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"Try asking rather than demanding. Your profile reads as aggressive, disrespectful and Princess. Only a single boob pic yet requiring face pics, vvwe, etc. As plenty of others on here have been told by lots of forum users recently - there are lots of ways to word things without sounding like your toys are hitting the floor...." Yep I agree with most of that, I need to have a re jig of the profile. Unfortunately a crazy ex that had trawled the internet looking for me has made umteen fake profiles on here to get to my pics, so theyve had to go private. I'm very un princess in reality x | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! " How many men have you contacted yourself? Hunting can yield better results than being hunted | |||
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"Try asking rather than demanding. Your profile reads as aggressive, disrespectful and Princess. Only a single boob pic yet requiring face pics, vvwe, etc. As plenty of others on here have been told by lots of forum users recently - there are lots of ways to word things without sounding like your toys are hitting the floor...." I agree with this - not so much the pics part because it's always fine to keep your photos private and just send them with private messages IMO, but it does read quite demanding, so a lot of quality men who are in demand might well pass on by for something less aggro sounding. Good luck | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! How many men have you contacted yourself? Hunting can yield better results than being hunted" i have to disagree sorry, I find if I contact a male/couple they suddenly come across very arrogant and cocky  | |||
"Ive had a re write with my less alpha female head on! " ` you might want to get rid of the final half of it... because the warnings means absolute "sweet fa" as others have said... rather than waiting on this mountain to come to you.... if you are after something that specific you go and find them!!! | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! " 
Met a couple of decent guys a couple of months back, but I think the overall quality is on the decline. The site has recently been flooded with idiotic douchebags, who are confused as to why us single women don't behave like unpaid hookers. | |||
"Ive had a re write with my less alpha female head on! ` you might want to get rid of the final half of it... because the warnings means absolute "sweet fa" as others have said... rather than waiting on this mountain to come to you.... if you are after something that specific you go and find them!!! " Fabio beat me too it, (not the 1st time, this guy talks a lot of sense!) the warnings to Sydney etc, are useless, pointless, and personally put me off.  | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong!
Met a couple of decent guys a couple of months back, but I think the overall quality is on the decline. The site has recently been flooded with idiotic douchebags, who are confused as to why us single women don't behave like unpaid hookers."To be fair, I don't mind buying you a drink, I don't expect something for nothing  | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong!
Met a couple of decent guys a couple of months back, but I think the overall quality is on the decline. The site has recently been flooded with idiotic douchebags, who are confused as to why us single women don't behave like unpaid hookers."I do feel like some guys are just looking for a service...there's no mutual fun, or social enjoyment that leads to the good stuff elsewhere. Not every guy is like this, but too many are! | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! How many men have you contacted yourself? Hunting can yield better results than being huntedi have to disagree sorry, I find if I contact a male/couple they suddenly come across very arrogant and cocky "I've had some be the same just because I've replied! Both ways get the same treatment though and ditched pretty quickly as that to me isn't quality. I was meaning more that if you actively look you're more likely to make contact with people you might want to meet than having to sift through an inbox full of people who don't interest you at all. You're gonna get arseholes no matter how you approach things, but I met one of my fbs by making contact with him and I can assure you he's of very high quality | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! How many men have you contacted yourself? Hunting can yield better results than being huntedi have to disagree sorry, I find if I contact a male/couple they suddenly come across very arrogant and cocky
I've had some be the same just because I've replied! Both ways get the same treatment though and ditched pretty quickly as that to me isn't quality. I was meaning more that if you actively look you're more likely to make contact with people you might want to meet than having to sift through an inbox full of people who don't interest you at all. You're gonna get arseholes no matter how you approach things, but I met one of my fbs by making contact with him and I can assure you he's of very high quality "Oh if I like what I see / read I'll always send a wink or a little hello. I'm not afraid to look for it. Just seems to be too well hidden. | |||
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"Too many are looking for a cheap lay and most have no clue what it takes to get a woman in bed, with the majority falling at the first hurdle. I've had over a hundred messages today, with zero setting my world alight. One I was physically attracted to, but sadly he was dull as dishwater. " you need to set your filters....... | |||
"Too many are looking for a cheap lay and most have no clue what it takes to get a woman in bed, with the majority falling at the first hurdle. I've had over a hundred messages today, with zero setting my world alight. One I was physically attracted to, but sadly he was dull as dishwater. you need to set your filters......." They're set the best I can | |||
"Too many are looking for a cheap lay and most have no clue what it takes to get a woman in bed, with the majority falling at the first hurdle. I've had over a hundred messages today, with zero setting my world alight. One I was physically attracted to, but sadly he was dull as dishwater. you need to set your filters....... They're set the best I can " I was commenting to the lady complaining of having over 100 unsuitable messages. | |||
