Hi all
Here's a thought. ..
Have you ever twigged that a person or couple swing by picking up on a word or phrase, - perhaps not consciously, they used.
Eg. Do any ladies outside of the scene refer to their husband as 'hubby'
Are there little hints you drop with new acquaintances to test the ground before making a pass?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was flying back from malaga, i sat next to a couple who said 'french men are very submissive '.
'Submissive' isn't a word I hear much outside of the bdsm scene so that made me wonder.
In the vanilla word. I would expect words like sap, lap dog, Weak minded, low spirited, witlesS etc.
I use the words fab, fet and Bob (bondage on Budget) to talk to lady delorean about swinging and kink when we are walking in the vanilla world.
The only word in the kink world I think the swinging community should adopt is 'polyamorous'(flexible with love) as opposed to swingers, that way you can ask someone if they are poly and fab. If they understand then you know to proceed normally. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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I never say hubby either on here or in the real world.....If I heard someone say fab I would look over and wonder but only because it is not a generally used word other than here  |
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"If anyone says Vanilla it makes me think that they are swinger - obviously not someone ordering a vanilla slice in Greggs, although....   "
And we aren't talking ice cream either lol |
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"Discussing last nights DP could be a clue"
DP is well known in the non swinging world as is the term spitroast. It's like bj, the big O. It's all become a little bit mainstream, won't be long before half of the swinging keywords end up in the Oxford English dictionary. Lol
Cam's is a good secret phase as in 'going to cam's' although in text it's spelt chams. Which is short for chameleons club, it's sounds like we have a friend called Cameron or Camilla
But that only works for us in the west midlands.
In the northwest we are either going to Adams or the 'House'
Londoners who go to bdsm go to the 'garden' (torture garden).
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"If anyone says Vanilla it makes me think that they are swinger - obviously not someone ordering a vanilla slice in Greggs, although.... "
This. No non-swinger I know had heard of the word vanilla being used to describe them. Whereas practically every swinger I know has heard of it, with perhaps a few exceptions for newbies? |
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"If anyone says Vanilla it makes me think that they are swinger - obviously not someone ordering a vanilla slice in Greggs, although....
This. No non-swinger I know had heard of the word vanilla being used to describe them. Whereas practically every swinger I know has heard of it, with perhaps a few exceptions for newbies?"
Yes!  |
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"Discussing last nights DP could be a clue
DP is well known in the non swinging world as is the term spitroast. It's like bj, the big O. It's all become a little bit mainstream, won't be long before half of the swinging keywords end up in the Oxford English dictionary. Lol
Cam's is a good secret phase as in 'going to cam's' although in text it's spelt chams. Which is short for chameleons club, it's sounds like we have a friend called Cameron or Camilla
But that only works for us in the west midlands.
In the northwest we are either going to Adams or the 'House'
Londoners who go to bdsm go to the 'garden' (torture garden).
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The funny bit was supposed to be not whether they understood the terminology, but that the DP enjoyed the previous evening was being discussed.
In my social circle going to Cam's means having lunch with the twat at number 10  |
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"Discussing last nights DP could be a clue
DP is well known in the non swinging world as is the term spitroast. It's like bj, the big O. It's all become a little bit mainstream, won't be long before half of the swinging keywords end up in the Oxford English dictionary. Lol
Cam's is a good secret phase as in 'going to cam's' although in text it's spelt chams. Which is short for chameleons club, it's sounds like we have a friend called Cameron or Camilla
But that only works for us in the west midlands.
In the northwest we are either going to Adams or the 'House'
Londoners who go to bdsm go to the 'garden' (torture garden).
The funny bit was supposed to be not whether they understood the terminology, but that the DP enjoyed the previous evening was being discussed.
In my social circle going to Cam's means having lunch with the twat at number 10 "
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We have identified other swingers at nudist campsites by asking which naturist clubs they go to. We say we go to Chameleons - if they're swingers they usually say something like "oh, you're swingers too!" If they're vanilla they usually say they haven't heard of it and we say it's a naturist club in the W Midlands. Had a couple of fun meets this way. |
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"We have identified other swingers at nudist campsites by asking which naturist clubs they go to. We say we go to Chameleons - if they're swingers they usually say something like "oh, you're swingers too!" If they're vanilla they usually say they haven't heard of it and we say it's a naturist club in the W Midlands. Had a couple of fun meets this way."
We are going to a nudist camp tomorrow. I might try that lol |
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Perhaps that's wishful thinking 
