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Have you come across profiles looking for guys who can keep it hard?Naturally, your cock cannot be rock hard constantly; no matter your age or state of health. The penis goes hard and then goes soft again and then gets hard depending on your state of arousal. It is therefore absurd to see profiles looking for guys who can ' keep it hard". Please do not forget that women cannot be wet throughout a meet just as men CANNOT keep it hard throughout a meet.
In my case, if you cannot hold my interest sexually, I cannot keep it hard. Women, please note that it is a collective effort to keep the man/ your man hard. You do not turn up scruffy and expect fireworks. " garbage in, garbage out"
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"Have you come across profiles looking for guys who can keep it hard?Naturally, your cock cannot be rock hard constantly; no matter your age or state of health. The penis goes hard and then goes soft again and then gets hard depending on your state of arousal. It is therefore absurd to see profiles looking for guys who can ' keep it hard". Please do not forget that women cannot be wet throughout a meet just as men CANNOT keep it hard throughout a meet.
In my case, if you cannot hold my interest sexually, I cannot keep it hard. Women, please note that it is a collective effort to keep the man/ your man hard. You do not turn up scruffy and expect fireworks. " garbage in, garbage out"
Put your back into it if you want a hard cock. "
well said - I would not expect a guy to "keep it hard" ....and to be honest if the woman is just lying there getting fucked then why should he - maybe the woman saying this are a shit fuck and cannot keep it hard with their pussy muscles....it takes two to tango as they say.....
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Possibly these are the profiles who have experienced meets with men who get stage fright. It does happen.
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I don't expect men to keep hard throughout. I quite like it soft and feeling it grow while I'm playing with him. As for being wet all the time during our meets, he keeps me wet, either by play or just the conversation. It's a connection thing |
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"I don't expect men to keep hard throughout. I quite like it soft and feeling it grow while I'm playing with him. As for being wet all the time during our meets, he keeps me wet, either by play or just the conversation. It's a connection thing "
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"Have you come across profiles looking for guys who can keep it hard?Naturally, your cock cannot be rock hard constantly; no matter your age or state of health. The penis goes hard and then goes soft again and then gets hard depending on your state of arousal. It is therefore absurd to see profiles looking for guys who can ' keep it hard". Please do not forget that women cannot be wet throughout a meet just as men CANNOT keep it hard throughout a meet.
In my case, if you cannot hold my interest sexually, I cannot keep it hard. Women, please note that it is a collective effort to keep the man/ your man hard. You do not turn up scruffy and expect fireworks. " garbage in, garbage out"
Put your back into it if you want a hard cock. "
I agree it's a two way street but to an extensive all victims of our own publicity on here. A lot of what I read on profiles and in the forum seems to suggest that lots of men can "go for hours" are "repeaters" etc and many women are described in terms of how wet they get or make the sheets.
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over a year ago
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"Have you come across profiles looking for guys who can keep it hard?Naturally, your cock cannot be rock hard constantly; no matter your age or state of health. The penis goes hard and then goes soft again and then gets hard depending on your state of arousal. It is therefore absurd to see profiles looking for guys who can ' keep it hard". Please do not forget that women cannot be wet throughout a meet just as men CANNOT keep it hard throughout a meet.
In my case, if you cannot hold my interest sexually, I cannot keep it hard. Women, please note that it is a collective effort to keep the man/ your man hard. You do not turn up scruffy and expect fireworks. " garbage in, garbage out"
Put your back into it if you want a hard cock.
well said - I would not expect a guy to "keep it hard" ....and to be honest if the woman is just lying there getting fucked then why should he - maybe the woman saying this are a shit fuck and cannot keep it hard with their pussy muscles....it takes two to tango as they say.....
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"Have you come across profiles looking for guys who can keep it hard?Naturally, your cock cannot be rock hard constantly; no matter your age or state of health. The penis goes hard and then goes soft again and then gets hard depending on your state of arousal. It is therefore absurd to see profiles looking for guys who can ' keep it hard". Please do not forget that women cannot be wet throughout a meet just as men CANNOT keep it hard throughout a meet.
