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why do men feel the need to send cock pic's?
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By *efoil OP Woman
over a year ago
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I get sent them all the time...why would a man think a woman would want to meet a man,purely on a cock pic? It's not for me, but are there woman that do meet men purely from their profile and cock pic alone? |
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Men are very visual. Part of our sexual biology is to be target driven. We like to see the pussy we're hunting (even the pc correct males who say otherwise) So we imagine women are the same and will be swayed by our virile display!
Regrettably we forget Women typically have to be several steps down the attraction path before they want that particular flag.
Put it this way low cut tops wouldn't be so popular if we weren't designed to look!
The famous picture of Marilyn Munroe is powerful for what it suggests we might see or she might show not for the lighting, composition or depth of field. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men haven't been sexualised to the high degree women have. Which is also why women tend to typically show off their tits, arse, legs and think that's enough for men to get them interested.
Men only have their cock that is sexual to them, they don't get that everything about a guy will make most of use decide if they are sexy or not.
My opinion anyway. |
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"I get sent them all the time...why would a man think a woman would want to meet a man,purely on a cock pic? It's not for me, but are there woman that do meet men purely from their profile and cock pic alone?"
yes for some women it's all about size and meet on that basis alone don't know why you're surprised  |
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By *igDD95Man
over a year ago
Watford |
i always prefer to send a face pic, a dick pick is pretty boring, i mean quite a few people on this site have them, its no surprise what a penis looks like, if they want to see then i'll oblige but just straight up sending dick pics leaves nothing to the imagination and takes away from the discussion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I like to see what I'm potentially getting intimate with. It has to be aesthetically pleasing or else I won't be going near it....I'm here for great sex with the men of my fantasies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think in a first message its a bit odd, like flopping it out in a pub when you first approach someone!! Women in general are way more interested in the person its attached to. If I only wanted a cock, I'd play with a dildo!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What makes me laugh is that ladies say again and again in the forums no cock pics please but us stupid men still send them ! Some guys even have them as profile pics .
I dint send and never will send a pic of my knob .
But dont be hypocritical folks i dont wanna see your tits or other privates until we meet either . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get sent tit pics as well when I ask to swap pics... Like how is a pair of tits of any use to me im asking for face pics, so women do it too even women do it the most |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally i think woman are a little too sensitive when it comes to pics.
They rave about Mr Grey and David Beckhams bulge but when Joe bloggs whips it out its a no no.
I might put a ban on them sendig me pussy pics all the time... see how they like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get sent them all the time...why would a man think a woman would want to meet a man,purely on a cock pic? It's not for me, but are there woman that do meet men purely from their profile and cock pic alone?"
Yes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men haven't been sexualised to the high degree women have. Which is also why women tend to typically show off their tits, arse, legs and think that's enough for men to get them interested.
Men only have their cock that is sexual to them, they don't get that everything about a guy will make most of use decide if they are sexy or not.
My opinion anyway."
And a very good one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally i think woman are a little too sensitive when it comes to pics.
They rave about Mr Grey and David Beckhams bulge but when Joe bloggs whips it out its a no no.
I might put a ban on them sendig me pussy pics all the time... see how they like it "
Hahaha you're right if DB was whipping his out I'd have no problem  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its on a preemp basis cus usualy few mesages in its how bigs your cock can i see it but why do people put no pic no reply and vever show theres "
I have never, ever, asked somebody how big their cock is! haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must admit a good cock pic will get me moist. Unfortunately I get sent bad cock pics (flaccid, wrinkly, ugly) mostly. Shame."
Yup and nestled in hairy crotches  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some like it some dont.
its not the first time ive been sent pics(from couples/females) just showing their bits....
please remember single males vastly outnumber other groups...but it isnt a reason to tarnish us all negatively |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always thought it was more of a size thing, as I've seen a lot of females on here crave penises the size of tree trunks, and will only reply to those who are packing serious wood. As I'm not packing, I never send cock pics with my initial msg, so leave them on my profile.
