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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So has anyone on here ever cought an std or hiv? or has everyone been dead lucky.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

have you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I personally haven't caught anything. I will not use condoms for oral either.

I will continue to get tested regular so I'd know quickly and could get treated and notify anyone I could. Although as its often random club meets it would make it a little hard to tell all.

We both know people that have caught things though in the past...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"have you? "

im asking you, not me.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"have you?

im asking you, not me."

So you are asking a personal question of everybody else, but when asked one of you, you are not prepared to answer? My question was really to highlight how honest an answer you thought people would actually give, given it could well affect their chances of future meets.

Seen as you don't want to give up any personal information, I may as well asked for your bank account numbers? Or is your sexual history yours and yours alone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"have you?

im asking you, not me."

Never ask a question you aren't prepared to answer yourself.

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By *aith boyMan  over a year ago

Worthing

if you dont like the thread... dont look at it.. why shouldnt she ask?.....people like you two dont do the site any favours..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"have you?

im asking you, not me.

Never ask a question you aren't prepared to answer yourself."

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"have you?

im asking you, not me.

Never ask a question you aren't prepared to answer yourself."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if you dont like the thread... dont look at it.. why shouldnt she ask?.....people like you two dont do the site any favours.. "

A bit harsh!

Forums are a public place of discussion...

Yes she may ask, but surely forum users have the right to ask her too?

Or do discussions work differently in your area?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if you dont like the thread... dont look at it.. why shouldnt she ask?.....people like you two dont do the site any favours.. "

I have no issue with the thread. What I have an issue with is the OP wants everyone to answer a very personal question that they themselves aren't willing to answer.

Do you think that's fair or just an example of double standards?

Also, how do I know if I'm going to like a thread or not if I don't look at it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"have you?

im asking you, not me.

Never ask a question you aren't prepared to answer yourself. "

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman  over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I think I have only seen one person on here be honest and say he has HIV, it's on his profile.

Can't imagine you'll get many people wanting to say they have had STDs even if they were years ago and treated promptly! Especially if you wont say yourself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if you dont like the thread... dont look at it.. why shouldnt she ask?.....people like you two dont do the site any favours..

A bit harsh!

Forums are a public place of discussion...

Yes she may ask, but surely forum users have the right to ask her too?

Or do discussions work differently in your area?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a 1.5 Tdi

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"if you dont like the thread... dont look at it.. why shouldnt she ask?.....people like you two dont do the site any favours.. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion! "

you don't have to look at me, I just like to post interesting things, if you don't like them just ignore them easy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion! "

But is anyone looking at op I wonder ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion!

But is anyone looking at op I wonder ? "

I tend to ignore profiles I'm not overly keen on...

If I can say that on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion!

But is anyone looking at op I wonder ?

I tend to ignore profiles I'm not overly keen on...

If I can say that on here "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion!

But is anyone looking at op I wonder ?

I tend to ignore profiles I'm not overly keen on...

If I can say that on here "

yes I just block them, easy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was really lucky,I met one of my regular partners when he had a terrible cold and I didn't get it. I've never caught anything else from a man either,call it lucky if you want.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if you dont like the thread... dont look at it.. why shouldnt she ask?.....people like you two dont do the site any favours.. "

Somebody can only decide that they don't like a thread by looking at it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

someone else once posted this same thread and nobody would answere it so I knew nobody would be likely too, I just thought it was an interesting question after reading peoples comments on the bareback thread and last weeks article in the sun saying that there was an increase in people getting gonorea among the swinging community though I have no idea how true that is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"someone else once posted this same thread and nobody would answere it so I knew nobody would be likely too, I just thought it was an interesting question after reading peoples comments on the bareback thread and last weeks article in the sun saying that there was an increase in people getting gonorea among the swinging community though I have no idea how true that is."

Because of the internet STIs aren't contained like they used to be, people travel miles for sex now and don't really stay local for it, but rates went down in 2013 from 2012 but are still higher than in 2011. Whenever i see claims made in the news i do google for sources that would back them up, the article should have links (don't read the sun so don't know if it has them or not). I also can't find 2014s data.

If you look at the stats for 2010-2011 there aren't that many people infected with stuff anyway, although the figure is presumed to be higher because some people won't know they've got anything apparently.

::How many STIs are diagnosed?

In England alone between 2010 and 2011 there were 426,827 new infections in a 12-month period which included:

Chlamydia: 186,196. Most of these were people aged 24 or younger

Genital herpes: 31,154

Genital warts: 76,071

Gonorrhoea: 20,965. The highest rates of gonorrhoea are seen in women aged 16-19 and men aged 20-24

HIV: 6,280

Infectious syphilis: 2,915

Source: HPA - based on diagnoses between 2010 and 2011 in sexual health clinics in England

More people are being tested too.

