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over a year ago
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"I really fancy having a night with a shemale, like one with boobs and a dick, anyone no what's it's like, never done anything like this before at all"
Ye man, it's fucking great, if that's your thing.
Just do it...... |
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"I should imagine it's like any sexual encounter with someone you are attracted to, damn fantastic if it all works out well 
And I don't see why being straight should stop you meeting them."
No it shouldn't make any difference .... straight , curious or whatever . There are some narrow minded people out there who wouldn't meet you if you put bi curious on your profile .
It is incredibly hot visually .... love it  |
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"I should imagine it's like any sexual encounter with someone you are attracted to, damn fantastic if it all works out well
And I don't see why being straight should stop you meeting them."
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"I really fancy having a night with a shemale, like one with boobs and a dick, anyone no what's it's like, never done anything like this before at all"
Well you would have to change your profile from straight (lol, yeah right) to bi... |
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The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people  |
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"I should imagine it's like any sexual encounter with someone you are attracted to, damn fantastic if it all works out well
And I don't see why being straight should stop you meeting them.
No it shouldn't make any difference .... straight , curious or whatever . There are some narrow minded people out there who wouldn't meet you if you put bi curious on your profile .
It is incredibly hot visually .... love it "
I wouldn't say I'm narrow minded at all because I don't want to meet bi/bi curious guys. It's my preference. |
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I know what you mean about labels however if I appreciate people being honest about their sexual orientation. If I meet someone who is straight I'd prefer it if they didn't actually suck cock. |
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"I know what you mean about labels however if I appreciate people being honest about their sexual orientation. If I meet someone who is straight I'd prefer it if they didn't actually suck cock. "
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really fancy having a night with a shemale, like one with boobs and a dick, anyone no what's it's like, never done anything like this before at all"
Ah I so want to fuck a ts..I have one in mind..yummmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people "
I fucking hate labels! |
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people "
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^ "
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"I know what you mean about labels however if I appreciate people being honest about their sexual orientation. If I meet someone who is straight I'd prefer it if they didn't actually suck cock. "
Some of us prefer it if they do |
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"I know what you mean about labels however if I appreciate people being honest about their sexual orientation. If I meet someone who is straight I'd prefer it if they didn't actually suck cock.
Some of us prefer it if they do "
And it makes no difference whatsoever to some of us....I don't have a cock for them to suck so there's no difference to me. So long as they've brushed their teeth since last sucking |
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"I know what you mean about labels however if I appreciate people being honest about their sexual orientation. If I meet someone who is straight I'd prefer it if they didn't actually suck cock.
Some of us prefer it if they do "
Down to personal preferences which is what makes life so interesting. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^
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Labels are the only way we know what we are getting. It isn't an obsession it's a necessity, and honesty. Nothing at all wrong with the OP wanting to try a She male - the best of luck to him- but others that might want to meet him and haven't seen this thread need to know he isn't what he is advertising himself as - ie straight. Just like a short fat ugly man advertising himself as tall slim and handsome it's basically dishonest. |
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^
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Absolutely this... I'm continually surprised at the narrow minededness of this supposedly open minded group of individuals. Flesh is flesh, all there for the mutual pleasure of those involved. |
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I hate labels too im bi but not into sucking cock just like the company of all genders and orientations. All fun always safe . As far as transexual women go some like there penises played with and some prefer not to let you touch them down there so be aware of there preferences before you meet and you both will have a great time. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^
Absolutely this... I'm continually surprised at the narrow minededness of this supposedly open minded group of individuals. Flesh is flesh, all there for the mutual pleasure of those involved. "
Many people on Fab are open minded regarding their own sex lives, and very little else.
Fortunately there are also lots of lovely open minded people on here too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^
Labels are the only way we know what we are getting. It isn't an obsession it's a necessity, and honesty. Nothing at all wrong with the OP wanting to try a She male - the best of luck to him- but others that might want to meet him and haven't seen this thread need to know he isn't what he is advertising himself as - ie straight. Just like a short fat ugly man advertising himself as tall slim and handsome it's basically dishonest."
