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If 'Private Notes' privacy failed.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you use the private notes function for other members profiles regularly and if you do, how horrified would you be if the site broke and everyone could suddenly see what *you* had written about them?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you use the private notes function for other members profiles regularly and if you do, how horrified would you be if the site broke and everyone could suddenly see what *you* had written about them?
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I wouldn't care. I use it for keeping notes about people because of things they've said in private messages or in the forums.
Like the guy who wrote in the forums that he thought that gay men are disgusting, then asked for a mmf threesome with me in private.
Or the person who emailed me this morning offering the chance of of being gang-banged by his bareback group, when he says he *always* does safe sax in his profile.
Sometimes I just note that people are rude.
They're all honest. Why would I be bothered if they saw them? I usually tell them these reasons in messages too. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Yes I use and certainly wouldn't be worried if my private notes were revealed.
In fact, it might teach some men (they are my target audience)about why they are not successful on here due to crap profiles, being secretly Bi and status messages being totally disrespectful so they work for me  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Or the person who emailed me this morning offering the chance of of being gang-banged by his bareback group, when he says he *always* does safe sax in his profile."
People always tell me to practice safe sax, but I play where I want, when I want.
I just don't care. What's anyone going to do? Someone called the police on me once, I even went to court about it. Was a waste of everyone's time. All they did was give me a Jasbo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or the person who emailed me this morning offering the chance of of being gang-banged by his bareback group, when he says he *always* does safe sax in his profile.
People always tell me to practice safe sax, but I play where I want, when I want.
I just don't care. What's anyone going to do? Someone called the police on me once, I even went to court about it. Was a waste of everyone's time. All they did was give me a Jasbo."
Wtf did I just read?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or the person who emailed me this morning offering the chance of of being gang-banged by his bareback group, when he says he *always* does safe sax in his profile.
People always tell me to practice safe sax, but I play where I want, when I want.
I just don't care. What's anyone going to do? Someone called the police on me once, I even went to court about it. Was a waste of everyone's time. All they did was give me a Jasbo.
Wtf did I just read? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or the person who emailed me this morning offering the chance of of being gang-banged by his bareback group, when he says he *always* does safe sax in his profile.
People always tell me to practice safe sax, but I play where I want, when I want.
I just don't care. What's anyone going to do? Someone called the police on me once, I even went to court about it. Was a waste of everyone's time. All they did was give me a Jasbo."
Lucky you got off so lightly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or the person who emailed me this morning offering the chance of of being gang-banged by his bareback group, when he says he *always* does safe sax in his profile.
People always tell me to practice safe sax, but I play where I want, when I want.
I just don't care. What's anyone going to do? Someone called the police on me once, I even went to court about it. Was a waste of everyone's time. All they did was give me a Jasbo.
Wtf did I just read? "
wubble wabble  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only really write who can accom or if I need to remember something they have said to me about a hotel meet or car meet x "
might be embarassing if the car meet was offered in a three wheeled van... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't really be bothered. Just alot of people would know that I think they are knobs. If I met them in person I'd say it to their faces. The others would just see their real names. Where met etc. No biggie. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
They are just random notes of all sorts for mine. So I have notes on friend friends who have solo profiles and a couples profile so I can remember who's with who, for example. As another example there are also a few annotated with 'probably a tosspot' based on forum posts. I don't tend to block unless their tosspottery is a regular occurrence so I like to note that something they said may have made them not my cup of tea, regardless of how hot they may or may not be. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Most of mine are "we saw their pics and said no" or "they saw our photos and said no" etc. Just so we don't keep on going round and round in circles.
I really want to see wasp's notes though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't really be bothered. Just alot of people would know that I think they are knobs. If I met them in person I'd say it to their faces. The others would just see their real names. Where met etc. No biggie."
Real names being revealed is a biggy. Mines mick obviously but some wouldn't like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't use them. either I want to chat to someone because I like them, or I don't in.which case I normally block. I don't have much use for notes as I don't chat to that many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only really write who can accom or if I need to remember something they have said to me about a hotel meet or car meet x
might be embarassing if the car meet was offered in a three wheeled van... "
Pmsl well be ok in the back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you use the private notes function for other members profiles regularly and if you do, how horrified would you be if the site broke and everyone could suddenly see what *you* had written about them?
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Don't currently use them though that may change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Private notes function???????
if youre paid up you can keep notes against a profile that no one can see. Only you."
Well I didn't know that. Just had a look and found how to do it.
Every day's a school day.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are just random notes of all sorts for mine. So I have notes on friend friends who have solo profiles and a couples profile so I can remember who's with who, for example. As another example there are also a few annotated with 'probably a tosspot' based on forum posts. I don't tend to block unless their tosspottery is a regular occurrence so I like to note that something they said may have made them not my cup of tea, regardless of how hot they may or may not be."
Checks....
Not blocked....
not sure if smiling or must try harder.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've made a few notes, I don't think any of them would be a problem of they went public. I suspect it would be much more distressing to find out what other people have written about me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've made a few notes, I don't think any of them would be a problem of they went public. I suspect it would be much more distressing to find out what other people have written about me. "
ha, yeah likewise! Would be good to know what other people's perceptions are!
Unless people tell you how you come over to them, you never know to change your behaviours (if you decide you want to, of course!)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use them all the time and yes best not show mine, every person I've met has a note so I put date, name, where and something ahem memorable and that could be social/play.because I'm scatty and meet loads people at partys/clubs
so when they message me 6months later I say hi tom yeah I remember having a laugh with you in smokers room at so and so club the tricky bit is when I bump into them face to face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess only those nice people at Sydney University will be the only people who really know all about us and how we interact in the bigger picture...  |
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