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"Too many are looking for a cheap lay and most have no clue what it takes to get a woman in bed, with the majority falling at the first hurdle. I've had over a hundred messages today, with zero setting my world alight. One I was physically attracted to, but sadly he was dull as dishwater. you need to set your filters....... They're set the best I can I was commenting to the lady complaining of having over 100 unsuitable messages." They are set the best I can too. Sadly there are no intelligence filters, which I could really do with! | |||
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"We are out there "Of course you are....  | |||
"Again i mailed you a polite message attached the face pics etc. I wish I had received a reply. and I'm not even one of the nutters "you look like you're trying to chop it all off with a shower screen. Concerning....I don't do pain or s&m and it gives the impression you do | |||
"Again i mailed you a polite message attached the face pics etc. I wish I had received a reply. and I'm not even one of the nutters " | |||
"We are out there
Of course you are.... "When I say "out there" I mean mental | |||
"Too many are looking for a cheap lay and most have no clue what it takes to get a woman in bed, with the majority falling at the first hurdle. I've had over a hundred messages today, with zero setting my world alight. One I was physically attracted to, but sadly he was dull as dishwater. you need to set your filters....... They're set the best I can I was commenting to the lady complaining of having over 100 unsuitable messages. They are set the best I can too. Sadly there are no intelligence filters, which I could really do with!" just block them all and search yourself? | |||
"Again i mailed you a polite message attached the face pics etc. I wish I had received a reply. and I'm not even one of the nutters you look like you're trying to chop it all off with a shower screen. Concerning....I don't do pain or s&m and it gives the impression you do"AGREED!!! only cock pics pointless Sydney waffle no avatar, I wouldn't of even read it. | |||
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"We are out there
Of course you are....
When I say "out there" I mean mental "Haha | |||
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"Too many are looking for a cheap lay and most have no clue what it takes to get a woman in bed, with the majority falling at the first hurdle. I've had over a hundred messages today, with zero setting my world alight. One I was physically attracted to, but sadly he was dull as dishwater. " Sorry but sex shouldn' be about emptying your wallet (should be free), if, at least the woman should spend to lol | |||
"I do feel like some guys are just looking for a service...there's no mutual fun, or social enjoyment that leads to the good stuff elsewhere. Not every guy is like this, but too many are! " Right, probably shit advice but it works for me... Become a little bit of a bitch. Start taking pleasure in deleting those shit messages, start pumping yourself up in your head head that you are better than an unpaid sex worker and those messages aren't even worthy of infecting your eyeballs and just delete them AND feel good about it. Doesn't matter if every single message is shit, just delete it and don't worry about it because better guys will come along. Be more descript in your profile about what you want exactly because quality doesn't really mean anything, especially on here. You want guys who will pander to you? Ask subs to contact you. You want kinky men to contact you? Go on about your kinks. You want vanilla? Just say so. But give men something that will make them look at your profile and think 'that's not me and i'm wasting my time' to eliminate what you don't want. I've been working on eliminating guys for a while now, doing well with my giant troll cock on ym page, but obciously this puts all guys off lol. | |||
"I do feel like some guys are just looking for a service...there's no mutual fun, or social enjoyment that leads to the good stuff elsewhere. Not every guy is like this, but too many are! Right, probably shit advice but it works for me... Become a little bit of a bitch. Start taking pleasure in deleting those shit messages, start pumping yourself up in your head head that you are better than an unpaid sex worker and those messages aren't even worthy of infecting your eyeballs and just delete them AND feel good about it. Doesn't matter if every single message is shit, just delete it and don't worry about it because better guys will come along. Be more descript in your profile about what you want exactly because quality doesn't really mean anything, especially on here. You want guys who will pander to you? Ask subs to contact you. You want kinky men to contact you? Go on about your kinks. You want vanilla? Just say so. But give men something that will make them look at your profile and think 'that's not me and i'm wasting my time' to eliminate what you don't want. I've been working on eliminating guys for a while now, doing well with my giant troll cock on ym page, but obciously this puts all guys off lol. "Haha brilliant. I know my profile was a bit 'bitch' and I'm trying to play nice. But men rarely read the profile, and even less read past the first line! It's impossible! | |||
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"I do feel like some guys are just looking for a service...there's no mutual fun, or social enjoyment that leads to the good stuff elsewhere. Not every guy is like this, but too many are! Right, probably shit advice but it works for me... Become a little bit of a bitch. Start taking pleasure in deleting those shit messages, start pumping yourself up in your head head that you are better than an unpaid sex worker and those messages aren't even worthy of infecting your eyeballs and just delete them AND feel good about it. Doesn't matter if every single message is shit, just delete it and don't worry about it because better guys will come along. Be more descript in your profile about what you want exactly because quality doesn't really mean anything, especially on here. You want guys who will pander to you? Ask subs to contact you. You want kinky men to contact you? Go on about your kinks. You want vanilla? Just say so. But give men something that will make them look at your profile and think 'that's not me and i'm wasting my time' to eliminate what you don't want. I've been working on eliminating guys for a while now, doing well with my giant troll cock on ym page, but obciously this puts all guys off lol.
