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Would me showering upset you?
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By *atcouple OP Couple
over a year ago
Suffolk - East Anglia |
One for the ladies:
We often go to swinging parties and have a great time.
However, I am a bit of a clean freak and after having sex with a lady I like to be fresh and smelling nice for the next. Once in the past this upset a nice woman I had sex with because I went into the shower to freshen up. I didn't mean to infer that I needed cleaning up just that I wanted to be fresh as a daisy for the next.
How can I do this without upsetting the lady I just had sex with? 
Sensible answers please because I'm serious........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't bother me as I'm a bit of a clean freak too. Maybe it maybe ......for the next bit (that you have mentioned twice) that pissed her off. Depends how diplomatically you put this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always shower after. But as we only play with one fb couple we know, we all tend to dive in together and wash each other down.
Even if we play just as a couple together, we still hit the showers after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose it depends on how long you leave it...If you leap off her like your arse is on fire and you can't wait to wash her off like the ex of a friend of mine used to do then prepare for offence...lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy did this with me on our first private meet and I did wonder if it was to do with me lol but the next time we met he asked if I wanted to join him! That was much better xx
In a club I would be pleased to be honest xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always like to give everything a wipe down with a baby wipe before play too and carry a torch so I can check everythings in order lol"
a torch!!!! Hope its not a maglite
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a hygiene freak too, and would expect someone to wash after their first playmate of the night before playing with me so I wouldn't be offended when you then maintained that level of hygiene after we'd played.
I wash my 'ladyparts' after every time I have a pee and jay knows I won't play if I'm not fresh out the shower. There's no way I would play with 2 separate people consecutively in a club without washing in between.
Did you explain why to her? She was maybe a bit paranoid already & you showering somehow confirmed her fears in her head? It's not your fault though & you weren't insensitive. Juicy x |
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By *MLETCouple
over a year ago
leeds |
"One for the ladies:
We often go to swinging parties and have a great time.
However, I am a bit of a clean freak and after having sex with a lady I like to be fresh and smelling nice for the next. Once in the past this upset a nice woman I had sex with because I went into the shower to freshen up. I didn't mean to infer that I needed cleaning up just that I wanted to be fresh as a daisy for the next.
How can I do this without upsetting the lady I just had sex with?
Sensible answers please because I'm serious........"
get some cheeky wash  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I suppose it depends on how long you leave it...If you leap off her like your arse is on fire and you can't wait to wash her off like the ex of a friend of mine used to do then prepare for offence...lol "
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I suppose it depends on how long you leave it...If you leap off her like your arse is on fire and you can't wait to wash her off like the ex of a friend of mine used to do then prepare for offence...lol "
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I've done this and never got to play with anyone else as the shower led to more... 