In my case, if you cannot hold my interest sexually, I cannot keep it hard. Women, please note that it is a collective effort to keep the man/ your man hard. You do not turn up scruffy and expect fireworks. " garbage in, garbage out"
Put your back into it if you want a hard cock.
I agree it's a two way street but to an extensive all victims of our own publicity on here. A lot of what I read on profiles and in the forum seems to suggest that lots of men can "go for hours" are "repeaters" etc and many women are described in terms of how wet they get or make the sheets.
We just go along in our little groove "
Theres nothing wrong with having a little Groove
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"Have you come across profiles looking for guys who can keep it hard?Naturally, your cock cannot be rock hard constantly; no matter your age or state of health. The penis goes hard and then goes soft again and then gets hard depending on your state of arousal. It is therefore absurd to see profiles looking for guys who can ' keep it hard". Please do not forget that women cannot be wet throughout a meet just as men CANNOT keep it hard throughout a meet.
In my case, if you cannot hold my interest sexually, I cannot keep it hard. Women, please note that it is a collective effort to keep the man/ your man hard. You do not turn up scruffy and expect fireworks. " garbage in, garbage out"
Put your back into it if you want a hard cock.
I agree it's a two way street but to an extensive all victims of our own publicity on here. A lot of what I read on profiles and in the forum seems to suggest that lots of men can "go for hours" are "repeaters" etc and many women are described in terms of how wet they get or make the sheets.
We just go along in our little groove
Theres nothing wrong with having a little Groove
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if I meet someone who I don't find attractive or realy like much im less likely to be as enthusiastic, I find its usualy the more mature men who have trouble keeping their errections and putting on condoms. its not just about physical attraction though its to do with chemisty as well. from my past experiences I have a good idea when I look at someones profile pic as to if they may have trouble staying hard for any length of time.
also by how confident they seem or putting on an act of fake confidence. |
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"Is this going to turn into a "it's men's fault no it isn't it's women's fault" thread because if it is I would like to make it clear here and now that most things are Gimps fault.  "
Only most things?awww your getting a softie
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"Possibly these are the profiles who have experienced meets with men who get stage fright. It does happen.
I'm off to revise my outfit for later, I was going to wear old leggings and a hoody, I'm guessing that's off the agenda now "
I hope you will be wearing that crotchless thing. |
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If a man comes to a 3 hour session we do not expect him to stay hard for the whole time. That is probably only possible if he has overdosed with Viagra.
It is however important for him to get hard enough to penetrate a tight wet pussy and some do fail from the start.
We are very supportive and understanding when that happens but, if a guy has chosen to meet us and is saying he gets hard and stay hard, or is a repeater, we do expect him to at least get a stiffy for a few minutes in the session.
Despite my advanced age (m) I still always get hard when required and we have several mature friends that do too. Blaming the lady for not being exiting enough for a guy to get a hard on is pandering to his ego and missing the point. He is not as sexy as he thinks he is; but he is not alone. |
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"Is this going to turn into a "it's men's fault no it isn't it's women's fault" thread because if it is I would like to make it clear here and now that most things are Gimps fault.
Only most things?awww your getting a softie
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The "governme" is to blame for the rest. |
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"Possibly these are the profiles who have experienced meets with men who get stage fright. It does happen.
I'm off to revise my outfit for later, I was going to wear old leggings and a hoody, I'm guessing that's off the agenda now
I hope you will be wearing that crotchless thing. "
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"Possibly these are the profiles who have experienced meets with men who get stage fright. It does happen.
I'm off to revise my outfit for later, I was going to wear old leggings and a hoody, I'm guessing that's off the agenda now "
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"Have you come across profiles looking for guys who can keep it hard?Naturally, your cock cannot be rock hard constantly; no matter your age or state of health. The penis goes hard and then goes soft again and then gets hard depending on your state of arousal. It is therefore absurd to see profiles looking for guys who can ' keep it hard". Please do not forget that women cannot be wet throughout a meet just as men CANNOT keep it hard throughout a meet.