Haha brilliant. I know my profile was a bit 'bitch' and I'm trying to play nice.
But men rarely read the profile, and even less read past the first line! It's impossible! "They read it, but they try to ignore it. Every guy who ignores it is not worthy of a reply, i see this said so many times on here and it's true. I kind of turned this site into a game to make it more fun for me, i laugh with my mates at people who try to piss me off and try to upset me instead of giving a shit about what they said, it's more fun (and yes bitchy), i also ignore a lot of guys for no reason except i'm busy- this isn't a game it just makes it less stressful on here for me. Make friends with people who you might never meet and look forward to coming on here to chat with them, your perfect guy might turn up or you find him online while you're busy enjoying yourself. Btw bitch has no negative implication in my world, i like being one and make no apologies for it. | |||
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"Too many are looking for a cheap lay and most have no clue what it takes to get a woman in bed, with the majority falling at the first hurdle. I've had over a hundred messages today, with zero setting my world alight. One I was physically attracted to, but sadly he was dull as dishwater. Sorry but sex shouldn' be about emptying your wallet (should be free), if, at least the woman should spend to lol "Eh? Goes without saying but I don't get your point? | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! " I think you should keep the crap guys busy for us quality guys, take one for the team so to speak because while they're messaging you they can't be messaging the quality girls...& that's where I step in with some...quality! | |||
"I do feel like some guys are just looking for a service...there's no mutual fun, or social enjoyment that leads to the good stuff elsewhere. Not every guy is like this, but too many are! Right, probably shit advice but it works for me... Become a little bit of a bitch. Start taking pleasure in deleting those shit messages, start pumping yourself up in your head head that you are better than an unpaid sex worker and those messages aren't even worthy of infecting your eyeballs and just delete them AND feel good about it. Doesn't matter if every single message is shit, just delete it and don't worry about it because better guys will come along. Be more descript in your profile about what you want exactly because quality doesn't really mean anything, especially on here. You want guys who will pander to you? Ask subs to contact you. You want kinky men to contact you? Go on about your kinks. You want vanilla? Just say so. But give men something that will make them look at your profile and think 'that's not me and i'm wasting my time' to eliminate what you don't want. I've been working on eliminating guys for a while now, doing well with my giant troll cock on ym page, but obciously this puts all guys off lol.
Haha brilliant. I know my profile was a bit 'bitch' and I'm trying to play nice.
But men rarely read the profile, and even less read past the first line! It's impossible!
They read it, but they try to ignore it. Every guy who ignores it is not worthy of a reply, i see this said so many times on here and it's true.
I kind of turned this site into a game to make it more fun for me, i laugh with my mates at people who try to piss me off and try to upset me instead of giving a shit about what they said, it's more fun (and yes bitchy), i also ignore a lot of guys for no reason except i'm busy- this isn't a game it just makes it less stressful on here for me. Make friends with people who you might never meet and look forward to coming on here to chat with them, your perfect guy might turn up or you find him online while you're busy enjoying yourself.
Btw bitch has no negative implication in my world, i like being one and make no apologies for it."I agree. I've turned into a right cunt of late, taking great pleasure in winding those up who obviously haven't bothered to read my profile! Hours of fun when you've nothing to do! | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! I think you should keep the crap guys busy for us quality guys, take one for the team so to speak because while they're messaging you they can't be messaging the quality girls...& that's where I step in with some...quality! "Arrogance is one of the ugliest features a man can have! | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! I think you should keep the crap guys busy for us quality guys, take one for the team so to speak because while they're messaging you they can't be messaging the quality girls...& that's where I step in with some...quality!
