New to this but threw myself in at the deep end and went to a swingers party a few weeks ago. Now looking for some private meets. Sent out a lot of messages but not much response and not much luck.
Respectful, non pushy, clean, fit guy but doesn't mean I'm boring. Definitely have that naughty side behind closed doors and can last a while. Anyway tried the polite approach and also being cocky (not usually my style) but still struggling. I'm sure if given the chance, they would be pleasantly surprised. Any advice would be greatly appreciated |
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"It just the swingers boring and don't do what they say on tin anymore"
You mean give free fucks to guys that ask for it?
Swinging doesn't mean fuck anyone who asks.
LOL, we bet you are going to get LOADS of action now!!
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"New to this but threw myself in at the deep end and went to a swingers party a few weeks ago. Now looking for some private meets. Sent out a lot of messages but not much response and not much luck.
Respectful, non pushy, clean, fit guy but doesn't mean I'm boring. Definitely have that naughty side behind closed doors and can last a while. Anyway tried the polite approach and also being cocky (not usually my style) but still struggling. I'm sure if given the chance, they would be pleasantly surprised. Any advice would be greatly appreciated "
Maybe expand a bit more on your profile, say what you can offer and what you would like to experience. When you say you have sent lots of messages out have you made the messages relevant to the person you are sending it to? Did you match their preferences and interests?
Give it some time and maybe go to a club, socials or more parties and see what happens from there. Hope you have lots of fun and happy swinging!!!  |
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Cheers mate, appreciate the response. As you can see from these posts people make assumptions because i chose to be a single male and get involved in the swinging community. Not looking for a quick fix, just want to get to know people first but difficult if you can't get a conversation going  |
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