I can take it or leave it, i dont make the first move with kissing, if they kiss me, ill kiss back but its usually me that breaks away first. I dont mind if my partner does the same, but i wouldnt be keen on overly romantic kissing because i feel thats something special kept for us

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

love kissing and am lucky enough to play wth some people that are great at kissing - full on pashes is what i like, none of those flicky tongue porn star kissed - yuk!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not sure how u can have sex withsomeone else without kissing, i luv kissing x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is a natural prelude to sex.

Good group sex for the sake of certain sexual acts can happen without kissing - specially when the thrill is more psycho than sexual but ... for a one to one there has to be good kissing for me.

If a partner doesn't kiss seductively im not really interested in the sex with them ..... it's like touching a new food with the tip of your tongue. If you like it you dive in for the rest... if not.... yeurghhhhh ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mmm kissin every time fa me xx

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

I can't imagine having sex without kissing.

It just doesn't work for me if I can't kiss.

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

(to me) kissing is all part of the build up to the more serious fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"(to me) kissing is all part of the build up to the more serious fun"

too right !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to kiss in 121 meets but am a little fussy who I meet 121 .. n I normally only meet with ruby as well xx saying that I think it's a bit annoying when a bloke goes down on u n then kisses u it's. Not that I dislike the taste more I dislike the slobber lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its an interesting topic. When we first got into swinging we were dead set against kissing (the opposite sex), as it seemed more personal and loving than just sex.

However, now we've had some experience that theory has gone out of the window! Its not a must for us but we go with the flow and if it happens thats great. I(fem) always kiss the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we both love kissing - its natural to kiss for us and would find it odd not to, esp if we are prepared to do more intimate things with others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree that sex wouldnt be the same without kissing but as part of a couple, the kissing I do is with my partner. We have played as part of a threesome and I will kiss the third party but not in the same way as I do my partner. I try not to let them feel excluded etc, but well theres two types of kissing isnt there, the kiss I do with playmates is very different to the romantic and erotic kiss I do with my partner - and vice versa with him really.

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By *isub69Man over a year ago

Epsom

I love kissing, and strangely I do not mind kissing after oral lol.

I find that kissing can really help to build the passion up to very hieghtend levels.

I also understand why some people would like to keep this between them and their partners.

Carl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i love kissing

i couldnt have sex with someone and not kiss

to me its just to clinical to have sex with someone and leave out all the kissing

To have someone fuck me whos not willing to kiss me just makes me feel used and unattractive

i personally wouldnt meet anyone who has a no kissing rule

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If kissing isn't on the "menu" we don't meet.

It's a big part of the fun for us, so it's a must

Oh, and yes, it is on our profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

funny thread, good thread, and a topic discussed before but always worth bringing back now and again.

A funny thread because all the replies seem to be from supporters of kissing in one form or another during playtime.

It would be interesting to hear some views from those who don't like/enjoy kissing in a play situation.

For ourselves, like those above us kissing is an important part of playing, it's all just sex, intimate and personal - of course it is - but only during the play, We don't snog people I have played with outside of a play situation, when play friends come and see us socially we don't snog, we have a simple, friendly hug.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

Kissy, kissy, kissy, absolutely

For us kissing is all part of one's erotic emotions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This might sound a bit wierd to some, but although we love kissing during playtime, I do not like to watch Kate intimately kissing another guy.

I have to look away or leave the room

I don't know why I feel this way, I just do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If kissing isn't on the "menu" we don't meet.

It's a big part of the fun for us, so it's a must

Oh, and yes, it is on our profile

Likewise!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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If someone is a good kisser then you have to peel me off of them

If they're not I have to think of distracting them in other ways rather then kissing me..........that does'nt happen very often thankfully

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"If someone is a good kisser then you have to peel me off of them

If they're not I have to think of distracting them in other ways rather then kissing me..........that does'nt happen very often thankfully"

i think you should change your name to limpet - thats the second time you have mentioned peeling you off people in as many days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

While I enjoy kissing men and women,I'd have to say that women are the better kissers and enjoy a snog more.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"If someone is a good kisser then you have to peel me off of them

If they're not I have to think of distracting them in other ways rather then kissing me..........that does'nt happen very often thankfully

i think you should change your name to limpet - thats the second time you have mentioned peeling you off people in as many days

That was about Johnny Depp..............who would'nt want to superglue themselves to Jack Sparrow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its hard to kiss whilst being spit-roasted

although you do find a lot of men tend to shy away from kissing you if you've just had someone elses cock in your mouth

Couldn’t imagine not kissing in a 1 to 1 or seperate room swap scenario, but during threesomes or group play it’s far easier to be preoccupied with other things and seems less important.

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By *aravancoupleMan over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We say that kissing is part of the foreplay and adds to the fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we both love kissing bit part of the play for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we feel kissing is appropriate in a sensual and erotic setting and would not want to meet peeps who forbid kissing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel like the odd one out here. I never kiss my playmates... I will tease and use most other sorts of foreplay, would kiss their bodys, but definately not kiss them.

This maybe different in some situations, but as yet that has never happened..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love kissing, its so sensuous, sexy, a big turn on for me and like Granny says, the prelude to sex, hopefully good sex too. Shame so many guys really cannot kiss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is of course up to a person's individual preferences and tastes, but 'no kissing' would be a definite and immediate deal breaker for me.

Fore play is a big part of the whole experience, and kissing is a major part of foreplay, for me anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fore play is a big part of the whole experience, and kissing is a major part of foreplay, for me anyway!"

For me it is the one thing I keep totally for Master......... We have talked about it and I have kissed a play partner before but it felt so terribly wrong.

I do not think not kissing hurts our play time, but then most of ours is group sessions.. when one on one, I have yet to find the none kissing a problem.

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By *obblybitsCouple over a year ago

huddersfield

I really do think some people have the same thoughts of the prostitutes in pretty women.

I love kissing so it would be involved in a meet and actually I think I would be a little offended if during a meet they wouldn't kiss hubby says he isn't bothered either way as he doesn't like french kissing and would be scared for doing it all wrong.

I guess it is each to there own

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By *john121Man over a year ago

staffs

"This might sound a bit wierd to some, but although we love kissing during playtime, I do not like to watch Kate intimately kissing another guy.

I have to look away or leave the room

I don't know why I feel this way, I just do.

hmmmmm you don't say what kate feels about it or your reaction to seeing her doing it. from what I have gathered from the responses here it may be something that you need to agree to either do or not do..... Just my pennyworth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i love kissing ,..and couldnt do without it ,be like shaggin doll otherwise,not that i have lol..how unnatural it must feel ,its all part of the passion ,for me anyway .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This might sound a bit wierd to some, but although we love kissing during playtime, I do not like to watch Kate intimately kissing another guy.

I have to look away or leave the room

I don't know why I feel this way, I just do.

We both love kissing and will only play with couples who feel the same way, but

neither of us get turned on by watching the other engage in any sexual activity with other people. We prefer seperate room play because of this.

Before we started swinging, we both shared the fantasy of watching each other with others, but in reality it didn't quite work out that way.

We have found a way around it, and that's to play seperate rooms, if all are in favour. We do play same room too, but we both feel more "free" in different rooms

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