Arrogance is one of the ugliest features a man can have! "This is true...same applies to women but confidence now, well that's just plain sexy in my opinion! You can't get the two confused | |||
"I agree. I've turned into a right cunt of late, taking great pleasure in winding those up who obviously haven't bothered to read my profile! Hours of fun when you've nothing to do!" Aw i don't wind them up, just ignore them but have mad thoughts in my head while doing so. | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! " In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.  | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is. "But that is my honest preference. I don't attract to Asians or black men, and I've had a fair amount of eastern Europeans contact me, and that's not my bag either. So seems sensible to be clear. | |||
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"I do feel like some guys are just looking for a service...there's no mutual fun, or social enjoyment that leads to the good stuff elsewhere. Not every guy is like this, but too many are! Right, probably shit advice but it works for me... Become a little bit of a bitch. Start taking pleasure in deleting those shit messages, start pumping yourself up in your head head that you are better than an unpaid sex worker and those messages aren't even worthy of infecting your eyeballs and just delete them AND feel good about it. Doesn't matter if every single message is shit, just delete it and don't worry about it because better guys will come along. Be more descript in your profile about what you want exactly because quality doesn't really mean anything, especially on here. You want guys who will pander to you? Ask subs to contact you. You want kinky men to contact you? Go on about your kinks. You want vanilla? Just say so. But give men something that will make them look at your profile and think 'that's not me and i'm wasting my time' to eliminate what you don't want. I've been working on eliminating guys for a while now, doing well with my giant troll cock on ym page, but obciously this puts all guys off lol.
Haha brilliant. I know my profile was a bit 'bitch' and I'm trying to play nice.
But men rarely read the profile, and even less read past the first line! It's impossible!
They read it, but they try to ignore it. Every guy who ignores it is not worthy of a reply, i see this said so many times on here and it's true.
I kind of turned this site into a game to make it more fun for me, i laugh with my mates at people who try to piss me off and try to upset me instead of giving a shit about what they said, it's more fun (and yes bitchy), i also ignore a lot of guys for no reason except i'm busy- this isn't a game it just makes it less stressful on here for me. Make friends with people who you might never meet and look forward to coming on here to chat with them, your perfect guy might turn up or you find him online while you're busy enjoying yourself.
Btw bitch has no negative implication in my world, i like being one and make no apologies for it.
I agree. I've turned into a right cunt of late, taking great pleasure in winding those up who obviously haven't bothered to read my profile! Hours of fun when you've nothing to do!"I read it that's why I didn't message  | |||
"Profiles a bit crap. People your trying to dissuade feom messaging are going to no matter what you put so there's not much point. Just day what you want in terms of a guys appearence, attitude and what you want from a meet. Also say a little bit about yourself and add in a hook or two a little line that a guy can use to make an ice breaker as as it is could you compose a message to you profile that was more than "like your pic here's mine what you think?"" | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! I think you should keep the crap guys busy for us quality guys, take one for the team so to speak because while they're messaging you they can't be messaging the quality girls...& that's where I step in with some...quality!
Arrogance is one of the ugliest features a man can have! "Arrogance is one of the ugliest features a woman can have too..... | |||
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"Too many are looking for a cheap lay and most have no clue what it takes to get a woman in bed, with the majority falling at the first hurdle. I've had over a hundred messages today, with zero setting my world alight. One I was physically attracted to, but sadly he was dull as dishwater. Sorry but sex shouldn' be about emptying your wallet (should be free), if, at least the woman should spend to lol
Eh? Goes without saying but I don't get your point?"Yes u said cheap shag, do u mean wine and dine before the shag? | |||
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" In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is. "I disagree that it would come across as racist, slightly or otherwise. Is it more or less racist than girls or couples asking for black guys only? There are enough profiles asking for black men only. I think your profile reads ok, as others suggest try searching for the guys you like, be proactive. | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is. "If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they? | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?"Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid | |||
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"Some of the profile requests on here are crazy, I'm going to rewrite mine with these specific requirements: Must be 5,10 leggy blonde, with large bust, you must be a size 6 with a huge rack, and an insatiable appetite for an average size penis. With a beautiful face that would shame Kim Kardashian, and her massive ass. Then just kick back and wait for the inundation of replies "I think you forgot to say ''must have a very tight pussy'' | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?"Fatist = weightist. | |||
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"I get loads of messages from black guys and a few from Asians too. As my sexual preference doesn't lean towards them, seems silly to waste time and not say it. I state English because there are far too many eastern Europeans sleazing about on here too, and that doesn't float my boat either. As for not displaying all my pics, easier up the thread I explain that an ex has made Neumerous fake profiles to get my pics. If anyone wants to see them? Show me yours....and I'll show you mine is kind of how I work. My veri's confirm im not a monster, so it's a good start! " There's nothing wrong with your profile, but you could do with a couple of decent photos, not face, just that present you well. | |||
