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As a guy it constantly annoys me when u send a nice polite and friendly message and don't get a reply or just deleted. Isnt it just common curtesy to reply even to say NO THANKS ?? |
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We reply to all messages ourselves but if you check the FAQs it says no reply should be treated as a polite no thanks due to the volume of messages that people get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We will always politely decline, it is rude to ignore but when the same person keeps asking and we've already said no - that's when we ignore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is not going to end well.
I'd bale out now if I was you....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its the life of a single man here, the quicker you accept it the better lol  |
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Here we go again.
Yes, it is fine to be ignored. Would not be the case if so many of the rejected took it well. They don't, so to avoid abuse many just don't reply.
If I want a reply I always ask for one and reassure that I will keep it like a man. An unattractive one, but still a man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a guy it constantly annoys me when u send a nice polite and friendly message and don't get a reply or just deleted. Isnt it just common curtesy to reply even to say NO THANKS ??"
No it isn't, its accepted as a no thanks if no reply. I usually reply and often I get abuse in return for my no thanks. Nobody owes you a reply, you are like spam, do you reply to every bit of that in your email inbox then? Surely that would be polite, they've taken the trouble to enquire about your erection status, surely a no thanks is better than delete? |
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I can understand the issue of volume, that is understandable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*take it like a man*"
So very true just get used to it my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be happy with a NO THANKS
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Are you sure you wouldn't be tempted to ask why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a ideal world yes.
But this is Fab world and you have to remember some people get a lot of mail and cant be expected to spend 30 mins shifting through it every time they log in.
That's not being rude that's just the reality of things on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a guy it constantly annoys me when u send a nice polite and friendly message and don't get a reply or just deleted. Isnt it just common curtesy to reply even to say NO THANKS ??"
As a couple it constantly annoys us when guys send what they think is a friendly polite message,but clearly haven't read our profile,so aren't what we are looking for.point this out to the sender and we are accused of being up ourselves,or told by the sender they didn't see that bit  so now we find it best to delete n ignore those that aren't what we are looking for |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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It is standard fab etiquette that no reply is just a no. Women can get 100's of messages a day, if they were to respond to them all then they'd never get a chance to play!!
Read the help sections on here, fab back this up. |
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I wouldn't ask why, I'd just move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be happy with a NO THANKS
Are you sure you wouldn't be tempted to ask why?"
And that's when the trouble starts. I am honest with men if they ask why, I tell them. No man seems to enjoy heating that he's been hit far too often with the ugly stick, can't understand it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is standard fab etiquette that no reply is just a no. Women can get 100's of messages a day, if they were to respond to them all then they'd never get a chance to play!!
Read the help sections on here, fab back this up."
That's right as single women are sought after lol. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
I've also said many no thank yous and had some pure abuse back, easier to ignore as less abuse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't ask why, I'd just move on"
Sorry to be brutal but you cannot expect a reply. And why should you expect one? When you send a message, you are a stranger to the recipient. Why should they feel obliged to respond to you?
It is not discourteous. Do you feel obliged to respond to junk mail? Do you feel obliged to chat with cold callers? Your expectation of a reply might be considered discourteous. |
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OP look at it this way
Do you respond to every piece of junk mail that you dont want posted through your letter box but still does get sent? or do you just throw it in the bin?
What you deem polite and reasonable isnt what someone else might deem polite and reasonable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are a single guy that is the kind of treatment you expect. Best Thing is to take it on the chin.
I have all but given up on here and most sites to be honest
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could always find the answer on the other 6000 threads on the same subject  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As always when this subject is discussed we make the exact same point.
Our profile makes it perfectly clear we are not looking for single guys. Not that it stops them.
If someone cannot show us the courtesy of actually reading our profile then why do they expect a courteous response? |
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That's a fair point, but when u have read the profile it's still annoying.
Great responses though. Thank you |
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That's a fair point, but when u have read the profile it's still annoying.
Great responses though. Thank you |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
If you accept that some people reply and some don't you will enjoy your time on the site better.
I am going to close this now as Admin have asked mods to  |
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