In my case, if you cannot hold my interest sexually, I cannot keep it hard. Women, please note that it is a collective effort to keep the man/ your man hard. You do not turn up scruffy and expect fireworks. " garbage in, garbage out"
Put your back into it if you want a hard cock.
well said - I would not expect a guy to "keep it hard" ....and to be honest if the woman is just lying there getting fucked then why should he - maybe the woman saying this are a shit fuck and cannot keep it hard with their pussy muscles....it takes two to tango as they say.....
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"If a man comes to a 3 hour session we do not expect him to stay hard for the whole time. That is probably only possible if he has overdosed with Viagra.
It is however important for him to get hard enough to penetrate a tight wet pussy and some do fail from the start.
We are very supportive and understanding when that happens but, if a guy has chosen to meet us and is saying he gets hard and stay hard, or is a repeater, we do expect him to at least get a stiffy for a few minutes in the session.
Despite my advanced age (m) I still always get hard when required and we have several mature friends that do too. Blaming the lady for not being exiting enough for a guy to get a hard on is pandering to his ego and missing the point. He is not as sexy as he thinks he is; but he is not alone. "
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I wouldn't want a man to stay hard all the time I like a soft cock to play with and watch/feel him get hard I find it a turn on to tease inbetween fucks ,if he stayed hard it wouldn't be as much fun for me |
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"I wouldn't want a man to stay hard all the time I like a soft cock to play with and watch/feel him get hard I find it a turn on to tease inbetween fucks ,if he stayed hard it wouldn't be as much fun for me"
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The op has a good point.
I think his point refers to the increasing amount of arrogant couples' profiles.
I have found some couples try to exploit how the numbers game works on here. I've had some great meets from here (and elsewhere) and generally find those who can hold my attention with their mind/conversation/ideas/imagination are the meets that work out best. Those who have the 'keep your cock hard' instruction, I find, don't warrant any further attention - there often seems to be a dick-head guy behind the profile.
I wonder how they'd feel if the visiting guy said 'be sexy', be 'gorgeous', be 'fit' or 'don't just lie there like a rag doll with your partner wandering round with a camera and expect me to perform like a porn star'.
This is meant to fun. Fun for everyone.
I'm pretty sure a number couples are so wrapped up in their own 'we have the upper hand here - impress us' world that they don't even know how to share fun. |
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"The op has a good point.
I think his point refers to the increasing amount of arrogant couples' profiles.
I have found some couples try to exploit how the numbers game works on here. I've had some great meets from here (and elsewhere) and generally find those who can hold my attention with their mind/conversation/ideas/imagination are the meets that work out best. Those who have the 'keep your cock hard' instruction, I find, don't warrant any further attention - there often seems to be a dick-head guy behind the profile.
I wonder how they'd feel if the visiting guy said 'be sexy', be 'gorgeous', be 'fit' or 'don't just lie there like a rag doll with your partner wandering round with a camera and expect me to perform like a porn star'.
This is meant to fun. Fun for everyone.
I'm pretty sure a number couples are so wrapped up in their own 'we have the upper hand here - impress us' world that they don't even know how to share fun."
Wowowo! You have a point but please take a breath, aight?! |
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"If a man comes to a 3 hour session we do not expect him to stay hard for the whole time. That is probably only possible if he has overdosed with Viagra.
It is however important for him to get hard enough to penetrate a tight wet pussy and some do fail from the start.
We are very supportive and understanding when that happens but, if a guy has chosen to meet us and is saying he gets hard and stay hard, or is a repeater, we do expect him to at least get a stiffy for a few minutes in the session.
Despite my advanced age (m) I still always get hard when required and we have several mature friends that do too. Blaming the lady for not being exiting enough for a guy to get a hard on is pandering to his ego and missing the point. He is not as sexy as he thinks he is; but he is not alone. "
STEW, a d v a n c e d is 70 onwards unless you already bald and grey  |
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over a year ago
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"I wouldn't want a man to stay hard all the time I like a soft cock to play with and watch/feel him get hard I find it a turn on to tease inbetween fucks ,if he stayed hard it wouldn't be as much fun for me
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Agree, fem half does like it soft to start and feel it getting hard in her mouth until rock hard. finds it such a turn on, knowing she has that effect |
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Still frustrating when a guy goes soft when it comes to condoms though, even if you're doing your best to keep him excited. Surely guys should be used to using condoms after a good few years! |
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Oh how lucky I am that men don't have that problem with me,hussy that I am The little scaredy cats soon relax and stiffen up when I get my hands on them
Seriously though,the onus shouldn't be on the man to get and stay hard. He needs something to arouse him |
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My cock often goes on idle mode during sex if I'm concentrating on something.
