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over a year ago
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation"
I prefer it if people don't actively try - otherwise I think about it and it becomes virtually impossible. |
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation
I prefer it if people don't actively try - otherwise I think about it and it becomes virtually impossible."
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation"
Most if not all women can only cum through clit stimulation 
Stimulate it during pentration to get her to cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just be yourself, don't go out to make her cum. The more relaxed you are about it she'll feel the same and go with the flow. If it happens it happens but enjoy it. |
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation
I prefer it if people don't actively try - otherwise I think about it and it becomes virtually impossible."
I'd agree with that! |
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"Nobody has managed to get me off, it takes me around 15 mins with DIY 
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What's wrong with that? I love watching ladies masturbate and 15 mins is just perfect before I start thinking about a nice cup of tea.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on my frame of mind. I've even cum because I was deepthroating. The lead up and the flirting should be as much as turn on (for me at least) as the clit rubbing. But if a guy wasn't doing it right, I'd much rather guide him as to how I like it. No two women are the same, and unlike us, guys can't possibly know everything. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nobody has managed to get me off, it takes me around 15 mins with DIY
What's wrong with that? I love watching ladies masturbate and 15 mins is just perfect before I start thinking about a nice cup of tea. "
I'd love to experience it with a partner though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Start by asking her if it's what she actually wants...
... don't just assume..!!!
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exactly as we are all different and also react differently depending on our mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
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By being very gentle touching her entire body caressing every where that normally does it ! Also by not penetrating but using my cock to stimulate her clit by gentle rubbing it or letting her control the pressure that it touches her so that she can get the best sensation and climax ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Such a sweeping and wrong statement about clit stimulation..
And for a meet to make me orgasm its almost impossible.. for me to orgasm from the whole situation... Ie visual as well as enjoying watching my partner ... Possible..
But I really do find it difficult to orgasm with someone I have no connection with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have absolutely no interest or desire to orgasm on a Fab meet - it very definitely isn't what I want!
So people who go on about it, or expect it, or make assumptions about it just get ignored - it isn't going to happen!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One minute, stop the world I want to get off, just picking myself off the floor.
Did someone say in this thread that some men on here are struggling to make women climax..?
Having read a some of the verifications on here I find it hard to believe.
" He had me climbing up the walls with his massive member making me wince with pleasure "
" I only had to look at his biceps and I was gushing for England"
It's time you stopped spreading these malicious rumours and let the men get on with what they do best, making the women on here gush, cum, dribble, and so on.
Before I get lambasted I am being sarcastic.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation
I prefer it if people don't actively try - otherwise I think about it and it becomes virtually impossible.
This "
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation
Most if not all women can only cum through clit stimulation
Stimulate it during pentration to get her to cum"
What you mean is most men can only make a woman cum through clit stimulation... |
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Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
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Yeuch...!!! I'd rather be out in the pouring rain, digging ditches....
We don't all like the same things!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
Yeuch...!!! I'd rather be out in the pouring rain, digging ditches....
We don't all like the same things!
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If someone did that to me on a meet I'd dry up. Movie sex scenes are not for fab meets for me anyway.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most if not all women can only cum through clit stimulation
That's really quite incorrect.
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Yeah... As much as I love clitoral stuff, oral, fingering and a cock bring against my clit, it's a hot sensation but doesn't give me quite the jelly legs that a g spot orgasm does, for instance. However, if one perseveres with either (or both... v) I find I am quite likely to squirt all over everywhere! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
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Crikey, that's where I am going wrong, could you give me a pictorial version so I don't miss anything out.. |
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation"
Lots of foreplay, womens bodies are different to mens.
We can just grab it and wack it till we shoot.
Women need to be turned on, I explore her whole body with my hands/mouth going down, coming back up, going around several times before I even go near her pussy.
Then when it's time I tease, lick around the area, finally working a finger just inside until she's begging for it, all the time kissing her body then penatration can happen
One finger first slowly, build up to two while I'm kissing her thighs and when it's time the tongue works in.
I don't go near the clit until I'm sure she can be more turned on, starting slowly rubbing my fingers on it, then tongue, then fingers inside tongue on clit.
I've never had any complaints. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
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See my pleasure comes from giving mostly when it comes to meets... Someone I have a emotional connection with or if im in the right frame of mind and already had a few orgasms with Mr.. another has a better chance.. but.... A guy throbbing in my hand or mouth while I do what I enjoy... Or fucking me well with Mr looking on and giving me that amazingly sexy look when someone is giving me a good fuck .. well that has more chance than anything else.
So we are all different xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody has said anything about getting us guys off...it's all about getting you lasses off.
I was quite interested to hear some opinions as it'd extremely rare anyone can with me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nobody has managed to get me off, it takes me around 15 mins with DIY
What's wrong with that? I love watching ladies masturbate and 15 mins is just perfect before I start thinking about a nice cup of tea.
