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over a year ago
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Some very good friends of ours have posted a Halloween come birthday party up on the site.
They're a fantastic couple and do everything they can to make sure ppl enjoy themselves.
Naturally,as well as posting the event,they also look for folk to invite, the sort who seem compatible and who say they like parties.
So why is it that some ppl,when invited,don't say "Thanks for thinking of us but we already have a date that night but please remember us in future" or "It doesn't sound our thing but thanks for the invitation".
Yet you get some weirdo's who do neither of these but say nothing and just block them FFS!
Now we'll hold our hands up and say that we don't always reply to messages for various reasons.
However if anyone was kind enough to invite us to a private party it would only be common courtesy to respond.
There are certainly some strange,ignorant buggers about!! 
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"Some very good friends of ours have posted a Halloween come birthday party up on the site.
They're a fantastic couple and do everything they can to make sure ppl enjoy themselves.
Naturally,as well as posting the event,they also look for folk to invite, the sort who seem compatible and who say they like parties.
So why is it that some ppl,when invited,don't say "Thanks for thinking of us but we already have a date that night but please remember us in future" or "It doesn't sound our thing but thanks for the invitation".
Yet you get some weirdo's who do neither of these but say nothing and just block them FFS!
Now we'll hold our hands up and say that we don't always reply to messages for various reasons.
However if anyone was kind enough to invite us to a private party it would only be common courtesy to respond.
There are certainly some strange,ignorant buggers about!!
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Can understand "Thanks for thinking of us but we already have a date that night but please remember us in future" or "It doesn't sound our thing but thanks for the invitation".
Thats Ok since they have replied and given their reason(s).
But cannot even start to understand "Yet you get some weirdo's who do neither of these but say nothing and just block them FFS!"
We cant think of a logical reason why a couple who want to swing or who are swingers would want to do this.
Perhaps we have answered or own question in that they do not want to try swinging or are not swingers.We know from parties that they are usually no pressure meets where you can fully join in,partially join in,just watch or bugger off home if its not your thing....alot less expectation than a meet with another couple and yourselves.
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Can understand "Thanks for thinking of us but we already have a date that night but please remember us in future" or "It doesn't sound our thing but thanks for the invitation".
Thats Ok since they have replied and given their reason(s).
But cannot even start to understand "Yet you get some weirdo's who do neither of these but say nothing and just block them FFS!"
We cant think of a logical reason why a couple who want to swing or who are swingers would want to do this.
Perhaps we have answered or own question in that they do not want to try swinging or are not swingers.We know from parties that they are usually no pressure meets where you can fully join in,partially join in,just watch or bugger off home if its not your thing....alot less expectation than a meet with another couple and yourselves.
Is this what they call a "No Brainer" "
You'd think so wouldn't you,theres a lot less pressure at a party,especially if it say's on their "Interest's" Adult Party's.
"There's nowt as queer as folk!"
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