If I have had sex with a woman, but prefer men and am now seeking only men, shouldn't I refer to myself as straight? Because I have, and I enjoyed it, but I'm straight.
I agree labels can help with the decision making process but they are also extremely subjective. Going by your example, ok tall is fairly objective but who decides what handsome is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people "
Well said.
Far too many sanctimonious gits here.
Just go for it and have fun. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^
Absolutely this... I'm continually surprised at the narrow minededness of this supposedly open minded group of individuals. Flesh is flesh, all there for the mutual pleasure of those involved.
Many people on Fab are open minded regarding their own sex lives, and very little else.
Fortunately there are also lots of lovely open minded people on here too. "
This has nothing to do with open mindedness - it has to do with honesty and openness. Most people on fab are not the slightest bit concerned about other people's sexual predilections - variety is what makes the site interesting. What they do want, however, is people to describe themselves honestly. There is precious little information in the profiles to help decide on suitable playmates. What is there should be honest and accurate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Labels are the only way we know what we are getting. It isn't an obsession it's a necessity, and honesty. Nothing at all wrong with the OP wanting to try a She male - the best of luck to him- but others that might want to meet him and haven't seen this thread need to know he isn't what he is advertising himself as - ie straight. Just like a short fat ugly man advertising himself as tall slim and handsome it's basically dishonest."
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I dont care what people do or who they meet, I just don't want to knowingly meeting/bi curious men because it does nothing for me,in fact, it's a major turn off. That doesn't make me closed minded or ssanctimonious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really fancy having a night with a shemale, like one with boobs and a dick, anyone no what's it's like, never done anything like this before at all
Ah I so want to fuck a ts..I have one in mind..yummmmm"
Who ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^
Labels are the only way we know what we are getting. It isn't an obsession it's a necessity, and honesty. Nothing at all wrong with the OP wanting to try a She male - the best of luck to him- but others that might want to meet him and haven't seen this thread need to know he isn't what he is advertising himself as - ie straight. Just like a short fat ugly man advertising himself as tall slim and handsome it's basically dishonest."
How is it dishonest? ??
He is straight?
If he doesn't fancy men and wouldn't date one or indeed duck one he us straight
He is curious as to what it would be like to fuck a ts girl...These do not look like men...therefor he is not fancying a man
Jeez you are narrow minded |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont care what people do or who they meet, I just don't want to knowingly meeting/bi curious men because it does nothing for me,in fact, it's a major turn off. That doesn't make me closed minded or ssanctimonious."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^
Absolutely this... I'm continually surprised at the narrow minededness of this supposedly open minded group of individuals. Flesh is flesh, all there for the mutual pleasure of those involved.
Many people on Fab are open minded regarding their own sex lives, and very little else.
Fortunately there are also lots of lovely open minded people on here too.
This has nothing to do with open mindedness - it has to do with honesty and openness. Most people on fab are not the slightest bit concerned about other people's sexual predilections - variety is what makes the site interesting. What they do want, however, is people to describe themselves honestly. There is precious little information in the profiles to help decide on suitable playmates. What is there should be honest and accurate."
It's not asking much is it. It just helps people decide if they want to meet. Hardly sanctimonious. Just asking for a bit of clarification. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people
This!!! ^^^^^^^^^^
Labels are the only way we know what we are getting. It isn't an obsession it's a necessity, and honesty. Nothing at all wrong with the OP wanting to try a She male - the best of luck to him- but others that might want to meet him and haven't seen this thread need to know he isn't what he is advertising himself as - ie straight. Just like a short fat ugly man advertising himself as tall slim and handsome it's basically dishonest.
How is it dishonest? ??
He is straight?
