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POF: Plenty of Fcuks... I mean fish
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
I find most men there lie, saying they're looking for a relationship when they aren't. People here are obviously more
upfront. If I want sex I'd rather meet someone from here.
Anyone else on there for nsa fun or are you on there to actually date?
Can you keep the two separate? |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Can't I have both? Looking for a nsa fuck would love a long term girlfriend. "
Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll eventually be looking for a relationship but NSA fun for now is what it's about. I've not used POF (yet) but heard that a lot of people on there use it just for sex. Something like OKcupid is a bit more for 'dating' (though apparently lately a lot of weirdo guys have started harassing women on it).
I think if you're on either though you should be upfront about what you're after ! |
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"Can't I have both? Looking for a nsa fuck would love a long term girlfriend.
Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both"
I was on both, so was my bf, but we met and got together because of fab, not pof, can't figure that one out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't I have both? Looking for a nsa fuck would love a long term girlfriend.
Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both"
im the same x |
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I recently went back on there looking. Had a lot of messages and had a couple of dates.
Both really hot ladies and both wanted sex on the first date. One from London and another not so far away.
I am up front in my profile. Looking for friendship, etc. Doesn't seem to stop them, as many are equally as busy/fucked up as I am  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i was on the aforementioned website i got more offers of sex than i ever did on here .
So its not just the men on there lying about what they want !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've used both and can honestly say that I've had more 'fun' on POF. I guess for those that are on both want to be with someone with damn good sex apart of it. Swinging togeather as an added extra |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've used both and can honestly say that I've had more 'fun' on POF. I guess for those that are on both want to be with someone with damn good sex apart of it. Swinging togeather as an added extra "
im the other way round |
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"Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both"
Stop looking, let's get married in haste I'll even let you keep shagging other guys  |
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On another note, I'm on PoF too because I am looking to dates and possibly go into a relationship, doesn't mean I should stop having fun in the meantime and even if said relationship does happen it might not work out.
We could have a couple of dates and decide not to go for it, although I would abstain from meets on here while dating a lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On another note, I'm on PoF too because I am looking to dates and possibly go into a relationship, doesn't mean I should stop having fun in the meantime and even if said relationship does happen it might not work out.
We could have a couple of dates and decide not to go for it, although I would abstain from meets on here while dating a lady."
No I agree I'm
The same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't I have both? Looking for a nsa fuck would love a long term girlfriend.
Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both"
On pof it's hard to talk to women. Maybe because it's more of a dating thing. General questions about job, money, interests. It doesn't really go anywhere. Here I'm more open. Say things that I normally wouldn't. Have more confidence here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't I have both? Looking for a nsa fuck would love a long term girlfriend.
Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both
On pof it's hard to talk to women. Maybe because it's more of a dating thing. General questions about job, money, interests. It doesn't really go anywhere. Here I'm more open. Say things that I normally wouldn't. Have more confidence here. "
i neer talk about money in real life |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I have been on a few sites and made it clear I was looking for dates to hopefully turn into a relationship. When I was seeing someone I hid my profile. The dating sites are for me as person I am. Fab is for me as Fruit which is the other side of me.
A guy I recently spent a few months chatting with off a dating site recently joined fab and recognised my boobs lol. After reading my verfications he decided I was Fruit and not the person he had spent 2 months getting to know. I had avoided sex talk with him and we chatted about vanilla stuff. I told him if we began in a relationship he would get to know everything about me.
I treat a dating site very different to fab. I would love to meet someone but I know me! It takes one hell of a man to love me and as yet the ones I have met haven't been up to the job of a strong woman and lacking in honesty.
Fab works for me far better. I stick to fucks rather than love  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I've recently reactivated my pof profile...
I've had some fantastic times on here. I'm hoping to find something different on there,...I'm hoping the two are different. Time will tell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find most men there lie, saying they're looking for a relationship when they aren't. People here are obviously more
upfront. If I want sex I'd rather meet someone from here.