Attendance at sexual health clinics has also increased since the previous survey, rising from 6.7% to 21% in women, and from 7.7% to 20% in men. Clinic attendance is highest in younger people, those with higher numbers of partners and in women from the most deprived areas. - See more at: http://www.ucl.ac.uk/news/news-articles/1113/26112013-Sexual-health-programmes-making-good-progress-but-STIs-still-an-issue#sthash.0T8xEBm9.dpuf

There were 446,253 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) diagnosed in England in 2013, according to new Public Health England (PHE) data out today: close to the number diagnosed in 2012 (448,775 cases).

I've passed on thrush to an ex partner once, but not caught anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"someone else once posted this same thread and nobody would answere it so I knew nobody would be likely too, I just thought it was an interesting question after reading peoples comments on the bareback thread and last weeks article in the sun saying that there was an increase in people getting gonorea among the swinging community though I have no idea how true that is."

It IS an interesting subject, I don't have an issue with that. Like I said previously I have issue with you asking the question and then refusing to answer it yourself.

Ultimately people can write whatever answer they please, it doesn't make it true though.

I'll be honest and say I once caught crabs from a girl at Butlins in 1996 but since then I've not contracted anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I caught crabs twice and you still haven't answered your own question...

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By *aith boyMan  over a year ago

Worthing

people ask questions for various reasons.. they may have experienced sometihng or just want to ask questions. i think they are entitled do that. If you feel that they are wrong, my point is start your own thread, and it can be discussed there ,( freedom to have an opinion maybe !!) rather than take the thread off in a direction it wasnt intended to go .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"people ask questions for various reasons.. they may have experienced sometihng or just want to ask questions. i think they are entitled do that. If you feel that they are wrong, my point is start your own thread, and it can be discussed there ,( freedom to have an opinion maybe !!) rather than take the thread off in a direction it wasnt intended to go ."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"people ask questions for various reasons.. they may have experienced sometihng or just want to ask questions. i think they are entitled do that. If you feel that they are wrong, my point is start your own thread, and it can be discussed there ,( freedom to have an opinion maybe !!) rather than take the thread off in a direction it wasnt intended to go ."

If the OP had answered their own question, which is highly personal, the thread wouldn't have gone off at a tangent. It would have just faded into obscurity. Opening a thread to discuss another thread is also frowned upon.

I've answered the question, the OP has yet to do so and she should have been the first to do it...

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion!

But is anyone looking at op I wonder ? "

Haha... In wonder probably.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I honestly have not

My ex hubby did from a couple we met, luckily we didn't have sex together so he didn't pass it into me

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By *aith boyMan  over a year ago

Worthing


"people ask questions for various reasons.. they may have experienced sometihng or just want to ask questions. i think they are entitled do that. If you feel that they are wrong, my point is start your own thread, and it can be discussed there ,( freedom to have an opinion maybe !!) rather than take the thread off in a direction it wasnt intended to go .

If the OP had answered their own question, which is highly personal, the thread wouldn't have gone off at a tangent. It would have just faded into obscurity. Opening a thread to discuss another thread is also frowned upon.

I've answered the question, the OP has yet to do so and she should have been the first to do it..."

why does the OP have to do that ?!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"people ask questions for various reasons.. they may have experienced sometihng or just want to ask questions. i think they are entitled do that. If you feel that they are wrong, my point is start your own thread, and it can be discussed there ,( freedom to have an opinion maybe !!) rather than take the thread off in a direction it wasnt intended to go .

If the OP had answered their own question, which is highly personal, the thread wouldn't have gone off at a tangent. It would have just faded into obscurity. Opening a thread to discuss another thread is also frowned upon.

I've answered the question, the OP has yet to do so and she should have been the first to do it...

why does the OP have to do that ?!!!!!"

Because who asks a highly personal question that they themselves refuse to answer?

If the OP had answered it rather than blatantly refused to I'd have zero issue.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"

why does the OP have to do that ?!!!!!"

You understand what double standards, are don't you? And why would they OP not? Because they are the master of the thread?? Is this playtime or something.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion!

But is anyone looking at op I wonder ?

Haha... In wonder probably. "

Claws out much?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol "

oh yeah I forgot.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion!

But is anyone looking at op I wonder ?

Haha... In wonder probably.

Claws out much? "

Just an open mind. Seems a few people dont have them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion!

But is anyone looking at op I wonder ? "

Im not bad for an old bag though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This just screams of yet another look at me post in my opinion!

But is anyone looking at op I wonder ?

Im not bad for an old bag though. "

x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So has anyone on here ever cought an std or hiv? or has everyone been dead lucky."

No luck involved, just very careful. DDF, allways have been and staying that way

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I know someone who tested positive for Chlamydia, but fortunately I'm too old .As for dead lucky... Fancy calling dead "lucky"

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By *arry247Couple  over a year ago

Wakefield


"have you?

im asking you, not me."

As you refuse to answer the obvious assumptions will be made.