I'd love to experience it with a partner though. "
Get on top of him while he's inside of you use a toy on your clit as you'll be more grinding than bouncing he should easily last long enough while being able to provide extra stimulation to your preferred sensitive areas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think the best experiences are where you just let it happen... If you have a plan, then it ends up being sex by numbers and both of you are less likely to come. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation"
I'm pretty sure it's only about 30% of women can come through penetration only. The majority need clitoral stimulation. Can't believe you're only just discovering this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not sure about anyone else and its probably has been stated, but sex, lovemaking, a good fucking is all about the moment surely.
If you start reading from a script.in your hard, thinking I must do this and that the moment isn't a moment, it becomes an an event, a movie, and a B list movie at best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation
I'm pretty sure it's only about 30% of women can come through penetration only. The majority need clitoral stimulation. Can't believe you're only just discovering this!"
It's less than 30% but it just a number as, it does not matter how you cum, the main point is how intense is the cum! Without dirty mind, appropriate connection and matching moods it won't happen anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only one guy from my meets has made me orgasm. I think it's because I don't relax enough and I'm more concerned about them. Nobody's fault."
I feel it's not only how far relaxed you are, I feel also there are only some men for you who you are matching with on all levels of sex.  as a result an satisfying intense orgasms.  |
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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago
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interesting that a lot of the ladies aren't worried about orgasms on a meet, most blokes would think we have failed if we dont get them to cum, as for those blokes that think all women like a good fingering think again my wife hates it even with me go anywhere near her G spot and your more likely to get a slap than gushed on, doesnt matter how gentle you do it |
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation
Most if not all women can only cum through clit stimulation
Stimulate it during pentration to get her to cum
What you mean is most men can only make a woman cum through clit stimulation... "
some cum lots via other ways ... Oh Yes!!! Lol  ( mrs ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation"
I've learned to let them get on with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
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"interesting that a lot of the ladies aren't worried about orgasms on a meet, most blokes would think we have failed if we dont get them to cum, as for those blokes that think all women like a good fingering think again my wife hates it even with me go anywhere near her G spot and your more likely to get a slap than gushed on, doesnt matter how gentle you do it "
To be honest as a woman If I fail to make a man cum I feel I have failed... Yet dont mind myself as long as he hasn't been a selfish starfish... Sexual double standards at its best x
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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago
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Takes me ages to cum and I only cum on top with my partner and usually only when we are in private.
I don't expect to cum from fab meets and in clubs but I do love sex and every minute of getting fucked!
Oh and just so you know boys. ..when you are hammering away with the fingers and clit like a man possessed saying 'cum for me' and 'I going to make you cum' and 'I am not stopping till you cum'....and she cums....she is faking cos you are doing her head in and she just wants you to shut up! |
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"Takes me ages to cum and I only cum on top with my partner and usually only when we are in private.
I don't expect to cum from fab meets and in clubs but I do love sex and every minute of getting fucked!
Oh and just so you know boys. ..when you are hammering away with the fingers and clit like a man possessed saying 'cum for me' and 'I going to make you cum' and 'I am not stopping till you cum'....and she cums....she is faking cos you are doing her head in and she just wants you to shut up! "
Lol I have just got up and stopped before but you just made me laugh out loud x I won't fake it for a guy like that... I will look as bored as can be and then ask is that it x but it hasn't happened for a while as they normally say that in messages and I just dont meet them x |
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By *tloversCouple
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"Takes me ages to cum and I only cum on top with my partner and usually only when we are in private.
I don't expect to cum from fab meets and in clubs but I do love sex and every minute of getting fucked!
Oh and just so you know boys. ..when you are hammering away with the fingers and clit like a man possessed saying 'cum for me' and 'I going to make you cum' and 'I am not stopping till you cum'....and she cums....she is faking cos you are doing her head in and she just wants you to shut up!
Lol I have just got up and stopped before but you just made me laugh out loud x I won't fake it for a guy like that... I will look as bored as can be and then ask is that it x but it hasn't happened for a while as they normally say that in messages and I just dont meet them x "
Yep. .any bloke who puts 'I can guarantee to make you cum'...delete delete delete |
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"Takes me ages to cum and I only cum on top with my partner and usually only when we are in private.
I don't expect to cum from fab meets and in clubs but I do love sex and every minute of getting fucked!
Oh and just so you know boys. ..when you are hammering away with the fingers and clit like a man possessed saying 'cum for me' and 'I going to make you cum' and 'I am not stopping till you cum'....and she cums....she is faking cos you are doing her head in and she just wants you to shut up! "
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"Takes me ages to cum and I only cum on top with my partner and usually only when we are in private.
