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would you swing with a couple younger than your own children
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
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we are a couple in our early 50's and we keep getting propositioned by other couples much younger than our own children, and we see that wrong, but the answer we usually get is, age is just a number, we like older couples, and you as young as you feel, and that is so wrong, we know it is a sex site and despite us been here we still have moral to adhere to.
so what you guys think ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No that would be illegal.
It wouldn't bother me what age somebody was. I tend not to find people much younger and much older attractive, and assume likewise, but there are always exceptions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment no as my eldest is 22 and under 22 is to young me for nothing to do with my kids age
In 10 years time when my eldest is 32 I will happily meet a 30 year old
If that makes sence  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lucky you,but hay I'm just a one man band,so what do I know,would be happy to make you smile as well or made smile if the choice was mine so enjoy and go with the flow.You oy have the one life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn't personally, nor anyone older than our parents.
This is just our preference and nothing to do with being ageist. We prefer to meet those of a similar age or a bit older than us. We do have a bit of of an age gap between us but not significant enough to make us old or young enough to be a child or parent age to the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personal preferences for everyone, but at least the reasons are logical. Main ones are typically as follows:..
Emotional: Children at that age, feels odd
Physical: Just not attracted to that
With all said and done, I'm on that side that doesn't mind people meeting younger people. I'm a little biased!
That may change in later years, perhaps. |
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The moment you start comparing others sexually with your kids it'll always sound wrong!
If it's not for you then fair enough but I think it's best to judge it on an individual basis with maturity being the key variable.
Plus everyone decides to have children at different ages so its hardly a universal indication of whats right and wrong  |
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"we are a couple in our early 50's and we keep getting propositioned by other couples much younger than our own children, and we see that wrong, but the answer we usually get is, age is just a number, we like older couples, and you as young as you feel, and that is so wrong, we know it is a sex site and despite us been here we still have moral to adhere to.
so what you guys think ??"
I don't think of my children in a 'sexual manner' - hence I'm happy to meet people of any legal age.
I *might* exclude someone of their age because of immaturity or complete lack of chemistry - but that's about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a fair few women on here who feel the same, some people will respect that and then others will still try and persuade you to make an exception for them..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we are a couple in our early 50's and we keep getting propositioned by other couples much younger than our own children, and we see that wrong, but the answer we usually get is, age is just a number, we like older couples, and you as young as you feel, and that is so wrong, we know it is a sex site and despite us been here we still have moral to adhere to.
so what you guys think ??"
It's not about a kids age as I don't have any bit the age I feel comfortable with and attracted to...my limits differ from the Monkey's so we compromise.
If you don't want to meet or play with them, don't enter into dialogue with them. if they can't respect your boundaries on here before you meet, they're unlikely to do so face to face.
Use your filters and block people who are below the age of your children of that's your benchmark |
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Age is just a number to us
What happens as you kids get older your just cutting down the amount of people you can play with is you later it's crazy
For me (tom) if any 18 years wants this middle age body then please drop me line |
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"At the moment no as my eldest is 22 and under 22 is to young me for nothing to do with my kids age
In 10 years time when my eldest is 32 I will happily meet a 30 year old
If that makes sence "
Makes perfect sence to me. I have a 23 year old daughter and couldn't play with anyone that young. Don't really know why, but just doesn't feel right. |
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"lol its not wrong, its about enjoying diferent age groups  "
We don't think it's wrong. And we wouldn't rule it out in the future. Especially as our kids get older. Although can't see why young people would be interested in couple of old farts like us anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have a 15 year age gap, it doesn't bother us he's close to my mums age than he is mine but we work very well and have been together a while now and live happily together. When we met people they mentioned me being their children's ages but didn't seem bothered about it, I'm an adult after all. The main problem we have is with him being 41 and me being 26 we fall out of many people's age limits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lol its not wrong, its about enjoying diferent age groups
We don't think it's wrong. And we wouldn't rule it out in the future. Especially as our kids get older. Although can't see why young people would be interested in couple of old farts like us anyway."
Yes you would be supriced and many would do play with older. The oldest I seen was a woman of 57. |
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I love the 'age is just a number' phrase, but don't exactly understand how it could be - does it not represent a lifetime of experience? Okay, we all have different experiences, but unlikely to have been as many - it is usually a younger person who says that, I think. No problems swinging with younger guys, but as my children are teens, not up there just yet. Black cops kids are older, and although his preference is not for younger guys, as they are close to his kids' ages, mine is not. Pepper |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Saying it's "wrong" seems a bit strong. I get that you might not want to meet with younger people but that doesn't make the choice of others to do so wrong. |
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"Saying it's "wrong" seems a bit strong. I get that you might not want to meet with younger people but that doesn't make the choice of others to do so wrong."
And having lots of choices as all women do, doesn't mean I'll fuck a wet sock either because if I fucked all that asked, my verifications would be in the hundreds
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By (user no longer on site)
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At first we said no to below a certain age but we have moved so many boundaries since we started that although we havent played yet we have chatted and are talking to younger folk |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"we are a couple in our early 50's and we keep getting propositioned by other couples much younger than our own children, and we see that wrong, but the answer we usually get is, age is just a number, we like older couples, and you as young as you feel, and that is so wrong, we know it is a sex site and despite us been here we still have moral to adhere to.
so what you guys think ??"
We did try this once, but it didn't work for us. It is nice to have a little conversation before 'diving in' but we all struggled with this because of the age difference, however, that it is not to say that we couldn't meet a couple who could communicate with us dinosaurs, never say never, we remain open minded about it. We met a couple at a party who were 30 years old and they were very good communicators, so I can see how it could work!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Saying it's "wrong" seems a bit strong. I get that you might not want to meet with younger people but that doesn't make the choice of others to do so wrong.
And having lots of choices as all women do, doesn't mean I'll fuck a wet sock either because if I fucked all that asked, my verifications would be in the hundreds
Lol "
Our verifications are , and none are wet socks either !
Such judgemental attitudes on a swinging site never cease to amaze me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Saying it's "wrong" seems a bit strong. I get that you might not want to meet with younger people but that doesn't make the choice of others to do so wrong.
And having lots of choices as all women do, doesn't mean I'll fuck a wet sock either because if I fucked all that asked, my verifications would be in the hundreds
Lol "
I can't follow what that has to do with the point I made?
I don't believe Elle has ever been propositioned by a wet sock but I'm sure she'll be envious
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we are a couple in our early 50's and we keep getting propositioned by other couples much younger than our own children, and we see that wrong, but the answer we usually get is, age is just a number, we like older couples, and you as young as you feel, and that is so wrong, we know it is a sex site and despite us been here we still have moral to adhere to.
so what you guys think ??"
We play with whoever we are attracted to. Never ask ages TBH.
But then our kids at of ages where if we played with people younger than them we'd be breaking the law... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dear OP,
People are conditioned, for very good reason, not to sexually abuse children and to avoid incest.
As your children get older this paradigm, in your mind, moves up with their age although others of the same age have long past the age at which they can give consent to sex. All you need to do is remember this non-relative is not your child even though they may be the same age or younger.  |
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We try not to but it depends on the person.
I / we (me and Kim) made friends with a lovely 24 yr old women who wanted to meet for fun, for 4 yrs she kept saying I'm a bit older now when we socialised until in the end it didn't matter and all had fun and still do.
Some younger people can be years older in personality so where I would have once said no I now think for a bit first. |
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