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Out of your league??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we recently got chatting to a couple, when they sent their private pic's it became very apparent that they where in a total different league to us.
They would be champions league and us div Two in the auto windscreens league.
We did point out that they were way hotter than us.
Jools and I both agreed that we would find it intimidating to play with a couple who were so frigging hot.
Funny enough when we sent our pic's we have not heard back.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've thought it many, many times and been quite surprised at the result.
Not all the time. . But sometimes.
You never know unless you try.  |
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I think you've got to try your luck. You never know. Thinking you're not worthy because of your looks compared to theirs is not a healthy way to think. Have a little confidence in yourself. I know a few women on here who I message regularly and I still can't believe these stunning women actually want to talk to me.
It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway. |
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
Good Lord, yes!
I'm not even in the same league as Mrs ddc
(Why else do you think we don't have face pics of me?)
Mr ddc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
It depends upon what criteria you use to define the league you're in?
Looks wise some may be in a category above you
They may be more intelligent
They may be funnier with a more accessible personality
In fact there are probably some women out there with a bigger cock than me
But ultimately, if you assess on the total package rather than one factor, you may well find yourself rising through the leagues if you let your best qualities be what defines you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??
Good Lord, yes!
I'm not even in the same league as Mrs ddc
(Why else do you think we don't have face pics of me?)
Mr ddc
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But therein lies the contradiction - Mrs ddc is with you, so clearly she's not out of your league. Beauty comes in many forms, not just physical looks! |
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I would avoid messaging anyone 'out of my league' it's likely to end in disappointment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not in a league, and I don't subscribe to the notion there is sufficiently justifiable criteria that warrants restricting anyone's social interactions based on aesthetics .
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You have to be in it to win it..at the very least you've had fun flirting with someone you find hot/interesting. That always makes me feel good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don't like football anyway |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Its not about leagues for me... but I do sometimes wonder why anyone would be interested in me (self esteem, and always think I'm a bit plain jane and boring compared to some of my friends) |
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I would say it's more your type than a league system |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No there isnt, you only let urself beleive it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway."
Don't we all think this? Otherwise pics would be irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, take the 'bull' by the horns and hang on for the ride! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway.
Don't we all think this? Otherwise pics would be irrelevant."
Gonna have sex with someone? Gotta fancy them. |
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No I don't get the out of my league bit, but I do sometimes wonder why a 25yr old good looking guy with a very fit gym toned body would want to meet me. I sometime think they believe I am desperate or they have no intention of meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway.
Don't we all think this? Otherwise pics would be irrelevant.
Gonna have sex with someone? Gotta fancy them."
Thought I'd been going about it all wrong for a mo
Beauty is on the inside, personality, humor etc. etc. now please send a face pic and comply to my exact requirements
In answer to the original question, if something makes you uncomfortable or lack confidence you're not likely to enjoy a meet.
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"It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway.
Don't we all think this? Otherwise pics would be irrelevant.
Gonna have sex with someone? Gotta fancy them."
Well yeah it doesn't really matter how beautiful you think they are. You have to fancy them and they have to fancy you. If that happens then that's all that matters. |
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"No I don't get the out of my league bit, but I do sometimes wonder why a 25yr old good looking guy with a very fit gym toned body would want to meet me. I sometime think they believe I am desperate or they have no intention of meeting."
Or... maybe they find you attractive |
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People often ask this question and I'm always astonished by the replies (I don't learn fast ). How can another human being be better than somebody else just based on how they look? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway.
Don't we all think this? Otherwise pics would be irrelevant.
Gonna have sex with someone? Gotta fancy them.
Thought I'd been going about it all wrong for a mo
Beauty is on the inside, personality, humor etc. etc. now please send a face pic and comply to my exact requirements "
That's the thing though, I'm certainly not the first person to read someones profile, be genuinely interested in what they've written, honestly believe myself to possess the qualities they're asking for, only to have my messages not responded to - and I do believe that the person who wrote the profile really is looking for those things, but if that X-Factor of FANCYING someone isn't there, then you have no chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'Out if your or my league is for them, up their own arses, pretentious fucking wankers! We are all born equal and should treated so! Nobody is out if anyones league! Love the skin your in! Sexiness is a state of mind!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone's out of my league!! There's a reason I hide my face!!! Haha!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all down to been confident in your self and you body not every body cares if your not a stunner and vice versa. Really hot people need loving too. |
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Yes. I often look and think they wouldnt wanna meet lil ole me |
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By *o30Woman
over a year ago
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Most of the guys I like are out of my league, I'm always surprised if they message me. I don't have the confidence to message them first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, take the 'bull' by the horns and hang on for the ride!"
shouting Yeeehaaaawwww!!
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"Most of the guys I like are out of my league, I'm always surprised if they message me. I don't have the confidence to message them first "
Exactly this for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway.
Don't we all think this? Otherwise pics would be irrelevant.
Gonna have sex with someone? Gotta fancy them.
