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Having lived in different parts of the UK, I find that response to hotel meets varies a lot.
I have come across those who are gagging for it right down to those who will like to know the colour of bed sheets before attending and you may have to throw in a free taxi for good measure.
The question therefore is this: what would make a hotel meet attractive to you? What will make you say to yourself, "fuck me, I will definitely be there"?
Being a straight male, I will like to hear the views of FEMs and FM COUPLES please.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are three hotels within a mile from me I get quite a few mail from guys staying in one or the other with work etc asking if I'd like to meet
If they are in a hotel so close and I'm free I will meet them for a drink, (if I like their photos of course) but I make sure they know its for a drink and see how it goes, if it goes no further I don't feel I've lost a great deal as its only 10 mins up the road
If its a hotel miles away the chance are i'll just say no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer hotel meets anyway so I don't take much convincing, it is entirely dependent on the person I'm meeting. It does need to be a city centre hotel for me to get there easily though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My two criteria for hotel meets - do I feel safe enough to meet them at a hotel (ie not a stranger, know them quite well) and am I completely certain they're single."
How can you ever be completely certain someone is single?
I met a guy once who accommodated and it turned out he was married  |
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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago
Chatham |
"My two criteria for hotel meets - do I feel safe enough to meet them at a hotel (ie not a stranger, know them quite well) and am I completely certain they're single.
How can you ever be completely certain someone is single?
I met a guy once who accommodated and it turned out he was married "
That's pretty impressive to hide all traces of her and be confident enough to have you know where he lives!
I guess you can't be certain but I find social media is very useful. If he adds me on bookface, his status says 'single' and his family ask 'you met anyone yet?' then that's good enough for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1...The person I'm meeting would play a big part in it
2... That it's not the hotel my best mate works at!!  "
My daughter's friend's husband started work at a hotel I go to now and then. He was on duty one morning when I and the gentleman left. I waved and said hello on the way out. He told his wife,who I know very well and at the school Monday morning she called me over and said her husband had seen me. We had a laugh about it but he should have been told about discretion when he got the job. My daughter is thinking of applying to the same hotel for a reception job,she said she will get me a discount  |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Only done a hotel meet once, also the only time I have ever done a meet without having a social first, but the situation made it perfect.
Noticed a Dom had a local meet request in a hotel, checked his pics out, and I messaged just to say he had great pics and a well written profile.
He replied, we exchanged a couple of messages, and after I said my 'well good luck with finding a meet' he saw me in the chat room on cam, and messaged me a little more.. and I thought, fuck it, I'll bite the bullet and go see this guy, 2 days later, I got to his hotel room, was invited in, I walked past the TONS of toys laid out on the desk, was ordered to strip.. then the games began.
I think if I were to do another hotel meet now, it would pale in comparison lol
But.. everyone is different. |
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Haven't done one myself but the wife met a gent at a hotel recently, in my opinion it was safer than going to someone's house.... Plenty people around and you know that the hotel will have their details. She also felt quiet naughty having to walk past reception |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven't done one myself but the wife met a gent at a hotel recently, in my opinion it was safer than going to someone's house.... Plenty people around and you know that the hotel will have their details. She also felt quiet naughty having to walk past reception "
I feel much safer in hotels than someone's house. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having lived in different parts of the UK, I find that response to hotel meets varies a lot.
I have come across those who are gagging for it right down to those who will like to know the colour of bed sheets before attending and you may have to throw in a free taxi for good measure.
The question therefore is this: what would make a hotel meet attractive to you? What will make you say to yourself, "fuck me, I will definitely be there"?
Being a straight male, I will like to hear the views of FEMs and FM COUPLES please. "
OP, sorry I'm not in your targeted demographic but... usually my question is "fuck me, will you definitely be coming?"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as it's not a flea pit then I don't really care
Who I'm meeting there is far more important to me "
We agree with this,its the person we are meeting,not doing a review for trip advisor |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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You add them on book face at that point!
I have met people 20 odd times and not added them on bookface. I date a guy and leave it many many many dates before I even add them on bookface.
If someone wants to lie about marital status then it's surprising how clever they can be with more and more lies.
To the OP. For me it's. Do I fancy you. Can I check your verfications and get advice. Do I feel safe. Chat on phone/skype etc and then meet for a drink first then go from there. I also pass the details I have of who I am meeting to a friend too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having lived in different parts of the UK, I find that response to hotel meets varies a lot.
I have come across those who are gagging for it right down to those who will like to know the colour of bed sheets before attending and you may have to throw in a free taxi for good measure.
The question therefore is this: what would make a hotel meet attractive to you? What will make you say to yourself, "fuck me, I will definitely be there"?
Being a straight male, I will like to hear the views of FEMs and FM COUPLES please. "
It would be the person we would be meeting that would clinch the deal with us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my meets have been overnight hotel meets. But I agree , To know you are going to spend all night in a room with someone. You have got to like them not only physically but also know you are going to get along personality wise . Cause lets face it. It is not going to be sex from the moment you meet till the moment you go home. Or is that just me ?  |
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"You add them on book face at that point!
I have met people 20 odd times and not added them on bookface. I date a guy and leave it many many many dates before I even add them on bookface.
If someone wants to lie about marital status then it's surprising how clever they can be with more and more lies.
To the OP. For me it's. Do I fancy you. Can I check your verfications and get advice. Do I feel safe. Chat on phone/skype etc and then meet for a drink first then go from there. I also pass the details I have of who I am meeting to a friend too."
None of my regular partners are my friends on Facebook and I met all bar one of them on Facebook apps. |
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"Most of my meets have been overnight hotel meets. But I agree , To know you are going to spend all night in a room with someone. You have got to like them not only physically but also know you are going to get along personality wise . Cause lets face it. It is not going to be sex from the moment you meet till the moment you go home. Or is that just me ? "
I think a hotel meet is a 'social' of sorts until you decide to do the do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haven't done one myself but the wife met a gent at a hotel recently, in my opinion it was safer than going to someone's house.... Plenty people around and you know that the hotel will have their details. She also felt quiet naughty having to walk past reception
I feel much safer in hotels than someone's house. "
I won't ever go to someone's house. |
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I have been to a guy's house but I felt very comfortable with him.
Whenever I meet a guy alone Mr will know the guy's details and address. If it's outdoors, he knows the location, the car details etc.
And I always message him as soon as I'm home so he knows im safe.
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