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if only our friend,s knew what would they think
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Been playing many year,s very happily married happier than any of our friend,s
Most have played away and most are on the second or third time round why do they think people like us have no moral,s what we do we do together |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
We have told a few friends, some are interested, some don't want to know. We don't shove it in their face,.if they don't want to know, we don't say any more. If people are interested we answer their questions. I think it helps to de-stigmatise it as an acceptable relationship choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many of my friends know, but not all. Anyone who suspects/asks will be told.
Work colleagues know...right up to board level.
It isn't something I shove in people's faces but nor is it something I hide. It is part of my life. It is what I do. It is what makes me what I am....why on Earth would I seek to hide it? |
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I don't tell anyone and like privacy and discretion. If I recognised anyone on here i wouldn't say anything either. It does take guts to be more 'out' about it and show face pics, etc, but it isn't for everyone and that is one of the things that makes the site so good. If people did find out it would probably be okay, but not everyone needs to know everything all the time...
We are all indeed different... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't really understand why you'd tell friends except perhaps letting it slip by mistake/when d*unk.
Because I sometimes talk things over with my friends"
So do I - never once felt the need to tell them we like to fuck other people from time to time and I'm sure they'd rather not know |
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"Can't really understand why you'd tell friends except perhaps letting it slip by mistake/when d*unk.
Because I sometimes talk things over with my friends
So do I - never once felt the need to tell them we like to fuck other people from time to time and I'm sure they'd rather not know "
That's your choice, my friends and I can talk about anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friends know I'm into the swing scene, family as well... My brother is actually on here too - our mum actually drove us to our first swing party together in full knowledge! Haha. |
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"My friends know I'm into the swing scene, family as well... My brother is actually on here too - our mum actually drove us to our first swing party together in full knowledge! Haha."
Lol, really? Can't imagine mine doing that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My friends know I'm into the swing scene, family as well... My brother is actually on here too - our mum actually drove us to our first swing party together in full knowledge! Haha.
Lol, really? Can't imagine mine doing that!"
Must say I have a great relationship with my brother and mother - we're pretty open about mostly everything (within reason), my mum is proud that we're open about what we do because she doesn't have anything to fear she doesn't know about, or things we could be up to without her knowledge.
End of the day swinging/NSA sex doesn't make you a bad person.
Don't get me wrong she does joke around and call us sluts, whores and all that but it's all I jest - just as we joke with her about her choice marrying a guy 20 years her senior she's just jealous we're getting some and she isn't.  |
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"My friends know I'm into the swing scene, family as well... My brother is actually on here too - our mum actually drove us to our first swing party together in full knowledge! Haha.
Lol, really? Can't imagine mine doing that!
Must say I have a great relationship with my brother and mother - we're pretty open about mostly everything (within reason), my mum is proud that we're open about what we do because she doesn't have anything to fear she doesn't know about, or things we could be up to without her knowledge.
End of the day swinging/NSA sex doesn't make you a bad person.
Don't get me wrong she does joke around and call us sluts, whores and all that but it's all I jest - just as we joke with her about her choice marrying a guy 20 years her senior she's just jealous we're getting some and she isn't. "
Lol, glad you have such an open and comfortable relationship with your mum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I ever did tell anyone I know I used clubs and sites like this I don't think they would believe me, I think they would think I was jus winding them up to see what reaction I got, the real me and the fab/swinging me are two totally different people, I split from my ex nearly seven year ago and everyone I know honestly thinks I haven't met anyone or had sex since, people ask me semi regular if I miss sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My friends know I'm into the swing scene, family as well... My brother is actually on here too - our mum actually drove us to our first swing party together in full knowledge! Haha."
Ohhhhhh whose ur bro  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I ever did tell anyone I know I used clubs and sites like this I don't think they would believe me, I think they would think I was jus winding them up to see what reaction I got, the real me and the fab/swinging me are two totally different people, I split from my ex nearly seven year ago and everyone I know honestly thinks I haven't met anyone or had sex since, people ask me semi regular if I miss sex "
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I don't tell anyone and like privacy and discretion. If I recognised anyone on here i wouldn't say anything either. It does take guts to be more 'out' about it and show face pics, etc, but it isn't for everyone and that is one of the things that makes the site so good. If people did find out it would probably be okay, but not everyone needs to know everything all the time...
We are all indeed different..."
Spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None of our friends know as far as I am aware. Certainly none have ever mentioned it although I have a slight suspicion one couple might.
Most of my mates (who are all married) are having affairs, fucking the secretary, hookers on business trips etc. It is pretty sad actually.
Bizarrely as swingers we probably sleep with fewer people in any given year than some of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Part of my family knows and few friends know too.
It was funny to find out that few of them are in the lifestyle as well... Most of my friends are perverts anyway, so this was to be expected... haha |
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