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By *on5050 OP Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
When I message a couple or lady and get a single or a couple of word reply's The bell rings. "Time waster" How sad are some people. There has got to be a better filter system than want we have... |
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over a year ago
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"When I message a couple or lady and get a single or a couple of word reply's The bell rings. "Time waster" How sad are some people. There has got to be a better filter system than want we have... "
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By *on5050 OP Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
One word reply "cool" "interested" I go to the trouble of a detailed message. They don't even delete the message or look at the profile. This site is full of time wasters. With a small minority of genuine people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One word reply "cool" "interested" I go to the trouble of a detailed message. They don't even delete the message or look at the profile. This site is full of time wasters. With a small minority of genuine people"
Timewasters? Maybe they just don't want to meet you but were polite to reply instead of ignoring you. |
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"One word reply "cool" "interested" I go to the trouble of a detailed message. They don't even delete the message or look at the profile. This site is full of time wasters. With a small minority of genuine people"
I don't delete messages. Doesn't make me a timewaster. You can't tell if I've looked because I'm on stealth mode. So they may have been. I've gone to the trouble and effort of having a profile pic. Some people might think those that don't bother are timewasters. Not fair to be thought a timewaster when you're not, ain't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I message a couple or lady and get a single or a couple of word reply's The bell rings. "Time waster" How sad are some people. There has got to be a better filter system than want we have... "
Ever thought that maybe you not what they are looking for and there not and might not be time wasters?  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"One word reply "cool" "interested" I go to the trouble of a detailed message. They don't even delete the message or look at the profile. This site is full of time wasters. With a small minority of genuine people"
Bet you can't tell I've just looked at your profile. I must be a timewaster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One word reply "cool" "interested" I go to the trouble of a detailed message. They don't even delete the message or look at the profile. This site is full of time wasters. With a small minority of genuine people"
I would say they are time wasters maybe just not interested in you....I does happen  |
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
Newcastle |
There are several reasons why you could well be wrong in what you say...and several threads outlining them.
People can look at profiles without you knowing
Some people like to acknowledge that they have read your message and no more...which is fair enough
They may be saving to look at everything later
They may like to wait to see if you bombard them
They may not be the sort of people who write long messages back to people, no matter how interested they are
etc etc
None of these suggest time waster...
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By *ohndelMan
over a year ago
Preston |
I am comfortable with a short , no thanks or whatever, however despite at times trying to give an interesting introduction and a little about myself, vast majority just delete, even though I only message those whose criteria I meet.
That said there are some very decent people on here, who make the effort worth while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I message a couple or lady and get a single or a couple of word reply's The bell rings. "Time waster" How sad are some people. There has got to be a better filter system than want we have... "
I see. You don't want people who aren't interested not to message you a no thanks, but those who do, waste your time by you having to read their messages. |
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"One word reply "cool" "interested" I go to the trouble of a detailed message. They don't even delete the message or look at the profile. This site is full of time wasters. With a small minority of genuine people
Timewasters? Maybe they just don't want to meet you but were polite to reply instead of ignoring you."
I do this... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand what u say !
U get a reply but it doesn't seem very enthusiastic and there answers are one word and hardly come across as them being very interested . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I message a couple or lady and get a single or a couple of word reply's The bell rings. "Time waster" How sad are some people. There has got to be a better filter system than want we have... "
Negative 'tude dude! |
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I think that the definition of a timewaster if a different to different people. Some people will brand you a timewaster if you arrange a meet and don't show up, where others will give out the label to people who want to exchange a few messages to find out more and then don't want to meet.
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By *ansingleMan
over a year ago
market Drayton |
"I think that the definition of a timewaster if a different to different people. Some people will brand you a timewaster if you arrange a meet and don't show up, where others will give out the label to people who want to exchange a few messages to find out more and then don't want to meet.
Cal"
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Perhaps you are the timewaster - sending a long message to someone who doesn't particularly want to read it and who, because they are decent people, waste their time in sending a reply that isn't even appreciated. We all have our own perspective. |
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" even though I only message those whose criteria I meet. "
And there lies your problem, because you think you meet their criteria you deserve a reply. Just because you think you do, doesn't mean you actually do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are lots of genuine people on the site,but because women are always so outnumbered by men,not that I`m complaining,you could just spend all day on here being polite and just not have a life
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I notice that there are lots of lady's defending there actions in this topic!
I think a lot of the lady's on here just use it as something to do while waiting for the washing machine to finish,mostly dreamers and fantasists! And very few genuine players.  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I notice that there are lots of lady's defending there actions in this topic!
I think a lot of the lady's on here just use it as something to do while waiting for the washing machine to finish,mostly dreamers and fantasists! And very few genuine players. "
That post isn't going to win you many female friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I notice that there are lots of lady's defending there actions in this topic!
I think a lot of the lady's on here just use it as something to do while waiting for the washing machine to finish,mostly dreamers and fantasists! And very few genuine players.
That post isn't going to win you many female friends. "
Just because women aren't battering down your door doesnt make us dreamers or fantasists. Perhaps they just don't want to meet you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I notice that there are lots of lady's defending there actions in this topic!
I think a lot of the lady's on here just use it as something to do while waiting for the washing machine to finish,mostly dreamers and fantasists! And very few genuine players.
That post isn't going to win you many female friends. "
Perhaps not but it's the truth. |
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I really hate it when the guys that I've decided to get to know and want to meet, repeatedly cancel on me at the last minute.
I keep falling into the same cycle of giving them another chance too.
STUPID WOMAN! Can't see past their gorgeousness 
Now that's a timewaster. Why bother getting to know someone for a couple of weeks when you're not going to meet them?  |
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By *ansingleMan
over a year ago
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"I notice that there are lots of lady's defending there actions in this topic!
I think a lot of the lady's on here just use it as something to do while waiting for the washing machine to finish,mostly dreamers and fantasists! And very few genuine players.
That post isn't going to win you many female friends.
Perhaps not but it's the truth."
W*#!€r !!!!!
And yes that's from a woman who's sick of you guys just pretending to be couples so you can pull one off over our pics, then when our husbands message you , amazingly it turns out that you are all talk and just another w*#@€r |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"When I message a couple or lady and get a single or a couple of word reply's The bell rings. "Time waster" How sad are some people. There has got to be a better filter system than want we have... "
If you are obviously able to see who you think is a timewaster by the content of a reply? What better filter system do you need? 
Seems you have the perfect one (for you) already.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I notice that there are lots of lady's defending there actions in this topic!
I think a lot of the lady's on here just use it as something to do while waiting for the washing machine to finish,mostly dreamers and fantasists! And very few genuine players. "
Nonsense!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I message a couple or lady and get a single or a couple of word reply's The bell rings. "Time waster" How sad are some people. There has got to be a better filter system than want we have... "
Its not looking good son! ha....some threads need more thought but good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely by sending mails to people, who then feel they have to reply, means they're wasting their time on you.
Making You the time waster?
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Classic case of female logic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One word reply "cool" "interested" I go to the trouble of a detailed message. They don't even delete the message or look at the profile. This site is full of time wasters. With a small minority of genuine people
Timewasters? Maybe they just don't want to meet you but were polite to reply instead of ignoring you."
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