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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Why do so many men ask about squirting?

Is there some thought that if you don't squirt, you must be shit at sex?

I've never squirted & I don't feel I've missed out on anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd say it's more of a fetish thing so wouldn't get tool hung up on it. Each to their own I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's great if it happens but can be just as great if it doesn't. We're all different (and just as sexy)...

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

because the way it is often discussed on here, it comes across as a novelty act or something only the sexually elite experience.

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By *_PlayMan  over a year ago

cardiff

U need magic fingers to make a girl squirt.... The lady needs to be relaxed and expect some sort of peeing feeling witch could become pretty intense. Once you can let the peeing feeling do its job u will squirt but u will think you have peed you self. Starts off with you being relaxed obviously. And just a bit of for play to get you got. And it's all about putting pressure on the gspot while moving u fingers in slow, rough, fast movement... depends how tense you like it. You or the other half will continue to he can feel you tensing up and listen to the sounds and so on.... Once you other half feels you tensing up its always nicer for the girl if the bloke pulls out and plays with you clit pretty fast to keep you in the big O and you body will release a shot "squirt".... rather a pleasing kinky sort of thing if you a bloke and most women if is they 1st time they get curious and like to be squirtted again. You need to feel comfortable with you partner. P.s have a towel because it can come pretty messy. And have a pint of water with you to keep you dehydrated... iv made a couple ppl dehydrated and legless with my Lil techniques lol... msg me if you want speak more private. Hope iv helped xxx enjoy

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By *ngel n tedCouple  over a year ago

maidstone

Have you just opened your mailbox floodgates for every squirting expert this side of the hemisphere, you'll be spraying it up the walls by the end of the evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Every man seems to be an expert on making women squirt

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"Every man seems to be an expert on making women squirt "

not me, the idea of someone squirting over my bed turns my stomach

over theirs..... spray away

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Every man seems to be an expert on making women squirt "

I know....don't you just love how men know our bodies better than us ditsy females?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Every man seems to be an expert on making women squirt "

Usually stumble on it by accident!

Like scoring a goal from a deflection and then claiming it's all your own work

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman  over a year ago

Glenrothes

I bloody hate it and hate it even more if a guy seems to be making it his main goal in a meet. Totally spoils it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"U need magic fingers to make a girl squirt.... The lady needs to be relaxed and expect some sort of peeing feeling witch could become pretty intense. Once you can let the peeing feeling do its job u will squirt but u will think you have peed you self. Starts off with you being relaxed obviously. And just a bit of for play to get you got. And it's all about putting pressure on the gspot while moving u fingers in slow, rough, fast movement... depends how tense you like it. You or the other half will continue to he can feel you tensing up and listen to the sounds and so on.... Once you other half feels you tensing up its always nicer for the girl if the bloke pulls out and plays with you clit pretty fast to keep you in the big O and you body will release a shot "squirt".... rather a pleasing kinky sort of thing if you a bloke and most women if is they 1st time they get curious and like to be squirtted again. You need to feel comfortable with you partner. P.s have a towel because it can come pretty messy. And have a pint of water with you to keep you hydrated.... msg me if you want speak more private. "

This ??????

The'feeling' you get is intense (apparently) and you need to recognise this.

But people ask as they like it due to it showing a woman achieving orgasm and as you know many men wonder if the woman they are with actually has an orgasm or are faking.

There is lots of stuff about squirting or'female ejeculation' as it is also called.

Paul xx

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By *anDare70Man  over a year ago

kirkby

Suspect it's just something novel to experience. That some can and some can't make it chase-able that appeals to the hunter. It obvious and climatic, suggests or is taken as a pleasurable loss of control (manly) and invites some to feel they have superior control and magical influence.

But really it's just another wonderfully messy sexual that people may or may not enjoy.

Why do so many ask? We're scared we're missing out or less good lovers if we can't make it happen.

The very best sexual outcome is a second invitation

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't fancy pee peeing all over my bed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never thought I could squirt, until someone showed me differently, it's certainly a strange feeling, but very nice, when it happens.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We disagree with anyone else's kink but our own. Because only our kink is acceptable. All your kinks that are not our kink means you are all in the wrong about your kink.