It's not that I'm not liking what's happening or the person, just the way it is. |
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"My cock often goes on idle mode during sex if I'm concentrating on something.
It's not that I'm not liking what's happening or the person, just the way it is. "
If the body is pounding away, eventually the mind will start to wonder. That's when it's time to mix up hard fucking & foreplay. Then go back to fucking and will naturally last longer. "Keep it 'ard"  |
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Being a mature chap I don't have trouble getting an erection but have trouble keeping it. It's nice that the overall view of women is an understanding one.
When I'm soft during play, I love being tactile and chatting dirty, which makes me hard again. If anyone knows of the best place to get Calais (think that's how it's spelt), please let me know. |
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Sometimes it is the guys fault as he tries to hold his orgasm back and in the process loses his erection .Other times he gets stage fright , and others the condom problem .
But other than the above mentioned it us definately a 2 way thing , and its as much the woman who nay not be thinking about what rurns him on .
We have been very lucky as it very rarely happens and llong may it stay that way
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"My cock often goes on idle mode during sex if I'm concentrating on something.
It's not that I'm not liking what's happening or the person, just the way it is.
If the body is pounding away, eventually the mind will start to wonder. That's when it's time to mix up hard fucking & foreplay. Then go back to fucking and will naturally last longer. "Keep it 'ard" "
Haha, I certainly don't suffer from any sort of erectile dysfunction but if I'm putting my all into something other than fucking and pleasing another party my mind doesn't keep my gun loaded that's all - doesn't take much to get it back. |
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"Oh how lucky I am that men don't have that problem with me,hussy that I am The little scaredy cats soon relax and stiffen up when I get my hands on them
Seriously though,the onus shouldn't be on the man to get and stay hard. He needs something to arouse him "
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"My cock often goes on idle mode during sex if I'm concentrating on something.
It's not that I'm not liking what's happening or the person, just the way it is. "
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"Sometimes it is the guys fault as he tries to hold his orgasm back and in the process loses his erection .Other times he gets stage fright , and others the condom problem .
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And certain conditions ie diabetes leading to erectile dysfunction |
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"Possibly these are the profiles who have experienced meets with men who get stage fright. It does happen.
I'm off to revise my outfit for later, I was going to wear old leggings and a hoody, I'm guessing that's off the agenda now
As long as you have your harness on beneath you can wear what you like "
now you've given me an idea for our social this evening |
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"Possibly these are the profiles who have experienced meets with men who get stage fright. It does happen.
I'm off to revise my outfit for later, I was going to wear old leggings and a hoody, I'm guessing that's off the agenda now aww were you gonna put on mucky trainers too sssexy lady! "
I was, I would wash my hands though...honest |
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I quite like it when you're relaxing together because he's having a little "idle" time -as mentioned above- and he lifts the covers up,has a peek and says oh look who's decided to join us. |
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"I quite like it when you're relaxing together because he's having a little "idle" time -as mentioned above- and he lifts the covers up,has a peek and says oh look who's decided to join us. "
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"I quite like it when you're relaxing together because he's having a little "idle" time -as mentioned above- and he lifts the covers up,has a peek and says oh look who's decided to join us. "
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OP I suspect that the profiles who state this are looking for a guy who can remain hard for a decent session, and maybe repeat after a break. I don't expect they want the guys to remain hard from the time they walk in the door and walk out again.
Lots of guys can't keep an erection which is understandable in the slightly unusual circumstances they are in. Some people just don't want the bother of that.
To mock the profiles that ask for a specific thing or blame the women for not being attractive enough is silly and sounds like sour grapes rather than a constructive argument.
