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"Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx "
Sadly quite a few people make nasty comments about various things in life . Ijust ignore words as they do not hurt . Why worry about what others think.?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will never be the biggest member of any club either but I couldn't care less.
If you're naturally self conscious then perhaps a swinging club is not the best place to hang out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take a pic of it next to a sky remote but shove your balls down as far as possible to make it look bigger. Also tie a piece of string or squeeze it really tight to make it bulge & turn a funny colour  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in Chams and an old guys started making rude comments about tattoos in the smoking area, I'm covered in them.
I politely said he was entitled to his opinion.
Is rudeness got me chatting to a very sexy lady who asked me if I was ok. Who I ended up having lots of fun with 
So I can't complain
Just ignore it. You have people like that in all walks of life. There insecure about themselves so have to belittle other people to make themselves feel better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was in Chams and an old guys started making rude comments about tattoos in the smoking area, I'm covered in them.
I politely said he was entitled to his opinion.
Is rudeness got me chatting to a very sexy lady who asked me if I was ok. Who I ended up having lots of fun with
So I can't complain
Just ignore it. You have people like that in all walks of life. There insecure about themselves so have to belittle other people to make themselves feel better"
I've witnessed some down right despicable behaviour at some clubs of people slagging others off. A good friend was made to feel low because larger lady started calling him fat and ugly. I've also been slagged off and attacked at a party so I wouldn't say it just happens at clubs.
My advice don't let it bother you, easier said than done I know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"U wanna see these sad fukers when your cocks bigger than there's and there wifes staring at u and he drags her away and u dont see them again !"
Because all a woman would want is a big cock? There's usually a few spare bellends of various sizes trailing around clubs. |
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"Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx "
School bully syndrome. He was with a gang of his mates and you were a vulnerable single...He thought he could show off how big he was by ridiculing you, knowing that there's only one of you and 10 of them.
Shame that these kind of scum can't be reported and banned from clubs but it's a sad reality that in the swinging world couples are precious and "can do no wrong" and single guys are 10 a penny and some couples think that they are "disposable".
It's been a year, I hope you've let time heal the wound and can move on from this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you hear that nasty comment
Were you in a relaxed or were you standing to attention? As we all know the size of a relaxed penis is completely different. So making a judgement comment when someone is flaccid is completely wrong.
Also the vaginal opening only has stimulating nerve endings on the first 3" of wall. Anything above a 4" penis in length won't hit any nerve endings that a 3" Hasn't already ttouched.
Many women Don't like too long a penis as they don't like the pain of their cervix being battered and bruised, chances are even having a 12" penis your unlikely to be able to insert the whole length into a woman anyway, so where's the benefit?
I have a 6"-7" penis and I've been told I'm a 'comfortable size'. My natural curve helps me around the corner to touch the g spot.
I can cope with being Mr average, Mr modest and Mr comfortable. As opposed to Mr unusable, And Mr painful.
Obviously some woman prefer bigger but that's something they have gotten used to over time. Sometimes, having kids desensitises the vaginal walls.
If you know how to keep the ladies happy then your perfectly sized |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can cope with being Mr average, Mr modest and Mr comfortable. As opposed to Mr unusable, And Mr painful.
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Funny you say "I can cope with being Mr average" right after claiming to be 2 inches bigger than average. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just remember, the great thing about the swinging community is that you will meet people of all shapes and sizes. Both my partner and I believe passing horrible judgements like that have no place in this world, even more so in a club. Hope it doesn't impact you going forward. Best of luck |
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"Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx "
happenened to me Friday couple made a comment about me in front of hubby which they didn't realise at the time he just turned round and said you had better leave or else that's my wife you're talking about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx
School bully syndrome. He was with a gang of his mates and you were a vulnerable single...He thought he could show off how big he was by ridiculing you, knowing that there's only one of you and 10 of them.
Shame that these kind of scum can't be reported and banned from clubs but it's a sad reality that in the swinging world couples are precious and "can do no wrong" and single guys are 10 a penny and some couples think that they are "disposable".
It's been a year, I hope you've let time heal the wound and can move on from this."
I'm slightly offended by the way it sound like your saying all couples are the same. Many people defend single guys in here, especially when they are tarred with the same brush, I think it's only fair not to tar all couples with the same brush. |
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My definition of bullying is putting someone down to make yourself feel better and this fits firmly within that definition. It's his problem not yours.
You can't do anything about what the good lord gave you but at the same time i am sure that most people would change something about their physical appearance if they could.
Was at a club recently where a guy with a micro cock got into the hot tub. I am sure that everyone noticed but no one said anything and engaged with him as much as any one else. Try and find nice people to socialise with at clubs and show them that you are a decent guy. If it has knocked your confidence too much accept that clubs might not be for you and maybe try socials. Good luck. |
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