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Bloody hell.
This could get like War & Peace  
I (Mr) got involved many (too many) years ago after meeting a couple from the old "Loot" ad's, usual shit at the time, sexless marriage and all that. I hadn't really thought about couples I was just looking for a single girl at the time, swinging was something that was only in the Sunday papers.
Anyway, they not only taught me a trick or two but introduced me to the swinger club scene, well not really much of a scene then, there was the Adam & Eve and the Adam & Eve, but WOW what a new world that opened up for me.
Needless to say my first marriage didn't last much longer and I carried on as an occasional visitor to the A&E and progressed to an odd visit to the Boardroom (anyone remember that place?) I stopped for a while and had a couple of vanilla (and faithful) relationships and then met a partner who after a while confessed that she and her ex were involved in the lifestyle. Thus began my first foray into swinging as a couple. That lasted for around four years and we were almost part of the furniture at Cupids (in the Mary & Glen days) and at some point did most of the North west clubs.
At the end of that relationship I pissed off to Spain and got involved with a German (yeah I know ) I made no secret about my past involvement and although we talked about it she always said that it wasn't for her, UNTIL. We saw an advert for one of the German sex fairs that was being held locally and she wanted to go and have a look. So after walking around various sex toy and lingerie stalls, watching some of the live shows, and generally taking in the atmosphere we were on a stand talking to the owners of a swinger club. That is when she decided she wanted to try it, a little nervously at first but after a few visits she was well and truly hooked and up until her recent illness we were in a club two or three times a month.
Now after a pretty quiet year we are starting to find our feet again and hoping, even at our advanced age, to have a few more years left.
Sorry if I went on a bit, but I think I had to start at the beginning. |
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"Bloody hell.
This could get like War & Peace
I (Mr) got involved many (too many) years ago after meeting a couple from the old "Loot" ad's, usual shit at the time, sexless marriage and all that. I hadn't really thought about couples I was just looking for a single girl at the time, swinging was something that was only in the Sunday papers.
Anyway, they not only taught me a trick or two but introduced me to the swinger club scene, well not really much of a scene then, there was the Adam & Eve and the Adam & Eve, but WOW what a new world that opened up for me.
Needless to say my first marriage didn't last much longer and I carried on as an occasional visitor to the A&E and progressed to an odd visit to the Boardroom (anyone remember that place?) I stopped for a while and had a couple of vanilla (and faithful) relationships and then met a partner who after a while confessed that she and her ex were involved in the lifestyle. Thus began my first foray into swinging as a couple. That lasted for around four years and we were almost part of the furniture at Cupids (in the Mary & Glen days) and at some point did most of the North west clubs.
At the end of that relationship I pissed off to Spain and got involved with a German (yeah I know ) I made no secret about my past involvement and although we talked about it she always said that it wasn't for her, UNTIL. We saw an advert for one of the German sex fairs that was being held locally and she wanted to go and have a look. So after walking around various sex toy and lingerie stalls, watching some of the live shows, and generally taking in the atmosphere we were on a stand talking to the owners of a swinger club. That is when she decided she wanted to try it, a little nervously at first but after a few visits she was well and truly hooked and up until her recent illness we were in a club two or three times a month.
Now after a pretty quiet year we are starting to find our feet again and hoping, even at our advanced age, to have a few more years left.
Sorry if I went on a bit, but I think I had to start at the beginning. "
Happy for you both and hope her recovery continues apace. Funny how once you get past the stereotype of a people or race, you find plenty of things in common with them. Must get around to posting my story here. |
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I had gone 27 years into my marriage before our first time with someone else. I was a virgin when I got married, we are both of Romany descent and it was the norm.
Our first time started at a when we had friends, two other couples, round for dinner. My hubby is a very good poker player and one of the guys wanted to learn the game so after dinner we set up for a game. It ended up with drink flowing and turned into a game of strip poker and then dares.
We thought it was just a d*unken one off but in the cold light of day we were both surprised at how so turned on by it we wanted more. It also turned out that one of our couple friends were already swingers but the other has no idea that we have pursued this lifestyle. |
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Ours happened gradually. My girlfriend is Brazilian and has always loved being admired, she takes compliments as just that and it makes her feel great when people check her out to the point where she has always been aroused even by a guy perving at her.
