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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are all here for fun but is there such a thing as too much fun?
I have seen the odd person put up that they want to meet almost every single day and a few literally every day!!! Both male and female!
Personally I wouldn't meet a woman who was looking to meet every single day it would put me off a bit even though we all know what we get up to on here, I just think that this is an outlet for our urges wants and needs but we don't need to revolve our entire life round it and just simply take every offer we get lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet every day sounds extreme. Could be loneliness or sex addiction. Maybe people think that meeting random strangers for sex everyday is as normal as breathing. Who can tell? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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a few years ago, I met people nearly every day as swinging can kinda consumed my life. It worked for me then, not now.
I retired early in my working life, I had lots of time on my hands and I liked to party.
I changed my approach as I didn't actually like the person that I had become.
what others do..... hey, their choice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well you can do what you want and others can go what they want, but as a swinger I try not to judge "
So you would meet someone who had a meet every day?
I'm not criticising people can do what they like im just putting up my opinion and curious of others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There were times when i met everyday sometimes more than once a day but i don't revolve my life around it nor did i meet just anybody, i was/am very very choosy 
Also even if someone advertises everyday it don't mean they always get a meet
Many years ago i met a guy several times and he asked about my swinging life in general and he then said he didn't want me to meet so many other guys .... but he thought it was ok for him to meet many other women lol
Personally i like people who are active swingers, they are often the best meets i have had |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like sex everyday...it would be what I'd like if I had a partner...why not a single? male or female.
dunno why someone would judge that....
jealousy? control? insecurity?..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you can do what you want and others can go what they want, but as a swinger I try not to judge
So you would meet someone who had a meet every day?
I'm not criticising people can do what they like im just putting up my opinion and curious of others "
We mainly meet people in clubs and to be honest we don't inter_iew people prior to playing if we connect with them and are attracted to them we will play, what they do is there business some people on here meet a lot but don't show verifications some are more open about who they meet so you can make your decisions we just take people as we find them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When the wife and I were together, we were happy if we had 4 or 5 meets in a year - that's what made it special for us. Too much and it just becomes routine, matter of fact. Each to their own though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When the wife and I were together, we were happy if we had 4 or 5 meets in a year - that's what made it special for us. Too much and it just becomes routine, matter of fact. Each to their own though "
I agree it's not as special or exciting if it's part of your every day life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A meet everday keeps the doctor well paid   
Why? Groin strain?
I'd meet every day given half a chance. Unfortunately its hard enough to get men to commit to a meet a month round here so I'll just have to abuse my FB instead. "
Bloody hell woman I'd meet you half way ..... all you have to do is ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the wife and I were together, we were happy if we had 4 or 5 meets in a year - that's what made it special for us. Too much and it just becomes routine, matter of fact. Each to their own though
I agree it's not as special or exciting if it's part of your every day life "
I have to disagree with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have noticed a profile or two with these meets every night, all night long, they either sex addicts, just looking for attention or use drugs all the time.... |
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"Have noticed a profile or two with these meets every night, all night long, they either sex addicts, just looking for attention or use drugs all the time...."
What do you mean by 'or uses drugs all the time'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have noticed a profile or two with these meets every night, all night long, they either sex addicts, just looking for attention or use drugs all the time...."
Drugs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have noticed a profile or two with these meets every night, all night long, they either sex addicts, just looking for attention or use drugs all the time....
What do you mean by 'or uses drugs all the time'? "
I've come across these profiles where they state "chem friendly/chem sex" or "high and horny looking to meet"
I could be wrong, but maybe not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"7 meets in 7 days or play with 7 diff people at a club?
Who is to judge? "
The thread is about meets every day, not how many people have been met in xxx amount of time. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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How do you know they are accepting every offer that comes their way? Maybe they aren't having much luck, hence the trying the next day.
While it doesn't appeal to us to want to meet people every day, if it works for others then good for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are all here for fun but is there such a thing as too much fun?
I have seen the odd person put up that they want to meet almost every single day and a few literally every day!!! Both male and female!
Personally I wouldn't meet a woman who was looking to meet every single day it would put me off a bit even though we all know what we get up to on here, I just think that this is an outlet for our urges wants and needs but we don't need to revolve our entire life round it and just simply take every offer we get lol"
Could be someone looking for an exact type/experience and they try Friday but don't get the type of person they want replying so they try Sat....Sun...Mon...then give up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are all here for fun but is there such a thing as too much fun?
I have seen the odd person put up that they want to meet almost every single day and a few literally every day!!! Both male and female!
Personally I wouldn't meet a woman who was looking to meet every single day it would put me off a bit even though we all know what we get up to on here, I just think that this is an outlet for our urges wants and needs but we don't need to revolve our entire life round it and just simply take every offer we get lol"
That's probably because they are not getting meets. So they keep putting up a meet every day.
I'd get bored of o met every day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like sex everyday...it would be what I'd like if I had a partner...why not a single? male or female.
dunno why someone would judge that....
jealousy? control? insecurity?....."
Same here, i like sex every day and in a proper relationship would get that.
Most guys don't know i meet several guys a day or they do and love it. So there is something for everyone on here it seems.
I don't put meets up because i don't need to, have put a status up a few times when wanted a quickie with no messing about. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"We are all here for fun but is there such a thing as too much fun?
I have seen the odd person put up that they want to meet almost every single day and a few literally every day!!! Both male and female!
Personally I wouldn't meet a woman who was looking to meet every single day it would put me off a bit even though we all know what we get up to on here, I just think that this is an outlet for our urges wants and needs but we don't need to revolve our entire life round it and just simply take every offer we get lol
That's probably because they are not getting meets. So they keep putting up a meet every day.
I'd get bored of o met every day."
I wouldnt ever find enough people i'd want to meet to do it daily,but as people have said each go their own. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I'd meet every day if I could, but I seldom put meets up unless I'm going to a club...best I've managed recently in a week was a Monday, then Wednesday and two seperate meets on the Friday - that was an enjoyable week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the wife and I were together, we were happy if we had 4 or 5 meets in a year - that's what made it special for us. Too much and it just becomes routine, matter of fact. Each to their own though "
 our worklives aren't always compatible with each other, let alone bringing someone else into the equation . . For us its added fun , not a way of life. . |
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