I wonder if the same goes for fit guys who send pics of their abs? Some women adore them, some don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get sent them all the time...why would a man think a woman would want to meet a man,purely on a cock pic? It's not for me, but are there woman that do meet men purely from their profile and cock pic alone?"
lol u going off cock then ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some like it some dont.
its not the first time ive been sent pics(from couples/females) just showing their bits....
please remember single males vastly outnumber other groups...but it isnt a reason to tarnish us all negatively"
Well said sir
Yet another chance to bash single males |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Strange, I thought the majority of people are on this site for sex? So surely, if you're going to go to all that trouble to meet someone for sex, you'd want to see the whole "package' to make sure they are worth your time? Or have I misunderstood and this is a dating site?
If men interested in me don't send me a cock pic along with body and face pics then it makes me wonder if they have a cock they are ashamed of and it puts me off.
Be proud of your bodies people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get sent them all the time...why would a man think a woman would want to meet a man,purely on a cock pic? It's not for me, but are there woman that do meet men purely from their profile and cock pic alone?"
We don't send pics of cock or pussy and if we receive them it's generally a straight delete from us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think in a first message its a bit odd, like flopping it out in a pub when you first approach someone!! "
So by that logic women are odd because they probably walk up to a bloke in a pub in nothing but their lingerie like most of their pics?
For me I send clear face an body pics if they specifically ask for a cock pic then I attach one otherwise not.
But all my pics apart from one or two silly ones are public anyway
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seeing what you're going to be indulging in after talking and agreeing to meet is one thing. Having cock after cock that you aren't interested in sent to your inbox only desensitises me to them. The worse for me is swapping Kik adds and having pic after pic pop up after you say hello. To me they have no imagination so won't be exciting in bed |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"I get sent them all the time...why would a man think a woman would want to meet a man,purely on a cock pic? It's not for me, but are there woman that do meet men purely from their profile and cock pic alone?"
I was thinking the same thing if anything it put's me off wity an email with a cock pic, the worst ones are the ones taken with sky remote s or the lynx can, what is that about.
I would rather a guy put on a facepic or erotic pics tastefully done etc in black an white with his shirt half undone showing a bit of his body, no fem wants to see a pic of the last turkey in the shop on display. Meaning a cock pic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange, I thought the majority of people are on this site for sex? So surely, if you're going to go to all that trouble to meet someone for sex, you'd want to see the whole "package' to make sure they are worth your time? Or have I misunderstood and this is a dating site?
If men interested in me don't send me a cock pic along with body and face pics then it makes me wonder if they have a cock they are ashamed of and it puts me off.
Be proud of your bodies people! "
I must have joined the wrong site, I thought this was a swinging site? And for us it is not just about sex. A man could have the most impressive package known to mankind, but if he's lacking matter between his ears my knickers are staying on and my mouth is staying shut! |
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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago
Chatham |
"Strange, I thought the majority of people are on this site for sex? So surely, if you're going to go to all that trouble to meet someone for sex, you'd want to see the whole "package' to make sure they are worth your time? Or have I misunderstood and this is a dating site?
If men interested in me don't send me a cock pic along with body and face pics then it makes me wonder if they have a cock they are ashamed of and it puts me off.
Be proud of your bodies people! "
My thoughts entirely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange, I thought the majority of people are on this site for sex? So surely, if you're going to go to all that trouble to meet someone for sex, you'd want to see the whole "package' to make sure they are worth your time? Or have I misunderstood and this is a dating site?
If men interested in me don't send me a cock pic along with body and face pics then it makes me wonder if they have a cock they are ashamed of and it puts me off.
Be proud of your bodies people! "
And with the same idea of being ashamed of their cock if they do not attach a pic what does it say about them when all they attached were pics of their cock? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think in a first message its a bit odd, like flopping it out in a pub when you first approach someone!!
So by that logic women are odd because they probably walk up to a bloke in a pub in nothing but their lingerie like most of their pics?
For me I send clear face an body pics if they specifically ask for a cock pic then I attach one otherwise not.
But all my pics apart from one or two silly ones are public anyway
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Would you introduce yourself as purely a cock??! If I send a first message I attach face pics and ones of me having fun on a night out dressed nice (well I think so!) If I'm not attracted to someone then it matters not what their cock is like, its the whole package that's important to me. If selling your car, would you only have a pic of the gear stick? Of course not, people want to see the whole thing on offer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think in a first message its a bit odd, like flopping it out in a pub when you first approach someone!!
So by that logic women are odd because they probably walk up to a bloke in a pub in nothing but their lingerie like most of their pics?
For me I send clear face an body pics if they specifically ask for a cock pic then I attach one otherwise not.