Thought I'd been going about it all wrong for a mo
Beauty is on the inside, personality, humor etc. etc. now please send a face pic and comply to my exact requirements
That's the thing though, I'm certainly not the first person to read someones profile, be genuinely interested in what they've written, honestly believe myself to possess the qualities they're asking for, only to have my messages not responded to - and I do believe that the person who wrote the profile really is looking for those things, but if that X-Factor of FANCYING someone isn't there, then you have no chance."
It's a weird thing. Same as those times you see somebody of interest... and then they open their mouth
I quite like those menus of demands though - there's always something on then that can be used as a polite get out clause - sorry we're not tall enough, don't eat the right shreddies etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is down to confidence and self esteem.
And it's not about whether someone is a "better human being" than you.
I think society does deem some people as more attractive than others. But then personal taste means people will find others attractive that some don't.
Some days I feel attractive and other days I don't. I'm sure it's the same for everyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the body of a Buddhist deity with surgery scarring on my chest and belly so that's a confidence killer right there. It's difficult to build up the brass knackers to contact people knowing that many are in fact only here for fun and want the best they can get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes there are many people out of my league |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll have you no I'm fooking hot once I get out of my Shrek costume
You get attracted to people for different reasons and if the sum of all these parts leads to a meet brilliant. You just have to take a chance and believe in yourself (which can be hard for most).
There will always be people who you might think are hot but if there is nothing else to them then it's a no from me to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway.
Don't we all think this? Otherwise pics would be irrelevant.
Gonna have sex with someone? Gotta fancy them.
Thought I'd been going about it all wrong for a mo
Beauty is on the inside, personality, humor etc. etc. now please send a face pic and comply to my exact requirements
That's the thing though, I'm certainly not the first person to read someones profile, be genuinely interested in what they've written, honestly believe myself to possess the qualities they're asking for, only to have my messages not responded to - and I do believe that the person who wrote the profile really is looking for those things, but if that X-Factor of FANCYING someone isn't there, then you have no chance.
It's a weird thing. Same as those times you see somebody of interest... and then they open their mouth
I quite like those menus of demands though - there's always something on then that can be used as a polite get out clause - sorry we're not tall enough, don't eat the right shreddies etc."
Its all about turning the milk chocolaty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's cocopops |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well we recently got chatting to a couple, when they sent their private pic's it became very apparent that they where in a total different league to us.
They would be champions league and us div Two in the auto windscreens league.
We did point out that they were way hotter than us.
Jools and I both agreed that we would find it intimidating to play with a couple who were so frigging hot.
Funny enough when we sent our pic's we have not heard back.
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Blimey, if you are Div 2, we are vanarama conference.. |
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this must be why I don't get loads of meet folks think I too good for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Might be my problem as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope don't believe in leagues we are swinging subjective socialists.
You don't ask you don't get. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Yes i do wonder why some people would want to meet me,like others have said. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Leagues are arbitrary. I must admit to occasional surprise when someone way, way hotter than me seems interested but I honestly don't go on looks when I decide who to meet. I met my BF on here and he has one of those faceless profiles with no pics and I only remembered to ask for one the day before we met for the first time so I could recognise him at the train station.
There may be non visual leagues as well that people never mention. I know a few guys that won't meet girls if they show too many verifications or seem more sexually experienced than them, for example. |
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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago
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I`m very confident in the person I am, how I can communicate and my intellect, and that I`m even not bad looking even though I`m a bit overweight, and I don't believe any one is better or worse, so no one is out of my league so to speak, we have different attractions and attracted to differing things, but if I find some one I`m attracted to I will message and if it goes no where so be it, it has never bothered me and I don't need to know why, we can`t be every ones cup of tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not about leagues for me... but I do sometimes wonder why anyone would be interested in me (self esteem, and always think I'm a bit plain jane and boring compared to some of my friends)"
Holy moly I'd be every kind of interested in you if you weren't in mamoba.
You are clearly out of my league let alone out my patch.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don't get the out of my league bit, but I do sometimes wonder why a 25yr old good looking guy with a very fit gym toned body would want to meet me. I sometime think they believe I am desperate or they have no intention of meeting."
Perhaps it's because you have an interesting profile, seem like a fun person and share common interests?
You don't have open face photos, so I'm going to suggest that it's YOU the person they are interested in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in a league of one, so everyone's out of my league |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I often look and think they wouldnt wanna meet lil ole me "
I'd want to meet you. The only reason I wouldn't try is the distance between us.
This is the only reason and NOT a reflection or judgement about you as a person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I often look and think they wouldnt wanna meet lil ole me
I'd want to meet you. The only reason I wouldn't try is the distance between us.
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Same here, there's some beautiful ladies here. |
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"No I don't get the out of my league bit, but I do sometimes wonder why a 25yr old good looking guy with a very fit gym toned body would want to meet me. I sometime think they believe I am desperate or they have no intention of meeting."
At base level it's because they want sex. The reasons they want it with older women vary and for some it will be as you say but not for all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just fugly lol.
