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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What puts you off a persons profile? For us it's too many up close pics of cocks, arseholes and pussies and 'one sentence' profiles. One or two pics are fine but every public pic of genitals is a bit much, we love to see whole bodies. Plus while we don't need to read a life story it's nice to at least get some idea of what people are about. What about u? |
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over a year ago
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Ones with nothing to read or with no pictures.
Ones with a whole list of hoops, through which one must jump just to be in with the proverbial cat in hells chance of meeting.
And any with overly aggressive styles of writing, ranty NO this, DON'T do, MUST NOT even half look at us unless you have the secret password.......and so on. |
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Oh, where to start! Aside from those where we don't meet their (utterly reasonable!) meeting goals of age and sexuality...
Ones with impossibly high expectations, which the couple themselves do not meet 
Ones which seem to be a conveyor belt for bringing in a constant stream of meets ("no time to chat"), often with an embedded rant about the poor quality of meets they get.
Ones with atroshus speling and gramur so bad you really can't tell what they were trying to say.
Ones with ALL CAPS RANTS
Ones with copy+pasted copyright/Sydney warnings longer than the content they have to say about themselves.
Ones who list safe sex but show in the pics multiple partners with no condoms in sight.
But mostly, ones where there is more negative listed than positive. We like our meets to be about what can happen, and how we can each ignite each others fires, rather than what can't happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ones with copy+pasted copyright/Sydney warnings longer than the content they have to say about themselves."
The profile equivalent of stuffing tissues in your bra. |
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The overall tone
If it's negative with a list of NOs and RANTS. Also txt spk
Also an extreme close up where her vag looks like the cuff of an old trouser leg.
Ones that tell me really nothing about her/them.
And finally unrealistic standards 'Must be 6'2+, 8+inches, ripped and willing to pay for a 4star hotel for the night' |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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Ones that are really shouty but mostly ones that are one line with one (usually cock) pic. At least the shouty ones have made an effort!
Having read some of the thread I've just reread ours and realised it's probably more on the negative side than positive(was edited in response to certain messages we kept getting) so possibly time for a rewrite here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gynaecology photos, profiles that are extremely long-winded, ones with lists of requirements, profiles with bad grammar, aggressive ones, conceited ones.....the list goes on.
There are large numbers of terrible individuals on here who think they can treat other people like shit because it's a sex site!
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"Gynaecology photos, profiles that are extremely long-winded, ones with lists of requirements, profiles with bad grammar, aggressive ones, conceited ones.....the list goes on.
There are large numbers of terrible individuals on here who think they can treat other people like shit because it's a sex site!
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"cock pics put me off
on guys profiles or if single guys message you they attach a cock pic
its not impressive it puts me off
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Yes, cock avatars annoy me I have to say. I don't want to stare at anyone's cock while I talk to them really, not unless there's a lovely torso attached. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attention seekers
"I'll only meet people who tick ALL my boxes" especially as I've never seen box on a profile 
I also detest those ranting, moody & angry status updates  "
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
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"cock pics put me off
on guys profiles or if single guys message you they attach a cock pic
its not impressive it puts me off
Yes, cock avatars annoy me I have to say. I don't want to stare at anyone's cock while I talk to them really, not unless there's a lovely torso attached."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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New, no-pic profiles that just say "I'm an XX-year-old-woman and I'm looking for men".
Anything too ranty/shouty.
And, I guess, anything that makes the person/people sound like someone whose company I wouldn't enjoy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Closeup pussy pics - haha. It is as sexy to me as closeup cock pics for many of the ladies.
Wording that seems aggressive or description written in capital letters (I do not like being shouted on).
When things of what people should not do when contacting a profile takes more space than things describing the profile user/s.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alot of above can put me off looking or reading however I tend to meet a lot of people at partys and clubs, so I never judge a book by its cover, as people can be very different in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rants
People who self proclaim how great they are and boast about prowess and technique but lack substance and verifications to back this up. (This mostly applies to Dim doms and wannabe be squirting inducing Bulls)
Fill in later types. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rants
People who self proclaim how great they are and boast about prowess and technique but lack substance and verifications to back this up. (This mostly applies to Dim doms and wannabe be squirting inducing Bulls)
Fill in later types. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a lady wink at me from a profile with sparse details on it. I thanked her, she then asked me for a face pic. I asked her to feel free to send me one with mine in reply and received a torrent of abuse in reply. And I mean a torrent.....