If he doesn't fancy men and wouldn't date one or indeed duck one he us straight
He is curious as to what it would be like to fuck a ts girl...These do not look like men...therefor he is not fancying a man
Jeez you are narrow minded "
A ts girl doesn't have a cock. A Shemale does. How many times do we have to say that it is no concern what he does. It's how he advertises himself that concerns us. |
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Wanting to put labels on people/others is a sign of insecurity about one's OWN identity so to all the sanctimonious ones - look at yourself and think about whether you should even be labelling YOURself. Why is it similar sites to this one abroad (have been on 4 non-UK ones) have forums where this labelling is never mentioned and this does not mean people are being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wanting to put labels on people/others is a sign of insecurity about one's OWN identity so to all the sanctimonious ones - look at yourself and think about whether you should even be labelling YOURself. Why is it similar sites to this one abroad (have been on 4 non-UK ones) have forums where this labelling is never mentioned and this does not mean people are being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet. "
If you are so secure why are you resorting to insults. I couldn't care less about what other people do but if I want to meet someone I'd prefer them to be honest. Not a lot to ask. I prefer straight men. That is all. Not being sanctimonious. Seems to be the word of the day on here, other words are available. People are free to do as they wish no-one disputes that. Just having a preference is not sanctimonious. Some people just prefer straight men. Ffs |
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"Wanting to put labels on people/others is a sign of insecurity about one's OWN identity so to all the sanctimonious ones - look at yourself and think about whether you should even be labelling YOURself. Why is it similar sites to this one abroad (have been on 4 non-UK ones) have forums where this labelling is never mentioned and this does not mean people are being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet.
If you are so secure why are you resorting to insults. I couldn't care less about what other people do but if I want to meet someone I'd prefer them to be honest. Not a lot to ask. I prefer straight men. That is all. Not being sanctimonious. Seems to be the word of the day on here, other words are available. People are free to do as they wish no-one disputes that. Just having a preference is not sanctimonious. Some people just prefer straight men. Ffs "
How on EARTH do YOU (of all people) KNOW they are straight?????? |
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"Wanting to put labels on people/others is a sign of insecurity about one's OWN identity so to all the sanctimonious ones - look at yourself and think about whether you should even be labelling YOURself. Why is it similar sites to this one abroad (have been on 4 non-UK ones) have forums where this labelling ips never mentioned and this does not mean people are being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet.
If you are so secure why are you resorting to insults. I couldn't care less about what other people do but if I want to meet someone I'd prefer them to be honest. Not a lot to ask. I prefer straight men. That is all. Not being sanctimonious. Seems to be the word of the day on here, other words are available. People are free to do as they wish no-one disputes that. Just having a preference is not sanctimonious. Some people just prefer straight men. Ffs
How on EARTH do YOU (of all people) KNOW they are straight??????"
Hahaha caps lock much. I don't I just hope they are honest about their orientation and if I thought they were bisexual I wouldn't meet them. That's what we're saying we all have preferences and I just prefer honesty and straight men. Nothing sanctimonious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I feel like this thread has run away with itself a bit, the dude just said he's wondered what it's like and watched a bit of porn, having never done anything like it before.
If watching porn and wondering about something is what means you should be putting 'bisexual' on your profile, no wonder so many men are afraid of catching the ghey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good luck to the OP hope you find a good looking friendly TV for fun and games
No judgment from me just agreeing with others that it's easier if people state their honest sexual orientation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Also op, if and when you do find one, if her "dick" is something you are interested in, be sure to clear that up before your meet. A lot of tgirls don't like their thing played with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people "
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are some stunning TS/ TV girls on here!
I don't blame the OP for wandering what it would be like!
But don't tell the thought police they might not know what label to give you
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are some stunning TS/ TV girls on here!
I don't blame the OP for wandering what it would be like!
But don't tell the thought police they might not know what label to give you
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Exactly this , why should he be given a label ?
So some don't want to play with bi guys , and think if they don't say they are then they are being dishonest by not saying so .
But I seriously question how playing with a she male makes him bi . It's not the thought or doing a guy , it's a gorgeous sexual person .
If a guy came on to him , would he be aroused ?
Would he come on to a guy ?
Lighten up fabsters , it doesn't make him bi at all ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are some stunning TS/ TV girls on here!
I don't blame the OP for wandering what it would be like!
But don't tell the thought police they might not know what label to give you
Exactly this , why should he be given a label ?
So some don't want to play with bi guys , and think if they don't say they are then they are being dishonest by not saying so .