No one would want me!!
People browse my profile, read into the fact I've put mainly friends rather than sexual encounters, mainly coz I want peopke to meet me for me not that they just wanna fcuk & move on to next guy, who guaranteed bigger cock & 80% better looking than me. |
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League Shmeague. 
For me, it's says a lot more about myself than it does about the person I'm approaching. If I see someone I'm attracted to, I'm gonna go for it. YOLO! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I've been messages by people who I think are out of my league I've sometimes thought 'fuck it' and meet them anyway only to find they've been decent, down to earth people as well as hot. Who knew you could have it all! |
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"When I've been messages by people who I think are out of my league I've sometimes thought 'fuck it' and meet them anyway only to find they've been decent, down to earth people as well as hot. Who knew you could have it all! "
Yes I agree. This league business it terribly judgemental, imagining before you even meet somebody that they will only accept a certain body type or facial features set in a certain way. |
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You should never be put off approaching someone you may consider to be out of your league. They may be one of those that occasionally like to slum it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all very subjective isn't it? There are people posting here saying they're surprised people would want to meet them and I'm thinking 'whoah, but you're way hot!'
So either they have self esteem / confidence issues, lack proper awareness as to how good they really look, or they do know they're hot really but they're just being modest.
Similarly I see people (not necessarily on this thread I hasten to add!) who describe themselves as attractive on their profiles (and a week or so ago I saw somebody on a forum thread describe themselves as above average in looks) and I think 'hmmm, ok but it's not really working for me'.
So it's all down to personal taste. What I might find hot the next man might find a right turn off and vice versa.
Of course I'm simplifying things here by considering only looks but obviously I realise attractiveness consists of many other factors as well!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
Yeah definitely! |
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What I meant to say was I am intimidated by very young fit guys messaging me, I run a mile thinking what the hell do they want with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People often ask this question and I'm always astonished by the replies (I don't learn fast ). How can another human being be better than somebody else just based on how they look? "
Exactly this!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see profiles that are only looking for men who are "exceptional".
That's not me, I'm ordinary and comfortable in my own skin.
Still not sure who judges or measures who is or isn't exceptional though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just me, take me or leave me! L |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People often ask this question and I'm always astonished by the replies (I don't learn fast ). How can another human being be better than somebody else just based on how they look? "
It depends on your or their idea of better .
If you or they pay no attention to their body , cleanliness etc.....
If they are a generation older or younger .
If they can barely string a coherent sentence together .
See what I mean ?
There are so many reasons someone may be above or below you in terms of shagability .
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What I meant to say was I am intimidated by very young fit guys messaging me, I run a mile thinking what the hell do they want with me "
Sex. .
It would be no good me running, they'd catch me in about ten seconds |
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"I see profiles that are only looking for men who are "exceptional".
That's not me, I'm ordinary and comfortable in my own skin.
Still not sure who judges or measures who is or isn't exceptional though."
MY thoughts too........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This certainly is true for me anyway very rarely strike up the courage to text someone because just think they won't be interested especially when they look bloody gorgeous! Am naturally a shy person anyway having said that I'm sure there's plenty of guys who feel like they're in the same boat but may have more confidence in sure ladies can smell that lol! After reading rhis post I think I'm gonna chance a few messages sending my face pic of course and see what happens! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see profiles that are only looking for men who are "exceptional".
That's not me, I'm ordinary and comfortable in my own skin.
Still not sure who judges or measures who is or isn't exceptional though.
MY thoughts too........"
I do. We all do don't we? Or are we going to pretend we're not interested in how attractive a person is when we're fucking!
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"People often ask this question and I'm always astonished by the replies (I don't learn fast ). How can another human being be better than somebody else just based on how they look?
It depends on your or their idea of better .
If you or they pay no attention to their body , cleanliness etc.....
If they are a generation older or younger .
If they can barely string a coherent sentence together .
See what I mean ?
There are so many reasons someone may be above or below you in terms of shagability .
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I can see your point but I don't like thinking of people as above or below me in any terms really. However I wouldn't meet somebody who wasn't clean you're right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often like to think of people as above and below me. It's one of my favorite past times |
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We have had fun with top porn stars to normal everyday couples/singles, gentry to working class & all colours / creeds yet have never felt better/lower or not worthy of anyone we meet.
We have a big circle of lovely swinging friends that are poles apart from each other & us in age/wealth/education/looks who we feel like us are on an equal level, no person is better than anyone else...unless they say so themselves of course lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am naturally a shy person anyway having said that I'm sure there's plenty of guys who feel like they're in the same boat but may have more confidence in sure ladies can smell that."
They are like sharks, they'll smell your fear......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not about leagues for me... but I do sometimes wonder why anyone would be interested in me (self esteem, and always think I'm a bit plain jane and boring compared to some of my friends)"
this is the same for me, im not 'hot' tho i didm't get beaten with the ugly stick either, i dont wear make up often, so when looking through profiles, if a couple fit the bill, but the lady is very well groomed and polished, nails, hair, fake lashes etc, then its not so much a league thing from my side, but a lack of anything in common, and that they probably wouldnt look twice at me.
same with buff gym addict guys, id just feel a blob. lol, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway.