My take on it was that it was a guy pic collecting, hence my caution. It turned out I was wrong and it was a female after all but I suppose where I'm going is that what annoys me the most is a near - empty profile. That to me says fake / pic collector / m posing as f / lazy for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any profile where the bloke is wearing women's lingerie  "
Lol.
Limited info and too many cock photos. Not expecting all to show faces but a good body photo certainly piques my interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any profile where the bloke is wearing women's lingerie
Lol.
Limited info and too many cock photos. Not expecting all to show faces but a good body photo certainly piques my interest "
And a healthy pair of lungs Scarletta!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The overall tone
If it's negative with a list of NOs and RANTS. Also txt spk
Also an extreme close up where her vag looks like the cuff of an old trouser leg.
Ones that tell me really nothing about her/them.
And finally unrealistic standards 'Must be 6'2+, 8+inches, ripped and willing to pay for a 4star hotel for the night' "
Nothing wrong with 6', 7", not skinny and a Premier inn  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gynaecology photos, profiles that are extremely long-winded, ones with lists of requirements, profiles with bad grammar, aggressive ones, conceited ones.....the list goes on.
There are large numbers of terrible individuals on here who think they can treat other people like shit because it's a sex site!
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How do you work that out from their profile? If you perceive it to be the undertone of the profile you move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any profile where the bloke is wearing women's lingerie "
I agree that it's not a good look. This annoys me as I'm pretty open-minded but I cannot help what I like the look of and don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a professional couple with high profile jobs so can not show pictures on here....... "Who gives a feck" "
Or any singles... I wouldn't meet a faceless person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a professional couple with high profile jobs so can not show pictures on here....... "Who gives a feck"
Or any singles... I wouldn't meet a faceless person."
Likewise - I've never met anyone I haven't seen and spoken to beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ones that say "Will fill this in later…" just to hit the minimum word count and ones that are so short they give nothing away about the person.
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Also those profiles with a list of 'DON'TS' or other demands.
You must be this, you must not be that - Byeeeeeeeeeeee! |
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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago
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i hate the ones with cock pics and men that send you cock pics thinking that's great i mean you wouldn't go into a pub/club and slap your penis on the table? i'm far from prudish but i do expect some decorum and respect,the penis to me is the least important thing it's the face that's the deal breaker and if it's a face that would sour milk it aint happening!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ones that say "Will fill this in later…" just to hit the minimum word count and ones that are so short they give nothing away about the person.
Also those profiles with a list of 'DON'TS' or other demands.
You must be this, you must not be that - Byeeeeeeeeeeee!"
Sounds like meeeeeeee |
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It's cock pics over toilets I particularly find distasteful. The lists of no things also puts a bit of a downer on the attraction for me - couples and single females tend to do this. Mind you, there's enough people on here to find some people to play with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i hate the ones with cock pics and men that send you cock pics thinking that's great i mean you wouldn't go into a pub/club and slap your penis on the table? i'm far from prudish but i do expect some decorum and respect,the penis to me is the least important thing it's the face that's the deal breaker and if it's a face that would sour milk it aint happening!!!!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's the rant profiles.. ones that go on forever listing everything they hate about men, life, cars, pets etc.. then demand you send a lengthy message how you think they are the ones you need to meet because they are 'fun'
And you need to put some crap word in the title message.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ones that say "Will fill this in later…" just to hit the minimum word count and ones that are so short they give nothing away about the person.
Also those profiles with a list of 'DON'TS' or other demands.
You must be this, you must not be that - Byeeeeeeeeeeee!
Sounds like meeeeeeee "
Lol me too, I certainly sound like some of these descriptions so far. Though, I remain unapologetic for my criteria. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh, where to start! Aside from those where we don't meet their (utterly reasonable!) meeting goals of age and sexuality...