"I get loads of messages from black guys and a few from Asians too. As my sexual preference doesn't lean towards them, seems silly to waste time and not say it. I state English because there are far too many eastern Europeans sleazing about on here too, and that doesn't float my boat either. As for not displaying all my pics, easier up the thread I explain that an ex has made Neumerous fake profiles to get my pics. If anyone wants to see them? Show me yours....and I'll show you mine is kind of how I work. My veri's confirm im not a monster, so it's a good start! There's nothing wrong with your profile, but you could do with a couple of decent photos, not face, just that present you well." I have plenty, they're just for added friends and private messages because ive got a nutty stalker | |||
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"To attract quality men you should use quality bait "Money? | |||
"I get loads of messages from black guys and a few from Asians too. As my sexual preference doesn't lean towards them, seems silly to waste time and not say it. I state English because there are far too many eastern Europeans sleazing about on here too, and that doesn't float my boat either. As for not displaying all my pics, easier up the thread I explain that an ex has made Neumerous fake profiles to get my pics. If anyone wants to see them? Show me yours....and I'll show you mine is kind of how I work. My veri's confirm im not a monster, so it's a good start! There's nothing wrong with your profile, but you could do with a couple of decent photos, not face, just that present you well. I have plenty, they're just for added friends and private messages because ive got a nutty stalker " So why are you demanding men show a face pic when they dont even know what your body looks like???? | |||
"There is a clear gulf of class on this site between those who have what it takes and those who scrabble around using every tactic they can cling to like white knighting for instance. You won't find the good ones coming to you as they are too busy doing their own succesful thing. Be proactive and go and find what you want! " Have to agree with all of this, there's some really great profiles out there that stand up to scrutiny but you really have to look. An advanced search function would help but there are little tricks you can use. Here's a tip, if you find one that suits have a look through their veris and their veris veris as you're likely to find likeminded people. It's a bit of hard work but could be worth it, oh, and don't forget to hotlist them so you can pounce when the hotllist updates as you'll know when they're free to meet.  | |||
"To attract quality men you should use quality bait
Money?"I'm skint,I have to use something more valuable | |||
"To attract quality men you should use quality bait
Money?
I'm skint,I have to use something more valuable "Bacon? | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! " I'm a decent guy. I'm white. But as for the VVWE I can only dream | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?"If we're going to start ticking boxes, might as well use a fleshlight. At least that fits into a box | |||
"I get loads of messages from black guys and a few from Asians too. As my sexual preference doesn't lean towards them, seems silly to waste time and not say it. I state English because there are far too many eastern Europeans sleazing about on here too, and that doesn't float my boat either. As for not displaying all my pics, easier up the thread I explain that an ex has made Neumerous fake profiles to get my pics. If anyone wants to see them? Show me yours....and I'll show you mine is kind of how I work. My veri's confirm im not a monster, so it's a good start! " It's quite easy to take new pics, different angles, in a way that it is not obvious who you are even to an Ex. As plenty have continued to say - demanding, high horse, princess is still how it reads even after your edit yesterday. A single pic and text as such will at the minimum be passed over and white possibly blocked by me. Total turn off. | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid"To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual. If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist? Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist. As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off. | |||
"Honestly! Single men on here mess us ladies around summat terrible It's far easier to go to adult clubs where everyone cleanly knows what they want " Do you only get "quality" men at clubs? I don't know what the OP considers a quality man but I have met a lot men from here who didn't mess me around. I've had some extremely good sex and enjoyed myself immensely,getting what I wanted and giving as much back. It's a two way street on here. I wouldn't want to chance a club because I wouldn't know the kind of men who would be there and like to get to know someone before I have sex with them. | |||
 other human being don't do it for you ??? | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid
To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual.
If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist?
Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist.
As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off."No because Germans aren't a race of people, I believe the term is discrimination.. | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is. "Why is that racist ? We all have our preferences !! Are we all supposed to like everything just so it does not offend ? | |||
"Try asking rather than demanding. Your profile reads as aggressive, disrespectful and Princess. Only a single boob pic yet requiring face pics, vvwe, etc. As plenty of others on here have been told by lots of forum users recently - there are lots of ways to word things without sounding like your toys are hitting the floor...." | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid
To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual.
If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist?
Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist.
As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off.
No because Germans aren't a race of people, I believe the term is discrimination.. "Wikipedia states: Some definitions of racism also include discriminatory behaviors and beliefs based on cultural, national, ethnic, caste, or religious stereotypes. And in the sentence it refers to only English people, therefore disregarding people from all other nations. | |||
"Only white british guys other human being don't do it for you ??? "Not white BRITISH guys, white ENGLISH guys | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid
To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual.