Anyone else on there for nsa fun or are you on there to actually date?
Can you keep the two separate? "
We want NSA but also open to friendship. As we're already a couple in a +25 years relationship we wouldn't be seeking deep relationships with anyone beyond friends. |
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By *uby_xWoman
over a year ago
funky town |
Im on pof and am looking for a relationship, would say that the majority of the men I've spoken to are only looking for casual sex. Had a date yesterday with a lovely genuine guy who I'm seeing again so fingers crossed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on there, but tbh most of the guys you can tell why they are single.  I deleted my profile pissed off that nobody attractive turned up in search results, and told the site why i deleted my profile when they asked.
I would be up for dating someone who lets me fuck other guys, i like being single though so not up for moving in together and that kind of relationship.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only joined POF coz i heard it was easy to get sex on there and fancied seeing what was on offer.
There are guys on here wanting relationships too, i've found some. I'd rather keep it NSA coz i'm selfish, but like i said above i'd be up for a relationship that didn't really affect my life too much. If i found someone i thought i could trust and really liked them i might consider something different, shit happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only joined POF coz i heard it was easy to get sex on there and fancied seeing what was on offer.
There are guys on here wanting relationships too, i've found some. I'd rather keep it NSA coz i'm selfish, but like i said above i'd be up for a relationship that didn't really affect my life too much. If i found someone i thought i could trust and really liked them i might consider something different, shit happens."
always the optimist   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only joined POF coz i heard it was easy to get sex on there and fancied seeing what was on offer.
There are guys on here wanting relationships too, i've found some. I'd rather keep it NSA coz i'm selfish, but like i said above i'd be up for a relationship that didn't really affect my life too much. If i found someone i thought i could trust and really liked them i might consider something different, shit happens. always the optimist "
No point in not being. |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Im on pof and am looking for a relationship, would say that the majority of the men I've spoken to are only looking for casual sex. Had a date yesterday with a lovely genuine guy who I'm seeing again so fingers crossed."
I hope it works out for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm tempted to join up to one of the dating sites.
I would love to have a girlfriend again someone who you can trust and be compelled honest with with all the love and support that goes with that.
But given how badly my last relationships ended with cheating etc and what I've seen on here about the amount of partners who cheat (I won't meet with people cheating) I just get the feeling it would go the same way again and I don't really cope with breakups too well.
Here at least I get sex, intimacy and friendship but without any of the emotional risk.
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm tempted to join up to one of the dating sites.
I would love to have a girlfriend again someone who you can trust and be compelled honest with with all the love and support that goes with that.
But given how badly my last relationships ended with cheating etc and what I've seen on here about the amount of partners who cheat (I won't meet with people cheating) I just get the feeling it would go the same way again and I don't really cope with breakups too well.
Here at least I get sex, intimacy and friendship but without any of the emotional risk.
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I think you still have an element of emotional risk on here; look at posts that ask for advice when one party feels different to another.
Ultimately to offer part of yourself up to someone else I think can lead to complications and 'risk'- but I think that comes with the territory. I guess perhaps you have to trust that the right people for you, in both a fab or dating situation won't take advantage of the privilege you give them. If people do choose to, it understandably does affect the choice we make but I dont believe in giving that person that much control- you can't control them but you do have
a say in how much you let their behaviour dictate your
response,and how much that experience gets to define you.
As an aside Bugs and I met on a well known dating site. The site was known for both love and 'nsa'fun. My previous(very abusive) relationship started in a very 'normal' way and had I let my experience in there be my sum total of relationship experience and not taken the step into a daring world and with all the risk that comes with it I'd never have Found and experienced the joy that can come from an amazing one.
Tig
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"POF is kinda boring no one there it seems lol.
But personally I am after a fuck buddie "
But yet in other threads you have said you are only interested in one off fucks...hmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on both too - I have no idea what I'm looking for anymore 
I'm looking to meet in the real world rather than online there are too many lies online - most of the men on here are also on POF - with pure fiction on their profiles!
