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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry if this bin posted recently but how many other couples get annoyed when someone messages them but only says hi to one . It annoys me when they put "Hi Tony"or is it just me . X . M  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe give your partner a name instead of just a letter and people may start addressing you both
Your name is also the profile name so you can't really blame people for just messaging you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My pics on friends only just our choice "
I wouldnt know how to address you in a message apart from the Hi Tony, as your partners name isnt even above her profile description. Do you put "hello both" in a bid to be polite and not ignore the female? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile screams 'single male' why not give your partner an identity and a photo, you can even change your username to reflect this. "
Because of my job my pics are friends only . We have couple pics there . My choice for initiial no name. M |
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Its very difficult for single men especially. I the female half of this couple tend to do all the messaging and after a while its easy to slip into the first person which in turn makes it easy for the person you're messaging to address just me. We usually find a message from us both gets us all back on track
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"Maybe give your partner a name instead of just a letter and people may start addressing you both
Your name is also the profile name so you can't really blame people for just messaging you"
I'm assuming the name Tony is the man and this is the lady posting. |
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"The choice be a initail is my choice my pics on friends only again my choice. . We have couple pics on friends only its mainly becausebof my job. M "
If anybody knows you as a couple they are going to know its you anyway as there is a very clear picture of your partner. You don't need to put face pictures publicly |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"The choice be a initail is my choice my pics on friends only again my choice. . We have couple pics on friends only its mainly becausebof my job. M
If anybody knows you as a couple they are going to know its you anyway as there is a very clear picture of your partner. You don't need to put face pictures publicly "
This. 
As others have said - it comes across as very much a single male profile - there's no balance.
But if you don't want to take onboard the advice of others then that's your choice. It's unlikely that anything will change though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its still a couples profile isnt it polite even if its a initail my choice by the way not to have a name on. X M. "
They saying hi followed by username, surely that's a hi to you both |
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"I get messages that refers to "both", what a give away for a copy and paste!!!!
Its annoying anit it.
It seems a small thing to get annoyed at!"
we don't mind cut and paste messages, its what follows that counts and if someone has prepared a good message as long as they remember to change the names (school boy error) we're happy to receive it no matter how many other people its been sent to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better address just one of us, than both and get my name wrong, I hate that
I get addressed as Jane often as it's part of our user name. A quick read of the profile would tell you my name.  |
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