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"for threesomes and/or anything else "un-vanilla-y" "I'm not the sharpest tool in that box....but you're no single male! X | |||
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"Most seem to find it hard to meet, have better luck at clubs, or reckon they can do much better just in a vanilla club or pub. So why are you still on fab? Is it just the banter? Or do you crave disappointment? "My luck has been just fine so that's why I'm here..  | |||
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"Are you! "ha haha - nope! Just giving an educated guess | |||
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"Most seem to find it hard to meet, have better luck at clubs, or reckon they can do much better just in a vanilla club or pub. So why are you still on fab? Is it just the banter? Or do you crave disappointment? "I stay on here on this site for all the helpful advice like rubbing bacon on things. Plus the disappointment is character building | |||
"Are you generalising? Most,as in all who post here saying they can't meet,or have you been doing your research? I wonder what the percentage is of men who haven't met anyone from here. " Judging by the threads you generally see from single guys on here, the percentage who haven't met seems sky-high... I'm guessing that those that meet post far less often.... | |||
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"Are you generalising? Most,as in all who post here saying they can't meet,or have you been doing your research? I wonder what the percentage is of men who haven't met anyone from here. Judging by the threads you generally see from single guys on here, the percentage who haven't met seems sky-high... I'm guessing that those that meet post far less often...." I should add that they do post threads, but not whining ones | |||
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"Most seem to find it hard to meet, have better luck at clubs, or reckon they can do much better just in a vanilla club or pub. So why are you still on fab? Is it just the banter? Or do you crave disappointment? "Most, as in those who use the forums? If so you are extrapolating from a small sample. | |||
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"but you are a single man" Nope, I'm half of a married couple. | |||
"Are you generalising? Most,as in all who post here saying they can't meet,or have you been doing your research? I wonder what the percentage is of men who haven't met anyone from here. " Of course I'm generalising! However, i can read the statuses of the many single men who don't use the forum and there is a recurring theme.. | |||
"but you are a single man Nope, I'm half of a married couple." Which half? | |||
"but you are a single man Nope, I'm half of a married couple. Which half? "The good looking half! | |||
"for threesomes and/or anything else "un-vanilla-y" " ad infinitum. | |||
"I'm doing just fine and I have a nice circle of fab friends and it's not always about finding playmates "
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"Are you generalising? Most,as in all who post here saying they can't meet,or have you been doing your research? I wonder what the percentage is of men who haven't met anyone from here. Of course I'm generalising! However, i can read the statuses of the many single men who don't use the forum and there is a recurring theme.." So you have done your research then. It would be interesting to know exactly how many men,women and couples are on here and how badly men fare. I've seen loads of profiles where the men have lots of meets. Is there a theme regarding the types of men who don't do well? That's your next project | |||
"do you crave disappointment?" Plenty aren't disappointed. We just don't rant about how fucking happy we are | |||
" The good looking half!" Oh dear!!! and you wonder why you have no luck! | |||
"Are you generalising? Most,as in all who post here saying they can't meet,or have you been doing your research? I wonder what the percentage is of men who haven't met anyone from here. Of course I'm generalising! However, i can read the statuses of the many single men who don't use the forum and there is a recurring theme.. So you have done your research then. It would be interesting to know exactly how many men,women and couples are on here and how badly men fare. I've seen loads of profiles where the men have lots of meets. Is there a theme regarding the types of men who don't do well? That's your next project " I'll have a look next time I'm on the loo. Have a nice day! X | |||
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" The good looking half! Oh dear!!! and you wonder why you have no luck! "No i don't wonder that thanks for your concern lol | |||
"Yawnnnn Why would one even start a thread on a subject that doesn't need any attention Oh wait.....maybe the attention was required for the OP? "Bless...no. | |||
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"I would suggest that the single guys that do well know exactly why that is and keep schtum. I'd also guess that couples and ladies that meet single men know exactly why they meet the ones that they do. Telling no-hopers why would only encourage them to fake it which would benefit no-one." Great answer! | |||
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"Most seem to find it hard to meet, have better luck at clubs, or reckon they can do much better just in a vanilla club or pub. So why are you still on fab? Is it just the banter? Or do you crave disappointment? "Pub isn't my thing, plus I don't want a d*unk woman. Here to chat to women and hopefully a meet will come from it. Have pictures which gives women something to perve at. I crave ice cream | |||