She has always been kept her body in absolute perfect shape to achieve this.
When we first stated dating many years ago she would wear a tiny thing and bra to the beach and I would just get used to over time people staring at her near naked body. After I understood she just liked the attention I too enjoyed this and would actually become aroused. Even more so when she first suggested we go to a nudist spa and then after that an outdoor nudist / swinger resort.
At the large nudist resort she was in her element parading around naked she would get highly aroused seeing guys wanking while they watched her sunbathe nude. This then progressed to us having sex while being watched the atmosphere of the swingers resort making us so at ease with like minded people being around us. We progressed to strangers groping her while we were having sex which got us wanting more.
Our first full swap was with 2 mature very experienced swinger couples at the same resort. It was like they groomed us and we were hooked, for almost a whole afternoon I had 2 still very attractive tanned mature women playing with me while both of their husbands took my girlfriend, I couldn't believe how aroused I was seeing my girlfriend get ravaged by 2 strangers and seeing how much she enjoyed it while I was lapping up the attention of their wives.
From then on we were hooked and became regulars at 2 swingers and nudist clubs, we have seen each other fucking with numerous others now and it has only enhanced out relationship as our sex life is even better now than when we met 6 years ago, usually relationships go the other way! We do find that we try and take breaks from swinging, ie not go to a club every single week, after going we have already a 2 week break, we also just go with the flo, sometimes just being watched sometimes multiple full swaps just go with the mood we have at that moment, never really plan exact details in advance. |
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I went to a 25th wedding anniversary party and put my keys down. Picked them up, or so I thought so and lo and behold I had a new wife. The 25th Wedding anniversary was at number 25 Acasia Ave, I was at 52 ? |
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Wife liked massages then her regular guy one day decided he would strip naked and gave her the best massage followed by a good seeing to so had a few more since |
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We was playing a game from.a sex shop.
Part of the game was write down a fantasie each.
The winner would get to have the fantasie and hey presto the Mr won lol but we both had similar lol |
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Started with an old pic trading site called hello. Got on really well with another couple was Kent to meet for just nude in public pics but it soon ended in me and her in a field kissing and touching. Then moving to each other's pussies and a get 69 b then sat up and I moved to her hubby and pulled out his cock b |
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"Wow a and e was a old stamping ground for me in.the. Late. 80 s boardroom. Made two visits there too ex g friend wanted to.have a three some because her friend had one and we took.it frim
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Late 80's early 90's was my time there as well. I'm sure we must have bumped into each other. Great memories of the place when Dave & Sue were the owners and Irish Tony on reception
The was also a very horny girl who used to work the reception sometimes but for the life of me I can't remember her name (everything else but not her name ) |
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"Wow a and e was a old stamping ground for me in.the. Late. 80 s boardroom. Made two visits there too ex g friend wanted to.have a three some because her friend had one and we took.it frim
There
Late 80's early 90's was my time there as well. I'm sure we must have bumped into each other. Great memories of the place when Dave & Sue were the owners and Irish Tony on reception
The was also a very horny girl who used to work the reception sometimes but for the life of me I can't remember her name (everything else but not her name )"
nineties was my introduction to swinging too...saw advert in Manchester paper for club called Xandadu went quite often till it closed...then found fab lol not tried other clubs after getting scared off in one on Rochdale, closed now thankfully as the female owner did not seem to think the no means no rule could be used by men  |
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Ok short version. I was a virgin she was not. She came with a kinky reputation (whips, bi sexual, first of her friends to have sex). Getting together with her she insisted on knowing my thoughts and fantasies. I shared them all with her ones she liked and disliked.
We then started reading FORUM magazine. Part way between a sex mag,contact mag and readers digest for sex.
My mind was fueled by all the people who enjoyed their wives being with others ( they were my favorite stories).
We bought porn vids, roleplayed being other people for each other. Including friends. ( sorry friends).
Then we found sex chat rooms on aol and yahoo. Cyber sex and discussions about meeting up with others. We almost went for it a few times but chickened out as we were scared of loosing each other. ( I still worry she's far too good for me, but I think she is blind to this).
