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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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First off, this is Mr. posting this, but only after discussion with Mrs. who's views on this are the same. This only happened to us once but it annoyed us both and we wondered if it had happened to anyone else.
At a club and a couple approach us and start chatting. Everything seems good, it seems everyone is onto everyone else and, after a while they suggest we go to a play room for some couple to couple fun. Once we get into the play room though the other couple focus all their attention on Mrs. and pretty much ignore Mr.
Our reaction was to end it quickly and get out but it did annoy as the talk before hand was mutual soft swing play.
We're all for 'people can change their minds' but to talk up 4 way soft swing to get us into the play rooms and then, 2 minutes later, to play out in a different way just seems bad form. All of the talk before we headed to the room was quite explicitly of soft swapping partners.
Are we being too over sensitive in our expectations? This wasn't a prearranged meet, just a random club encounter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's the perfect scenario for us as I love seeing Sabrina being pleasured by a couple . It proper pisses me off when I am expected to join in ."
Understand what you're saying and that suits what you're looking for but we're not looking for that. |
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over a year ago
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we would stop play - we always say we all play together as a 3sum 4sum and even when we swap partners we are close enough to touch and kiss each other if we want - its how we like it and if it didnt happen and one was left watching then it stops |
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"we would stop play - we always say we all play together as a 3sum 4sum and even when we swap partners we are close enough to touch and kiss each other if we want - its how we like it and if it didnt happen and one was left watching then it stops "
this happened to us at a party we were chatting to a couple and then all 4 of us went upstairs, the guy and my OH started to play
Then the other lady says shes not in the mood and disappears down stairs again,
the guy was blocking my OH's view so she could not see what happened till i went beside her, when she realised what had happened we got dressed and left ,
apparently they were well known for doing it. |
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It happens all the time. Also had a couple where he didn't join in just expected my partner to also watch the two ladies play.
This weekend we are away and wanting fun. A couple start chatting and we meet for a social Friday evening. no play but we are told about a great local club and agree a meet there last night. He arrives alone as OH is "ill" but of course he hasn't thought to let us know!! Alsothe "great club" is a place with no public play areas two other couples and around twenty single men.
what a total waste of our valuable time off. We just want a bit of fun with a couple of like minded people .... is it that hard. |
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we met a couple off here (now UNLOS) socially and they were lovely, all the right noises, and then when committed to a date to meet, the talk all turned to what the other guy was going to do to K while his OH watched and not a mention of me. We were still going to meet them when they went UNLOS |
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It's well held that when two people talk and nod in agreement they really have no idea what the other person's interpretation of events are.
You were right to stop.
So that it doesn't happen again it's best to state how things will start off.
e.g each with own partner
swap partners , snogging, touching
etc
All together for four way swing
(grope)
Any bi sexual play agreed.
Back to own partners for full sex OR one pair sex other watching then swap.
No bear hugs or cradles allowed. Two falls or one pin declares the winner !
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This has happened to me sometimes at parties with Kim, yes do you wish they were more honest etc.
The crazy thing is we do separate room anyway so i like to put it down to inexperience rather being deceitful. |
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