If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist?
Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist.
As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off.
No because Germans aren't a race of people, I believe the term is discrimination..
Wikipedia states: Some definitions of racism also include discriminatory behaviors and beliefs based on cultural, national, ethnic, caste, or religious stereotypes.
And in the sentence it refers to only English people, therefore disregarding people from all other nations. "And there is a reason why you're not allowed to quote Wikipedia in your university work... | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid
To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual.
If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist?
Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist.
As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off.
No because Germans aren't a race of people, I believe the term is discrimination..
Wikipedia states: Some definitions of racism also include discriminatory behaviors and beliefs based on cultural, national, ethnic, caste, or religious stereotypes.
And in the sentence it refers to only English people, therefore disregarding people from all other nations. "So she only wants to meet english people then !!!! What is your point ? | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid
To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual.
If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist?
Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist.
As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off.
No because Germans aren't a race of people, I believe the term is discrimination..
Wikipedia states: Some definitions of racism also include discriminatory behaviors and beliefs based on cultural, national, ethnic, caste, or religious stereotypes.
And in the sentence it refers to only English people, therefore disregarding people from all other nations. So she only wants to meet english people then !!!! What is your point ?"My point, as stated above, is that it might be putting people off contacting the OP. The OP is complaining that she isn't hearing from the right people. I was suggesting that that sentence might also put off the very White English men that she is interested in. | |||
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"Meanwhile back to the original post.... There's numerous threads offering generic profile advice, they're often requested by guys they're just as relevant for ladies and couples.. I call it the triple H factor Honesty humour Huge boobs. All three should be displayed in your profile and messages, particularly the boobs on messages to me. "Well that's me out straight away then! | |||
"Meanwhile back to the original post.... There's numerous threads offering generic profile advice, they're often requested by guys they're just as relevant for ladies and couples.. I call it the triple H factor Honesty humour Huge boobs. All three should be displayed in your profile and messages, particularly the boobs on messages to me.
Well that's me out straight away then! "Similar to Einstein, I call it johnsoda0204 's theory of relativity.. The size of the cock or boob is relative to the size of the hand holding it. I've got small hands | |||
" How many men have you contacted yourself? Hunting can yield better results than being hunted"
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! How many men have you contacted yourself? Hunting can yield better results than being hunted" | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! " I hope you have a great weekend x nothing wrong in being picky stick to your guns lass! | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid
To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual.
If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist?
Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist.
As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off."I believe the term youre looking for regarding the nationality thing is xenophonia, not racism. Even there, shes not being xenophobic either. Shes not casting aspersians on race or nationality, shes just saying she doesnt want to me any outside of what she has stated. How is this any different from all the women who state 'black only'?? | |||
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"Let's turn a negative into a positive and hope that she finds what she's looking for
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid
To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual.
If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist?
Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist.
As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off.
I believe the term youre looking for regarding the nationality thing is xenophonia, not racism. Even there, shes not being xenophobic either. Shes not casting aspersians on race or nationality, shes just saying she doesnt want to me any outside of what she has stated. How is this any different from all the women who state 'black only'??"OK the English part is xenophobic and the White part is racist then. I never said it was different to through black only statements on profiles | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! How many men have you contacted yourself? Hunting can yield better results than being huntedi have to disagree sorry, I find if I contact a male/couple they suddenly come across very arrogant and cocky "Maybe some men/couples are arrogant and cocky but a lot aren't. I don't think I am!  | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid
To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual.
If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist?
Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist.
As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off.
I believe the term youre looking for regarding the nationality thing is xenophonia, not racism. Even there, shes not being xenophobic either. Shes not casting aspersians on race or nationality, shes just saying she doesnt want to me any outside of what she has stated. How is this any different from all the women who state 'black only'??
