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"Please do not ask us to send face pictures - it just isn't our thing."
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Just been looked at by a couple, bonny pics but....... in the profile is this line. Please do not ask us to send face pictures - it just isn't our thing.
How please panel can we make any decision with no face pics?
Are we daft? Or are???
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over a year ago
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"Just been looked at by a couple, bonny pics but....... in the profile is this line. Please do not ask us to send face pictures - it just isn't our thing.
How please panel can we make any decision with no face pics?
Are we daft? Or are???
L2"
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"Just been looked at by a couple, bonny pics but....... in the profile is this line. Please do not ask us to send face pictures - it just isn't our thing.
How please panel can we make any decision with no face pics?
Are we daft? Or are???
L2"
For us the decision would be very easy |
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"Just been looked at by a couple, bonny pics but....... in the profile is this line. Please do not ask us to send face pictures - it just isn't our thing.
How please panel can we make any decision with no face pics?
Are we daft? Or are???
L2"
Perhaps they have a social meet and go from there. I've seen a few profiles where people say they won't send face pics.
There's a couple on here this week having a nightmare with an ex threatening to 'out' them as swingers to their friends and family. So no, the couple you speak of aren't daft at all. Perhaps just careful. |
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"Just been looked at by a couple, bonny pics but....... in the profile is this line. Please do not ask us to send face pictures - it just isn't our thing.
How please panel can we make any decision with no face pics?
Are we daft? Or are???
L2
Perhaps they have a social meet and go from there. I've seen a few profiles where people say they won't send face pics.
There's a couple on here this week having a nightmare with an ex threatening to 'out' them as swingers to their friends and family. So no, the couple you speak of aren't daft at all. Perhaps just careful."
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"Just been looked at by a couple, bonny pics but....... in the profile is this line. Please do not ask us to send face pictures - it just isn't our thing.
How please panel can we make any decision with no face pics?
Are we daft? Or are???
L2
Perhaps they have a social meet and go from there. I've seen a few profiles where people say they won't send face pics.
There's a couple on here this week having a nightmare with an ex threatening to 'out' them as swingers to their friends and family. So no, the couple you speak of aren't daft at all. Perhaps just careful."
This we prefer a social meet first we maybe butt ugly to some but they maybe the same to us |
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We don't send face pics and no we don't ask or demand any in return. This is just our preference as we find a quick chat on cam or a social meet to be a far better way. Anyone can send a pic but who's to say it's not outdated or of somebody else.....We also realise that alot of people are not happy with this so understand when they say "thanks but no thanks" |
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"Just been looked at by a couple, bonny pics but....... in the profile is this line. Please do not ask us to send face pictures - it just isn't our thing.
How please panel can we make any decision with no face pics?
Are we daft? Or are???
L2
For us the decision would be very easy "
Same here. Blind date this is not |
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One way of doing it is a social meet first, though we really don't get much time to play. So we are reluctant to go to a meet just to see if we maybe find both people in a couple attractive enough to want to play.
A fully clothed face pic (which we don't think is to much to ask) or Skype before any meet always gives us a better idea if we may want to play with a couple before we get to any meet.
We don't do blind dates, not our thing.
But each to their own. If it floats their boat then cool, glad they are having their fun too. |
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"Just been looked at by a couple, bonny pics but....... in the profile is this line. Please do not ask us to send face pictures - it just isn't our thing.
How please panel can we make any decision with no face pics?
Are we daft? Or are???
L2
Perhaps they have a social meet and go from there. I've seen a few profiles where people say they won't send face pics.
There's a couple on here this week having a nightmare with an ex threatening to 'out' them as swingers to their friends and family. So no, the couple you speak of aren't daft at all. Perhaps just careful."
And regular tales of people losing their jobs over it.
So yes, this is us too. Always happy for a chat and a giggle over a drink or two first, and I can provide a variety of paper bags, wigs and Groucho masks to cover my head if necessary, but no-one will get a pic of our faces with 'Fabswingers' emblazoned across it. People who can't understand that probably wouldn't be our cup of tea anyway.
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Anyone who sees your pic on here is also on fab.... err they are as vvulnerable as you.
usually refusal due to a vital job.... or violent ex ( I have both by the way) is just an excuse.
I personally would avoid anyone who isn't prepared to be honest and open. After all arrange a meet and their neighbours might be in the pub and so they won't turn up to avoid that... or the barman might realise they met a different couple before. etc etc
or more likely the wife/ husband may see them lol |
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"Anyone who sees your pic on here is also on fab.... err they are as vvulnerable as you.
usually refusal due to a vital job.... or violent ex ( I have both by the way) is just an excuse.
I personally would avoid anyone who isn't prepared to be honest and open. After all arrange a meet and their neighbours might be in the pub and so they won't turn up to avoid that... or the barman might realise they met a different couple before. etc etc
or more likely the wife/ husband may see them lol"
Sorry, is that meant to be to me? I can't see anyone who has used the term 'vulnerable' so not sure whether you and the couple above are questioning our preferences, and accusing us of not being married to each other, or addressing your comments to someone else? |
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"Anyone who sees your pic on here is also on fab.... err they are as vvulnerable as you.
usually refusal due to a vital job.... or violent ex ( I have both by the way) is just an excuse.
I personally would avoid anyone who isn't prepared to be honest and open. After all arrange a meet and their neighbours might be in the pub and so they won't turn up to avoid that... or the barman might realise they met a different couple before. etc etc
or more likely the wife/ husband may see them lol
Sorry, is that meant to be to me? I can't see anyone who has used the term 'vulnerable' so not sure whether you and the couple above are questioning our preferences, and accusing us of not being married to each other, or addressing your comments to someone else?"