I don't expect to cum from fab meets and in clubs but I do love sex and every minute of getting fucked!
Oh and just so you know boys. ..when you are hammering away with the fingers and clit like a man possessed saying 'cum for me' and 'I going to make you cum' and 'I am not stopping till you cum'....and she cums....she is faking cos you are doing her head in and she just wants you to shut up! "
Yup! But I never fake.. I just tell them it's not working. Telling me I am going to cum is a sure fire way of making sure I don't!
I need gentle, and a long build up, and even then it rarely happens with a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What techniques do you guys use to help your ladies climax during sex
Met this one gal that can only cum through clit stimulation
Only one?!  "
I think you mind find a few fake it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Takes me ages to cum and I only cum on top with my partner and usually only when we are in private.
I don't expect to cum from fab meets and in clubs but I do love sex and every minute of getting fucked!
Oh and just so you know boys. ..when you are hammering away with the fingers and clit like a man possessed saying 'cum for me' and 'I going to make you cum' and 'I am not stopping till you cum'....and she cums....she is faking cos you are doing her head in and she just wants you to shut up!
Yup! But I never fake.. I just tell them it's not working. Telling me I am going to cum is a sure fire way of making sure I don't!
I need gentle, and a long build up, and even then it rarely happens with a meet"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Takes me ages to cum and I only cum on top with my partner and usually only when we are in private.
I don't expect to cum from fab meets and in clubs but I do love sex and every minute of getting fucked!
Oh and just so you know boys. ..when you are hammering away with the fingers and clit like a man possessed saying 'cum for me' and 'I going to make you cum' and 'I am not stopping till you cum'....and she cums....she is faking cos you are doing her head in and she just wants you to shut up!
Hahaha "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
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Thing is once I have had a proper orgasm I am ready for nothing and just fall asleep...such a cliché I know..but I want to carry on fucking, sucking and playing naughty...not fall asleep ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have to be totally relaxed or it won't happen at all!! Kissing, nipple play and oral will do it though if I'm turned on enough! Got to be a connection |
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"Takes me ages to cum and I only cum on top with my partner and usually only when we are in private.
I don't expect to cum from fab meets and in clubs but I do love sex and every minute of getting fucked!
Oh and just so you know boys. ..when you are hammering away with the fingers and clit like a man possessed saying 'cum for me' and 'I going to make you cum' and 'I am not stopping till you cum'....and she cums....she is faking cos you are doing her head in and she just wants you to shut up! "
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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
Thing is once I have had a proper orgasm I am ready for nothing and just fall asleep...such a cliché I know..but I want to carry on fucking, sucking and playing naughty...not fall asleep ha ha"
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
Thing is once I have had a proper orgasm I am ready for nothing and just fall asleep...such a cliché I know..but I want to carry on fucking, sucking and playing naughty...not fall asleep ha ha
thought that was a male habit "
Not at all...lol..I can have small quick clitoral orgasms but do not class it as a "proper" orgams...a proper orgasm with me produces so much endorphins and all over body experience that I just like to lie back and let it wash over me...and then fall asleep |
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"Goal setting is not the best place to start. Focus on her pleasure not yours, as in giving her pleasure rather than taking your pleasure.
Move slowly, build the tension, kissing her and smiling with a look of hungry passion will warm her up. Explore her mind and body.
Brush past her nipples and run your hand down to her mound and stop while you kiss her passionately.
Touch her inner thigh, brush past be clit lightly, her back may arch. She wants more.
Withhold it, continue to suggest it with your hands ... Slowly move your kissing down to her nipples, pause a while ... Take your time. Ask her what she likes, listen to her verbal and physical responses.
Tease open her outer pussy lips with the tip of your hot, hard cock. Don't slide in, just rock and open her pussy ... While to play with her nipples with your mouth.
Take your cock away, move slowly to her clit with your tongue. Start tracing circles as you slide your middle fingers either side and then parting her pussy slide in reaching your finger up to her g-spot. Rest it there while you rhythmically lick and suck her clit ... Tune into her .. I suspect she'll be loving it, regardless if she cums. No goal setting just giving pleasure.
Thing is once I have had a proper orgasm I am ready for nothing and just fall asleep...such a cliché I know..but I want to carry on fucking, sucking and playing naughty...not fall asleep ha ha
thought that was a male habit
Not at all...lol..I can have small quick clitoral orgasms but do not class it as a "proper" orgams...a proper orgasm with me produces so much endorphins and all over body experience that I just like to lie back and let it wash over me...and then fall asleep "
Same here!!! I can have small orgasms and just need more and more but when I have a "proper" orgasm I'm done for!! It wipes me out lol |
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"Think the best experiences are where you just let it happen... If you have a plan, then it ends up being sex by numbers and both of you are less likely to come."
I absolutely agree. Why do some men assume they need to 'make' women do anything? |
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