This will now be our only post in all the forums, it'll save so much time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

An ego thing does wonders for it I should imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I recently made a playmate squirt a bit, she wasn't that bothered and failed to see what all the fuss was about. If I spent all my time trying to achieve it i'd miss out on so much other fun and so would she.

It's not the be all or end all

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By *reelove1969Couple  over a year ago

bristol

exactly ....sounds horrendous to me ...I recall one couple ranting that a hotel had charged them to replace a mattress that they had ruined as they were unable to relet the room ...never did get to the bottom of who they thought to take the financial hit !

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By *exybbw_69Couple  over a year ago

Biggleswade

I gush more than squirt but I can honestly say I don't hugely enjoy it unless I'm alone and have taken precautions to save my bed. Some of it is pee which I find hugely embarrassing (I know it is because I'm on meds which discolour my pee) and I'd rather not do it in company but some men seem to think it's the holy grail of sex and if I don't gush they've failed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a shame men don't put as much effort into giving oral. That's the king of giving a woman an orgasm. If you can do that you have a true gift. I hope this circulates as quickly as the squirting technique has. Spread the word

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By *_PlayMan  over a year ago

cardiff

I'm just going by what iv archived and how I did it.... not 'bigging' my self up. Iv made a few people who thought it's impossible and they can't do wrong. I love exploring and learn as I got along. If you think my technique don't work..... meet up with me and we find out simple as that hahaaa.... STOP HATING ON PEOPLE IT DOESN'T MAKE U LOOK GOOD... IV GIVE MY ADVICE TO THE OP AND IF I'M RIGHT IN MY THEORY THEN SHE WILL LET ME KNOW

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We disagree with anyone else's kink but our own. Because only our kink is acceptable. All your kinks that are not our kink means you are all in the wrong about your kink.

This will now be our only post in all the forums, it'll save so much time."

What I disagree with is the ignorance of some people and the unwanted physical effects it has on my body. Forcing fluid from my urethra isn't something I want during sex and it can and has caused me painful problems in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Time for a nap I think, someones cranky

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Time for a nap I think, someones cranky "

I think a couple of people are,I'm lost!

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By *anDare70Man  over a year ago

kirkby

Suspect it's just something novel to experience. That some can and some can't make it chase-able that appeals to the hunter. It obvious and climatic, suggests or is taken as a pleasurable loss of control (manly) and invites some to feel they have superior control and magical influence.

But really it's just another wonderfully messy sexual that people may or may not enjoy.

Why do so many ask? We're scared we're missing out or less good lovers if we can't make it happen.

The very best sexual outcome is a second invitation

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some can do it some can't. Some make it their aim some don't. I prefer to do what we both like to do and if it happens then make the most of it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"U need magic fingers to make a girl squirt.... The lady needs to be relaxed and expect some sort of peeing feeling witch could become pretty intense. Once you can let the peeing feeling do its job u will squirt but u will think you have peed you self. Starts off with you being relaxed obviously. And just a bit of for play to get you got. And it's all about putting pressure on the gspot while moving u fingers in slow, rough, fast movement... depends how tense you like it. You or the other half will continue to he can feel you tensing up and listen to the sounds and so on.... Once you other half feels you tensing up its always nicer for the girl if the bloke pulls out and plays with you clit pretty fast to keep you in the big O and you body will release a shot "squirt".... rather a pleasing kinky sort of thing if you a bloke and most women if is they 1st time they get curious and like to be squirtted again. You need to feel comfortable with you partner. P.s have a towel because it can come pretty messy. And have a pint of water with you to keep you dehydrated... iv made a couple ppl dehydrated and legless with my Lil techniques lol... msg me if you want speak more private. Hope iv helped xxx enjoy "

Has happened to me twice and NOT once did I feel the urge to pee and I didn't reach the big "o"

One minute I was enjoying abit of pleasure and the next we were both wet. Embarrassed the hell out of me