But I seriously question how playing with a she male makes him bi . It's not the thought or doing a guy , it's a gorgeous sexual person .
If a guy came on to him , would he be aroused ?
Would he come on to a guy ?
Lighten up fabsters , it doesn't make him bi at all !"
Yes I suppose when you look at it like that. A TS is different I agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree that we all want to know what we are getting when organising a meet - but how can you know someone from a profile a few words on a page and a few chats on the phone/ cam?
How do we know that the people we meet are being honest with us - I like to think that they are - but how can we actually know?
I've decided that I'm just interested in whether they are into me at the time they are with me!
I'm going to try and not get hung up on their sexual history!
Because lets face it most of us here have a lets say... ahem.... colourful one
Enjoy it, meet who you want to meet and who gives a fuck what their preferences are |
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"I like shemale porn to. Tecknically ur still straight as its a woman with just a dick.
Or a bloke with tits."
how come as she is genetically a woman and not a man? lol. |
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Is a 'bicurious' woman that's had sex several times with a woman 'dishonest'?
Are there degrees of how 'straight' somebody is?
I can understand somebody being disappointed if somebody they fancy turns out to have an incompatible sexuality. But writing somebody off purely on how somebody identifies with a narrow set of labels seems a bit narrow minded.
In answer to the original question, I haven't a clue sorry but Elle occasionally straps a penis on and it's always fun
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"I really fancy having a night with a shemale, like one with boobs and a dick, anyone no what's it's like, never done anything like this before at all
Well you would have to change your profile from straight (lol, yeah right) to bi..."
No he wouldn't a lot of TS on here only meet straight guys and don't want bi guys.
To them they've gone through a lot of effort transitioning and they don't like being with a guy who also sleeps with men.
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"I know what you mean about labels however if I appreciate people being honest about their sexual orientation. If I meet someone who is straight I'd prefer it if they didn't actually suck cock. "
What about strapon cock?
That gay as with one of them strapless strapon the woman is basically a pre op ts. ... |
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Ok let me put it this way, she is genetically a woman, with just surgically added a penis, you can never be bisexual as she was born a woman, hope that clears it up, not sure why some here get it to be a man lol. |
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"Is a 'bicurious' woman that's had sex several times with a woman 'dishonest'?
Are there degrees of how 'straight' somebody is?
I can understand somebody being disappointed if somebody they fancy turns out to have an incompatible sexuality. But writing somebody off purely on how somebody identifies with a narrow set of labels seems a bit narrow minded.
In answer to the original question, I haven't a clue sorry but Elle occasionally straps a penis on and it's always fun
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Funnily enough it never seems to be a woman's honesty about their sexuality being called into question. |
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"Is a 'bicurious' woman that's had sex several times with a woman 'dishonest'?
Are there degrees of how 'straight' somebody is?
I can understand somebody being disappointed if somebody they fancy turns out to have an incompatible sexuality. But writing somebody off purely on how somebody identifies with a narrow set of labels seems a bit narrow minded.
In answer to the original question, I haven't a clue sorry but Elle occasionally straps a penis on and it's always fun
Funnily enough it never seems to be a woman's honesty about their sexuality being called into question."
Because they're a rare commodity so even the other women are desperate for them and so are willing "overlook" any dishonest |
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"Ok let me put it this way, she is genetically a woman, with just surgically added a penis, you can never be bisexual as she was born a woman, hope that clears it up, not sure why some here get it to be a man lol."
So does she have periods, will she go through the change, will she have a 1 in 7 chance of contracting Breast cancer.?
the list goes on - sorry to shatter your illusion but it will never be a real woman just a surgically enhanced guy. |
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"Is a 'bicurious' woman that's had sex several times with a woman 'dishonest'?
Are there degrees of how 'straight' somebody is?
I can understand somebody being disappointed if somebody they fancy turns out to have an incompatible sexuality. But writing somebody off purely on how somebody identifies with a narrow set of labels seems a bit narrow minded.
In answer to the original question, I haven't a clue sorry but Elle occasionally straps a penis on and it's always fun
Funnily enough it never seems to be a woman's honesty about their sexuality being called into question.
