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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Profiles that take pic's & veri's down then re add them to get on update's....attention seeking or not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you mean hiding verifications then unhiding them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't give a shit tbh. Cant see how it affects you so let people get on with it.

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"I don't give a shit tbh. Cant see how it affects you so let people get on with it."

Ooooooooh someone get out of bed the wrong side?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another moan! let people go about buisness the way they want.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also how do you know they are doing it for attention?

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By *odramafunCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

I agree to a degree but we sometimes add new pics and take old ones off..... Then change about a bit if on maximum photos.. Not for attention just displays us at the time... Each to theIr own

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

Surely the whole point of this site if you are looking for meets is to attract attention? Status updates, pics, veri's, forum posts are all ways to do that. Don't see the problem myself x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Posting tedious questions to forums, attention seeking or...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you mean hiding verifications then unhiding them? "

As I wasn't aware they appeared in your news feed again if this is the case.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anything that seems a bit attention seeking probably is; people use different means of drawing your eye to their profile. If it's a tactic that makes them look a bit desperate then just avoid that profile.

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By *iggerooooCouple over a year ago

Conwy

Well they got your attention so maybe it's worked with others too.

Rather than it be "attention seeking" I like to think of it more as "marketing"

Attention seeking is "I'm leaving this site in 24 hours" ... why announce it, just bloody go lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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Are people not allowed to court attention on here?

Thought the main idea was to try and attract people you may be interested in

I have filtered myself out of local updates so I don't even know what other people are up to

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By *odramafunCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

"Well they got your attention so maybe it's worked with others too.

Rather than it be "attention seeking" I like to think of it more as "marketing"

Attention seeking is "I'm leaving this site in 24 hours" ... why announce it, just bloody go lol

Oh yes.. The dreaded I am leaving soon tactic..... X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't give a shit tbh. Cant see how it affects you so let people get on with it."

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Profiles that take pic's & veri's down then re add them to get on update's....attention seeking or not?"

I find that pointless bitching posts in the forums are normally more about attention seeking. . .

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

Attention seeking's the name of the game on here I'm afraid.

Trying to get noticed and standing out of the pack. That's the whole idea if you're looking for meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Posting tedious questions to forums, attention seeking or..."

Well spotted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought that was the whole point of being here? To draw attention to yourself so that people might be interested in meeting you?

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By *onyneMan over a year ago

Newcastle

The answer to this one is the tried and tested 'we are all different and there are many ways of doing things and none of them are particularly right or wrong'.

I guess some people do like to repeatedly draw attention to themselves in many ways, but up to as all to go about things whichever way we want

OOOOO, it's Friday, and I have wangled a day of 'working from home', which means doing exactly as little as possible and no more...

have a good weekend all...

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By *neplusserMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Profiles that take pic's & veri's down then re add them to get on update's....attention seeking or not?"

Oh dear, this backfired didn't it! I'm guessing this wasn't the response you expected...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought that was the whole point of being here? To draw attention to yourself so that people might be interested in meeting you?"

Exactly.

We rotate our pic's regularly, same with our veris. Not to say look at us we are amazing.

But look at us are we your type, if so get in touch.

Otherwise the whole, pic's, verifications, profile would be pointless.

If you don't like attention seeker's then my friends you are definitely in the wrong place.

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By *adysueandneroCouple over a year ago

witney

"Profiles that take pic's & veri's down then re add them to get on update's....attention seeking or not?"

I think some of the comments have been a little harsh.

We have personally seen a "couple" re-posting the same

"new" photo time after time. Kind of makes us wonder why they can't take any new ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely the whole point of this site if you are looking for meets is to attract attention? Status updates, pics, veri's, forum posts are all ways to do that. Don't see the problem myself x"

My thoughts exactly someone called me attention seeking the other day on here n a drama queen I thought hang on a sec aint we all attention seeking on here or am I missing the point of fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

MIKKKI ,,,runs through the thread SHOUTING n waving her knickers in the air,,,WOOOOOOO HOOOOO!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

"MIKKKI ,,,runs through the thread SHOUTING n waving her knickers in the air,,,WOOOOOOO HOOOOO!

Sticks leg out,trips her over

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MIKKKI ,,,runs through the thread SHOUTING n waving her knickers in the air,,,WOOOOOOO HOOOOO!

Attention seeker

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry

not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MIKKKI ,,,runs through the thread SHOUTING n waving her knickers in the air,,,WOOOOOOO HOOOOO!

Sticks leg out,trips her over

LEAPS into air,does a triple back flip n lands perfectly,,struts out room hand on hip,,,,pouting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry

not

its all you,you,you,innit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MIKKKI ,,,runs through the thread SHOUTING n waving her knickers in the air,,,WOOOOOOO HOOOOO!