As for us no never

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"have you?

im asking you, not me.

As you refuse to answer the obvious assumptions will be made.

As for us no never"

assume whatever you like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"have you?

im asking you, not me.

As you refuse to answer the obvious assumptions will be made.

As for us no never

assume whatever you like. "

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"have you?

im asking you, not me.

As you refuse to answer the obvious assumptions will be made.

As for us no never

assume whatever you like. "

you go kayaking at the weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"have you?

im asking you, not me.

As you refuse to answer the obvious assumptions will be made.

As for us no never

assume whatever you like.

you go kayaking at the weekend. "

Double entendre?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol "

And how many STDs do they stop? Condoms are not the answer to keeping safe... Only abstinence is.

Condoms can minimise risks but not eradicate it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol

And how many STDs do they stop? Condoms are not the answer to keeping safe... Only abstinence is.

Condoms can minimise risks but not eradicate it! "

No condoms are the answer to keeping safe but abstinence is safer.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol

And how many STDs do they stop? Condoms are not the answer to keeping safe... Only abstinence is.

Condoms can minimise risks but not eradicate it!

No condoms are the answer to keeping safe but abstinence is safer."

Abstinence will lead to a very shallow outlook on life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol

And how many STDs do they stop? Condoms are not the answer to keeping safe... Only abstinence is.

Condoms can minimise risks but not eradicate it!

No condoms are the answer to keeping safe but abstinence is safer.

Abstinence will lead to a very shallow outlook on life."

well you learn something new every day on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol

And how many STDs do they stop? Condoms are not the answer to keeping safe... Only abstinence is.

Condoms can minimise risks but not eradicate it!

No condoms are the answer to keeping safe but abstinence is safer.

Abstinence will lead to a very shallow outlook on life.

well you learn something new every day on here."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol

And how many STDs do they stop? Condoms are not the answer to keeping safe... Only abstinence is.

Condoms can minimise risks but not eradicate it!

No condoms are the answer to keeping safe but abstinence is safer.

Abstinence will lead to a very shallow outlook on life."

haha So true and apparent!

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol

And how many STDs do they stop? Condoms are not the answer to keeping safe... Only abstinence is.

Condoms can minimise risks but not eradicate it!

No condoms are the answer to keeping safe but abstinence is safer.

Abstinence will lead to a very shallow outlook on life.

haha So true and apparent! "

I'm am trying to relate something that would imagine arm bands and a paddling pool of a weekend - but my sarcasm has dried up thinking of beer.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent

No I haven't and considering how stupid i was when I was much younger im very lucky!!

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By *izzlemoonMan  over a year ago

Bath

None so far. I think the thread went a bit off before. all questions are fair and you can choose not to answer just as OP can choose also. The defensiveness is telling though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The only thing I've had is really sore friction burns lol

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By *lan43sumMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"Noone will say they got it as everyone uses condoms lol

And how many STDs do they stop? Condoms are not the answer to keeping safe... Only abstinence is.

Condoms can minimise risks but not eradicate it!

No condoms are the answer to keeping safe but abstinence is safer.

Abstinence will lead to a very shallow outlook on life.

well you learn something new every day on here."

Its a good thread OP... I've always been passed as clear in any tests I've had. Always play safe but always glad to get that green light. Law of averages might say that the more (safer) sex you have the more likely you are to be unlucky?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I personally haven't caught anything. I will not use condoms for oral either.

I will continue to get tested regular so I'd know quickly and could get treated and notify anyone I could. Although as its often random club meets it would make it a little hard to tell all.

We both know people that have caught things though in the past... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No I haven't and considering how stupid i was when I was much younger im very lucky!! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So has anyone on here ever cought an std or hiv? or has everyone been dead lucky.

No luck involved, just very careful. DDF, allways have been and staying that way "

Are you tested regularly then?

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan  over a year ago

London

In this country the prevalence of STIs is extremely low...

It's gathered a little pace, with the influx of dare I say it.... foreigners...........

But having been a foreigner in many different nations and never caught even a cold, I think it all comes down to your choices and a tiny amount of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I caught glandular fever when I was 16 from my FB from kissing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So has anyone on here ever cought an std or hiv? or has everyone been dead lucky."

I get tested regular. Clear each time, Im saying no more

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed

I did not even realise there were statistics for STi's in the swinging community.

no one has ever randomly sampled us going in or out of a club.

Without knowing the size of the community how do we know whether there is an increase in infections or not???

the increase in testing and increase in numbers of swingers, could explain the numbers and it could also mean as a percentage, that Sti's in the swinging community are falling.

Without the stats it's a meaningless headline.

Never caught anything so far. But we don't do a lot of full swap or any bareback penetration, so we have low odds.

I think our fullswap experiences are below the national average for the number of sexual partners most people have in a lifetime.

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"have you?

im asking you, not me.

Never ask a question you aren't prepared to answer yourself."

