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We were on another site got a message from a guy that wanted to meet us,
He was a customer in our pub is profile was all lies and big lies his message,s were even bigger so we wound him up.
Would see him about not just in our pub but shop,s pub,s any were with us all being local he did not have a clue.
He was going to be a waster was we wrong or right |
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over a year ago
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If your 100% right he was going to be a waster and his profile was all lies then I don't see the problem like the guy above just said play with fire and all that |
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If you hadn't known him and didn't have the advantage of know he was lying, you wouldn't have done this.
A good proportion of people on here are living out a different life/story, the truth about ourselves could be so mundane that it wouldn't attract anyone.
Its a bit unfair tbh.  |
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over a year ago
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"Wrong. And pointless. And arguably pathetic and spiteful too
 Very very childish."
I'd rather not waste my time on someone I wasn't going to meet, its wasting his time as well. |
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"We were on another site got a message from a guy that wanted to meet us,
He was a customer in our pub is profile was all lies and big lies his message,s were even bigger so we wound him up.
Would see him about not just in our pub but shop,s pub,s any were with us all being local he did not have a clue.
He was going to be a waster was we wrong or right"
You say he was going to be a waster but as far as I can see, you were the only ones wasting your own time... |
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"We were on another site got a message from a guy that wanted to meet us,
He was a customer in our pub is profile was all lies and big lies his message,s were even bigger so we wound him up.
Would see him about not just in our pub but shop,s pub,s any were with us all being local he did not have a clue.
He was going to be a waster was we wrong or right"
Very wrong and unfair dont you think?
Had the shoe been on the other foot, you not of known who he was and he wound you up and wasted your time, how would you of felt? |
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And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers.... |
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Depends if you wanted to appear that you get a kick out of pissing people about and wasting their and your time, so people no longer take you seriously, then Id say mission accomplished. Congrats
If you werent interested for whatever reason to move on why play childish friggin games |
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers...."
To all them that are making comment,s he had started to wind us up his message,s was just a load of lie,s had our time wasted enough
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"We were on another site got a message from a guy that wanted to meet us,
He was a customer in our pub is profile was all lies and big lies his message,s were even bigger so we wound him up.
Would see him about not just in our pub but shop,s pub,s any were with us all being local he did not have a clue.
He was going to be a waster was we wrong or right"
Sorry guys but you were wrong .
What goes round comes round and all that .... |
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers....To all them that are making comment,s he had started to wind us up his message,s was just a load of lie,s had our time wasted enough "
He didn't know who you are so how is he purposely winding you up? Seems like you've wound yourselves up over it. Just because you know he's lying doesn't mean he was intending to waste your time. In fact, you've wasted his. |
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers....To all them that are making comment,s he had started to wind us up his message,s was just a load of lie,s had our time wasted enough "
Ifvthat was the case, just ignore and block why lower yourself to his pathetic level |
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers....To all them that are making comment,s he had started to wind us up his message,s was just a load of lie,s had our time wasted enough "
Oh well, that's okay then... 
I hear the sound of private notes being made... |
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Some messages seem a bit harsh ... The question I have us does he know who you two are? If so, I would suggest things could get awkward for you, socially, but if not, and you can keep it that way, then playing him at his own game could teach him a lesson!
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"Some messages seem a bit harsh ... The question I have us does he know who you two are? If so, I would suggest things could get awkward for you, socially, but if not, and you can keep it that way, then playing him at his own game could teach him a lesson!
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Teach him a lesson for what? What game is he playing? |
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers....To all them that are making comment,s he had started to wind us up his message,s was just a load of lie,s had our time wasted enough "
So an eye for an eye? |
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"We were on another site got a message from a guy that wanted to meet us,
He was a customer in our pub is profile was all lies and big lies his message,s were even bigger so we wound him up.
Would see him about not just in our pub but shop,s pub,s any were with us all being local he did not have a clue.
He was going to be a waster was we wrong or right
You say he was going to be a waster but as far as I can see, you were the only ones wasting your own time..."
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers...."
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers...."
Good Lord! |
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers....To all them that are making comment,s he had started to wind us up his message,s was just a load of lie,s had our time wasted enough "
Then you just block and move on...you are still not painting any different a picture than the one you already showed with your OP... |
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You can't pass all your bad experiences onto one bloke and give him all the rebuke you wanted to give everyone else, bit unfair, makes you look a tad childish and that's never a good look, makes you look a bit strange and might be off putting for other people who read this  |
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"We were on another site got a message from a guy that wanted to meet us,
He was a customer in our pub is profile was all lies and big lies his message,s were even bigger so we wound him up.
Would see him about not just in our pub but shop,s pub,s any were with us all being local he did not have a clue.
He was going to be a waster was we wrong or right"
think you clearly don't have anything better to do lol !You call him a waster for lying ..no lying ain't right but think you just been wasting your own time stringing it out . You know they aren't what you're after so why not just do the adult thing and tell the person you have no interest and spend your energies on speaking to those you do wanna meet .Far more constructive in my book |
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers....To all them that are making comment,s he had started to wind us up his message,s was just a load of lie,s had our time wasted enough "
You asked whether you were right or wrong to do what you did. Maybe don't ask questions that you might not like the answer to? |
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"You can't pass all your bad experiences onto one bloke and give him all the rebuke you wanted to give everyone else, bit unfair, makes you look a tad childish and that's never a good look, makes you look a bit strange and might be off putting for other people who read this "
i thought they may be young! eek!  |
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"It sounds to me as if you have been doing what you accuse him of!"
Exactly this. You seem to have assumed that as he's lying he will waste your time when in fact you seem to have wasted his. He might have an online persona which doesn't necessarily mean he's a time waster, just maybe he doesn't want the truth about him to be known. I must admit, if I knew someone was lying it would put me off but I'd politely decline and block. Really no need to belittle him and waste his time as if you have the upper hand because you know who he is. He's told a few lies, not the crime of the century, how has he wasted your time, you've done that yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wrong. And pointless. And arguably pathetic and spiteful too
This
Geez imagine if we started a thread everytime someone wasted our time "
That pretty much happens doesn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wrong. And pointless. And arguably pathetic and spiteful too
This
Geez imagine if we started a thread everytime someone wasted our time
That pretty much happens doesn't it? "
Speak for yourself  ...... Had mine wasted 6 times in two weeks, I chose not to bleat about it and accept it as part of fab life!
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"And by posting on here and telling everyone is just a simple way of attention seeking....that has automatically backfired on you....he has harmed no-one, whereas you have tried to harm him...so in this little scenario you are the bad guys...wake up, grow up and maybe think about leaving this site as you are not true swingers...."
Maybe you should also think about leaving the site as some people don't think singles are "true swingers"  |
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