If you get nervous on meets and your body doesn't respond, then don't contact the profile owners who are looking for a guy who can remain hard. They probably don't want to spend time coaxing.
There are many profiles who are more laid back about such things. Focus on those who suit you better |
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" from my past experiences I have a good idea when I look at someones profile pic as to if they may have trouble staying hard for any length of time."
 do you do tarot card readings as well? |
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"OP I suspect that the profiles who state this are looking for a guy who can remain hard for a decent session, and maybe repeat after a break. I don't expect they want the guys to remain hard from the time they walk in the door and walk out again.
Lots of guys can't keep an erection which is understandable in the slightly unusual circumstances they are in. Some people just don't want the bother of that.
To mock the profiles that ask for a specific thing or blame the women for not being attractive enough is silly and sounds like sour grapes rather than a constructive argument.
If you get nervous on meets and your body doesn't respond, then don't contact the profile owners who are looking for a guy who can remain hard. They probably don't want to spend time coaxing.
There are many profiles who are more laid back about such things. Focus on those who suit you better "
Sour whaaat!??
Are you for real? Me? hahaaahaaa. Shall we try this weekend? |
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"OP I suspect that the profiles who state this are looking for a guy who can remain hard for a decent session, and maybe repeat after a break. I don't expect they want the guys to remain hard from the time they walk in the door and walk out again.
Lots of guys can't keep an erection which is understandable in the slightly unusual circumstances they are in. Some people just don't want the bother of that.
To mock the profiles that ask for a specific thing or blame the women for not being attractive enough is silly and sounds like sour grapes rather than a constructive argument.
If you get nervous on meets and your body doesn't respond, then don't contact the profile owners who are looking for a guy who can remain hard. They probably don't want to spend time coaxing.
There are many profiles who are more laid back about such things. Focus on those who suit you better
Sour whaaat!??
Are you for real? Me? hahaaahaaa. Shall we try this weekend? "
They may not be interested "sausage man" as you may not get an erection and will blame the woman for not being sexy enough. Do you understand what you are saying?
I (m) have been to gang bangs with sexy ladies available and know that the majority of men struggle to get hard in pressure situations. It is not unusual and 90% of the time is not the lady's fault as in my experience they try hard to stimulate the men. |
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"OP I suspect that the profiles who state this are looking for a guy who can remain hard for a decent session, and maybe repeat after a break. I don't expect they want the guys to remain hard from the time they walk in the door and walk out again.
Lots of guys can't keep an erection which is understandable in the slightly unusual circumstances they are in. Some people just don't want the bother of that.
To mock the profiles that ask for a specific thing or blame the women for not being attractive enough is silly and sounds like sour grapes rather than a constructive argument.
If you get nervous on meets and your body doesn't respond, then don't contact the profile owners who are looking for a guy who can remain hard. They probably don't want to spend time coaxing.
There are many profiles who are more laid back about such things. Focus on those who suit you better
Sour whaaat!??
Are you for real? Me? hahaaahaaa. Shall we try this weekend?
They may not be interested "sausage man" as you may not get an erection and will blame the woman for not being sexy enough. Do you understand what you are saying?
I (m) have been to gang bangs with sexy ladies available and know that the majority of men struggle to get hard in pressure situations. It is not unusual and 90% of the time is not the lady's fault as in my experience they try hard to stimulate the men. "
Pressure or no pressure, there times the cock naturally takes a lull in between fire fights. That is what majority of us are saying; and this needs to be accepted.
Anyway, opinions are like noses and yours may be a long one while mine may be short and upturned. |
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For me it's changed over the years.
In my teens I was hard and wanking 3 times a day.
In my twenties, I'd fuck for hours and never lose it.
In my thirties I discovered sexual chemistry and that changed the game entirely.
In my forties now and it has to be attraction and chemistry. When someone gives you a boner just by looking into your eyes, flirting, a glimpse of forbidden fruit or an outright display of animalistic sexuality then fireworks go off!
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"For me it's changed over the years.
In my teens I was hard and wanking 3 times a day.
In my twenties, I'd fuck for hours and never lose it.
In my thirties I discovered sexual chemistry and that changed the game entirely.