Don't we all think this? Otherwise pics would be irrelevant.
Gonna have sex with someone? Gotta fancy them."
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I met 2 guys that I would thought were def out of my league.. And we had several meets after that.. I was pleasantly surprised so I'd say maybe it's not always the case. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's the worse that can happen most people never reply anyway? |
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Oh Yeh. I know I am `punching well above my weight` and `batting above my average` with my gorgeous little goddess. We met on another fuck site for a one night fuck. Her thing was stranger sex and after fucking them, they were no longer strangers, so she didn`t see them again ( i called her mantis, as in Praying).
However, over two years later, we are still together and in a loving (and sexual) stable relationship. I must be doing something right. So, in reply to your question - you may think someone is out of your league, when in fact they are not at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only a problem if they think they're too beautiful for you. Then they're not worth knowing anyway.
Don't we all think this? Otherwise pics would be irrelevant.
Gonna have sex with someone? Gotta fancy them."
No you don't need to fancy someone to fuck them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
I guess that's subjective
I've looked at a lot of profiles and thought there's no way he will like me so not bothered mailing
Does that mean he's out of my league? Suppose to me it does I tend to more see it as being realistic |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
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"Well we recently got chatting to a couple, when they sent their private pic's it became very apparent that they where in a total different league to us.
They would be champions league and us div Two in the auto windscreens league.
We did point out that they were way hotter than us.
Jools and I both agreed that we would find it intimidating to play with a couple who were so frigging hot.
Funny enough when we sent our pic's we have not heard back.
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you never heard of a giant killing or a cup run you dont know unless you try maybe they dont want people from thier league |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely subjective, you can't tell who is out of your league or not.
I don't have a type, i fancy a lot of guys and can be flexible so long as i find them attractive overall. I like a nice face, but what that face is i couldn't tell you, i just know when i see it.
I've been surprised by the amount of good looking guys who see me and want to see me again. I've also been surprised by the amount of unattractive guys who think i will fuck them. |
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"Definitely subjective, you can't tell who is out of your league or not.
I don't have a type, i fancy a lot of guys and can be flexible so long as i find them attractive overall. I like a nice face, but what that face is i couldn't tell you, i just know when i see it.
I've been surprised by the amount of good looking guys who see me and want to see me again. I've also been surprised by the amount of unattractive guys who think i will fuck them."
Your last paragraph kind of sums it up:
Men, in general, aren't particularly fussed who they fuck, even if they are a lot better looking than the women they shag.
Women in general are fussier, even if they are not that attractive themselves. |
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over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I've got older I've got braver and think we all have a good standing. No one is better or worse than me we all have good and bad points about us that's what makes us all different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely subjective, you can't tell who is out of your league or not.
I don't have a type, i fancy a lot of guys and can be flexible so long as i find them attractive overall. I like a nice face, but what that face is i couldn't tell you, i just know when i see it.
I've been surprised by the amount of good looking guys who see me and want to see me again. I've also been surprised by the amount of unattractive guys who think i will fuck them.
Your last paragraph kind of sums it up:
Men, in general, aren't particularly fussed who they fuck, even if they are a lot better looking than the women they shag.
Women in general are fussier, even if they are not that attractive themselves."
That's so right, us men aint bothered about looks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely subjective, you can't tell who is out of your league or not.
I don't have a type, i fancy a lot of guys and can be flexible so long as i find them attractive overall. I like a nice face, but what that face is i couldn't tell you, i just know when i see it.
I've been surprised by the amount of good looking guys who see me and want to see me again. I've also been surprised by the amount of unattractive guys who think i will fuck them.
Your last paragraph kind of sums it up:
Men, in general, aren't particularly fussed who they fuck, even if they are a lot better looking than the women they shag.
Women in general are fussier, even if they are not that attractive themselves.That's so right, us men aint bothered about looks."
Some are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely subjective, you can't tell who is out of your league or not.
I don't have a type, i fancy a lot of guys and can be flexible so long as i find them attractive overall. I like a nice face, but what that face is i couldn't tell you, i just know when i see it.
I've been surprised by the amount of good looking guys who see me and want to see me again. I've also been surprised by the amount of unattractive guys who think i will fuck them.
Your last paragraph kind of sums it up:
Men, in general, aren't particularly fussed who they fuck, even if they are a lot better looking than the women they shag.
Women in general are fussier, even if they are not that attractive themselves."
Promiscuous species generally have women that are fussier yes. We've even evolved so that our fertile time is hidden so that we don't have men forcing themselves onto us at that time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's so right, us men aint bothered about looks."
You can speak for yourself shag.
Personally I wouldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. |
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over a year ago
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"That's so right, us men aint bothered about looks.
You can speak for yourself shag.