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"I come here more out of habit these days I suppose. There was a time when I used to use swinging sites simply to make the process of meeting women for sex a lot more straightforward, but of course, it's never REALLY been that way even on a site specifically intended for that, as you have so many other guys to outshine, have to present yourself in the most attractive light, consider the distance between you and other swingers, do they find YOU attractive, do you find THEM attractive, are they single and available, how well would you get on in person, do you find each other interesting etc. But then, I simply don't meet many women in the offline world. Nights out have never really been my thing, too much drink and noise, the sort of intelligent, characterful, but also good looking girls I like always seem to be hidden away more specifically, but sadly when I DO find them - you guessed it, they're already spoken for by the guys who got there first. It ultimately leaves me in a circle of frustration, like a guy who's spend years improving and polishing up his car, but can find nowhere to drive it." Very insightful | |||
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"I come here more out of habit these days I suppose. There was a time when I used to use swinging sites simply to make the process of meeting women for sex a lot more straightforward, but of course, it's never REALLY been that way even on a site specifically intended for that, as you have so many other guys to outshine, have to present yourself in the most attractive light, consider the distance between you and other swingers, do they find YOU attractive, do you find THEM attractive, are they single and available, how well would you get on in person, do you find each other interesting etc. But then, I simply don't meet many women in the offline world. Nights out have never really been my thing, too much drink and noise, the sort of intelligent, characterful, but also good looking girls I like always seem to be hidden away more specifically, but sadly when I DO find them - you guessed it, they're already spoken for by the guys who got there first. It ultimately leaves me in a circle of frustration, like a guy who's spend years improving and polishing up his car, but can find nowhere to drive it." Very well put. | |||
"I come here more out of habit these days I suppose. There was a time when I used to use swinging sites simply to make the process of meeting women for sex a lot more straightforward, but of course, it's never REALLY been that way even on a site specifically intended for that, as you have so many other guys to outshine, have to present yourself in the most attractive light, consider the distance between you and other swingers, do they find YOU attractive, do you find THEM attractive, are they single and available, how well would you get on in person, do you find each other interesting etc. But then, I simply don't meet many women in the offline world. Nights out have never really been my thing, too much drink and noise, the sort of intelligent, characterful, but also good looking girls I like always seem to be hidden away more specifically, but sadly when I DO find them - you guessed it, they're already spoken for by the guys who got there first. It ultimately leaves me in a circle of frustration, like a guy who's spend years improving and polishing up his car, but can find nowhere to drive it." Agree totally. Well written sir! There are so many hobbies we can have but the friends with properly shared benefits is potentially something we can be open about on Fab and achieve more than in the vanilla world. Nature has given us the tools for more than simply reproducing the species so why not enjoy responsibly? | |||
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"Dr here?! Wtf....on here...sorry" Hello doc. | |||
"I come here more out of habit these days I suppose. There was a time when I used to use swinging sites simply to make the process of meeting women for sex a lot more straightforward, but of course, it's never REALLY been that way even on a site specifically intended for that, as you have so many other guys to outshine, have to present yourself in the most attractive light, consider the distance between you and other swingers, do they find YOU attractive, do you find THEM attractive, are they single and available, how well would you get on in person, do you find each other interesting etc. But then, I simply don't meet many women in the offline world. Nights out have never really been my thing, too much drink and noise, the sort of intelligent, characterful, but also good looking girls I like always seem to be hidden away more specifically, but sadly when I DO find them - you guessed it, they're already spoken for by the guys who got there first. It ultimately leaves me in a circle of frustration, like a guy who's spend years improving and polishing up his car, but can find nowhere to drive it." You having a moan again my ol' china? | |||
"Don't get any success being polite, in life or on here.. May start being a cunt again. " Don't be a cunt. | |||
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"Most seem to find it hard to meet, have better luck at clubs, or reckon they can do much better just in a vanilla club or pub. So why are you still on fab? Is it just the banter? Or do you crave disappointment? "There are over 18000 profiles online right now on fab...prob safe to assume half of those might be single men. You spot the odd thread of status update from time to time about not being able to get a meet...u really think thats an accurate representation of single men on here? | |||