In my forties now and it has to be attraction and chemistry. When someone gives you a boner just by looking into your eyes, flirting, a glimpse of forbidden fruit or an outright display of animalistic sexuality then fireworks go off!
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Never a truer word spoken. I guess you are not one of those that can keep it up no matter the odds then.  |
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"OP I suspect that the profiles who state this are looking for a guy who can remain hard for a decent session, and maybe repeat after a break. I don't expect they want the guys to remain hard from the time they walk in the door and walk out again.
Lots of guys can't keep an erection which is understandable in the slightly unusual circumstances they are in. Some people just don't want the bother of that.
To mock the profiles that ask for a specific thing or blame the women for not being attractive enough is silly and sounds like sour grapes rather than a constructive argument.
If you get nervous on meets and your body doesn't respond, then don't contact the profile owners who are looking for a guy who can remain hard. They probably don't want to spend time coaxing.
There are many profiles who are more laid back about such things. Focus on those who suit you better
Sour whaaat!??
Are you for real? Me? hahaaahaaa. Shall we try this weekend?
They may not be interested "sausage man" as you may not get an erection and will blame the woman for not being sexy enough. Do you understand what you are saying?
I (m) have been to gang bangs with sexy ladies available and know that the majority of men struggle to get hard in pressure situations. It is not unusual and 90% of the time is not the lady's fault as in my experience they try hard to stimulate the men.
Pressure or no pressure, there times the cock naturally takes a lull in between fire fights. That is what majority of us are saying; and this needs to be accepted.
Anyway, opinions are like noses and yours may be a long one while mine may be short and upturned. "
The cock should take a rest from time to time. I agree; but it is not the woman's fault for not being sexy enough. Men should be more realistic in what they say they can do.
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Never a truer word spoken. I guess you are not one of those that can keep it up no matter the odds then. "
Absolutely mate. Quality over quantity. Just because I'm free to fuck, doesn't mean I will. It literally takes two to Tango! |
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Well said. My guy can stay hard for 3 hours by me teasing his cock and balls and trying different positions. Reverse cowgirl gets him up every time especially if there are mirrors to watch all angles. He's never taken pills to get an erection, only to me time he has a problem is when he is I'll, but he has other ways of satisfying me, not all about the cock |
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" from my past experiences I have a good idea when I look at someones profile pic as to if they may have trouble staying hard for any length of time.
do you do tarot card readings as well?"
Ha ha haha |
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"Well said. My guy can stay hard for 3 hours by me teasing his cock and balls and trying different positions. Reverse cowgirl gets him up every time especially if there are mirrors to watch all angles. He's never taken pills to get an erection, only to me time he has a problem is when he is I'll, but he has other ways of satisfying me, not all about the cock"
...is this the fantasies threads?.... |
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"I don't expect men to keep hard throughout. I quite like it soft and feeling it grow while I'm playing with him. As for being wet all the time during our meets, he keeps me wet, either by play or just the conversation. It's a connection thing "
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Thank God for this thread. In my twenties,I could stay harder for longer(obviously). Now I'm in my early forties, it will go down if not constantly stimulated. Felt I had to be as hard as a diamond for 24 hrs to compete with some of the younger guys!
Still wake up with morning glory-that you could hang a wet donkey jacket off though...it tends to go back to sleep by the time I have my Weetabix!
It's great to see I'm normal-it is embarrassing when it goes soft and you try to 'thumb in a floppy'!  |
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I don't worry if it's hard or not.
I do my job on the women and it comes naturally
If I'm enjoying giving pleasure it goes up.But that's only if there showing there enjoying it.
If all else fails my sexy partner always gets it up |
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I have been known to cum and stay hard and keep going but, yes, it all depends on who I'm with, if she turns me on, I'll fuck her all night if she'll let me |
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"Possibly these are the profiles who have experienced meets with men who get stage fright. It does happen.
I'm off to revise my outfit for later, I was going to wear old leggings and a hoody, I'm guessing that's off the agenda now "
It would be such a crime to hide your body in track suit bytes & hoody, not that you appear the type mind. You have body design for sin & debauchary
Should never hide that xx |
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