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I caught glandular fever when I was 16 from my FB from kissing "

gosh, that was unlucky.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I caught glandular fever when I was 16 from my FB from kissing

gosh, that was unlucky."

I no its a sshocking illness never felt so knackered n ill in my life funny thing was that how his gf n my bf caught us out

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

I can't view her as for some unknown reason she has blocked me

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By *lan43sumMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I can't view her as for some unknown reason she has blocked me "

Welcome to the shut out club! We guys are maybe more used to being blocked then the ladies are? I'm still STI free thanks to safer posting! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I can't view her as for some unknown reason she has blocked me

Welcome to the shut out club! We guys are maybe more used to being blocked then the ladies are? I'm still STI free thanks to safer posting! lol"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can't view her as for some unknown reason she has blocked me "

Can't view who?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Luck has nothing to do with it.

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I got a dose back when I was a teenager, it was pre AIDS days and I was young and daft...since I've been "proper" swinging (as opposed to just being an owd slapper) I've been careful with regards to safer sex and with regular tests I managed to stay clap free so far...I don't take this for granted though and know I'm assertive enough to insist on condoms for penetration and self aware enough to realise I was lucky all those years of catting around not to catch anything

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yup.

Thankfully regular checks screened it...it was gotten rid of....happy days.

O.p....yourself?

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By *eepfoughtMan  over a year ago

Burnley

Clean as a whistle, wouldn't be allowed my working visa otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So has anyone on here ever cought an std or hiv? or has everyone been dead lucky.

I get tested regular. Clear each time, Im saying no more "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

when I was a teenager I had trichomoniasis which they gave me tablets for and some external warts, funny thing is I had no noticeable symtoms and I only went to get tested because my probation officer took me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Been caught... wanking This morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Luck has nothing to do with it. "

well it is partly because if you get something that can be treated you are lucky compared to someone who gets hiv.

freddy mercury died from hiv but Elton john and George Michael didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to be very irresponsible when I was 17 and fearless, but thus far I've had cystitis from a very hard pounding, in the middle of my a levels, that was horrible, and after an orgy in Brighton and some aggressive deep throating I, and a couple of others, caught a cold, with horrible sore throat and achy head, on my 21st and all! got that checked out immediately and it was a bacterial thing, not an std/sti.

I go now every 3 months or so, even though I don't sleep with that many people, its good to be tested and safe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know someone who tested positive for Chlamydia, but fortunately I'm too old .As for dead lucky... Fancy calling dead "lucky" "

What age limit does chlamydia have?

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By *allipygousMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"Luck has nothing to do with it.

well it is partly because if you get something that can be treated you are lucky compared to someone who gets hiv.

freddy mercury died from hiv but Elton john and George Michael didn't."

......yet.

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By *allipygousMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I know someone who tested positive for Chlamydia, but fortunately I'm too old .As for dead lucky... Fancy calling dead "lucky"

What age limit does chlamydia have?"

Once you enter your 47th year it has no interest in you...Fact

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"So has anyone on here ever cought an std or hiv? or has everyone been dead lucky."

So, Doreeen finds out all your STDs; eventually discloses that she had "just the one incident but that was years ago"... And promptly leaves the site clap clap Doreeen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have an SRi. It goes quite quickly.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

UNLOS four days later. Wonder if this was a student doing a bit of research - or a journalist?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I did it was ouchy!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"UNLOS four days later. Wonder if this was a student doing a bit of research - or a journalist?"

It was Doreen....so if a journalist then she'd been gathering material for quite a long time

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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"UNLOS four days later. Wonder if this was a student doing a bit of research - or a journalist?

It was Doreen....so if a journalist then she'd been gathering material for quite a long time "

and she has had many incarnations

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"UNLOS four days later. Wonder if this was a student doing a bit of research - or a journalist?

It was Doreen....so if a journalist then she'd been gathering material for quite a long time

and she has had many incarnations "

well - hello Doreen, (where ever you are) I look forward to you some more of your drawn out, highly personal threads. And obvious support from members in having you ask personal questions of others, but not divulge any information about yourself until near UNLOS - a very well done!

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By *allipygousMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"UNLOS four days later. Wonder if this was a student doing a bit of research - or a journalist?

It was Doreen....so if a journalist then she'd been gathering material for quite a long time

and she has had many incarnations "

Careful, last time I said something similar about her I got myself 48 hours on the naughty step.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"UNLOS four days later. Wonder if this was a student doing a bit of research - or a journalist?

It was Doreen....so if a journalist then she'd been gathering material for quite a long time

and she has had many incarnations

Careful, last time I said something similar about her I got myself 48 hours on the naughty step."

But I'm 5'10 and exceptional.

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By *allipygousMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"UNLOS four days later. Wonder if this was a student doing a bit of research - or a journalist?

It was Doreen....so if a journalist then she'd been gathering material for quite a long time

and she has had many incarnations

Careful, last time I said something similar about her I got myself 48 hours on the naughty step.

