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So many fake profiles. Men pretending to be couples and couples pretending to be single girls. Why?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don't mind lying and tricking people, neither do they care what other people want. Plus it gets them what they want, whatever that is.
I think many guys are happy with dirty chat, or only seek that. If they can get a single female or couple (where they presume they're talking to the female) to chat about "what are we going to get up to on the meet?" "what will you be wearing?" etc. then they got what they want, but your time is wasted coz you think they want the meet you were looking for.
Have heard some guys also don't care to meet, they just enjoy the chase and once they know you will meet them they move onto someone else, but obviously they have to get you to chat to them in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you left out the bit where the wife has allowed him to play alone and clearly no wife to be seen  "
Oh yea the illusive wife thats never available lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you left out the bit where the wife has allowed him to play alone and clearly no wife to be seen
Oh yea the illusive wife thats never available lol "
The one with the couple profile and she's away on business and happy for him to play. Sounds legit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the point?
To trick the person into meeting and then what?
Or is it just time wasters?"
Always ask to speak on a phone or see them on skype would be my advice to men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the point?
To trick the person into meeting and then what?
Or is it just time wasters?
Always ask to speak on a phone or see them on skype would be my advice to men "
I won't do either. Does that mean I'm fake and dont meet?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the point?
To trick the person into meeting and then what?
Or is it just time wasters?
Always ask to speak on a phone or see them on skype would be my advice to men
I won't do either. Does that mean I'm fake and dont meet??"
Same here. I wont speak on the fone either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe it's something to wank over
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Surely two adults can have an normal convo without it being sexual ,I find you get a feel for ppl after a phone chat much more than any msg or email |
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There's only about 10 women in each area, all the other women's profiles are fake, set up to spy on eachother, to see who is shagging who's current fella or to entrap cheating fwb's .......maybe.....i've done the searches.....i've seen things man!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe it's something to wank over
Surely two adults can have an normal convo without it being sexual ,I find you get a feel for ppl after a phone chat much more than any msg or email "
oh now i know why you didn't call back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's only about 10 women in each area, all the other women's profiles are fake, set up to spy on eachother, to see who is shagging who's current fella or to entrap cheating fwb's .......maybe.....i've done the searches.....i've seen things man! "
Less than 10 in penge lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately, and this goes for many things and not just swinging, there seems to be a minority of people in our society who get a kick out of spoiling things for others.
You know the type. They're the ones who would scrape their keys down the side of a nice flash car.
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thas why they called timewasters we had lots of them but we know they are genuine cpls /males/ ladys on here so we just have to put up with them beware of newbis xxxx but love the genuine swingers on here xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the point?
To trick the person into meeting and then what?
Or is it just time wasters?"
We don't think there is any point at all. It leads to nothing. Apart from a lot of time wasting. Our theory.......some people just have too much time on their hands. They should take the time to invest in a job or one very good profile.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you not find them easy to spot though?
Fooled again....
Any tips?"
Not sure really, i just go off my messages and get a vibe for who is after meets and who isn't really.
I never tell them what we'll get up to on a meet and if they even ask i just blank them coz these guys seem to be here for dirty chat and get off on just being told what will happen.
I never go onto apps where they can ask for pics or cam chat. I stay on here and arrange everything, stopped giving out my number ages ago but only because i kept missing calls and texts.
I tend to chat to loads of guys so that, if one doesn't turn up or isn't free when i want fucking, there is always someone else about to arrange with.
I avoid chatting with guys who can't accom, even though i don't travel, because they're more likely to be in a commited relationship and either not free at convenient times or pushy because of only being free when the mrs is out and desperate for meets at these times and then whinge about time wasters because they desperately need someone convenient in small time frames so find it hard to get meets in general.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can spot the real profiles a mile off....
they're the ones who's preferences are so ridiculous it's a wonder they meet anyone.
'Only meet guys with one side of head shaved, a tattoo of a scared zebra on their left wrist and a mole on the inside edge of their little toe'
This is a pathetic site sometimes.....but fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know why and care even less, if they're sad enough to waste their own time doing that then let them crack on. Takes very little time to spot a fakester and to ignore said person/s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have never understood why ppl pretend to be cpls or anything other than what they are.because as soon as they get found out we all just block and report.they are not going to get a satisfying meet out of fibbing |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"'Only meet guys with one side of head shaved, a tattoo of a scared zebra on their left wrist and a mole on the inside edge of their little toe'"
I find that an eminently reasonable request. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some on here , it's all about the fantasy and the reality will never happen .
