1) Avoid txt-speak - it takes ages to decode what you are trying to say.
2) Become a girl or find girl to play with as a couple - then you'll get loads of interest (single blokes don't get much of a look in).
3) Be patient. |
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"1) Avoid txt-speak - it takes ages to decode what you are trying to say.
2) Become a girl or find girl to play with as a couple - then you'll get loads of interest (single blokes don't get much of a look in).
3) Be patient."
Point number 2  lol
I prefer to stay a boy , thanks |
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I will try and help you with yours if you try and help us with ours, not had a meet off here in 3 months despite working from home with no kids so can accommodate and available every day.
We have pictures of both of us, a full profile and are in a well populated area of the country.
The only difference is (this bit not to the OP but to the sarcastic cry babies out there) we don't care, we don't moan about it, we get on with enjoying the benefits of making new friends on the site  |
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"Cant accomodate or travel, maybe you should elaborate on why as many people find this suspicious"
He's only 19,so probably doesnt drive and still lives with parents..
He's hardly going to have a wife and 10 kids at home is he?
He shouldnt have to explain to anyone why he cant travel or accom anyway. |
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"Cant accomodate or travel, maybe you should elaborate on why as many people find this suspicious
He's only 19,so probably doesnt drive and still lives with parents..
He's hardly going to have a wife and 10 kids at home is he?
He shouldnt have to explain to anyone why he cant travel or accom anyway."
One of my mates from school had two kids and one of the way by the time he was 19... |
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"Cant accomodate or travel, maybe you should elaborate on why as many people find this suspicious
He's only 19,so probably doesnt drive and still lives with parents..
He's hardly going to have a wife and 10 kids at home is he?
He shouldnt have to explain to anyone why he cant travel or accom anyway.
One of my mates from school had two kids and one of the way by the time he was 19..."
I had 2 kids by the time i was 19 too..
He still shouldnt have to explain why he can or cannot accom.
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OP i think the reason why you are struggling to get a meet could be down to your age,personally if a 19yr old emails us i wouldnt meet as i have a son the same age as you. But there are people on here who do meet younger guys.
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"Cant accomodate or travel, maybe you should elaborate on why as many people find this suspicious
He's only 19,so probably doesnt drive and still lives with parents..
He's hardly going to have a wife and 10 kids at home is he?
He shouldnt have to explain to anyone why he cant travel or accom anyway."
I was driving at 18, besides there is still public transport. And he may have a wife and/or kids at his age, lots do!
You're right, he doesnt have to. But both woman ive met off fab have said that someone who cannot do either seems suspicious. Just passing on some information. |
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Perhaps OP if you just elaborate a little on your ability to meet ie
Locals clubs
Local Hotels
Can travel up to *** miles but will be using public transport (ie not out in the boonies)
Can provid hotel accommodation as I live with family/students/gorilla |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I don't think your profile says enough about you and what you are looking for. I always get put off by people adding their phone number and MSN address too.
Join in the forums/chat and get to a social if you are into them, good luck x |
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Hi there!
The one thing that strikes me is the large amount of text etc on your profile. Thats a lot to read through and most people will either not bother and move on or think "oh these guys are too fussy, I have no chance".
the photos are great and should keep people reading for longer!
"I will try and help you with yours if you try and help us with ours, not had a meet off here in 3 months despite working from home with no kids so can accommodate and available every day.
We have pictures of both of us, a full profile and are in a well populated area of the country.
The only difference is (this bit not to the OP but to the sarcastic cry babies out there) we don't care, we don't moan about it, we get on with enjoying the benefits of making new friends on the site "
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as for hardgeordie, hmmm could be a few things really.
Saying you live with your parents might put a lot of people off even though there is nothing wrong with that, your age could be it too. surely a decent 19 year old lad should be out on the pull with his mates etc!
also in your interests, dont tick every single box, a lot of people like you to be a bit discerning.
either way be patient and dont look at this as the only way to meet people. |
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Your profile could be on Facebook as nothing there to say what you like, type of playmates you seek.
At 19 I don't for one second believe you'd play with a 99 year old or indulge in all the interests you've ticked: so be selective.
It's also a bit daft placing your mobile number on the "world wide web" then say you won't answer if you don't know the person!
Your age will also be off-putting to some as you're the same age as their kids! |
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"Hi there!
The one thing that strikes me is the large amount of text etc on your profile. Thats a lot to read through and most people will either not bother and move on or think "oh these guys are too fussy, I have no chance".
the photos are great and should keep people reading for longer!
I will try and help you with yours if you try and help us with ours, not had a meet off here in 3 months despite working from home with no kids so can accommodate and available every day.
We have pictures of both of us, a full profile and are in a well populated area of the country.
The only difference is (this bit not to the OP but to the sarcastic cry babies out there) we don't care, we don't moan about it, we get on with enjoying the benefits of making new friends on the site "
That probably is sound advice but we do like a long profile, it gives us a chance to let people know exactly what we are looking for and what we are offering rather than waste thier time, bits of humour good or bad show that we do have a sense of humour and don't take ourselves seriously whilst we do take meeting seriously.
We actually do know why we don't get meets, people don't want to meet us, that's understandable, we have a huge age difference, if we were both young it would be different, if we were both old it would be different. ad to that some people want taller, shorter, larger, slimmer, hairier, closer and so on.
It takes time to find the right combination of people that like everything about you and everything your into then the same in return.
We will just be patient |
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