But I'm 5'10 and exceptional. "

Oooookay then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know someone who tested positive for Chlamydia, but fortunately I'm too old .As for dead lucky... Fancy calling dead "lucky"

What age limit does chlamydia have?

Once you enter your 47th year it has no interest in you...Fact"

You're not wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know someone who tested positive for Chlamydia, but fortunately I'm too old .As for dead lucky... Fancy calling dead "lucky"

What age limit does chlamydia have?"

Just tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"someone else once posted this same thread and nobody would answere it so I knew nobody would be likely too, I just thought it was an interesting question after reading peoples comments on the bareback thread and last weeks article in the sun saying that there was an increase in people getting gonorea among the swinging community though I have no idea how true that is.

Because of the internet STIs aren't contained like they used to be, people travel miles for sex now and don't really stay local for it, but rates went down in 2013 from 2012 but are still higher than in 2011. Whenever i see claims made in the news i do google for sources that would back them up, the article should have links (don't read the sun so don't know if it has them or not). I also can't find 2014s data.

If you look at the stats for 2010-2011 there aren't that many people infected with stuff anyway, although the figure is presumed to be higher because some people won't know they've got anything apparently.

::How many STIs are diagnosed?

In England alone between 2010 and 2011 there were 426,827 new infections in a 12-month period which included:

Chlamydia: 186,196. Most of these were people aged 24 or younger

Genital herpes: 31,154

Genital warts: 76,071

Gonorrhoea: 20,965. The highest rates of gonorrhoea are seen in women aged 16-19 and men aged 20-24

HIV: 6,280

Infectious syphilis: 2,915

Source: HPA - based on diagnoses between 2010 and 2011 in sexual health clinics in England

More people are being tested too.

Attendance at sexual health clinics has also increased since the previous survey, rising from 6.7% to 21% in women, and from 7.7% to 20% in men. Clinic attendance is highest in younger people, those with higher numbers of partners and in women from the most deprived areas. - See more at: http://www.ucl.ac.uk/news/news-articles/1113/26112013-Sexual-health-programmes-making-good-progress-but-STIs-still-an-issue#sthash.0T8xEBm9.dpuf

There were 446,253 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) diagnosed in England in 2013, according to new Public Health England (PHE) data out today: close to the number diagnosed in 2012 (448,775 cases).

I've passed on thrush to an ex partner once, but not caught anything."

thrush itself is not an STI...women get it because of yeast overgrowth...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"thrush itself is not an STI...women get it because of yeast overgrowth..."

Yeah but you can pass it on sexually so it probably becomes an STI then?

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

I got Thrush whikst carrying my twins it wasnt sexually transmitted though just caused by the hormonal imbalance caused during the pregnancy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I got Thrush whikst carrying my twins it wasnt sexually transmitted though just caused by the hormonal imbalance caused during the pregnancy. "

I've got it through pregnancy and diabetes causes it too, if my blood sugars remain high for too long. Just was thinking if someone doesn't naturally have it and then catches it from me (like my ex did) then it's an STI because they were infected with it off me. Makes sense anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well after googling i found out it isn't an STI but you can be infected with it after having sex with someone who has it. That makes 0 sense, how can being sexually infected with something make it not be a sexual infection?

I know the body makes it naturally and it can get out of control but you can also pick it up via sex and become infected with it too. So sometimes it is an STI surely?

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"I got Thrush whikst carrying my twins it wasnt sexually transmitted though just caused by the hormonal imbalance caused during the pregnancy.

I've got it through pregnancy and diabetes causes it too, if my blood sugars remain high for too long. Just was thinking if someone doesn't naturally have it and then catches it from me (like my ex did) then it's an STI because they were infected with it off me. Makes sense anyway."

Yes it makes sense I didnt play with my OH whilst having it for risk of transmitting it sexually. Most dont realise you can get it orally too.

Felt sorry for him hed been away for 6 weeks and came home ready for fun and hes couldnt have it. I was equally frustrated as the hormones meant i.wanted it just as much if not more, but it wasnt worth giving him it too

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"I got Thrush whikst carrying my twins it wasnt sexually transmitted though just caused by the hormonal imbalance caused during the pregnancy.

I've got it through pregnancy and diabetes causes it too, if my blood sugars remain high for too long. Just was thinking if someone doesn't naturally have it and then catches it from me (like my ex did) then it's an STI because they were infected with it off me. Makes sense anyway.

Yes it makes sense I didnt play with my OH whilst having it for risk of transmitting it sexually. Most dont realise you can get it orally too.

Felt sorry for him hed been away for 6 weeks and came home ready for fun and hes couldnt have it. I was equally frustrated as the hormones meant i.wanted it just as much if not more, but it wasnt worth giving him it too"

I actually didn't know i had thrush until my ex got symptoms. I never get a discharge with mine, just itchy, and i figured all the sex had just gotten to my bits and made them a bit sweaty and then itchy maybe lol, then he got a bit sore, red, and cracked and needed treating and it was advised i got treated too and my itchy went away.