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By *eerobCouple  over a year ago

solihull


"U need magic fingers to make a girl squirt.... The lady needs to be relaxed and expect some sort of peeing feeling witch could become pretty intense. Once you can let the peeing feeling do its job u will squirt but u will think you have peed you self. Starts off with you being relaxed obviously. And 7just a bit of for play to get you got. And it's all about putting pressure on the gspot while moving u fingers in slow, rough, fast movement... depends how tense you like it. You or the other half will continue to he can feel you tensing up and listen to the sounds and so on.... Once you other half feels you tensing up its always nicer for the girl if the bloke pulls out and plays with you clit pretty fast to keep you in the big O and you body will release a shot "squirt".... rather a pleasing kinky sort of thing if you a bloke and most women if is they 1st time they get curious and like to be squirtted again. You need to feel comfortable with you partner. P.s have a towel because it can come pretty messy. And have a pint of water with you to keep you dehydrated... iv made a couple ppl dehydrated and legless with my Lil techniques lol... msg me if you want speak more private. Hope iv helped xxx enjoy "

Lol

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By *_PlayMan  over a year ago

cardiff

My ex missus loved it still does I gets the phone call often ha

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By *arry247Couple  over a year ago

Wakefield


"U need magic fingers to make a girl squirt.... "

Rubbish most single blokes make females squirt with rough amateurish pounding of the pussy with their fingers.

A few more adept men can make a female squirt with gentle manipulation with fingers or with their cock

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you just opened your mailbox floodgates for every squirting expert this side of the hemisphere, you'll be spraying it up the walls by the end of the evening"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My last gf said that she never squirmed before the first time we fucked. When it happened we were both shocked but went with the flow (pun intended). The next day went went out and brought a waterproof sheet. Over the course of our relationship it happened about 90% of the time without even thinking about trying for it to happen.

Now in the past I've managed to make a couple of women squirt but it seemed to be a one off. And since my ex nothing since.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"...

What I disagree with is the ignorance of some people and the unwanted physical effects it has on my body. Forcing fluid from my urethra isn't something I want during sex and it can and has caused me painful problems in the past. "

Tell them to stop. I don't squirt and don't want to. If they start ramming fingers I move the heck away. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's not even something I enjoy and I always get the impression that guys who try to make you squirt do it more to make them feel like they have achieved something than for your pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"U need magic fingers to make a girl squirt....

Rubbish most single blokes make females squirt with rough amateurish pounding of the pussy with their fingers.

A few more adept men can make a female squirt with gentle manipulation with fingers or with their cock

"

I agree with this

It's nothing to do with magic fingers it's just ramming there is no skill to it at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's not even something I enjoy and I always get the impression that guys who try to make you squirt do it more to make them feel like they have achieved something than for your pleasure "

Exactly the impression I get. It seems to be more something they want to brag to their mates about than about how it makes the woman feel.

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By *not69Man  over a year ago

Burnley


"Have you just opened your mailbox floodgates for every squirting expert this side of the hemisphere, you'll be spraying it up the walls by the end of the evening"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well as I'm alone I doubt it!!

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By *not69Man  over a year ago

Burnley

Some women like a guy to come on their face or over their tits, I like a woman to gush over me, I find it a big turn on. If it happens great, but if it doesnt then its no big deal. Some women love it, some dont, some women can, some cant.

The most important thing is that your both happy and fully satisfied and wearing big smiles afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I gush, very rare i squirt only 2 have managed it with me.

Not the be all and end all if I don't.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple  over a year ago

near cardiff

Why is FE considered so different to ME? I don't get why people don't find male ejaculation over fetishised or unappealing and messy. If the male sexuality and orgasm was stigmatised for a few generations this conversation would be the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I gush, it's not hard to make me gush I can even do it all by myself(arnt I clever!) only one man has made me gush thru penerative sex it usually only happens thru clitoral stimulation, prefer to play on clubs for this reason as it's easier to clean up afterwards lol

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I'm just going by what iv archived and how I did it.... not 'bigging' my self up. Iv made a few people who thought it's impossible and they can't do wrong. I love exploring and learn as I got along. If you think my technique don't work..... meet up with me and we find out simple as that hahaaa.... STOP HATING ON PEOPLE IT DOESN'T MAKE U LOOK GOOD... IV GIVE MY ADVICE TO THE OP AND IF I'M RIGHT IN MY THEORY THEN SHE WILL LET ME KNOW "

The op wasn't asking for advice on how to do it, she said she didn't particularly want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why??? "

I have never been asked.

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By *ustin666666Man  over a year ago

Nottingham


"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

I have never been asked. "

Why ask. Surely best to let her know when you make her. Thats the Best.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

I have never been asked.

Why ask. Surely best to let her know when you make her. Thats the Best. "

I wouldn't appreciate a man trying to make me do something I didn't really want to do.