I used the term vulnerable.
I used it in reference to your previous comment 'and regular tales of people losing their jobs'.
Because I read that as implying if you have face pictures on here it leaves you potentially vulnerable to losing your job.
Which I don't agree with. Because we don't understand how a fully clothed face pic, kept in private and only sent to potential meets leaves you open to losing your job.
Anyone can add an address line to the bottom of any picture to tag it to a website if you know what the original tag looks like.
Though if one chooses to use Skype instead of providing a face pic then can't see the harm in that. Just more time consuming when there are so many people that vanish into thin air on here when it comes to the time of arranging a meet.
Where you got the accusations bit from I have no idea as I said in my previous comment, each to their own.
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Where you got the accusations bit from I have no idea
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From the post I was quoting, specifically "who isn't prepared to be honest and open. After all arrange a meet and their neighbours might be in the pub....
or more likely the wife/ husband may see them lol"
But your assumption that we would 'vanish into thin air' if you asked us to skype could serve adequately if you like
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The essence of fab is discretion. ...maybe its different where you live. ...but over here...anyone with a face pic on their profile. ...avoid. ...if they have no regard for their own privacy. ...what do they think of yours. ...  |
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"The essence of fab is discretion. ...maybe its different where you live. ...but over here...anyone with a face pic on their profile. ...avoid. ...if they have no regard for their own privacy. ...what do they think of yours. ... "
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Where you got the accusations bit from I have no idea
From the post I was quoting, specifically "who isn't prepared to be honest and open. After all arrange a meet and their neighbours might be in the pub....
or more likely the wife/ husband may see them lol"
But your assumption that we would 'vanish into thin air' if you asked us to skype could serve adequately if you like
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sending face pictures,dont actually prove someone is genuine,they might just have face pictures of someone else,should always ask to face on cam and ask them to hold a toothbrush or wave with a shoe,to prove they are genuine.... |
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"Anyone who sees your pic on here is also on fab.... err they are as vvulnerable as you.
usually refusal due to a vital job.... or violent ex ( I have both by the way) is just an excuse.
I personally would avoid anyone who isn't prepared to be honest and open. After all arrange a meet and their neighbours might be in the pub and so they won't turn up to avoid that... or the barman might realise they met a different couple before. etc etc
or more likely the wife/ husband may see them lol
Sorry, is that meant to be to me? I can't see anyone who has used the term 'vulnerable' so not sure whether you and the couple above are questioning our preferences, and accusing us of not being married to each other, or addressing your comments to someone else?"
As a happily married swinging couple we have potentially a lot More to lose than a single guy with no responsibilities if "outed" as swingers. Not sure elderly parents or our kids let alone work would easily come to terms with this so yes, in certain cases swinging couples are "vulnerable" and that's why we have no face pics, clothed or not on here!!! |
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Face pic,s a lot of people can not do face pic,s because of there profession we were in the pub trade many year,s and had a bad time with putting face pic,s on was on another site then.
Being the landlord and landlady of a pub there was always some twat wanted a go at you and we got it year,s ago because of it we always chatted first on the phone before we met and just because you meet someone does not mean it,s defiantly sex there as got to be something there not just a cock |
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"I know a lot of people feel safer camming than sending a face pic, but don't forget, anyone can screen shot you while you are on camera. Just be aware of this and don't do anything you may regret "
I think a lot of people forget this! If you're really bothered about being outed csmming might not be as safe as you think. Social meets are time consuming, although I still have them, but wouldn't do so without seeing a face pic first. I don't want the shock of finding the pair of tits on a profile actually belong to someone I know outside of here. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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i am very wary of those who are too keen to want to exchange photographs but make a hundred excuses not to appear fully clothed to have a normal conversation on webcam
it is on webcam where i have found out the 45 year olds who have had such a hard life that they look 60 |
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I think it's personal choice and sensible to be wary about sending facepics until you are confident of the recipient. There are a lot of weirdos out there. You never know for sure who will be looking at your facepic: especially if you have alot of horny cousins on Fab!!  |
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I agree that it's personal choice. We choose not to meet someone who doesn't feel comfortable sending us a face picture and lots of people choose not to meet us because we won't cam or Skype. It's a funny old world |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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If people cannot understand the discretion not to send face pics they cannot be relied on to be discrete.
We will not play with such people.
In the same way we do not socialise on cams or skype. |
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"If people cannot understand the discretion not to send face pics they cannot be relied on to be discrete.
We will not play with such people.
In the same way we do not socialise on cams or skype."
I can't agree entirely with that but I do know that many people on here can't be relied upon to be discreet.
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We're always wary and not in a hurry to send face pics out unless we feel it's going to go somewhere and 'safe' (e.g. out of our area of location and job wise. I, (Portia) works directly with public (100s a day) and partner has a high profile job within his field. It would be rather embarrassing if it became public knowledge! We have on occasion had blind dates and nothing too ugly has turned up! |
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"The essence of fab is discretion. ...maybe its different where you live. ...but over here...anyone with a face pic on their profile. ...avoid. ...if they have no regard for their own privacy. ...what do they think of yours. ... "
Well, WE respect the privacy of others, and what we're doing isn't illegal and we don't care if we're 'outed'. We just like being honest and upfront - these are our faces, these are our bodies, these are our preferences. Message if you like us, scroll on if you don't. |
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