Because they're a rare commodity so even the other women are desperate for them and so are willing "overlook" any dishonest"
I was thinking more that men generally find the idea of a woman and another woman appealing, whereas there are a lot of women who seem repulsed by the idea of two men having sex. |
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"Ok let me put it this way, she is genetically a woman, with just surgically added a penis, you can never be bisexual as she was born a woman, hope that clears it up, not sure why some here get it to be a man lol.
So does she have periods, will she go through the change, will she have a 1 in 7 chance of contracting Breast cancer.?
the list goes on - sorry to shatter your illusion but it will never be a real woman just a surgically enhanced guy."
I know the list is long but she will still be originally a woman if if going thru the sex change. |
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"Ok let me put it this way, she is genetically a woman, with just surgically added a penis, you can never be bisexual as she was born a woman, hope that clears it up, not sure why some here get it to be a man lol.
So does she have periods, will she go through the change, will she have a 1 in 7 chance of contracting Breast cancer.?
the list goes on - sorry to shatter your illusion but it will never be a real woman just a surgically enhanced guy.I know the list is long but she will still be originally a woman if if going thru the sex change."
ok then I'm going to declare right here I must be and am a woman.
I been told i look like one and I have a 4 octave singing voice higher then most women so I must really be a woman.  |
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"Funnily enough it never seems to be a woman's honesty about their sexuality being called into question."
Exactly. I'm not against labels - they can be useful, but I can't see the point in ridiculing somebody for how they choose to describe their sexuality within the limitations of gay/bit/straight/curious when it's obviously far more complex than that.
Besides I don't think people were interested in any of that anyway, it's just an excuse to throw in sneery comments.
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"Ok let me put it this way, she is genetically a woman, with just surgically added a penis, you can never be bisexual as she was born a woman, hope that clears it up, not sure why some here get it to be a man lol.
So does she have periods, will she go through the change, will she have a 1 in 7 chance of contracting Breast cancer.?
the list goes on - sorry to shatter your illusion but it will never be a real woman just a surgically enhanced guy.I know the list is long but she will still be originally a woman if if going thru the sex change.
ok then I'm going to declare right here I must be and am a woman.
I been told i look like one and I have a 4 octave singing voice higher then most women so I must really be a woman. "
Dare you to get the note from the doctor and change your birth certificate and passport then :p |
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"To clarify I am straight !!! Just fancy shagging one , have no interest in sucking or getting my arse fucked lol"
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"To clarify I am straight !!! Just fancy shagging one , have no interest in sucking or getting my arse fucked lol"
Then why not just stick to a women they can give you more plus their real.
Just saying. |
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people "
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"Funnily enough it never seems to be a woman's honesty about their sexuality being called into question.
Exactly. I'm not against labels - they can be useful, but I can't see the point in ridiculing somebody for how they choose to describe their sexuality within the limitations of gay/bit/straight/curious when it's obviously far more complex than that.
Besides I don't think people were interested in any of that anyway, it's just an excuse to throw in sneery comments.
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"To clarify I am straight !!! Just fancy shagging one , have no interest in sucking or getting my arse fucked lol"
Message some most of them are perfectly friendly, check profiles though as some won't meet a "first timer" but many will and enjoy it.
Be honest talk to them as a human being not simply a fetish and you'll do well.
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"This site is full of guys in the closet.
That must be one hell of an orgy   "
lol Alan but at least you have the guts to be honest about yourself.
Even if I do make you a bit tongue tied on a one to one. x |
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being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet.
If you are so secure why are you resorting to insults. I couldn't care less about what other people do but if I want to meet someone I'd prefer them to be honest. Not a lot to ask. I prefer straight men. That is all. Not being sanctimonious. Seems to be the word of the day on here, other words are available. People are free to do as they wish no-one disputes that. Just having a preference is not sanctimonious. Some people just prefer straight men. Ffs
How on EARTH do YOU (of all people) KNOW they are straight??????