Ones with impossibly high expectations, which the couple themselves do not meet
Ones which seem to be a conveyor belt for bringing in a constant stream of meets ("no time to chat"), often with an embedded rant about the poor quality of meets they get.
Ones with atroshus speling and gramur so bad you really can't tell what they were trying to say.
Ones with ALL CAPS RANTS
Ones with copy+pasted copyright/Sydney warnings longer than the content they have to say about themselves.
Ones who list safe sex but show in the pics multiple partners with no condoms in sight.
But mostly, ones where there is more negative listed than positive. We like our meets to be about what can happen, and how we can each ignite each others fires, rather than what can't happen."
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Our biggest problem is actually cat ownership. Amazing how many times we are told sorry we have a cat but then at least they are being honest and due to our fems allergy very important for us to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our profile probably needs tweeking but to be honest we cant be arsed as it seems to work for us. Not a caps lock shout or a negative in there i dont think.
Wei should reread it i suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles with bad grammar and spelling.
Text all written in capitals.
Profiles that are attention seeking and overly long.
Huge lists of wants and demands.
Profiles that say "will add to this later" and they joined 5 months ago.
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Username like pussywrecker/destroyer/masher or 69 I don't even bother with.
Status updates saying "balls need emptying", "I want to fuck now"...not for me.
Cum dripping from strangled cock pics.
Face and body pic of previous meets but only the cock visible on single male profiles.
Profiles lacking respect for others, whether I'm excluded or not! |
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Anything that hints the woman is cheating is a complete no for me.
Badly written profiles with "no" instead of "know" etc.
Gynecological photos - though one pyssy picture among a selection can be sexy.
Rants |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What puts you off a persons profile? For us it's too many up close pics of cocks, arseholes and pussies and 'one sentence' profiles. One or two pics are fine but every public pic of genitals is a bit much, we love to see whole bodies. Plus while we don't need to read a life story it's nice to at least get some idea of what people are about. What about u?"
A zillion cock pics but no body pics
Sex pics, want to see guy on profile not who he fucked in past
None or poor profile text |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone with their arse cheeks pulled open.....ewwww....never the nicest _iew in the world! And close up birds eye _iew down the japs eye.....I mean, why???? Lol "
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"What puts you off a persons profile? For us it's too many up close pics of cocks, arseholes and pussies and 'one sentence' profiles. One or two pics are fine but every public pic of genitals is a bit much, we love to see whole bodies. Plus while we don't need to read a life story it's nice to at least get some idea of what people are about. What about u?"
We like these profiles as it saves us a lot of time and trouble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ones that say "Will fill this in later…" just to hit the minimum word count and ones that are so short they give nothing away about the person.
Also those profiles with a list of 'DON'TS' or other demands.
You must be this, you must not be that - Byeeeeeeeeeeee!
Sounds like meeeeeeee
Lol me too, I certainly sound like some of these descriptions so far. Though, I remain unapologetic for my criteria. "
Mine is certainly staying put  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ones who are either lying about their age or have been round the clock and started again or somehow stayed 39 for five years. "
Being minxy I take great joy in telling them they look so so much older. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Username like pussywrecker/destroyer/masher or 69 I don't even bother with.
Status updates saying "balls need emptying", "I want to fuck now"...not for me.
Cum dripping from strangled cock pics.
Face and body pic of previous meets but only the cock visible on single male profiles.
Profiles lacking respect for others, whether I'm excluded or not!"
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Oh, where to start! Aside from those where we don't meet their (utterly reasonable!) meeting goals of age and sexuality...
Ones with impossibly high expectations, which the couple themselves do not meet
Ones which seem to be a conveyor belt for bringing in a constant stream of meets ("no time to chat"), often with an embedded rant about the poor quality of meets they get.
Ones with atroshus speling and gramur so bad you really can't tell what they were trying to say.
Ones with ALL CAPS RANTS
Ones with copy+pasted copyright/Sydney warnings longer than the content they have to say about themselves.
Ones who list safe sex but show in the pics multiple partners with no condoms in sight.