Personally I wouldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. "
That's good, for me its bout bed notch marks lol. |
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over a year ago
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"Definitely subjective, you can't tell who is out of your league or not.
I don't have a type, i fancy a lot of guys and can be flexible so long as i find them attractive overall. I like a nice face, but what that face is i couldn't tell you, i just know when i see it.
I've been surprised by the amount of good looking guys who see me and want to see me again. I've also been surprised by the amount of unattractive guys who think i will fuck them.
Your last paragraph kind of sums it up:
Men, in general, aren't particularly fussed who they fuck, even if they are a lot better looking than the women they shag.
Women in general are fussier, even if they are not that attractive themselves.That's so right, us men aint bothered about looks.
Some are "
That's right as well. |
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over a year ago
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"That's so right, us men aint bothered about looks.
You can speak for yourself shag.
Personally I wouldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. That's good, for me its bout bed notch marks lol."
Shag I never know if you're joking or not.
Can you please confirm you are in fact joking. .... |
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over a year ago
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"That's so right, us men aint bothered about looks.
You can speak for yourself shag.
Personally I wouldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. That's good, for me its bout bed notch marks lol.
Shag I never know if you're joking or not.
Can you please confirm you are in fact joking. .... "
YEs and no I didn't joke about it, just made it sound abit more funnier you know. |
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over a year ago
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Not necessarily 'out of my league' i wouldn't say. I may just not tick their boxes or not what they're looking for.
But, if someone is looking for a good fuck. I can help with that. It doesn't happen often. Well, not on fab anyway.
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over a year ago
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"Well we recently got chatting to a couple, when they sent their private pic's it became very apparent that they where in a total different league to us.
They would be champions league and us div Two in the auto windscreens league.
We did point out that they were way hotter than us.
Jools and I both agreed that we would find it intimidating to play with a couple who were so frigging hot.
Funny enough when we sent our pic's we have not heard back.
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I cannot see why. .you both look gorgeous x |
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over a year ago
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To be perfectly honest, I don't consider anyone to be 'out of my league', simply because it is all down to personal taste and preference at the end of the day and that one person who you thought was totally unattainable might just be looking for someone exactly like you.
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over a year ago
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"Definitely subjective, you can't tell who is out of your league or not.
I don't have a type, i fancy a lot of guys and can be flexible so long as i find them attractive overall. I like a nice face, but what that face is i couldn't tell you, i just know when i see it.
I've been surprised by the amount of good looking guys who see me and want to see me again. I've also been surprised by the amount of unattractive guys who think i will fuck them.
Your last paragraph kind of sums it up:
Men, in general, aren't particularly fussed who they fuck, even if they are a lot better looking than the women they shag.
Women in general are fussier, even if they are not that attractive themselves.That's so right, us men aint bothered about looks.
Some are "
This. |
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over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
Yep. I find myself perving lots of super hot guys on here but don't have the courage to mail them as I feel they are way out of my league! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??
Yep. I find myself perving lots of super hot guys on here but don't have the courage to mail them as I feel they are way out of my league!"
I'm the same but with the women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??
Yep. I find myself perving lots of super hot guys on here but don't have the courage to mail them as I feel they are way out of my league!"
We are all equal here I hope |
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over a year ago
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Nobody is out of our league, if we get on, we'll have fun.
We might be out of a few others 'leagues' as it were but are we bothered? Nah, we won't miss what we can't have. |
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Men, in general, aren't particularly fussed who they fuck, even if they are a lot better looking than the women they shag."
Speak for yourself. I myself do not fall into the 'will fuck anything' club.
I need to be attracted to someone if I am going to play with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like the "league" label but unfortunately it exists in many people's minds! I wonder why some guys chat to me and/or want to meet but that's down to my self confidence  |
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over a year ago
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Ha loads of women are out my league on fab!! But there ones I'd want lol so if I can't have someone out of my league id rather not bother ha! |
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Men, in general, aren't particularly fussed who they fuck, even if they are a lot better looking than the women they shag.
Speak for yourself. I myself do not fall into the 'will fuck anything' club.
I need to be attracted to someone if I am going to play with them."
Yes, I've read many of your posts and know you need harps and violins playing in the background to get an erection but I did say "in general". That's not 'all'. You're excluded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to think this a lot, surely he can't be interested in me etc but I think perceptions change as you age - or certainly mine do.
I think there's an attraction there or there isn't regardless of looks, may be to personality or maybe there's just a 'thing'. You know 'that' thing that sometimes happens? |
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over a year ago
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"You have to be in it to win it..at the very least you've had fun flirting with someone you find hot/interesting. That always makes me feel good "
We messaged a certain somebody the other day, we thought she was miles out of our league but gave it a go anyways.just waiting for her to read it and get back to us....let us know what you think x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I dont think its rude to say you might believe some people are out of your league, both above or below.
There are many many profiles on here that we wouldnt attempt to contact because we feel they may be out of our league. |
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over a year ago
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"You should never be put off approaching someone you may consider to be out of your league. They may be one of those that occasionally like to slum it."