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By *ustin666666Man  over a year ago

Nottingham


"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

I have never been asked.

Why ask. Surely best to let her know when you make her. Thats the Best.

I wouldn't appreciate a man trying to make me do something I didn't really want to do."

I wasn't thinking that. Just that we're all built different and hit different spots and it would just happen naturally. Not aim to do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I get asked it. A lot

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

I have never been asked.

Why ask. Surely best to let her know when you make her. Thats the Best.

I wouldn't appreciate a man trying to make me do something I didn't really want to do. I wasn't thinking that. Just that we're all built different and hit different spots and it would just happen naturally. Not aim to do it. "

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

I have never been asked. "

I've never been asked. I added it to my profile quite recently because some men dislike it.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

I have never been asked. "

Me neither,I'm upset I haven't been asked

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I get asked it. A lot "

Must be annoying like you're a performing seal.

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By *ustin666666Man  over a year ago

Nottingham


"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

I have never been asked.

Why ask. Surely best to let her know when you make her. Thats the Best.

I wouldn't appreciate a man trying to make me do something I didn't really want to do. I wasn't thinking that. Just that we're all built different and hit different spots and it would just happen naturally. Not aim to do it.

Ok "

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

I have never been asked.

Me neither,I'm upset I haven't been asked "

I'm not as a refusal often offends

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I get asked it. A lot

Must be annoying like you're a performing seal. "

.

Exactly. Really pisses me off. Makes me feel like I'm some kind of a failure when I say no.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I get asked it. A lot

Must be annoying like you're a performing seal. .

Exactly. Really pisses me off. Makes me feel like I'm some kind of a failure when I say no."

No need to feel like a failure. Some women do it some don't end of

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By *onyneMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

If squirting [or anything else for that matter] is the sole purpose or aim of any closeness between people, and the whatever it is not happening is a problem, then we might as well not bother

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By *ustin666666Man  over a year ago

Nottingham


"If squirting [or anything else for that matter] is the sole purpose or aim of any closeness between people, and the whatever it is not happening is a problem, then we might as well not bother

"

WTF

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We disagree with anyone else's kink but our own. Because only our kink is acceptable. All your kinks that are not our kink means you are all in the wrong about your kink.

This will now be our only post in all the forums, it'll save so much time.

What I disagree with is the ignorance of some people and the unwanted physical effects it has on my body. Forcing fluid from my urethra isn't something I want during sex and it can and has caused me painful problems in the past. "

same here.i detest men who finger my foo foo fast to make it happen.STOP IT.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Squirting....great in a hotel bed..not so much in your own...

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By *onyneMan  over a year ago

Newcastle


"If squirting [or anything else for that matter] is the sole purpose or aim of any closeness between people, and the whatever it is not happening is a problem, then we might as well not bother

WTF "

Not sure what doesn't make sense there...merely saying that trying to make something in particular 'happen' at the expense of other things can mean we miss out on lots of lovely other things...

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"If squirting [or anything else for that matter] is the sole purpose or aim of any closeness between people, and the whatever it is not happening is a problem, then we might as well not bother

WTF

Not sure what doesn't make sense there...merely saying that trying to make something in particular 'happen' at the expense of other things can mean we miss out on lots of lovely other things..."

True. I don't have a problem if that's what people want just as long as they don't want to meet me.

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By *ngel n tedCouple  over a year ago

maidstone


"I get asked it. A lot

Must be annoying like you're a performing seal. .

Exactly. Really pisses me off. Makes me feel like I'm some kind of a failure when I say no."

don't say no, say yes, then you can see them crushed by their lack of results, you could even throw in a "that's strange, i normally do....maybe your technique is wrong" , for added damnation

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By *ustin666666Man  over a year ago

Nottingham


"I get asked it. A lot

Must be annoying like you're a performing seal. .

Exactly. Really pisses me off. Makes me feel like I'm some kind of a failure when I say no.

don't say no, say yes, then you can see them crushed by their lack of results, you could even throw in a "that's strange, i normally do....maybe your technique is wrong" , for added damnation "

That's just Cruel. But I like ur thinking

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By *ustin666666Man  over a year ago

Nottingham


"I get asked it. A lot

Must be annoying like you're a performing seal. .