Shame you both went without sex, i don't think the symptoms are too bad for women really until it becomes persistent (which it did for me when my diabetes was too high for 3 years, the last year i was itchy before my period for a week and it was unbearable), for guys it does seem to affect them more and be painful though so yeah i agree with your decision, probably not best to pass it on if you can help it.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"I got Thrush whikst carrying my twins it wasnt sexually transmitted though just caused by the hormonal imbalance caused during the pregnancy.

I've got it through pregnancy and diabetes causes it too, if my blood sugars remain high for too long. Just was thinking if someone doesn't naturally have it and then catches it from me (like my ex did) then it's an STI because they were infected with it off me. Makes sense anyway.

Yes it makes sense I didnt play with my OH whilst having it for risk of transmitting it sexually. Most dont realise you can get it orally too.

Felt sorry for him hed been away for 6 weeks and came home ready for fun and hes couldnt have it. I was equally frustrated as the hormones meant i.wanted it just as much if not more, but it wasnt worth giving him it too

I actually didn't know i had thrush until my ex got symptoms. I never get a discharge with mine, just itchy, and i figured all the sex had just gotten to my bits and made them a bit sweaty and then itchy maybe lol, then he got a bit sore, red, and cracked and needed treating and it was advised i got treated too and my itchy went away.

Shame you both went without sex, i don't think the symptoms are too bad for women really until it becomes persistent (which it did for me when my diabetes was too high for 3 years, the last year i was itchy before my period for a week and it was unbearable), for guys it does seem to affect them more and be painful though so yeah i agree with your decision, probably not best to pass it on if you can help it."

I agree men do seem to get it worse and i was like you no other signs but the itchy sensation.

If you ever have another flare up try using natural yoghurt its so good for relieving the itch better than anything you can buy over the counter and the enzymes in the yoghurt help to neutralise and treat the infection. I laughed it off when first told that but tried it out of desperation and it bloody worked.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree men do seem to get it worse and i was like you no other signs but the itchy sensation.

If you ever have another flare up try using natural yoghurt its so good for relieving the itch better than anything you can buy over the counter and the enzymes in the yoghurt help to neutralise and treat the infection. I laughed it off when first told that but tried it out of desperation and it bloody worked."

Thanks, will try that if i ever get it again, but will also go the doctors because i now know it's a symptom of my sugars being too high for too long. Talc seemed to help as well i noticed. Yeah, because i didn't get a discharge i didn't think it was thrush.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"I agree men do seem to get it worse and i was like you no other signs but the itchy sensation.

If you ever have another flare up try using natural yoghurt its so good for relieving the itch better than anything you can buy over the counter and the enzymes in the yoghurt help to neutralise and treat the infection. I laughed it off when first told that but tried it out of desperation and it bloody worked.

Thanks, will try that if i ever get it again, but will also go the doctors because i now know it's a symptom of my sugars being too high for too long. Talc seemed to help as well i noticed. Yeah, because i didn't get a discharge i didn't think it was thrush."

And so you should diabetes isnt to be taken lightly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have a 1.5 Tdi "

That's worse than a STD ??????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree men do seem to get it worse and i was like you no other signs but the itchy sensation.

If you ever have another flare up try using natural yoghurt its so good for relieving the itch better than anything you can buy over the counter and the enzymes in the yoghurt help to neutralise and treat the infection. I laughed it off when first told that but tried it out of desperation and it bloody worked.

Thanks, will try that if i ever get it again, but will also go the doctors because i now know it's a symptom of my sugars being too high for too long. Talc seemed to help as well i noticed. Yeah, because i didn't get a discharge i didn't think it was thrush.

And so you should diabetes isnt to be taken lightly "

Yep. Speaking of which, i gotta go collect my meds.

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By *lan43sumMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"someone else once posted this same thread and nobody would answere it so I knew nobody would be likely too, I just thought it was an interesting question after reading peoples comments on the bareback thread and last weeks article in the sun saying that there was an increase in people getting gonorea among the swinging community though I have no idea how true that is.

Because of the internet STIs aren't contained like they used to be, people travel miles for sex now and don't really stay local for it, but rates went down in 2013 from 2012 but are still higher than in 2011. Whenever i see claims made in the news i do google for sources that would back them up, the article should have links (don't read the sun so don't know if it has them or not). I also can't find 2014s data.

If you look at the stats for 2010-2011 there aren't that many people infected with stuff anyway, although the figure is presumed to be higher because some people won't know they've got anything apparently.

::How many STIs are diagnosed?