Hahaha caps lock much. I don't I just hope they are honest about their orientation and if I thought they were bisexual I wouldn't meet them. That's what we're saying we all have preferences and I just prefer honesty and straight men. Nothing sanctimonious. "
Totally sanctimonious of some people to label and expect others to label themselves for people like you. Bottom line is you will never know who is straight and who is not. Another thing just looking at the verifications on some of the posters here, well I can tell ya I've had many of your straights cocked guys up my bum. Maybe you'll understand now ? |
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"Wanting to put labels on people/others is a sign of insecurity about one's OWN identity so to all the sanctimonious ones - look at yourself and think about whether you should even be labelling YOURself. Why is it similar sites to this one abroad (have been on 4 non-UK ones) have forums where this laholidaybelling ips never mentioned and this does not mean people are
being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet.
If you are so secure why are you resorting to insults. I couldn't care less about what other people do but if I want to meet someone I'd prefer them to be honest. Not a lot to ask. I prefer straight men. That is all. Not being sanctimonious. Seems to be the word of the day on here, other words are available. People are free to do as they wish no-one disputes that. Just having a preference is not sanctimonious. Some people just prefer straight men. Ffs
How on EARTH do YOU (of all people) KNOW they are straight??????
Hahaha caps lock much. I don't I just hope they are honest about their orientation and if I thought they were bisexual I wouldn't meet them. That's what we're saying we all have preferences and I just prefer honesty and straight men. Nothing sanctimonious.
Totally sanctimonious of some people to label and expect others to label themselves for people like you. Bottom line is you will never know who is straight and who is not. Another thing just looking at the verifications on some of the posters here, well I can tell ya I've had many of your straights cocked guys up my bum. Maybe you'll understand now ?"
Really? Good job I always use condoms |
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"The guy asked what it was like, not what everyone else thinks he should do with his profile in order to meet someone who can fulfill his fantasy!
Seriously this place can be so obsessed with sticking labels on people "
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"Wanting to put labels on people/others is a sign of insecurity about one's OWN identity so to all the sanctimonious ones - look at yourself and think about whether you should even be labelling YOURself. Why is it similar sites to this one abroad (have been on 4 non-UK ones) have forums where this laholidaybelling ips never mentioned and this does not mean people are
being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet.
If you are so secure why are you resorting to insults. I couldn't care less about what other people do but if I want to meet someone I'd prefer them to be honest. Not a lot to ask. I prefer straight men. That is all. Not being sanctimonious. Seems to be the word of the day on here, other words are available. People are free to do as they wish no-one disputes that. Just having a preference is not sanctimonious. Some people just prefer straight men. Ffs
How on EARTH do YOU (of all people) KNOW they are straight??????
Hahaha caps lock much. I don't I just hope they are honest about their orientation and if I thought they were bisexual I wouldn't meet them. That's what we're saying we all have preferences and I just prefer honesty and straight men. Nothing sanctimonious.
Totally sanctimonious of some people to label and expect others to label themselves for people like you. Bottom line is you will never know who is straight and who is not. Another thing just looking at the verifications on some of the posters here, well I can tell ya I've had many of your straights cocked guys up my bum. Maybe you'll understand now ?"
A man who sticks his cock up another mans Arsehole is not straight.
It's people like you and your PC nonsense that give real straight guys on here a bad name and probably pester them. |
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"Wanting to put labels on people/others is a sign of insecurity about one's OWN identity so to all the sanctimonious ones - look at yourself and think about whether you should even be labelling YOURself. Why is it similar sites to this one abroad (have been on 4 non-UK ones) have forums where this laholidaybelling ips never mentioned and this does not mean people are
being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet.
If you are so secure why are you resorting to insults. I couldn't care less about what other people do but if I want to meet someone I'd prefer them to be honest. Not a lot to ask. I prefer straight men. That is all. Not being sanctimonious. Seems to be the word of the day on here, other words are available. People are free to do as they wish no-one disputes that. Just having a preference is not sanctimonious. Some people just prefer straight men. Ffs
How on EARTH do YOU (of all people) KNOW they are straight??????
Hahaha caps lock much. I don't I just hope they are honest about their orientation and if I thought they were bisexual I wouldn't meet them. That's what we're saying we all have preferences and I just prefer honesty and straight men. Nothing sanctimonious.