Exactly. Really pisses me off. Makes me feel like I'm some kind of a failure when I say no.

don't say no, say yes, then you can see them crushed by their lack of results, you could even throw in a "that's strange, i normally do....maybe your technique is wrong" , for added damnation That's just Cruel. But I like ur thinking "

Saying that it would just make me try harder if u said that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I pre warn, avoids nasty surprises tho per warn just b4 the moment not 3weeks b4 during initial chat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I couldnt squirt till 2 nights ago. Must of got the right spot. Need seat protectors now.

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By *_PlayMan  over a year ago

cardiff

Iv had a few women msging me thanking me for my guide I wrote at the beginning on this post...... like to say thanks and enjoy

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Iv had a few women msging me thanking me for my guide I wrote at the beginning on this post...... like to say thanks and enjoy "

That's nice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"...

What I disagree with is the ignorance of some people and the unwanted physical effects it has on my body. Forcing fluid from my urethra isn't something I want during sex and it can and has caused me painful problems in the past.

Tell them to stop. I don't squirt and don't want to. If they start ramming fingers I move the heck away. x"

That was back in my sweet and innocent days just after I got out of a 30 year relationship. Didn't know what he was going to do when he said he had a lovely surprise for me. It didn't last long and I did push him away but it ended up with me getting a kidney infection that took 6 weeks to clear. I now make it clear before I agree to meet anyone that fingers are to be used gently or not at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Iv had a few women msging me thanking me for my guide I wrote at the beginning on this post...... like to say thanks and enjoy "

Why would women be thanking you. It's the men who are supposed to make them squirt. Sounds very dubious to me.

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By *aul n PleasureCouple  over a year ago

Birmingham

I don't need a man to make me squirt I can pee all by myself Thankyou ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just get annoyed that one of the first questions I'm asked when I'm messaged is "Do I squirt?"

Why???

I have never been asked. "

I have, and as soon as I am, any chance of a meet or a play is ended because I know they're going to try and ram their fingers in me...it's horrible...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To be honest I'm glad if I can make a girl cum x squirt or not X it's more about the giving than the taking....but all said girl squirted for the first time at abfabs a fortnight ago and OMG what a feeling X yummy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont squirt/gush nor do i wish to,I cum alot thats good enough for me if its not good enough for them too tough

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"U need magic fingers to make a girl squirt.... The lady needs to be relaxed and expect some sort of peeing feeling witch could become pretty intense. Once you can let the peeing feeling do its job u will squirt but u will think you have peed you self. Starts off with you being relaxed obviously. And just a bit of for play to get you got. And it's all about putting pressure on the gspot while moving u fingers in slow, rough, fast movement... depends how tense you like it. You or the other half will continue to he can feel you tensing up and listen to the sounds and so on.... Once you other half feels you tensing up its always nicer for the girl if the bloke pulls out and plays with you clit pretty fast to keep you in the big O and you body will release a shot "squirt".... rather a pleasing kinky sort of thing if you a bloke and most women if is they 1st time they get curious and like to be squirtted again. You need to feel comfortable with you partner. P.s have a towel because it can come pretty messy. And have a pint of water with you to keep you dehydrated... iv made a couple ppl dehydrated and legless with my Lil techniques lol... msg me if you want speak more private. Hope iv helped xxx enjoy "

This man knows his stuff by the sounds of it! only realised that I can do it, all down to technique, feels amazing, i didnt think i was missing out until It happened x

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

I think half the problem is that the porn industry popularise making women squirt because it's a visual phenomenon... if both parties enjoy it happening.. fine.. but I prefer to ride a wave of intense orgasms any day

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman  over a year ago

Deviant City

I've become to get annoyed with all this squirting lark. It's just an ego boost for guys. All my messages at the moment consist of "I'll make you squirt".

What fucks me off more, are the women squirting/pissing all over beds in clubs and don't clean up after themselves. I don't wanna be in a cold puddle of someone elses piss.

Yes I can do it, but I like watersports, but I can hold back if a guy is insistant on making it happen, I tend to only let my fella do it to me these days.

For all those who say it's not piss, try working in a club and having to wash the towels and wipe the beds down. After a short while, it smells of stale piss.

LADIES, CLEAN YOUR PUDDLES UP.

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By *orethancurvesWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

Can someone explain it to me. I guess im a none believer in this squirting thing.