"Don't get any success being polite, in life or on here.. May start being a cunt again. Don't be a cunt." Good advice there's rarely a need | |||
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"Single guys are the best things since sliced bread Luv them and hope they keep joining! "Yes you are! | |||
"Single guys are the best things since sliced bread Luv them and hope they keep joining! "I'm quite sure single guys pre-date sliced bread, in fact, the concept of cutting hunks of bread into more manageable slices was probably conceived by some bright spark who realised that such a demonstration of practical intelligence would probably impress the ladies | |||
"I come here more out of habit these days I suppose. There was a time when I used to use swinging sites simply to make the process of meeting women for sex a lot more straightforward, but of course, it's never REALLY been that way even on a site specifically intended for that, as you have so many other guys to outshine, have to present yourself in the most attractive light, consider the distance between you and other swingers, do they find YOU attractive, do you find THEM attractive, are they single and available, how well would you get on in person, do you find each other interesting etc. But then, I simply don't meet many women in the offline world. Nights out have never really been my thing, too much drink and noise, the sort of intelligent, characterful, but also good looking girls I like always seem to be hidden away more specifically, but sadly when I DO find them - you guessed it, they're already spoken for by the guys who got there first. It ultimately leaves me in a circle of frustration, like a guy who's spend years improving and polishing up his car, but can find nowhere to drive it."
For me, it's time. I've have to plan meets and dates as I work long and unsociable hours. Combine that with the issues above and... I've missed out on my personal interpretation of the "good" ones because I can't pursue with the intensity that other guys can.
I thank Fabs for keeping me sane...just! | |||
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"I come here more out of habit these days I suppose. There was a time when I used to use swinging sites simply to make the process of meeting women for sex a lot more straightforward, but of course, it's never REALLY been that way even on a site specifically intended for that, as you have so many other guys to outshine, have to present yourself in the most attractive light, consider the distance between you and other swingers, do they find YOU attractive, do you find THEM attractive, are they single and available, how well would you get on in person, do you find each other interesting etc. But then, I simply don't meet many women in the offline world. Nights out have never really been my thing, too much drink and noise, the sort of intelligent, characterful, but also good looking girls I like always seem to be hidden away more specifically, but sadly when I DO find them - you guessed it, they're already spoken for by the guys who got there first. It ultimately leaves me in a circle of frustration, like a guy who's spend years improving and polishing up his car, but can find nowhere to drive it.
For me, it's time. I've have to plan meets and dates as I work long and unsociable hours. Combine that with the issues above and... I've missed out on my personal interpretation of the "good" ones because I can't pursue with the intensity that other guys can."This is another reason why I feel some guys do better on here than others. This isn't some sort of thinly veiled 'low standards' criticism, rather I think they just have WIDER standards, as in, they have a much broader range of women they're attracted to, and so find that the talent pool, for them at least, is a lot deeper and they don't find it particularly hard as a result to find meets they can enjoy. For guys like me though, who are fairly specific in what we like, not just this site but life in general can prove frustrating when we seek to satisfy our needs - it makes sense that the kind of girls I've mentioned I like rarely stay single for long, so not only is that deeper feeling of attraction an issue, you then have TIMING thrown into an already complicated mix. | |||
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"I come here more out of habit these days I suppose. There was a time when I used to use swinging sites simply to make the process of meeting women for sex a lot more straightforward, but of course, it's never REALLY been that way even on a site specifically intended for that, as you have so many other guys to outshine, have to present yourself in the most attractive light, consider the distance between you and other swingers, do they find YOU attractive, do you find THEM attractive, are they single and available, how well would you get on in person, do you find each other interesting etc. But then, I simply don't meet many women in the offline world. Nights out have never really been my thing, too much drink and noise, the sort of intelligent, characterful, but also good looking girls I like always seem to be hidden away more specifically, but sadly when I DO find them - you guessed it, they're already spoken for by the guys who got there first. It ultimately leaves me in a circle of frustration, like a guy who's spend years improving and polishing up his car, but can find nowhere to drive it.