OK the English part is xenophobic and the White part is racist then. I never said it was different to through black only statements on profiles "So does that mean we're all racist so? Because im pretty sure a lot of people have preferences and requirements. I think given the connotations the word 'racism' carries in modern society, its a bit pathetic and dangerous to be applying that literal meaning to something such as a sexual preference | |||
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"From all the things mentioned on the thread I can suggest there's only about 3 men on this entire site who would fit all the criteria anyway. All the original criteria, plus white English, and they can't be arrogant either. Stick with it though OP, I'll keep enjoying the high quality rejects "3? As many as that | |||
"Too many are looking for a cheap lay and most have no clue what it takes to get a woman in bed, with the majority falling at the first hurdle. I've had over a hundred messages today, with zero setting my world alight. One I was physically attracted to, but sadly he was dull as dishwater. you need to set your filters....... They're set the best I can I was commenting to the lady complaining of having over 100 unsuitable messages. They are set the best I can too. Sadly there are no intelligence filters, which I could really do with!" Intelligence and whit tend to come with age. (I have the suit also. ) | |||
"From all the things mentioned on the thread I can suggest there's only about 3 men on this entire site who would fit all the criteria anyway. All the original criteria, plus white English, and they can't be arrogant either. Stick with it though OP, I'll keep enjoying the high quality rejects
3? As many as that "Yeah I missed that they have to be single too, so I think I was being over optimistic | |||
"From all the things mentioned on the thread I can suggest there's only about 3 men on this entire site who would fit all the criteria anyway. All the original criteria, plus white English, and they can't be arrogant either. Stick with it though OP, I'll keep enjoying the high quality rejects
3? As many as that
Yeah I missed that they have to be single too, so I think I was being over optimistic "Good point
Hows the coffee? | |||
"From all the things mentioned on the thread I can suggest there's only about 3 men on this entire site who would fit all the criteria anyway. All the original criteria, plus white English, and they can't be arrogant either. Stick with it though OP, I'll keep enjoying the high quality rejects
3? As many as that
Yeah I missed that they have to be single too, so I think I was being over optimistic
Good point
Hows the coffee? "Still free of contamination by condensed milk  | |||
"From all the things mentioned on the thread I can suggest there's only about 3 men on this entire site who would fit all the criteria anyway. All the original criteria, plus white English, and they can't be arrogant either. Stick with it though OP, I'll keep enjoying the high quality rejects
3? As many as that
Yeah I missed that they have to be single too, so I think I was being over optimistic
Good point
Hows the coffee?
Still free of contamination by condensed milk "Don't knock it..... New blend here this weekend - so just fresh honey to sweeten | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
But that is my honest preference. I don't attract to Asians or black men, and I've had a fair amount of eastern Europeans contact me, and that's not my bag either. So seems sensible to be clear. "I'm in 2 minds about that. I don't think having a preference is necessarily racist but statement, especially with the CAPS, does seem to come across as sounding a little but racist. At the very least I would de capitalise. CAPS ALWAYS LOOK AGGRESIVE | |||
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"Try asking rather than demanding. Your profile reads as aggressive, disrespectful and Princess. Only a single boob pic yet requiring face pics, vvwe, etc. As plenty of others on here have been told by lots of forum users recently - there are lots of ways to word things without sounding like your toys are hitting the floor...." | |||
"From all the things mentioned on the thread I can suggest there's only about 3 men on this entire site who would fit all the criteria anyway. All the original criteria, plus white English, and they can't be arrogant either. Stick with it though OP, I'll keep enjoying the high quality rejects
3? As many as that
Yeah I missed that they have to be single too, so I think I was being over optimistic
Good point
Hows the coffee?
Still free of contamination by condensed milk
Don't knock it.....
New blend here this weekend - so just fresh honey to sweeten "Oh fuck that, honey in coffee is even more wrong. | |||
"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is. Why is that racist ? We all have our preferences !! Are we all supposed to like everything just so it does not offend ? "It's not a case of being offended but the statement clearly comes across as sounding racist to some. It puts me of a bit to if I'm honest. The OP has asked for opinions. The opinion of some is that the statement WHITE ENGLISH men only sounds racist and puts them of. Whether or not it is racist or the Op is racist or even you think they should not be put of they clearly are and are telling the OP because she asked what was putting people of. | |||
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"I get loads of messages from black guys and a few from Asians too. As my sexual preference doesn't lean towards them, seems silly to waste time and not say it. I state English because there are far too many eastern Europeans sleazing about on here too, and that doesn't float my boat either. As for not displaying all my pics, easier up the thread I explain that an ex has made Neumerous fake profiles to get my pics. If anyone wants to see them? Show me yours....and I'll show you mine is kind of how I work. My veri's confirm im not a monster, so it's a good start! There's nothing wrong with your profile, but you could do with a couple of decent photos, not face, just that present you well." Lol bullocks if a bloke had that profile and asked for advice no way in hell would anyone day "there's nothing wrong with your profile" | |||
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"I'm finding it really hard to meet decent guys for good adult fun. They're all cheating on their partners or just a little odd. Guys with their wives on here too with permission is fine. Decent VVWE white guys, get in touch! Or girls, tell me where I'm going wrong! In your profile text you state "I am only interested in WHITE, ENGLISH men." In my mind this comes off a little bit racist. To clarify, Im not saying you are a racist, but that sentence is.
