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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on each couple. Usually means all play, but no penetration with the female except her husband/partner."
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I thought soft swing was keeping your own partner but playing in the same room........ |
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I take it as whatever each couple decide what they want to do. Could be everything except poking the fire, could be same room playing with own partner.. its whatever you want it to be amongst yourselves. you both set the rules. |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"Depends on each couple. Usually means all play, but no penetration with the female except her husband/partner.
Thats what we would say soft swing is x"
It's how we started off, took things a step at a time and ensured we were both happy with everything we did - glad we eventually went full though  |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"Depends on each couple. Usually means all play, but no penetration with the female except her husband/partner.
Thats what we would say soft swing is x
It's how we started off, took things a step at a time and ensured we were both happy with everything we did - glad we eventually went full though "
ohh and btw there are 'soft swing' only sites out there if you want them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you put "soft swing" into the search box on the left you will find 15 previous threads on the topic, no harm in asking again but you might find quicker answers there, one thread of those threads alone has 114 answers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done both, actually mainly prefer 'soft' swing now.
To us its all involved together, every thing, and we mean EVERYTHING apart from intercourse, unless with your own partner of course!
It is just as much fun and can often be more sensual. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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"Soft Swing to us is like having a decaf without the cafene,no real point, to some it could be seen as cock teasing."
I am sure to the people who do it it has a point. It may not be your thing or mine but it may work for them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We full swap and we have had some great times with soft swap too, we just tend to go with the flow, sometimes we have done soft swap with couples that we have previously full swapped with, for us it's what is best for that occasion.
We see soft swap as oral, kissing, carressing, erotic play, sensual play but penatrative sex with own partners only, some people see it differently and if your meeting someone who "only do soft swap" it is best to establish the ground rules first.
Some couples who class themselves as soft swappers dont actually swap at all they just like same room fun with own partners.
Some allow the girls to play with each other but the guys can only play with thier own partner.
Each to thier own so checking first avoids dissapointment.
What we have found is that it can be really erotic fun with just oral and carressing and the fun can last much longer. we often avoid couples who state "full swap only" because we just can't guarantee how things will go on the night, but that's us not most people. |
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"Soft Swing to us is like having a decaf without the cafene,no real point, to some it could be seen as cock teasing."
Decaf doesn't have caffeine in it anyway! We have done both soft and full and love both - soft meets can be very erotic and both have their merits! Cock teasing? lol - don't think so - not in this context! Z |
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"Soft Swing to us is like having a decaf without the cafene,no real point, to some it could be seen as cock teasing."
We'd think that anyone who thinks of soft swinging as 'cock teasing' is probably the sort of person we'd have to tell to 'fuck off' at a party.
Also probably the same sort of people who think that women who wear mini skirts are 'asking for it'  |
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we have done soft swinging a lot we love it to us it means everything apart from penetration a few times however it ended up full sex other times i have been sucked to completion its all an at the time thing but its all good |
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"We full swap and we have had some great times with soft swap too, we just tend to go with the flow, sometimes we have done soft swap with couples that we have previously full swapped with, for us it's what is best for that occasion.
We see soft swap as oral, kissing, carressing, erotic play, sensual play but penatrative sex with own partners only, some people see it differently and if your meeting someone who "only do soft swap" it is best to establish the ground rules first.
Some couples who class themselves as soft swappers dont actually swap at all they just like same room fun with own partners.
Some allow the girls to play with each other but the guys can only play with thier own partner.
Each to thier own so checking first avoids dissapointment.
What we have found is that it can be really erotic fun with just oral and carressing and the fun can last much longer. we often avoid couples who state "full swap only" because we just can't guarantee how things will go on the night, but that's us not most people."
Hit the nail on the head.We have been swinging for several years and enjoy soft swap as much as full swing.We have found that soft swap can be really erotic and sensual and we to find "only full swing" written on a profile seems to ignore alternatives and doesnt always add to the sexy things that can happen in a 4 sum or 3 sum.
That being said, full swing with the "right" couple or single with loads of foreplay before hand can be equally sexy.
We dont like to be to descriptive when meeting in what we will do and what we wont do but we can both judge from each other at the time how we are feeling and also how the other couple is feeling.As JedandSasha said we tend to go with the flow. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Our profile states exactly what we want.... Everything from informing others about what they may expect, even singles... (watch Fabio come on here and say they should fend for themselves!  )
We love talking about sex on a meet, we enjoy a lot of flirting too as well as soft and full swap!
The only real rule we have is kissing (yes, that old chestnut!) We will only meet people to play if they are OK with snogging... As to those that say soft swap is "cock teasing" We don't have interest in people with that view either! |
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