For me, it's time. I've have to plan meets and dates as I work long and unsociable hours. Combine that with the issues above and... I've missed out on my personal interpretation of the "good" ones because I can't pursue with the intensity that other guys can.
This is another reason why I feel some guys do better on here than others. This isn't some sort of thinly veiled 'low standards' criticism, rather I think they just have WIDER standards, as in, they have a much broader range of women they're attracted to, and so find that the talent pool, for them at least, is a lot deeper and they don't find it particularly hard as a result to find meets they can enjoy. For guys like me though, who are fairly specific in what we like, not just this site but life in general can prove frustrating when we seek to satisfy our needs - it makes sense that the kind of girls I've mentioned I like rarely stay single for long, so not only is that deeper feeling of attraction an issue, you then have TIMING thrown into an already complicated mix."Life's a bitch! 
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"I come here more out of habit these days I suppose. There was a time when I used to use swinging sites simply to make the process of meeting women for sex a lot more straightforward, but of course, it's never REALLY been that way even on a site specifically intended for that, as you have so many other guys to outshine, have to present yourself in the most attractive light, consider the distance between you and other swingers, do they find YOU attractive, do you find THEM attractive, are they single and available, how well would you get on in person, do you find each other interesting etc. But then, I simply don't meet many women in the offline world. Nights out have never really been my thing, too much drink and noise, the sort of intelligent, characterful, but also good looking girls I like always seem to be hidden away more specifically, but sadly when I DO find them - you guessed it, they're already spoken for by the guys who got there first. It ultimately leaves me in a circle of frustration, like a guy who's spend years improving and polishing up his car, but can find nowhere to drive it.
For me, it's time. I've have to plan meets and dates as I work long and unsociable hours. Combine that with the issues above and... I've missed out on my personal interpretation of the "good" ones because I can't pursue with the intensity that other guys can.
This is another reason why I feel some guys do better on here than others. This isn't some sort of thinly veiled 'low standards' criticism, rather I think they just have WIDER standards, as in, they have a much broader range of women they're attracted to, and so find that the talent pool, for them at least, is a lot deeper and they don't find it particularly hard as a result to find meets they can enjoy. For guys like me though, who are fairly specific in what we like, not just this site but life in general can prove frustrating when we seek to satisfy our needs - it makes sense that the kind of girls I've mentioned I like rarely stay single for long, so not only is that deeper feeling of attraction an issue, you then have TIMING thrown into an already complicated mix."Is that a nice way of saying you wont just shag any ol' bit of pussy?  | |||
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"but you are a single man Nope, I'm half of a married couple. Which half?
The good looking half!"so your them fem then everyone has a right to be on here for whatever reason that floats their boat , maybe you have missed the point of this site its a social site aswell not just a shag fest, and you cant blame anyone for trying, good luck to all on here | |||
"I come here more out of habit these days I suppose. There was a time when I used to use swinging sites simply to make the process of meeting women for sex a lot more straightforward, but of course, it's never REALLY been that way even on a site specifically intended for that, as you have so many other guys to outshine, have to present yourself in the most attractive light, consider the distance between you and other swingers, do they find YOU attractive, do you find THEM attractive, are they single and available, how well would you get on in person, do you find each other interesting etc. But then, I simply don't meet many women in the offline world. Nights out have never really been my thing, too much drink and noise, the sort of intelligent, characterful, but also good looking girls I like always seem to be hidden away more specifically, but sadly when I DO find them - you guessed it, they're already spoken for by the guys who got there first. It ultimately leaves me in a circle of frustration, like a guy who's spend years improving and polishing up his car, but can find nowhere to drive it.