Totally sanctimonious of some people to label and expect others to label themselves for people like you. Bottom line is you will never know who is straight and who is not. Another thing just looking at the verifications on some of the posters here, well I can tell ya I've had many of your straights cocked guys up my bum. Maybe you'll understand now ?"
Sanctimonious - really. If you bought a bottle of scotch because it said scotch in the label but it turned out to be water you would be pretty pissed off if the shopkeeper called you sanctimonious for complaining. And - by the way- sanctimonious is a label plenty of people seem happy to throw about.
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"Wanting to put labels on people/others is a sign of insecurity about one's OWN identity so to all the sanctimonious ones - look at yourself and think about whether you should even be labelling YOURself. Why is it similar sites to this one abroad (have been on 4 non-UK ones) have forums where this laholidaybelling ips never mentioned and this does not mean people are
being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet.
If you are so secure why are you resorting to insults. I couldn't care less about what other people do but if I want to meet someone I'd prefer them to be honest. Not a lot to ask. I prefer straight men. That is all. Not being sanctimonious. Seems to be the word of the day on here, other words are available. People are free to do as they wish no-one disputes that. Just having a preference is not sanctimonious. Some people just prefer straight men. Ffs
How on EARTH do YOU (of all people) KNOW they are straight??????
Hahaha caps lock much. I don't I just hope they are honest about their orientation and if I thought they were bisexual I wouldn't meet them. That's what we're saying we all have preferences and I just prefer honesty and straight men. Nothing sanctimonious.
Totally sanctimonious of some people to label and expect others to label themselves for people like you. Bottom line is you will never know who is straight and who is not. Another thing just looking at the verifications on some of the posters here, well I can tell ya I've had many of your straights cocked guys up my bum. Maybe you'll understand now ?
Sanctimonious - really. If you bought a bottle of scotch because it said scotch in the label but it turned out to be water you would be pretty pissed off if the shopkeeper called you sanctimonious for complaining. And - by the way- sanctimonious is a label plenty of people seem happy to throw about.
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Surely it's more like asking for a bottle of and being given a bottle of something that you can't tell the difference from unless you were told?
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"Wanting to put labels on people/others is a sign of insecurity about one's OWN identity so to all the sanctimonious ones - look at yourself and think about whether you should even be labelling YOURself. Why is it similar sites to this one abroad (have been on 4 non-UK ones) have forums where this laholidaybelling ips never mentioned and this does not mean people are
being dishonest. To the sanctimonious ones : If he wants to say he is straight today and bi tomorrow or whatever then just LET him be. What's wrong with you? Methinks you are being rather insecure. Ladies (married or with male partners): the number of guys who say straight and come visit me is nobody's business so get OFF your high horses - it has NOTHING to do with honesty; it has to do with how scared YOU are of not being what you have always thought you have been. You love the status quo but it s all in the head dearies so stay ignorant if you so wish; I wish the OP all the best whoever he wishes to meet or not meet.
If you are so secure why are you resorting to insults. I couldn't care less about what other people do but if I want to meet someone I'd prefer them to be honest. Not a lot to ask. I prefer straight men. That is all. Not being sanctimonious. Seems to be the word of the day on here, other words are available. People are free to do as they wish no-one disputes that. Just having a preference is not sanctimonious. Some people just prefer straight men. Ffs
How on EARTH do YOU (of all people) KNOW they are straight??????
Hahaha caps lock much. I don't I just hope they are honest about their orientation and if I thought they were bisexual I wouldn't meet them. That's what we're saying we all have preferences and I just prefer honesty and straight men. Nothing sanctimonious.
Totally sanctimonious of some people to label and expect others to label themselves for people like you. Bottom line is you will never know who is straight and who is not. Another thing just looking at the verifications on some of the posters here, well I can tell ya I've had many of your straights cocked guys up my bum. Maybe you'll understand now ?
Sanctimonious - really. If you bought a bottle of scotch because it said scotch in the label but it turned out to be water you would be pretty pissed off if the shopkeeper called you sanctimonious for complaining. And - by the way- sanctimonious is a label plenty of people seem happy to throw about.