Or does everyone agree it is just pee?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If squirting [or anything else for that matter] is the sole purpose or aim of any closeness between people, and the whatever it is not happening is a problem, then we might as well not bother

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get asked it. A lot

Must be annoying like you're a performing seal. .

Exactly. Really pisses me off. Makes me feel like I'm some kind of a failure when I say no.

don't say no, say yes, then you can see them crushed by their lack of results, you could even throw in a "that's strange, i normally do....maybe your technique is wrong" , for added damnation "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've become to get annoyed with all this squirting lark. It's just an ego boost for guys. All my messages at the moment consist of "I'll make you squirt".

What fucks me off more, are the women squirting/pissing all over beds in clubs and don't clean up after themselves. I don't wanna be in a cold puddle of someone elses piss.

Yes I can do it, but I like watersports, but I can hold back if a guy is insistant on making it happen, I tend to only let my fella do it to me these days.

For all those who say it's not piss, try working in a club and having to wash the towels and wipe the beds down. After a short while, it smells of stale piss.

LADIES, CLEAN YOUR PUDDLES UP. "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I've become to get annoyed with all this squirting lark. It's just an ego boost for guys. All my messages at the moment consist of "I'll make you squirt".

What fucks me off more, are the women squirting/pissing all over beds in clubs and don't clean up after themselves. I don't wanna be in a cold puddle of someone elses piss.

Yes I can do it, but I like watersports, but I can hold back if a guy is insistant on making it happen, I tend to only let my fella do it to me these days.

For all those who say it's not piss, try working in a club and having to wash the towels and wipe the beds down. After a short while, it smells of stale piss.

LADIES, CLEAN YOUR PUDDLES UP.

"

Well that's definitely put me off going to any clubs!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a shame men don't put as much effort into giving oral. That's the king of giving a woman an orgasm. If you can do that you have a true gift. I hope this circulates as quickly as the squirting technique has. Spread the word "

mine does.. I think im quite lucky to be honest.. The man has literally spent hours at a time with his head wedged between my legs.. Ohh im definatly not one to complain!!

Mrs Pinky xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've become to get annoyed with all this squirting lark. It's just an ego boost for guys. All my messages at the moment consist of "I'll make you squirt".

What fucks me off more, are the women squirting/pissing all over beds in clubs and don't clean up after themselves. I don't wanna be in a cold puddle of someone elses piss.

Yes I can do it, but I like watersports, but I can hold back if a guy is insistant on making it happen, I tend to only let my fella do it to me these days.

For all those who say it's not piss, try working in a club and having to wash the towels and wipe the beds down. After a short while, it smells of stale piss.

LADIES, CLEAN YOUR PUDDLES UP. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love reading the "instruction manuals", is it just me or would that make for really boring sex, do x then press y whilst holding z. I like to be spontaneous and do what feels right.

I've met several squirters, none told me beforehand and they all squirted after different types of stimulation.

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"I don't need a man to make me squirt I can pee all by myself Thankyou ??"

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Speaking from our own experiences

People (mainly guys) focus too much on squirting

Some women squirt very easily, played with quite a few who have squirted.

MrsDPT can squirt but it seems to only be from certain positions and happens from penetration not fingering.

We've had guys finger blasting her so fucking hard trying to make her squirt it's turned her off and left her a bit sore

I blame porn

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Finger blasting...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've just been for a meet and she said she'd never squirted so much in her life. Made her cum/squirt three times and she was loving it.

I have to say though, it was quite a turn on. I'm quite a visual person anyway and that was a good show.

Feeling very proud of myself

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By *onyneMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

When anything pleasurable happens between people it is an obvious turn on, and squirting is one of the many things...but if you get hung up thinking that it 'must' happen, then you miss out on all the other fantastic moments that can happen between people.

It is one of those things that may or may not happen, that's all...

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By *ordonBennettMan  over a year ago

dover

I think it is over-rated....and messy

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By *lutmeup500Woman  over a year ago

London

i squirt in sex but not oral. and only sometimes

i want to learn the "trick"

as i do always cum when squirting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a shame men don't put as much effort into giving oral. That's the king of giving a woman an orgasm. If you can do that you have a true gift. I hope this circulates as quickly as the squirting technique has. Spread the word "

I love giving oral just my previous gfs don't like to receive only give!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"It's a shame men don't put as much effort into giving oral. That's the king of giving a woman an orgasm. If you can do that you have a true gift. I hope this circulates as quickly as the squirting technique has. Spread the word

"

What I hope spreads quickly is that there is no one method for all women. The men who know this are king of orgasms not the ones who concentrate on what worked for the last woman they were with. Spread that word please .