Hahahahaha mint!

As everyone else pretty much has said; people are on here to find other people to meet and chat to. You can shrink into the background or get out there, and run round with MIKKKI.

If someone does something you don't like, great! That's a filter for you!

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

I post new pics regularly..probably attention seeking and exhibitionist behaviour. But I can so I will

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By *ertiVogtsMan over a year ago

Exeter

Your boobs always get my attention!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I post new pics regularly..probably attention seeking and exhibitionist behaviour. But I can so I will

It works

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh fuck it whats wrong with being a peacock,ffs,its a giggle

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"oh fuck it whats wrong with being a peacock,ffs,its a giggle

Exactly! Brightens up my day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Profiles that take pic's & veri's down then re add them to get on update's....attention seeking or not?"

Why does it bother you so much?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We display our veris for the benefit of anyone we re chatting to with a view to meeting and won't be changing that policy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I post new pics regularly..probably attention seeking and exhibitionist behaviour. But I can so I will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep it's attention seeking but it's what gets you noticed on here and people like the attention they receive.

No big deal imo.

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

I don't know about anyone else but I simply enjoy posting (and sometimes reposting) my pics. I like showing my bits off. I like the idea that some women may be looking at my pics. And some may even like what they see. It's just a bit of fun.

I don't really care at this moment in time if it leads to a meet or not. I'm just doing because I want to. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Simply asked a question..no need for such Bitchy comments..thorght forums were for chat not nastiness!! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody hate attention seekers........oh by the way I have a pic of unicorn on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bloody hate attention seekers........oh by the way I have a pic of unicorn on my profile."

Only awesome people can see unicorns

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Simply asked a question..no need for such Bitchy comments..thorght forums were for chat not nastiness!! Thanks"

Most of the replies have been silly rather than bitchy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Profiles that take pic's & veri's down then re add them to get on update's....attention seeking or not?

I think some of the comments have been a little harsh.

We have personally seen a "couple" re-posting the same

"new" photo time after time. Kind of makes us wonder why they can't take any new ones"

There is one that I see all the time, I wish he'd get a new shot of his cock tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is one that I see all the time, I wish he'd get a new shot of his cock tbh

He's probably waiting for someone to volunteer to hold the camera.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aren't we all in some sort of X-factor (or should that be F-factor?) type competition where we are both judged and judge?

Either here to meet people or obtain validation from like minded others for our views and lifestyle - be it real or imagined. Hence the site has "fabs" for pics and ranks them in an order of how much they are liked in the beauty parade that is picture posting.

Only MHO of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I AM LEAVING IN 2 WEEKS!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I AM LEAVING IN 2 WEEKS!!!!!

R we gonna get a tread so we can troll ya!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Aren't we all in some sort of X-factor (or should that be F-factor?) type competition where we are both judged and judge?

Only MHO of course.

Of course we are. One thing that does bug me on here though is those people (usually women, let's face it) who constantly court attention - which is totally fine - but then complain and are really rude to those who give them that attention.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are leaving in 2 weeks, 6 days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Indeed, I suspect that it is a power issue due to not having control over their real lives or unhappy in their situation or being belittled as children and therefore this perpetuates to adulthood. Again only MHO -

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

Nowt wrong with seeking attention for the purpose of attracting those of interest however you decide to court it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Profiles that take pic's & veri's down then re add them to get on update's....attention seeking or not?"

I normally take my pants down to get attention....have been arrested several times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I AM LEAVING IN 2 WEEKS!!!!!

R we gonna get a tread so we can troll ya!

"
your the dodgy one with meat skewers? er you just keep ya distance lass i will report you!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Simply asked a question..no need for such Bitchy comments..thorght forums were for chat not nastiness!! Thanks"

Really depends on the subject and who posts as to how the thread turns out.

Don't let it put you off posting in the future

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

LOOK ! I HAVE TITS!!! *shimmy shimmy shimmy shake*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOOK ! I HAVE TITS!!! *shimmy shimmy shimmy shake*"
your tits look like feet!

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

If you find profile's that use all the tricks of the trade to garner every last drip of attention from the site and it irritates you, block em! Stops them appe.aring on your news feed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Posting tedious questions to forums, attention seeking or..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know about anyone else but I simply enjoy posting (and sometimes reposting) my pics. I like showing my bits off. I like the idea that some women may be looking at my pics. And some may even like what they see. It's just a bit of fun.

I don't really care at this moment in time if it leads to a meet or not. I'm just doing because I want to. Simple as that."

And hopefully you will continue

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