Therefore by pretending to be something they're not it's all part of the fantasy . |
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Fake profiles can be malicious, we recently fell for one that was setup with sole intention of outing us in the local community to destroy our characters. We've had reporters on the door step and people stopping us in the street. I don't subscribe to the "it's just part of the scene" these people are dangerous, hateful low life's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fake profiles can be malicious, we recently fell for one that was setup with sole intention of outing us in the local community to destroy our characters. We've had reporters on the door step and people stopping us in the street. I don't subscribe to the "it's just part of the scene" these people are dangerous, hateful low life's."
That is horrendous! some people are just messed up. Sounds like a bloody nightmare. Ifeel rreally sorry for you guys.  |
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Thanks, don't know if we will return to this, as you can imagine it has been awful. Not so much for me I don't give a shit what people think of me but Mrs has a high community profile, a business and a voluntary group that may be destroyed as a result. |
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Sorry, are you implying that this is made up? You're funny, we've met a few people and are verified etc. our profile is hidden for reasons that should be obvious. I don't need you to believe me, frankly we've bigger fish to fry right now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry, are you implying that this is made up? You're funny, we've met a few people and are verified etc. our profile is hidden for reasons that should be obvious. I don't need you to believe me, frankly we've bigger fish to fry right now."
Pretty sure the post above yours was about the OP, not your post. You must be devastated and stressed out. Hope it gets better. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the point?
To trick the person into meeting and then what?
Or is it just time wasters?
Always ask to speak on a phone or see them on skype would be my advice to men "
this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a couple profile with my ex, hes still using the profile, hasn't changed the txt or profile title that still says couple looking for other couple but had changed it to saying it's just male, now I don't know if this would show on a couple search or a single male search but don't see how he would benefit. Veris still public that veri us both makes no sence to me but if it brings him better luck then good for him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately, and this goes for many things and not just swinging, there seems to be a minority of people in our society who get a kick out of spoiling things for others.
You know the type. They're the ones who would scrape their keys down the side of a nice flash car.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you not find them easy to spot though?
Fooled again....
Any tips?
Not sure really, i just go off my messages and get a vibe for who is after meets and who isn't really.
I never tell them what we'll get up to on a meet and if they even ask i just blank them coz these guys seem to be here for dirty chat and get off on just being told what will happen.
I never go onto apps where they can ask for pics or cam chat. I stay on here and arrange everything, stopped giving out my number ages ago but only because i kept missing calls and texts.
I tend to chat to loads of guys so that, if one doesn't turn up or isn't free when i want fucking, there is always someone else about to arrange with.
I avoid chatting with guys who can't accom, even though i don't travel, because they're more likely to be in a commited relationship and either not free at convenient times or pushy because of only being free when the mrs is out and desperate for meets at these times and then whinge about time wasters because they desperately need someone convenient in small time frames so find it hard to get meets in general.
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You're a brilliant woman. I'm not joking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you not find them easy to spot though?
Fooled again....
Any tips?
Not sure really, i just go off my messages and get a vibe for who is after meets and who isn't really.
I never tell them what we'll get up to on a meet and if they even ask i just blank them coz these guys seem to be here for dirty chat and get off on just being told what will happen.
I never go onto apps where they can ask for pics or cam chat. I stay on here and arrange everything, stopped giving out my number ages ago but only because i kept missing calls and texts.
I tend to chat to loads of guys so that, if one doesn't turn up or isn't free when i want fucking, there is always someone else about to arrange with.
I avoid chatting with guys who can't accom, even though i don't travel, because they're more likely to be in a commited relationship and either not free at convenient times or pushy because of only being free when the mrs is out and desperate for meets at these times and then whinge about time wasters because they desperately need someone convenient in small time frames so find it hard to get meets in general.
You're a brilliant woman. I'm not joking "
Thanks. 
I know i am though. |
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