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over a year ago
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We seem to have a lot of trouble deciding on who to meet. Usually but not always its the personality of the guy ( we've never manage to agree on another couple to meet) that is the deal breaker. And as i say very rarely it can be the physical attributes of the guy. ( I like my "bulls" to be physically superior to myself). However finding it harder and harder to meet guys that "get it". So after all this rambling what is my point?! Well i guess it's this, should i stop seeing the personality and just concentrate on the act of sex like one may do when observing one's partner in a gangbang. Or continue for us both to be frustrated? |
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"We seem to have a lot of trouble deciding on who to meet. Usually but not always its the personality of the guy ( we've never manage to agree on another couple to meet) that is the deal breaker. And as i say very rarely it can be the physical attributes of the guy. ( I like my "bulls" to be physically superior to myself). However finding it harder and harder to meet guys that "get it". So after all this rambling what is my point?! Well i guess it's this, should i stop seeing the personality and just concentrate on the act of sex like one may do when observing one's partner in a gangbang. Or continue for us both to be frustrated? "
Is it you who has the problem with the personality? |
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Try not getting into too much small talk with the man. I find one comment can put me off someone,and I'm only here for sex,not a boyfriend or friends. Try it,if you don't like it don't do it again. |
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we tend to find people we like the look of,fuck within an hour or so of meeting and then get all pally..if we don't like the personality then we won't bang again..we try not to over complicate sex... |
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"Try not getting into too much small talk with the man. I find one comment can put me off someone,and I'm only here for sex,not a boyfriend or friends. Try it,if you don't like it don't do it again. "
That's actually good advice. My wife usually talks extensively with a prospective meet via whatsapp. And she willingly shares the conversations with me. However this is where things can often go bad! Lol maybe, for my part ignorance is bliss....? |
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"we tend to find people we like the look of,fuck within an hour or so of meeting and then get all pally..if we don't like the personality then we won't bang again..we try not to over complicate sex..."
The trouble with this for us is, as its only my Wife going out meeting these guys alone it usually pays to try and suss out the weridos before she is alone with them in a hotel or their home. |
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If their meeting alone then put trust in her to make the right choice and let her decide? By now she should know the kind of guy you want to be cuckolded by? |
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"We seem to have a lot of trouble deciding on who to meet. Usually but not always its the personality of the guy ( we've never manage to agree on another couple to meet) that is the deal breaker. And as i say very rarely it can be the physical attributes of the guy. ( I like my "bulls" to be physically superior to myself). However finding it harder and harder to meet guys that "get it". So after all this rambling what is my point?! Well i guess it's this, should i stop seeing the personality and just concentrate on the act of sex like one may do when observing one's partner in a gangbang. Or continue for us both to be frustrated? "
Stop over thinking it .
We gave up looking at the personality as a major factor long ago , after all its just sex !
To be honest , a great personality often kills it for us as we end up talking endlessly and lose the sexual vibe .
Good luck in finding what you are looking for |
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"If their meeting alone then put trust in her to make the right choice and let her decide? By now she should know the kind of guy you want to be cuckolded by?"
Exactly. But life is about compromise. Not waiting for Mr Right. |
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"We seem to have a lot of trouble deciding on who to meet. Usually but not always its the personality of the guy ( we've never manage to agree on another couple to meet) that is the deal breaker. And as i say very rarely it can be the physical attributes of the guy. ( I like my "bulls" to be physically superior to myself). However finding it harder and harder to meet guys that "get it". So after all this rambling what is my point?! Well i guess it's this, should i stop seeing the personality and just concentrate on the act of sex like one may do when observing one's partner in a gangbang. Or continue for us both to be frustrated?
Stop over thinking it .
We gave up looking at the personality as a major factor long ago , after all its just sex !
To be honest , a great personality often kills it for us as we end up talking endlessly and lose the sexual vibe .