Not exclusive to men of course ( we don't want a retarded gender war do we )
I want it all... I want a partner but I also want to have the freedom to fuck other people - I might add that to my POF profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm on both too - I have no idea what I'm looking for anymore
I'm looking to meet in the real world rather than online there are too many lies online - most of the men on here are also on POF - with pure fiction on their profiles!
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you are right....any way to get their end away of course - i was on POF....now deleted account....I have a business to run which takes up too much of my time already at the moment....so would rather play with kinky people than a quick one off vanilla shag ha ha |
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I have used POF in the past and to be honest, got more sex from there than here. I am no longer a member but do search from time to time to see if any of the faces have changed - they haven't, same people there from years ago, which probably says a lot about the site.
I have recognised women other who are also on here, and funny how different their profiles on here, one was on here as a 40 year old, but on of looking for a relationship as a 50 year old.
And we are mainly talking of here, people will be on other multiple sites too, OK Cupid, Badoo, Tinder…. the list goes on, its just the faces that don't change. |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
i never mix the two sites. some people cant an have misconceptions an think they can do the same on both pof an on here
if i want a date i date, if i dont then fabs
the two sites are different from one another
I have the freedom to choose as im nearly divorced , an im lucky to be in a position to choose what i want
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in my opinion plenty of women are on there cos they like all the attention they get from the guys and have now intention of meeting anyone "
I'd meet if I fancied someone just like here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in my opinion plenty of women are on there cos they like all the attention they get from the guys and have now intention of meeting anyone
I'd meet if I fancied someone just like here "
Ditto, and I have. He became my fwb for 6 months.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in my opinion plenty of women are on there cos they like all the attention they get from the guys and have now intention of meeting anyone
I'd meet if I fancied someone just like here
Ditto, and I have. He became my fwb for 6 months. "
Yay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't I have both? Looking for a nsa fuck would love a long term girlfriend.
Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both"
me too  |
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When Single I MrH got more sex off dating sites than off fabs. I was honest and open that I was not looking for long term and it seems neither were a lot of the women on there, although a lot of them are almost proffessional daters!. MrsH still has a profile on there and has used it to meet single guys for a quickie! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab works very much in favour of single females, its a bit more balanced on PoF.
I joined PoF seeking a genuine relationship and not for sex, but I ended up having far more sex from contact on PoF than I did from here, also if I am being blunt and honest it was without having to lower my standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab works very much in favour of single females, its a bit more balanced on PoF.
I joined PoF seeking a genuine relationship and not for sex, but I ended up having far more sex from contact on PoF than I did from here, also if I am being blunt and honest it was without having to lower my standards."
Haha "lower your standards" this is exactly why most women on here are extremely picky - not only just because we can but because of men like you that think you are gods gift and should drop our knickers just because you said "hi" get back to POF then where the women are up to your very high standard!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab works very much in favour of single females, its a bit more balanced on PoF.
I joined PoF seeking a genuine relationship and not for sex, but I ended up having far more sex from contact on PoF than I did from here, also if I am being blunt and honest it was without having to lower my standards.
Haha "lower your standards" this is exactly why most women on here are extremely picky - not only just because we can but because of men like you that think you are gods gift and should drop our knickers just because you said "hi" get back to POF then where the women are up to your very high standard!
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Opened a can of worms here I can see. I don't expect a woman to drop her knickers just at my say so, but women can be picky on here I agree because of the ratio of men to women, that same woman couldn't afford to be so picky on PoF with plenty of more attractive women to choose from, which is why many find there way here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab works very much in favour of single females, its a bit more balanced on PoF.
I joined PoF seeking a genuine relationship and not for sex, but I ended up having far more sex from contact on PoF than I did from here, also if I am being blunt and honest it was without having to lower my standards.
Haha "lower your standards" this is exactly why most women on here are extremely picky - not only just because we can but because of men like you that think you are gods gift and should drop our knickers just because you said "hi" get back to POF then where the women are up to your very high standard!