This is why I never approach guys out of my league, I'd hate to be one of their "better than nothing" meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should never be put off approaching someone you may consider to be out of your league. They may be one of those that occasionally like to slum it.
This is why I never approach guys out of my league, I'd hate to be one of their "better than nothing" meets"
Us too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone want to slum it with me ? |
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at one time I would have been put off approaching someone that was outside of my league in my eyes
but I ended up with someone that was out of my league and I have a loverly daughter by her
so nowadays I would approach anyone but the nerves would still be there when asking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it comes down to personal taste and self esteem. There are people on here who may look intimidating because you think they are really hot, but they may just think you're hot too! But if you don't try you'll never know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of the ladies and couples agreeing with this statement on here are genuinley beautiful people well beautiful in the looks sense can't speak for the personality etc but one things for certain I wouldn't say that anyone would be out of their league! Or perhaps that's just because I think they are out of my league I suppose it could be that way, think I'll leave it at that getting too confusing lol |
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over a year ago
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Why does a black band appear through my comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does a black band appear through my comment "
Oh its gone now !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plus there are plenty of people we've liked the look of and then been completely put of after chatting to them, there has to be an attraction for us but we have to like them too |
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I dont think I'm in anyones league, I dont think its even the same sport, I'm judging this on messages I have sent that are polite and deleted straight away, its knocked my confidence in PM'ing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks wise God yeah ! I'm like is there a version of this for fugly ppl like me but in a general scheme of things no 1 is out of anyone's unless your an arsehole to people big hearts are crazily attractive to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont think I'm in anyones league, I dont think its even the same sport, I'm judging this on messages I have sent that are polite and deleted straight away, its knocked my confidence in PM'ing "
I put that down to sheer pig ignorance on their part, mate. Best thing to do is palm them off and carry on. |
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over a year ago
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Well... I always Think there out my league... And then get a shock when they want to play with me... Does it come down to confidence not really... You either appeal and attract.. I put myself at a average 5.5 because That's what I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont think I'm in anyones league, I dont think its even the same sport, I'm judging this on messages I have sent that are polite and deleted straight away, its knocked my confidence in PM'ing "
Why do u think that looks like you've had plenty of meets to me and recently too! Not judging you in the slightest but I would prefer to meet someone on a regular basis so quality not quantity for me again not commenting on your meets in any way, but I suppose I want to be attracted to that person I think in that respect I hope it's someone out of my league ! |
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over a year ago
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"Well... I always Think there out my league... And then get a shock when they want to play with me... Does it come down to confidence not really... You either appeal and attract.. I put myself at a average 5.5 because That's what I am"
If youre a 5.5 then im a 1...god |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh god I'm defo a 5.7 at most ha |
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The way I see it there's always a compromise. If you're going to enjoy a smoke a drink and a pizza you're not going to end up being as fit as someone who is more driven to stay healthy and eat well, the trade off is that you're either a fat slob at one extreme or a neurotic egomaniac at the other or somewhere in between. I'd say at least 85% of the time people have the option to do something about what eats away at their self esteem.
Personally I'm somewhere in the middle, I like a smoke, although I don't drink I do like a pizza and I'm also quite fond of sitting on my arse for a while but I do get out and about and I at least have a conscience about my health.
So I would argue that your appearance is a reflection of your life priorities and that influences who you've got things in common with, ego, who you will get on with. Personally I would feel intimidated and insecure around an overly confident and sexy woman but I would identify with a woman who knows she isn't perfect but has the sense to not let it get her down. Now if I could find a sex goddess who is perfect in every way and got turned on by watching me get head-shots on the 360 then I'd be a happy bunny but I'm realistic and I'd be happy to cuddle up with someone who thinks a weekend spent watching netflix in bed is more fun than a walk in the country. It stands to reason that she's not likely to be a size 0 supermodel. - not that I'd find much use for one of those either. |
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over a year ago
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"I used to think this a lot, surely he can't be interested in me etc but I think perceptions change as you age - or certainly mine do.
I think there's an attraction there or there isn't regardless of looks, may be to personality or maybe there's just a 'thing'. You know 'that' thing that sometimes happens? "
a big hard on?  |
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over a year ago
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Yes it is possible to be out of someone's league.
I was (and still am) very friendly with a woman a couple of years older than me - she is a really nice woman, good looking too - she has a b/f now but a few months ago she didn't and (not being big headed here btw) I knew beyond a doubt that I could have pulled her, but I didn't and it was for that reason - she was way out of my league - very well to do and proper - simply way above me. I knew I could never live in her world and that if we got together the chances are it wouldn't have worked and our friendship would have suffered. I'm now very happy to see she has met a bloke who moves in her circles, they are both happy together and her and I are still good friends
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"The way I see it there's always a compromise. If you're going to enjoy a smoke a drink and a pizza you're not going to end up being as fit as someone who is more driven to stay healthy and eat well, the trade off is that you're either a fat slob at one extreme or a neurotic egomaniac at the other or somewhere in between. I'd say at least 85% of the time people have the option to do something about what eats away at their self esteem.
