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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
the missus is interested in experimenting with a formal dom / sub relationship; we like our kink and have messed about with 'amature' bdsm for years but has anyone got any experience of formal relationships; contracts and all and have any advice where to begin?
Writing contracts, training advice, etc?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One way to start exploring ways to push boundaries further together is for the both of you to write a list of kinks, fantasies and scenarios. You can then both collaborate the lists and each of you can use a tick box system to rate them as definitely, possibly or never. You could also rate them 1 to 10 according to how hot you find each one and how ready you feel to explore each one. Afterwards, you can look at the lists together to see where your lists match.
This can be a good way to start building a contract too.
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