Oh and same goes for women

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"It's a shame men don't put as much effort into giving oral. That's the king of giving a woman an orgasm. If you can do that you have a true gift. I hope this circulates as quickly as the squirting technique has. Spread the word "
ahem... waves frantically and licks lips...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I never thought I could squirt, until someone showed me differently, it's certainly a strange feeling, but very nice, when it happens..... "

My boyfriend and I are working on it, just to see if I can. No harm in trying!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

What I hope spreads quickly is that there is no one method for all women. The men who know this are king of orgasms not the ones who concentrate on what worked for the last woman they were with. Spread that word please .

Oh and same goes for women "

That's a great point. I always ask the person I'm with to tell me if I'm doing something they don't like, and I pay attention to reactions. I've taken home some new tricks by doing so!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some love it but it is actually urine. Check out the medical definitions on line. If you like having a mouth full of piss go for it! But check it out medically first guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I first discovered it I was always trying it etc...but now it's so mainstream especially in swinging I don't bother anymore.No longer a secret trick to be frank .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Some love it but it is actually urine. Check out the medical definitions on line. If you like having a mouth full of piss go for it! But check it out medically first guys. "

Were you that bored on a Friday night that you had to write this on every thread about squirting?

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By *awandOrderCouple  over a year ago

SW London


"Some love it but it is actually urine. Check out the medical definitions on line. If you like having a mouth full of piss go for it! But check it out medically first guys. "

If you like having a mouth full of pies, try watersports and piss play, if you don't, try someone who gushes. We like both, so we know the difference ... and can taste the difference.

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By *oward1978Man  over a year ago

Rotherham


"Why do so many men ask about squirting?

Is there some thought that if you don't squirt, you must be shit at sex?

I've never squirted & I don't feel I've missed out on anything."

This whole squirting obsession pisses me off if I'm honest! It's current popularity can only have come from the porn world. I think men think that if they can make a woman squirt then it automatically makes them this amazing lover and they can then go and brag about it to their mates. I always find men who bang on about squirting very childish. They just automatically think every woman wants it and is going to love it because they've seen it in porn.

If you're genuinely into it then fine. Personally, I can take it or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why do so many men ask about squirting?

Is there some thought that if you don't squirt, you must be shit at sex?

I've never squirted & I don't feel I've missed out on anything.

This whole squirting obsession pisses me off if I'm honest! It's current popularity can only have come from the porn world. I think men think that if they can make a woman squirt then it automatically makes them this amazing lover and they can then go and brag about it to their mates. I always find men who bang on about squirting very childish. They just automatically think every woman wants it and is going to love it because they've seen it in porn.

If you're genuinely into it then fine. Personally, I can take it or leave it."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I squirt every time

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I squirt every time "

Is it pee though?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I squirt (hence the name) can't say it does much for me though. I don't squirt with everyone and I'm relaxed with all, if i wasn't relaxed I wouldn't be having sex or playing with them. It's normally fingers that make me squirt, occasionally i will through penetration, but it is rare.

Don't worry about squirting, because all it does it make things wet, creating more washing! So much hassle haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love watching squirting porn not lucky enough to experience it in person thou

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is there not a distinction to be applied here?

If a lady is aroused and produces large quantities of vaginal fluid, which is normal and acts as a lubricant, is that not gushing?

Moreover if fluid is ejected from the vagina under pressure would that fluid originate from the bladder?

I just don't see large amounts of fluid leaving the body under considerable pressure being anything other than urine?

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By *orders2forUCouple  over a year ago

Hawick

Maybe time to thnk again then. When my beloved gushes/squirts the sheer volume is FAR more than a full bladder of pee and she would have been to the loo before we start so in our thoughts it is not pee.

L2

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

My theory as always been that guys tend to be more sexually visual than women so the physical presence of squirt/gush gives them more of a sense of achievement. It's fun but I'd rather them give me an orgasm instead

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