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Discuss and agree on your boundaries.
Remember it was everybody's first time once we have all been there.
Socials are a good starting point.
Only do what you feel comfortable with. Most people are gracious and accept/understand that No means No.
Enjoy yourselves. Swinging is supposed to be fun.
Good luck. Xxx |
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Scared the crap out of both of us going to our first meet. Still scares us a bit now, 15 years later, and if it ever stops scaring us at least a little bit, we'll most likely give it up.
Fear is not a bad thing, its keeps us alive. Rationalised fear leads to excitement, so just enjoy the excitement ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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