But mostly, ones where there is more negative listed than positive. We like our meets to be about what can happen, and how we can each ignite each others fires, rather than what can't happen."
Said a lot of our thoughts here, an approachable profile is always the way to in our opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got no problems with anyone's sexual orientation, but profiles that repeatedly mention that the guy is straight always puts me off.
"Hi, we're George and Mildred. George is straight. We live in Hampton Wick. George is straight. We're happily married etc. No bi guys, George is str8!"
I always feel that 'George' would be likely to kick off on one if I even glimpsed his cock.
P. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep the Sydney university thing..
I cringe at the 'I'm not racist but I'm excluding an entire race' profiles.
Ladies with big list of demands.
The 'read to bottom and quote this' nonsense.
I'm just too easy going for all that crap.
As you can need my profile is terrible. Haha
If you want to know anything just ask! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It puts me off when people have the willing to meet 18 to 99. Seriously if a 99 year old messages you are you really gonna consider it?
Also the we're a fit, gym going good looking couple who are only willing to meet with other good looking people. Define good looking? |
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In order:
Profiles lacking substance/empty profiles.
Profiles that are too long to go through; I don't want to go through your life story; we can do that over coffee.
Profiles that only have closeups; dick or pussy. Looks as if I am talking to a dickhead or pussy-head.
Fill this later - Can't be arsed to fill this in instantly turns me off.
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By *ton TwinkleWoman
over a year ago
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Too many close up genital pics
Dribbly cock pics
Sydney Uni/Legal warnings
"fill this in later"
Any indication of bareback
Poorly written
Men in baseball caps anywhere but on the beach
Men in woolly hats anywhere but out in the cold
Too many pics of the same thing... Seen a guy with 98 splendid pics of his amazing cock from every conceivable angle!
Ladies and couples who post provocative pics or statuses and then go on to moan the get too many messages
Statements like "I get far too many messages to reply to all so..." blah blah blah...
"include the words jelly and icecream in you message subject to show you read my profile"
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I think for me personally what irritates me is when people list requirements of a potential partner that are unrealistic. I understand this site is about fulfilling sexual fantasies and enjoying sex in general. But surely if people have very shallow expectations that they themselves don't come close to meeting, how does that work out? What makes you think the person your looking for will intern lower their requirements to be with you. Just a thought....another thing that I find hilarious is that some couples and women on here expect single guys to pine or compete for their attention. Not every single guy on here oozes desperation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think for me personally what irritates me is when people list requirements of a potential partner that are unrealistic. I understand this site is about fulfilling sexual fantasies and enjoying sex in general. But surely if people have very shallow expectations that they themselves don't come close to meeting, how does that work out? What makes you think the person your looking for will intern lower their requirements to be with you. Just a thought....another thing that I find hilarious is that some couples and women on here expect single guys to pine or compete for their attention. Not every single guy on here oozes desperation. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's largely people who put no effort into their profile that puts me off. And text speak, that's a massive no from me.
I have been told that my profile is too demanding and maybe it is, but I want people to know what I want and make an informed decision about contacting me.....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profiles with the pointless 'Legal Notice' bug me. A complete waste of time, and shows that the person probably isn't terribly bright!"
If people want to include a disclaimer on their profile then that's up to them. Sorry we can't all be "terribly bright"  wasted 3 years at university me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The overall tone
If it's negative with a list of NOs and RANTS. Also txt spk
Also an extreme close up where her vag looks like the cuff of an old trouser leg.
Ones that tell me really nothing about her/them.
And finally unrealistic standards 'Must be 6'2+, 8+inches, ripped and willing to pay for a 4star hotel for the night'
Nothing wrong with 6', 7", not skinny and a Premier inn ."
Done deal. Hotel booked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ones with nothing to read or with no pictures.
Ones with a whole list of hoops, through which one must jump just to be in with the proverbial cat in hells chance of meeting.
And any with overly aggressive styles of writing, ranty NO this, DON'T do, MUST NOT even half look at us unless you have the secret password.......and so on."
^^ This does it for me too, loads of demands and then the classic must send face pics demand despite theirs consisting of one close up genital pic. |
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