Good luck in finding what you are looking for "
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"we tend to find people we like the look of,fuck within an hour or so of meeting and then get all pally..if we don't like the personality then we won't bang again..we try not to over complicate sex...
The trouble with this for us is, as its only my Wife going out meeting these guys alone it usually pays to try and suss out the weridos before she is alone with them in a hotel or their home."
I'm not getting this. The OP says 'we' are having trouble and refers to both of them meeting, then he has a single male profile, then he says it's only his wife who meets them?? Am i missing something here???  |
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"WE ???? you are a single man split personality
A single married man. 
Omg!! Quick!......where is the lynch mob??   "
Off to sharpen my pitchfork.
Oh hang on... it says happily married... must be a mistake... |
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"we tend to find people we like the look of,fuck within an hour or so of meeting and then get all pally..if we don't like the personality then we won't bang again..we try not to over complicate sex...
The trouble with this for us is, as its only my Wife going out meeting these guys alone it usually pays to try and suss out the weridos before she is alone with them in a hotel or their home.
I'm not getting this. The OP says 'we' are having trouble and refers to both of them meeting, then he has a single male profile, then he says it's only his wife who meets them?? Am i missing something here??? "
He is asking as one half of a couple who both have single profiles because the wife meets alone but with consultation with the husband maybe? |
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"we tend to find people we like the look of,fuck within an hour or so of meeting and then get all pally..if we don't like the personality then we won't bang again..we try not to over complicate sex...
The trouble with this for us is, as its only my Wife going out meeting these guys alone it usually pays to try and suss out the weridos before she is alone with them in a hotel or their home.
I'm not getting this. The OP says 'we' are having trouble and refers to both of them meeting, then he has a single male profile, then he says it's only his wife who meets them?? Am i missing something here??? "
It would seem that you are.. |
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"we tend to find people we like the look of,fuck within an hour or so of meeting and then get all pally..if we don't like the personality then we won't bang again..we try not to over complicate sex...
The trouble with this for us is, as its only my Wife going out meeting these guys alone it usually pays to try and suss out the weridos before she is alone with them in a hotel or their home.
I'm not getting this. The OP says 'we' are having trouble and refers to both of them meeting, then he has a single male profile, then he says it's only his wife who meets them?? Am i missing something here???
It would seem that you are.."
why not just tell everyone your his wife |
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"we tend to find people we like the look of,fuck within an hour or so of meeting and then get all pally..if we don't like the personality then we won't bang again..we try not to over complicate sex..."
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"WE ???? you are a single man split personality
A single married man.
Omg!! Quick!......where is the lynch mob??
Off to sharpen my pitchfork.
Oh hang on... it says happily married... must be a mistake... "
Clem! You.should have.used your coue's profile for this thread  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"WE ???? you are a single man split personality
A single married man.
Omg!! Quick!......where is the lynch mob??
Off to sharpen my pitchfork.
Oh hang on... it says happily married... must be a mistake...
Clem! You.should have.used your coue's profile for this thread "
If i could have i would Have! |
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Wish I could use my single fem profile for his reply, but I can't because it has been changed. Oh well, that is another thread ... we too, my bf and I, who also have a couple profile that dont inhabit alone, feel the same way about couples and have had more successful meets with singles. This is despite the fact that won't meet couples alone as I dont favour that dynamic. We figured out we have different tastes and it is tricky to click as a four. If you are one of this life's over thinkers, then you are destined to remain so and so have to accept it (I am speaking as one. So I know) although the only way I find I can escape this over thinking is by attending a party/club and going with the flow. Looking forward to tonight for that very reason .... |
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Good point, at least at a club with the application of alcohol inhibitions ( not necessarily standards) can drop. But it is a small world, and there are a lot of idiots to avoid.
Do you find you'll ( my mrs more accurately) play with a guy at a club, then the next time you attend he's there expecting the same? To the point it's like "well we can't come here again."? You don't want to become someone's sure thing. |
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