Personally I'm somewhere in the middle, I like a smoke, although I don't drink I do like a pizza and I'm also quite fond of sitting on my arse for a while but I do get out and about and I at least have a conscience about my health.
So I would argue that your appearance is a reflection of your life priorities and that influences who you've got things in common with, ego, who you will get on with. Personally I would feel intimidated and insecure around an overly confident and sexy woman but I would identify with a woman who knows she isn't perfect but has the sense to not let it get her down. Now if I could find a sex goddess who is perfect in every way and got turned on by watching me get head-shots on the 360 then I'd be a happy bunny but I'm realistic and I'd be happy to cuddle up with someone who thinks a weekend spent watching netflix in bed is more fun than a walk in the country. It stands to reason that she's not likely to be a size 0 supermodel. - not that I'd find much use for one of those either."
You my good fellow are singing from the same hymn sheet as me ! I don't usually 'big up' other peoples posts, but yours is a very well thought out and well presented opinion which is worth of praise. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Never ever occurs to us that anyone would be out of our league or vice versa. Really its only a question of whether we feel a mutual attraction. That's why we always prefer to swing in clubs as we always have the opportunity of seeing whether that attraction is there or not by meeting in person. |
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over a year ago
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"The way I see it there's always a compromise. If you're going to enjoy a smoke a drink and a pizza you're not going to end up being as fit as someone who is more driven to stay healthy and eat well, the trade off is that you're either a fat slob at one extreme or a neurotic egomaniac at the other or somewhere in between. I'd say at least 85% of the time people have the option to do something about what eats away at their self esteem.
Personally I'm somewhere in the middle, I like a smoke, although I don't drink I do like a pizza and I'm also quite fond of sitting on my arse for a while but I do get out and about and I at least have a conscience about my health.
So I would argue that your appearance is a reflection of your life priorities and that influences who you've got things in common with, ego, who you will get on with. Personally I would feel intimidated and insecure around an overly confident and sexy woman but I would identify with a woman who knows she isn't perfect but has the sense to not let it get her down. Now if I could find a sex goddess who is perfect in every way and got turned on by watching me get head-shots on the 360 then I'd be a happy bunny but I'm realistic and I'd be happy to cuddle up with someone who thinks a weekend spent watching netflix in bed is more fun than a walk in the country. It stands to reason that she's not likely to be a size 0 supermodel. - not that I'd find much use for one of those either."
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over a year ago
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"I used to think this a lot, surely he can't be interested in me etc but I think perceptions change as you age - or certainly mine do.
I think there's an attraction there or there isn't regardless of looks, may be to personality or maybe there's just a 'thing'. You know 'that' thing that sometimes happens? a big hard on? "
Haha well I was talking about a connection but I guess that's a link for a connection! |
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"I know my place."
Likewise, at the bottom of the food chain |
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
No one is out of my league. They merely think they are. |
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over a year ago
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"I know my place.
Likewise, at the bottom of the food chain"
so you get "eaten" by those above? |
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over a year ago
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There will always be someone you like but they don't like you, And someone who likes you but you don't like them, There has to be something that attracts me to them I wont just sleep with someone just so I can have sex  |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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I always like to think aim high but actually everything in life has a league... Including fab.... Some people just stunning and may be best left for the other stunning people x |
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By *o30Woman
over a year ago
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"There will always be someone you like but they don't like you, And someone who likes you but you don't like them, There has to be something that attracts me to them I wont just sleep with someone just so I can have sex "
True & don't I know it |
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"Its not about leagues for me... but I do sometimes wonder why anyone would be interested in me (self esteem, and always think I'm a bit plain jane and boring compared to some of my friends)"
Your hot body perhaps?? |
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"Well... I always Think there out my league... And then get a shock when they want to play with me... Does it come down to confidence not really... You either appeal and attract.. I put myself at a average 5.5 because That's what I am"
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over a year ago
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"Well... I always Think there out my league... And then get a shock when they want to play with me... Does it come down to confidence not really... You either appeal and attract.. I put myself at a average 5.5 because That's what I am"
but you're a gorgeous girl! I'd give you a 9, seriously! x |
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By *ust4fun26Couple
over a year ago
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I have never judged anyone by 'league' I find attitude sexier than anything else, if you're attitude stinks it doesn't matter how good looking you are you won't do it for us. A good witty sense of humour with a cheery disposition makes you attractive in my opinion |
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over a year ago
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"Plus there are plenty of people we've liked the look of and then been completely put of after chatting to them, there has to be an attraction for us but we have to like them too "
Totally agree ! Not all about looks once you start chattingx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally think it's more about chemistry & what kind of sex partner you're after in that moment, rather than perfect looks & body |
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You all need to remember that everyone has different tastes. ..I may be a 2/10 to one person. ... but then someone who likes curvier bodies and thick thighs and wobbly arses may place me at a 8.. if you like someone ..message them! You may be perfect to them..and..what have you actually got to lose.