But all my pics apart from one or two silly ones are public anyway
Would you introduce yourself as purely a cock??! If I send a first message I attach face pics and ones of me having fun on a night out dressed nice (well I think so!) If I'm not attracted to someone then it matters not what their cock is like, its the whole package that's important to me. If selling your car, would you only have a pic of the gear stick? Of course not, people want to see the whole thing on offer "
I wouldn't send just a cock pic no. But the issue seems to be if you write a good email, attach some good pics plus a cock pic that's it you've ruined it.
Your first picture for instance is you fucking someone yet we continually have threads where people say they hate seeing previous meets/partners/sex acts in a singles profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think in a first message its a bit odd, like flopping it out in a pub when you first approach someone!!
So by that logic women are odd because they probably walk up to a bloke in a pub in nothing but their lingerie like most of their pics?
For me I send clear face an body pics if they specifically ask for a cock pic then I attach one otherwise not.
But all my pics apart from one or two silly ones are public anyway
Would you introduce yourself as purely a cock??! If I send a first message I attach face pics and ones of me having fun on a night out dressed nice (well I think so!) If I'm not attracted to someone then it matters not what their cock is like, its the whole package that's important to me. If selling your car, would you only have a pic of the gear stick? Of course not, people want to see the whole thing on offer
I wouldn't send just a cock pic no. But the issue seems to be if you write a good email, attach some good pics plus a cock pic that's it you've ruined it.
Your first picture for instance is you fucking someone yet we continually have threads where people say they hate seeing previous meets/partners/sex acts in a singles profile."
I guess you pitch your profile to the people you want to attract. Women in general need way more than visual stimulus to be interested in someone where as men are very much visual and like pics more so than women. That pic had doubled my messages from guys who like strap on play which is what I like. I have no pussy close ups (the female equivalent of a cock pic) and never will I as I think they are distasteful but am aware some men like them. At the end of the day I believe you should approach people on here exactly as you would in the real world in a first message, politely, respectfully and with your face on show then go from there. Others use different approaches but we're free to communicate as we so wish. Whether it is successful or not is another matter! |
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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago
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Thank you for all you feed back I'm not small but neither I hung but 1 year ago at a club a guy made a joke about my size to his wife then 2 other couples thought it was funny song gave swinging up xx |
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"I get sent them all the time...why would a man think a woman would want to meet a man,purely on a cock pic? It's not for me, but are there woman that do meet men purely from their profile and cock pic alone?"
You may as well of asked 'what is a man?'
It's all about what stimulates us is it!...broadly speaking men enjoy being visually stimulated so offer it to you.
i think the polar opposite question to the one you've posted from a man would be 'why do women insist on getting to know the inner me when we can just fuck and have a good time?'
its what turns us on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are very visual. Part of our sexual biology is to be target driven. We like to see the pussy we're hunting (even the pc correct males who say otherwise"
PC males ?
Speak for yourself.
I'm very visual, but I want to see something very different to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all you feed back I'm not small but neither I hung but 1 year ago at a club a guy made a joke about my size to his wife then 2 other couples thought it was funny song gave swinging up xx "
That's pretty mean . |
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"i always prefer to send a face pic, a dick pick is pretty boring, i mean quite a few people on this site have them, its no surprise what a penis looks like, if they want to see then i'll oblige but just straight up sending dick pics leaves nothing to the imagination and takes away from the discussion"
says the man with 7 cock pics on his home page? |
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"I get sent them all the time...why would a man think a woman would want to meet a man,purely on a cock pic? It's not for me, but are there woman that do meet men purely from their profile and cock pic alone?"
. Are you referring to cock pictures by themselves or ones that are part of whole body photos ..Cock pictures by themselves are meaningless but if attached to a good whole body photograph can be interesting and pleasing to the eye   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met my boyfriend after just seeing a cock pic lol I don't normaly do that but it worked out great. Do prefer to see a face pic though x"
suppose they could draw a face on it? then it's a face pic and a cock pic and everyone's happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At least on sites like this there's a degree of logic - we're all trying to get laid, after all.
What's weirder is when guys do it away from sex sites. One women did an experiment measuring how long it took her on average to receive a picture of a dick while playing Uno (yes, as in, the card game Uno) online via her Xbox.
After several hours combined testing, the average time to dick was 20 minutes. What the hell guys?
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