In England alone between 2010 and 2011 there were 426,827 new infections in a 12-month period which included:

Chlamydia: 186,196. Most of these were people aged 24 or younger

Genital herpes: 31,154

Genital warts: 76,071

Gonorrhoea: 20,965. The highest rates of gonorrhoea are seen in women aged 16-19 and men aged 20-24

HIV: 6,280

Infectious syphilis: 2,915

Source: HPA - based on diagnoses between 2010 and 2011 in sexual health clinics in England

More people are being tested too.

Attendance at sexual health clinics has also increased since the previous survey, rising from 6.7% to 21% in women, and from 7.7% to 20% in men. Clinic attendance is highest in younger people, those with higher numbers of partners and in women from the most deprived areas. - See more at: http://www.ucl.ac.uk/news/news-articles/1113/26112013-Sexual-health-programmes-making-good-progress-but-STIs-still-an-issue#sthash.0T8xEBm9.dpuf

There were 446,253 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) diagnosed in England in 2013, according to new Public Health England (PHE) data out today: close to the number diagnosed in 2012 (448,775 cases).

I've passed on thrush to an ex partner once, but not caught anything."

Does anyone know what other diseases are being included as the figures above only add up to about 323,000. I'm not trying to be a geek but it does suggest that over 100,000 folk are infected with something else or that the government can't add up..lol

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By *allipygousMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"someone else once posted this same thread and nobody would answere it so I knew nobody would be likely too, I just thought it was an interesting question after reading peoples comments on the bareback thread and last weeks article in the sun saying that there was an increase in people getting gonorea among the swinging community though I have no idea how true that is.

Because of the internet STIs aren't contained like they used to be, people travel miles for sex now and don't really stay local for it, but rates went down in 2013 from 2012 but are still higher than in 2011. Whenever i see claims made in the news i do google for sources that would back them up, the article should have links (don't read the sun so don't know if it has them or not). I also can't find 2014s data.

If you look at the stats for 2010-2011 there aren't that many people infected with stuff anyway, although the figure is presumed to be higher because some people won't know they've got anything apparently.

::How many STIs are diagnosed?

In England alone between 2010 and 2011 there were 426,827 new infections in a 12-month period which included:

Chlamydia: 186,196. Most of these were people aged 24 or younger

Genital herpes: 31,154

Genital warts: 76,071

Gonorrhoea: 20,965. The highest rates of gonorrhoea are seen in women aged 16-19 and men aged 20-24

HIV: 6,280

Infectious syphilis: 2,915

Source: HPA - based on diagnoses between 2010 and 2011 in sexual health clinics in England

More people are being tested too.

Attendance at sexual health clinics has also increased since the previous survey, rising from 6.7% to 21% in women, and from 7.7% to 20% in men. Clinic attendance is highest in younger people, those with higher numbers of partners and in women from the most deprived areas. - See more at: http://www.ucl.ac.uk/news/news-articles/1113/26112013-Sexual-health-programmes-making-good-progress-but-STIs-still-an-issue#sthash.0T8xEBm9.dpuf

There were 446,253 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) diagnosed in England in 2013, according to new Public Health England (PHE) data out today: close to the number diagnosed in 2012 (448,775 cases).

I've passed on thrush to an ex partner once, but not caught anything.

Does anyone know what other diseases are being included as the figures above only add up to about 323,000. I'm not trying to be a geek but it does suggest that over 100,000 folk are infected with something else or that the government can't add up..lol"

To even think about checking the figures you are indeed a geek.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Does anyone know what other diseases are being included as the figures above only add up to about 323,000. I'm not trying to be a geek but it does suggest that over 100,000 folk are infected with something else or that the government can't add up..lol"

I noticed that as well, you need to become geeky enough to use google for everything and then you'll be uber geek.

Table 5: Notes & glossary

Notes: data type

Service data:

England data represent STI diagnoses among people accessing services located in England

i.e. data may include people who are resident in England, Wales, Scotland, Northern Ireland or abroad.

Residence data:

Local area data (PHER / PHEC) represent STI diagnoses among people accessing services located in England

who are also resident in England

i.e. data excludes people accessing services located in England who are resident in Wales, Scotland, Northern Ireland

or abroad

Notes: general

1.

GUM services data are sourced from GUMCADv2 returns.

2.

Chlamydia test & diagnosis data from CC services are sourced from NCSP & NNNG services for 2009 - 2011 & only include

those aged 15-24. Chlamydia test & diagnosis data from 2012 onwards are sourced from CTAD & include all ages. Therefore

chlamydia data from CC services from 2012 onwards are not comparable to data from previous years. For further data from

CC services on chlamydia testing coverage, positivity & diagnostic rates (for those aged 15-24) please follow this link:

http://www.chlamydiascreening.nhs.uk/ps/data.asp

3.

Chlamydia diagnoses from GUM services that were reported as 'previously diagnosed at another service' (SHHAPT codes C4X,

C4OX & C4RX) are excluded from data from 2012 onwards. These diagnoses have been reported via CTAD & are already

included in the CC services data. Therefore, GUM services chlamydia data from 2012 onwards are not comparable to data from

previous years.