Surely it's more like asking for a bottle of and being given a bottle of something that you can't tell the difference from unless you were told?
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I'm still trying to figure out how making you bi changes how you connect in the bedroom with the opposite sex??
Oh and 'sex' isn't dictated by body parts. It's about self identification with a gender. I know plenty of people who are legally recognised as male or female that don't have all the corresponding genitalia. Thank god Britain is a forward thinking country (even if all its residents aren't) |
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I'm still trying to figure out how making you bi changes how you connect in the bedroom with the opposite sex??
Oh and 'sex' isn't dictated by body parts. It's about self identification with a gender. I know plenty of people who are legally recognised as male or female that don't have all the corresponding genitalia. Thank god Britain is a forward thinking country (even if all its residents aren't) "
For me, this is why I couldn't care either way, I'm not 'put off' or attracted to bi men any more than straight men. I can absolutely see how it would change the dynamic in a MMF or group situation, but for a one on one meet, there is no impact on how they behave with me. It makes no difference to the sex.
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Surely if you find someone attractive and they find you attractive and you meet up & get along why do you really care what they've done before? Everyone has a sexual history of some kind why worry what genitals any of their previous partners had. The only time I'd worry is if they're about to give me herpes. |
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I think it only upsets the dynamic if you have issues yourself. I try to avoid having a penis close to my face but when it's happened it hasn't made me question my sexuality, or made me wince, or discover a desire to have a nibble.
I've no idea how many of the men we've played with have played with men in the past because I've never been interested.
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Sure - and you would never complain if someone turned out to be quite different to what they claimed on their profile? When did dishonesty become a virtue? |
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"The label police are never far away and always on duty.
Sure - and you would never complain if someone turned out to be quite different to what they claimed on their profile? When did dishonesty become a virtue?"
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"The label police are never far away and always on duty.
Sure - and you would never complain if someone turned out to be quite different to what they claimed on their profile? When did dishonesty become a virtue?"
I think the point some are making is there is no difference in the way a bi or bi-curious man will behave one on one with a woman than a straight man. So there is no difference to manifest itself.
And in the context of this thread, it's all about a man who has wondered about something.
How about a man who has been bi-curious, tried it but decided it wasn't for him? Should he forever state bi-curious because he was at one point? I think the point is sexuality can be fluid and can change over time so telling others how they should or should not classify themselves is not something I'd choose to do.
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"The label police are never far away and always on duty.That's right and as you explain they will never agree either lol."
....yet your profile is jam - packed full of labels. You clearly don't object to labeling yourself. That's all that some of us are asking others to do. This is a shop window and we just want to know what's on display. No judgement is implied - just let us see what's in the tin. |
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"The label police are never far away and always on duty.That's right and as you explain they will never agree either lol.
....yet your profile is jam - packed full of labels. You clearly don't object to labeling yourself. That's all that some of us are asking others to do. This is a shop window and we just want to know what's on display. No judgement is implied - just let us see what's in the tin."
So what am I labelling here then? All I meant was that cos I recon its not bi as the woman is born genetically as a woman some don't agree, that is what I meant. |
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You're not asking to know what's in the tin - it's just the same as the other tin. You're asking him to label it differently so that you don't feel ashamed to take it off the shelf - or not.
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"You're not asking to know what's in the tin - it's just the same as the other tin. You're asking him to label it differently so that you don't feel ashamed to take it off the shelf - or not.
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"The label police are never far away and always on duty.
Sure - and you would never complain if someone turned out to be quite different to what they claimed on their profile? When did dishonesty become a virtue?
I think the point some are making is there is no difference in the way a bi or bi-curious man will behave one on one with a woman than a straight man. So there is no difference to manifest itself.
And in the context of this thread, it's all about a man who has wondered about something.
How about a man who has been bi-curious, tried it but decided it wasn't for him? Should he forever state bi-curious because he was at one point? I think the point is sexuality can be fluid and can change over time so telling others how they should or should not classify themselves is not something I'd choose to do.
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