Then one Sunday she surprises me saying let's go to partners at bury. We go with a list of don'ts as ling as your arm. No kissing. No full sex etc. No one under 21 no one over 30 ( we were 25 at the time). We stuck to the rules had a little soft swinging and exhibitionism and voyuered. We enjoyed it. Then met 1 on 1 with a couple 3 hours a way. It was a terrible meet.
I dont think we then swapped for years. When we came back to it we had less rules. We both know what we like but have less time to swing ad we have family so just fit it in 2 or 3 times a year. |
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We are both highly sexed and had done quite a bit of group stuff when we were younger, before we married our exes. When we met, we were both recently divorced. Neither of us were the faithful sort and we'd both had affairs and one night-stands. Rose used to get Forum and tried to interest her husband in swapping, but he wouldn't do it. Geoff had suggested he and his wife visit a swinger club but she wouldn't play.
We'd only been a couple for a few weeks when were in bed watching an amateur porn DVD filmed in La Chambre's playrooms. Geoff said the club wasn't far away and suggested we tried it, so we went and loved all the swapping going on. We didn't swap that time, but went again a couple of weeks later and had our first soft-swing 4some. After a few more soft-swing only visits we had our first full swap and both loved it; we were both a bit worried about jealousy but instead of that, both of us were excited by the sight of the other fucking someone else -and we still are!
We got married a couple of years later and now have been swinging regularly for over 10 years. It's a great way for both of us to have play sex with others, openly, while still staying a couple. |
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"Ours happened gradually. My girlfriend is Brazilian and has always loved being admired, she takes compliments as just that and it makes her feel great when people check her out to the point where she has always been aroused even by a guy perving at her.
She has always been kept her body in absolute perfect shape to achieve this.
When we first stated dating many years ago she would wear a tiny thing and bra to the beach and I would just get used to over time people staring at her near naked body. After I understood she just liked the attention I too enjoyed this and would actually become aroused. Even more so when she first suggested we go to a nudist spa and then after that an outdoor nudist / swinger resort.
At the large nudist resort she was in her element parading around naked she would get highly aroused seeing guys wanking while they watched her sunbathe nude. This then progressed to us having sex while being watched the atmosphere of the swingers resort making us so at ease with like minded people being around us. We progressed to strangers groping her while we were having sex which got us wanting more.
Our first full swap was with 2 mature very experienced swinger couples at the same resort. It was like they groomed us and we were hooked, for almost a whole afternoon I had 2 still very attractive tanned mature women playing with me while both of their husbands took my girlfriend, I couldn't believe how aroused I was seeing my girlfriend get ravaged by 2 strangers and seeing how much she enjoyed it while I was lapping up the attention of their wives.
From then on we were hooked and became regulars at 2 swingers and nudist clubs, we have seen each other fucking with numerous others now and it has only enhanced out relationship as our sex life is even better now than when we met 6 years ago, usually relationships go the other way! We do find that we try and take breaks from swinging, ie not go to a club every single week, after going we have already a 2 week break, we also just go with the flo, sometimes just being watched sometimes multiple full swaps just go with the mood we have at that moment, never really plan exact details in advance."
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"Ours happened gradually. My girlfriend is Brazilian and has always loved being admired, she takes compliments as just that and it makes her feel great when people check her out to the point where she has always been aroused even by a guy perving at her.
She has always been kept her body in absolute perfect shape to achieve this.
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Ooooo this is me too! I love being checked out by guys when I'm out and yes it does turn me on.
(Unfortunately I'm not 100% happy with my body right now, life got in the way the last few months and it needs work before I start meeting again.)
Anyway, we had kids, then our sex life died. Husband has always known I love other guys' attention so would keep talking about it. After a year and a half of patient work, I finally came onto Fab, and suddenly he gets a hell of a lot more sex!
So do other guys. 
For me it's escapism from the daily drudgery and stress of real life - it allows me to step outside the front door and forget that the washing up needs doing and to revisit my younger slutty years. And I come back to him horny as hell.  |
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We first brought the subject up about 5 years ago, not about swapping partners but talking about another guy joining in. We have been together since we were 15/16, so up until that point we had very little experience with having sex with other.
I (mr) asked Mrs if she was ever curious about having a completely different cock in her. Her reply got us interested and excited  |
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