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"I personally think it's more about chemistry & what kind of sex partner you're after in that moment, rather than perfect looks & body "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even if you don't much value looks though you're still rating on things - charisma, humour, wealth, status, whatever. I don't believe anybody has never been in a position of feeling in awe, or nervous to approach etc. |
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
No! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all a numbers game. Remember at 10 pm the girl/guy might look like a 3. But at 3am that same girl/guy will look like a 10. Remember time is on your side |
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
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"Well we recently got chatting to a couple, when they sent their private pic's it became very apparent that they where in a total different league to us.
They would be champions league and us div Two in the auto windscreens league.
We did point out that they were way hotter than us.
Jools and I both agreed that we would find it intimidating to play with a couple who were so frigging hot.
Funny enough when we sent our pic's we have not heard back.
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I'm the same on this one!..guys or couples who are extremely attractive message me & they think from my face pic & body pics I look great...but I've got a mummy tummy with a road map across it.... |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
No |
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over a year ago
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"Well we recently got chatting to a couple, when they sent their private pic's it became very apparent that they where in a total different league to us.
They would be champions league and us div Two in the auto windscreens league.
We did point out that they were way hotter than us.
Jools and I both agreed that we would find it intimidating to play with a couple who were so frigging hot.
Funny enough when we sent our pic's we have not heard back.
I'm the same on this one!..guys or couples who are extremely attractive message me & they think from my face pic & body pics I look great...but I've got a mummy tummy with a road map across it...."
so am I misunderstanding what people mean by league, is it that you have something that you feel they will find unattractive about you rather than they are in any way better than you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well we recently got chatting to a couple, when they sent their private pic's it became very apparent that they where in a total different league to us.
They would be champions league and us div Two in the auto windscreens league.
We did point out that they were way hotter than us.
Jools and I both agreed that we would find it intimidating to play with a couple who were so frigging hot.
Funny enough when we sent our pic's we have not heard back.
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Haha in my opinion your hot |
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By *icky999Man
over a year ago
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" brother, we dont even play the same sport"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??"
Some people click. Some don't. I don't think it's any more complicated than that. |
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
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"Well we recently got chatting to a couple, when they sent their private pic's it became very apparent that they where in a total different league to us.
They would be champions league and us div Two in the auto windscreens league.
We did point out that they were way hotter than us.
Jools and I both agreed that we would find it intimidating to play with a couple who were so frigging hot.
Funny enough when we sent our pic's we have not heard back.
I'm the same on this one!..guys or couples who are extremely attractive message me & they think from my face pic & body pics I look great...but I've got a mummy tummy with a road map across it....
so am I misunderstanding what people mean by league, is it that you have something that you feel they will find unattractive about you rather than they are in any way better than you?"
....I personally have issues with my tummy area so I guess yes..that's just me though.. |
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"Is there such a thing as someone being 'out of your league'??
Good Lord, yes!
I'm not even in the same league as Mrs ddc
(Why else do you think we don't have face pics of me?)
Mr ddc
But therein lies the contradiction - Mrs ddc is with you, so clearly she's not out of your league. Beauty comes in many forms, not just physical looks!"
You're very kind, we were once, but she's definitely worn better than me physically. And while she may value my complex sense of humour, if I wanted to make any lady on here laugh, I only need to drop my trousers
Still, don't fancy being you once I tell her you said she's just as ugly as I am...
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nah its crap some folk may like folk or not we all here for sex mainly no different to going to pub you see folk u like and not.
No one is out of anyones league some are fussy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so am I misunderstanding what people mean by league, is it that you have something that you feel they will find unattractive about you rather than they are in any way better than you?"
Sounds like two sides of the same coin to me. If you feel somebody is unlikely to find you attractive I'd say you're in different leagues.
Of course they may disagree and then you can enter a knockout cup... or maybe a relegation battle..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so am I misunderstanding what people mean by league, is it that you have something that you feel they will find unattractive about you rather than they are in any way better than you?"
Yeah i wouldn't say anyone is 'better' than me, better is a really vague word to describe a whole person anyway- it's a word you'd use to apply to something that can be measured.
But there are people out there more attractive than me and i'm pretty sure they would look at me and think ew. Same as guys i find very unattractive, i wonder why they think i would fancy them? |
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"Well we recently got chatting to a couple, when they sent their private pic's it became very apparent that they where in a total different league to us.
They would be champions league and us div Two in the auto windscreens league.
We did point out that they were way hotter than us.
Jools and I both agreed that we would
find it intimidating to play with a couple who were so frigging hot.
Funny enough when we sent our pic's we have not heard back.
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I would put u guys in the champions league x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never feel someone is out of my league, they might not fancy me but thats a different matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, take the 'bull' by the horns and hang on for the ride!
shouting Yeeehaaaawwww!!
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Well howdy purty laydee.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's so right, us men aint bothered about looks.
You can speak for yourself shag.
Personally I wouldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. "
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