Opened a can of worms here I can see. I don't expect a woman to drop her knickers just at my say so, but women can be picky on here I agree because of the ratio of men to women, that same woman couldn't afford to be so picky on PoF with plenty of more attractive women to choose from, which is why many find there way here."
Well you're clearly the expert!
Do you have a womans profile on POF then?
If not how would you know what messages we get on there - and why are you assuming we make our way here after in your opinion not being successful on POF?
Are you just bitter because the attractive women on here haven't responded to you?
I'm so tired of single mens bullshit on here - being abusive when they don't get meets - get back to POF and the thousands of messages you get from women that are up to your standards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab works very much in favour of single females, its a bit more balanced on PoF.
I joined PoF seeking a genuine relationship and not for sex, but I ended up having far more sex from contact on PoF than I did from here, also if I am being blunt and honest it was without having to lower my standards.
Haha "lower your standards" this is exactly why most women on here are extremely picky - not only just because we can but because of men like you that think you are gods gift and should drop our knickers just because you said "hi" get back to POF then where the women are up to your very high standard!
Opened a can of worms here I can see. I don't expect a woman to drop her knickers just at my say so, but women can be picky on here I agree because of the ratio of men to women, that same woman couldn't afford to be so picky on PoF with plenty of more attractive women to choose from, which is why many find there way here.
Well you're clearly the expert!
Do you have a womans profile on POF then?
If not how would you know what messages we get on there - and why are you assuming we make our way here after in your opinion not being successful on POF?
Are you just bitter because the attractive women on here haven't responded to you?
I'm so tired of single mens bullshit on here - being abusive when they don't get meets - get back to POF and the thousands of messages you get from women that are up to your standards!"
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab works very much in favour of single females, its a bit more balanced on PoF.
I joined PoF seeking a genuine relationship and not for sex, but I ended up having far more sex from contact on PoF than I did from here, also if I am being blunt and honest it was without having to lower my standards.
Haha "lower your standards" this is exactly why most women on here are extremely picky - not only just because we can but because of men like you that think you are gods gift and should drop our knickers just because you said "hi" get back to POF then where the women are up to your very high standard!
Opened a can of worms here I can see. I don't expect a woman to drop her knickers just at my say so, but women can be picky on here I agree because of the ratio of men to women, that same woman couldn't afford to be so picky on PoF with plenty of more attractive women to choose from, which is why many find there way here.
Well you're clearly the expert!
Do you have a womans profile on POF then?
If not how would you know what messages we get on there - and why are you assuming we make our way here after in your opinion not being successful on POF?
Are you just bitter because the attractive women on here haven't responded to you?
I'm so tired of single mens bullshit on here - being abusive when they don't get meets - get back to POF and the thousands of messages you get from women that are up to your standards!"
I have never been abusive to anyone on here, I send one message, never a second one without a response, I am expressing my opinion without being personal and trust me I could elaborate more. I have had may dates with attractive women on PoF and only one here, but the fact remains there are fewer attractive women on here so those that are can take their pick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've said on my profile I'm on a dating site too, I'd love a proper relationship but I've got kids & won't rush anything & I have a high sex drive & get very cranky if I go without sex. Was with my boyfriend & the last 2/3 months I got nothing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't I have both? Looking for a nsa fuck would love a long term girlfriend.
Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both"
Ditto ! Harder to figure out intentions on pof tho - and I use them differently & have a different approach /mindset on a pof date - I don't use pof for NSA |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on get personal lol  "
Whether here or anywhere I have no desire to get personal, I can present a good argument without insults and fully prepared to stand my ground.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on get personal lol
Whether here or anywhere I have no desire to get personal, I can present a good argument without insults and fully prepared to stand my ground.
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You sure know how to charm the ladies.
I've seen many a female photo here and there are gorgeous ladies here. Just remember looks are subjective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on get personal lol
Whether here or anywhere I have no desire to get personal, I can present a good argument without insults and fully prepared to stand my ground.