4.

Increases in numbers by patient residence may be the result of improved data reporting (primarily affecting 2009-2011).

5.

Data reported with an unknown gender &/or unknown sexual risk may be included in the data total.

6.

Sexual risk data (MSM & WSW) are sourced from GUM services only, CC services do not include data on sexual risk.

7.

MSM includes men who reported being homosexual or bisexual. WSW includes women who reported being homosexual only.

8.

MSM & WSW reflect the sexual risk reported at the date of the patient attendance.

9.

Increases in numbers by sexual risk may be the result of improved data reporting.

10.

Data represent the number of diagnoses reported & not the number of people diagnosed.

11.

Data presented follow calendar years (Jan-Dec), not financial years (Apr-Mar).

12.

For information about your LA by LA-UT, PHEC & PHER please refer to the PHE Geography guide available from the 'Table

Guide' (pdf)

: http://www.hpa.org.uk/stiannualdatatables

Tada!

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By *uby0000Woman  over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I was really lucky,I met one of my regular partners when he had a terrible cold and I didn't get it. I've never caught anything else from a man either,call it lucky if you want. "

years ago I got swine flu from this pig of a man!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Also:

Table 5: STI Definitions

New STI diagnoses

KC60/SHHAPT codes

Chancroid / LGV / Donovanosis

C1, C2*, C3

*(including O & R suffixes)

Chlamydia - total ¹

-

¹ Chlamydia - GUM services

C4*, C4A, C4B, C4C

*(including O, M & R suffixes)

¹ Chlamydia - CC services

CTAD, NCSP & NNNG

Gonorrhoea

B*, B1, B2, B5

*(including O, M, R & X suffixes)

Herpes: anogenital herpes (1st episode)

C10A

(including M suffix)

HIV: new diagnosis - total

² **

E1A, E2A, E3A1, H1*, H1A*, H1B*

*(including X suffix)

² HIV: new diagnosis - acute infections **

H1A

(including X suffix)

² HIV: new diagnosis - AIDS defined **

E3A1, H1B*

*(including X suffix)

Molluscum contagiosum**

C12

Non-specific genital infection (NSGI)

C4H, C4N*

*(including R suffix)

Pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) & epididymitis: non-specific **

C5, C5A

Chlamydial PID & epididymitis

(included in chlamydia total)

C4B, C5A+C4

Gonococcal PID & epididymitis

(included in gonorrhoea total)

B5, C5A+B

Scabies / pediculosis pubis **

C8, C9

Syphilis: primary, secondary & early latent

A1, A2, A3

Trichomoniasis

C6A

Warts: anogenital warts (1st episode)

C11A

(including M suffix)

** STI diagnoses (including HIV) not exclusively transmitted by sexual contact.

Other STI diagnoses

KC60/SHHAPT codes

Epidemiological treatment of suspected STIs

A9, B4, C4E, C4I

(syphilis, chlamydia, gonorrhoea, NSGI & PID)

Herpes: anogenital herpes (recurrent episode)

C10B

(including M suffix)

HIV: subsequent presentation

E1B?, E2B?, E3A2, E3B?, H2°

? reported once every 12 weeks

° reported per attendance

Ophthalmia neonatorum

B3, C4D, C5B

Syphilis: congenital

A7, A7A, A8

Syphilis: late

A4, A5, A6

Warts: anogenital warts (recurrent episode)

C11B, C11C, C11D*

*(including M suffix)

Other diagnoses made at GUM services

KC60/SHHAPT codes

Candidiasis: anogenital

C7, C7A

Cervical cytology: minor/major abnormality

P4A, P4B

Epidemiological treatment of suspected STIs

C7B

(candidosis, vaginosis, vaginitis & balanitis)

Hepatitis: A, B & C

C13, C13A, C14, C15

Other conditions requiring treatment at a GUM clinic

D2B

Urinary tract infection

D2A

Vaginosis and balanitis

C6B, C6C

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sooo many ppl reading this and thinking no way am I saying lol

I however am an open book. .and very honest

Yes I have. ..off my long term partner of two years.....

He was on here when I met him..still is... and passed something to me

It was treated

And im now careful....I say careful loosely as we all claim to be careful but perform oral unprotected

I get tested every 3 mths now ...im not as careless as I was in vanilla world where it seems to be the norm between my mates to bareback everyone ... I have made mistakes and git carried away I won't lie... but..test immediately after through worrying

Currently all clear

Now where is that shiny honesty badge?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

AIDS - deaths in 2012 in UK were 490. Wear condoms.

Influenza - Average deaths per annum in UK is between 8,000 and 12,000. Wear a mask and sterile gloves 24/7, never touch or especially kiss another human being, get inoculated (although you may still catch it), eat only sterilised food.

Support the NHS and stockpile Tamiflu.

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