For me, it's time. I've have to plan meets and dates as I work long and unsociable hours. Combine that with the issues above and... I've missed out on my personal interpretation of the "good" ones because I can't pursue with the intensity that other guys can.
This is another reason why I feel some guys do better on here than others. This isn't some sort of thinly veiled 'low standards' criticism, rather I think they just have WIDER standards, as in, they have a much broader range of women they're attracted to, and so find that the talent pool, for them at least, is a lot deeper and they don't find it particularly hard as a result to find meets they can enjoy. For guys like me though, who are fairly specific in what we like, not just this site but life in general can prove frustrating when we seek to satisfy our needs - it makes sense that the kind of girls I've mentioned I like rarely stay single for long, so not only is that deeper feeling of attraction an issue, you then have TIMING thrown into an already complicated mix.
Is that a nice way of saying you wont just shag any ol' bit of pussy? "I'm simply saying that I know what I like. | |||
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"single guys, why are you here?" Because I don't think pics of my cock would go down too well on Facebook. | |||
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"Finding a single female is like a needle in a haystack " Here | |||
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"Most seem to find it hard to meet, have better luck at clubs, or reckon they can do much better just in a vanilla club or pub. So why are you still on fab? Is it just the banter? Or do you crave disappointment? "I do ok on here, and enjoying my time on Fab so why would i want to leave? Fab is not the be all and end all though, i also go out to swingers clubs, and vanilla clubs and pubs too. Fab is just an extension of that, a tool to be used to make more contacts, and keep in contact with people i meet at clubs. Plus i like the banter on the forum too. | |||
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"Finding a single female is like a needle in a haystack " Finding a single female is not as hard as many make out - the problem is finding one that doesn't confuse this site with a dating site. | |||
"Most seem to find it hard to meet, have better luck at clubs, or reckon they can do much better just in a vanilla club or pub. So why are you still on fab? Is it just the banter? Or do you crave disappointment? ". It's actually not that difficult when it comes to genuine's tbh. For some maybe it is for one reason or another. I'm sure some here only have endless letdowns and disappointments whilst others have endless joy, moans & groans. Vanilla clubbers & pubbers are usually very different sexually to home, hotel or club swingers. In one instance vanilla cpls in pubs are clubs are rarely looking for another guy to join them for an mfm
One thing is for sure and that's no two swinging couples or two singles experience of this scene is going to be exactly the same so cannot be bunched the same. | |||
"but you are a single man Nope, I'm half of a married couple. Which half? " | |||
"Most seem to find it hard to meet, have better luck at clubs, or reckon they can do much better just in a vanilla club or pub. So why are you still on fab? Is it just the banter? Or do you crave disappointment? "In my case for bi threesomes. Not so much disappointment as waiting for something to come along. Patience is the name of the game. | |||
"do you crave disappointment? Plenty aren't disappointed. We just don't rant about how fucking happy we are "This | |||
"do you crave disappointment? Plenty aren't disappointed. We just don't rant about how fucking happy we are
This "I actually point out I have great times..without going into detail.. my advice to anyone is to loosen up..and go for it | |||
"for threesomes and/or anything else "un-vanilla-y"
I'm not the sharpest tool in that box.... X"You said it. | |||
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"Most seem to find it hard to meet, have better luck at clubs, or reckon they can do much better just in a vanilla club or pub. So why are you still on fab? Is it just the banter? Or do you crave disappointment? "I have just checked my old single guys profile ( still kept for chat rooms with OH on this one ) and I had 58 veris from meets in two years
so some of us single guys do have a lot of success on here.
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