You sure know how to charm the ladies.
I've seen many a female photo here and there are gorgeous ladies here. Just remember looks are subjective."
Funny that, your not the first to mention I am a bit of a charmer lol
Yes, there are gorgeous ladies on here, but if I was to look I guess there are a considerable amount of desirable men.
It is subjective as you say, do we look for something different in a person that we seek a relationship with as opposed to just sex with them. A lot of guys wouldn't necessarily need to fancy a woman to have sex with them, far more than those who would admit it, where as I think women need that attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep getting kicked off there can't think why
I'm
The same lol
Hehehe wots ur record mines two days
32 hours "
tried today, 2 hours! Note: dont accidently upload fab photos to pof! DOH! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep getting kicked off there can't think why
I'm
The same lol
Hehehe wots ur record mines two days
32 hours
So its not just me then !!"
No I speak my mind then it's bye bye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on POF..and attracted roughly the same interest I get on here...and on neither was I looking to shag around on...quality over quantity...
My profile is (and was on POF) a good "picture" of me... |
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Pof is a great way to.get back.in.saddle so to.speak I had one wonderful relationship on.it so lots to commend it. Definatly more sex on.pof. Not on.it now as i.have no.free time for a ltr but will.do do sometime in the future
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recently separated so Tryed pmf...what a waste of time.
Thought about trying fab but looking for possible relationship as well as fun so wasn't sure.
Would love a sexually open girlfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its so much easier to get a shag on there than it is here .
As the sexes are more balanced !
The ladies hold the power on here and quite a few know it !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spoke to a lot of guys that are on both sites.
Pof is like Facebook to me, had guys I know messaging me, alright ***** saw you in texaco earlier, or ask your cousin if he can spray my car/fix something blah blah blah. I just deleted my profile in the end! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep getting kicked off there can't think why"
They had a big cull on POF a couple of years ago, the site owner came over all moral and kicked a load of members off who were in relationships with little or no warning. |
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"Recently separated so Tryed pmf...what a waste of time.
Thought about trying fab but looking for possible relationship as well as fun so wasn't sure.
Would love a sexually open girlfriend. "
Confusing that a couples profile types as if it's a single guy never seen that before... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently separated so Tryed pmf...what a waste of time.
Thought about trying fab but looking for possible relationship as well as fun so wasn't sure.
Would love a sexually open girlfriend.
Confusing that a couples profile types as if it's a single guy never seen that before... "
Me smells a fake profile !!! |
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over a year ago
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"I find most men there lie, saying they're looking for a relationship when they aren't. People here are obviously more
upfront. If I want sex I'd rather meet someone from here.
Anyone else on there for nsa fun or are you on there to actually date?
Can you keep the two separate? "
It's not just the men who are 'lying' on there - i've had more sex through POF than off FAB! |
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"There is the option on there for no commitment or relationship which I'd read as wants casual fun but hasn't yet come across fabswingers!"
I saw 3 guys on pof frm here two r on my friends list lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't I have both? Looking for a nsa fuck would love a long term girlfriend.
Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both"
I met my boyfriend on here been together 19 months and living together so it can work xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find most men there lie, saying they're looking for a relationship when they aren't. People here are obviously more
upfront. If I want sex I'd rather meet someone from here.
Anyone else on there for nsa fun or are you on there to actually date?
Can you keep the two separate? "
But you will find 80% of men on pof are on here. When I was single and on there looking for relationship no one interested. Soon as they seen I had a single profile here the world wanted to talk to me. Took great pleasure in telling them where too go lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't I have both? Looking for a nsa fuck would love a long term girlfriend.
Course you can. I'd love to have a hot and honest relationship with a respectful, sexy gentleman. Suppose that's why I'm on both
I met my boyfriend on here been together 19 months and living together so it can work xx"
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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So when I met my partner I honestly thought he would be a pure fuck buddy... Then we did the dating stuff.. Then joined here and now I am happy to say we are a couple and fab has just made it better! I think fab can be for lots of different reasons so as long as you are clear what u want go for it! |
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I keep the two separate, i have pof for dainty and here for fun, if i fall in love on either then i will close both accounts, although ideally it would be great to find someone who is a swinger to have a relationship with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep the two separate, i have pof for dainty and here for fun, if i fall in love on either then i will close both accounts, although ideally it would be great to find someone who is a swinger to have a relationship with!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find most men there lie, saying they're looking for a relationship when they aren't. People here are obviously more
uptomorrow. If I want sex I'd rather meet someone from here.
Anyone else on there for nsa fun or are you on there to actually date?
Most men have affairs to get their kicks if your married why cheat. then why get married in the first place. If i was to marry tomorrow thats it for me on fab.
Can you keep the two separate? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab works very much in favour of single females, its a bit more balanced on PoF.
I joined PoF seeking a genuine relationship and not for sex, but I ended up having far more sex from contact on PoF than I did from here, also if I am being blunt and honest it was without having to lower my standards.
Well said.
Haha "lower your standards" this is exactly why most women on here are extremely picky - not only just because we can but because of men like you that think you are gods gift and should drop our knickers just because you said "hi" get back to POF then where the women are up to your very high standard!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"gutted cant get on!
Why too old lol"
why didnt you tell me there was age limits? so embarrasing fillin it all out then get rejected ffs well gutted think ill lie like lots do on here! |
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"gutted cant get on!
Why too old lolwhy didnt you tell me there was age limits? so embarrasing fillin it all out then get rejected ffs well gutted think ill lie like lots do on here! "
Why would I know I'm not old lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guilty of this exactly.
Find girls and women are surprisingly more open about sexual encounters than on fab sometimes. Seems fab is becoming an agony column and meets are hard to come by especially after the messages to and from.
I say keep intentions clear from the start of no one is keen move on |
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Can you keep the two separate? "
For me I want to find a partner who likes this lifestyle so we can do it together. Therefore I wouldn't keep the two separate but single ladies who are looking for a relationship and also looking to swing are so hard to find. I have more chance of winning the euro millions |
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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago
Chatham |
There are some guys on Pof who are looking for a LTR undoubtedly. Met my last two BFs on there. Both had 'looking to date but nothing serious' on their profiles. Sometimes I think people don't always know what they want or are ready for, it's not that they're deliberately being deceptive.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"gutted cant get on!
Why too old lolwhy didnt you tell me there was age limits? so embarrasing fillin it all out then get rejected ffs well gutted think ill lie like lots do on here!
Why would I know I'm not old lol"
just tried again!
my add: sexy bastard seeks slut for swinging duties!
i was rejected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on it although after the msg I've just been sent I've no idea why?.
Why do people have to be so abusive and rude to others?
Basically I'm a fat pig that no one would date so why not join a date a pig site.
It's the first ever msg that's reduced me to a wreck or tears and snot (attractive).
Why don't people just be polite say no thanks or find out your story?.
One very very upset bumblebea who's lost all of her sting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm on it although after the msg I've just been sent I've no idea why?.
Why do people have to be so abusive and rude to others?
Basically I'm a fat pig that no one would date so why not join a date a pig site.
It's the first ever msg that's reduced me to a wreck or tears and snot (attractive).
Why don't people just be polite say no thanks or find out your story?.
One very very upset bumblebea who's lost all of her sting. "
cheeky bastards eh?! Dnt lose another second over em baby x nice legs |
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By *igDD95Man
over a year ago
Watford |
I'm on quite a few cos i have nothing better to do with my free time ahah, but in all honesty, i like to keep them separate, this site is for fun, the others are for meeting new people/relationships, if sex happens it happens, but i do like to separate the sites from one another |
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over a year ago
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"I keep the two separate, i have pof for dainty and here for fun, if i fall in love on either then i will close both accounts, although ideally it would be great to find someone who is a swinger to have a relationship with!"
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