If you look at it that way, the majority of people on here are racist, ageist, sexist or fatist (don't know what you call some one that discriminates against large people. Sure someone will tell me though) . It is not intended to offend anyone it is just their preference. The lady is entitled to have her preferences. That is why we are all on here so we can meet people that we are attracted to. At least she is being honest. If someone dosen't like her profile they don't have to meet her do they?
Of course shes not being racist...whoever even suggested that was being very stupid
To specify people from a specific country, England, in my mind is racist. The sentence is in effect stating that all the men from Scotland, Wales, NI, and all other countries are not good enough. That is making a judgement purely on the basis of the country they come from, rather that about them as an individual.
If someone wrote on a profile "No GERMANS" wouldn't that be racist?
Again just to clarify, I think that the sentence is racist, I am not calling the OP a racist.
As the original post was about how to get good men, the OP is obviously struggling to find what she wants, the reason why I am even mentioning it, is to point out that that sentence would put me off contacting the OP, and so other may well also be putting others off.
I believe the term youre looking for regarding the nationality thing is xenophonia, not racism. Even there, shes not being xenophobic either. Shes not casting aspersians on race or nationality, shes just saying she doesnt want to me any outside of what she has stated. How is this any different from all the women who state 'black only'??"It's not any different. I just wonder how many black guys are put of by it. I would guess probably more than the people putting it would think. A lot of people don't like being stereotyped even if it's in their favour. | |||
"From all the things mentioned on the thread I can suggest there's only about 3 men on this entire site who would fit all the criteria anyway. All the original criteria, plus white English, and they can't be arrogant either. Stick with it though OP, I'll keep enjoying the high quality rejects
3? As many as that
Yeah I missed that they have to be single too, so I think I was being over optimistic
Good point
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Don't knock it.....
New blend here this weekend - so just fresh honey to sweeten
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"Really guys? Do you not think this has got a little out of hand now? Reading her profile, she's not interested in us either. But do we care? Just get over it. Leave the poor woman in peace." | |||
"Really guys? Do you not think this has got a little out of hand now? Reading her profile, she's not interested in us either. But do we care? Just get over it. Leave the poor woman in peace. "Yeah personal attacks are not cool. | |||
"Really guys? Do you not think this has got a little out of hand now? Reading her profile, she's not interested in us either. But do we care? Just get over it. Leave the poor woman in peace.
Yeah personal attacks are not cool."Will you tell me to 'fuck-off' again if I say your arse looks pretty dam good in that avatar pic. | |||
"Really guys? Do you not think this has got a little out of hand now? Reading her profile, she's not interested in us either. But do we care? Just get over it. Leave the poor woman in peace.
Yeah personal attacks are not cool.
Will you tell me to 'fuck-off' again if I say your arse looks pretty dam good in that avatar pic. "If you'd like me to then yes i will.
Professional potty mouth here. Thanks. | |||
"Really guys? Do you not think this has got a little out of hand now? Reading her profile, she's not interested in us either. But do we care? Just get over it. Leave the poor woman in peace.
Yeah personal attacks are not cool.
Will you tell me to 'fuck-off' again if I say your arse looks pretty dam good in that avatar pic.
If you'd like me to then yes i will.
Professional potty mouth here. Thanks."There's lots of things I'd like you to do but that's as good a place to start with. | |||
"There's lots of things I'd like you to do but that's as good a place to start with. "OK, fuck off.
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"Yes you wont find many VVWE men here, maibe lower the limit to 6 to 7"." There are plenty of VVWE guys on here, that's hardly a problem | |||
"Will you tell me to 'fuck-off' again if I say your arse looks pretty dam good in that avatar pic. "Just realised i never told you to fuck off before, what's all this again business? I shall be sleeping soon. | |||
"Really guys? Do you not think this has got a little out of hand now? Reading her profile, she's not interested in us either. But do we care? Just get over it. Leave the poor woman in peace.
Yeah personal attacks are not cool." | |||
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"Will you tell me to 'fuck-off' again if I say your arse looks pretty dam good in that avatar pic.
Just realised i never told you to fuck off before, what's all this again business? I shall be sleeping soon."Yer, but you never said 'Ok, come on super stud I'm all yours'. So it's pretty much the same thing. Isn't it? | |||
"Will you tell me to 'fuck-off' again if I say your arse looks pretty dam good in that avatar pic.
Just realised i never told you to fuck off before, what's all this again business? I shall be sleeping soon.
Yer, but you never said 'Ok, come on super stud I'm all yours'. So it's pretty much the same thing. Isn't it? "Nope. It isn't. 1stly i'm not even meeting. 2ndly i'm circling and wising people up all the time, i don't like to be rushed into anything unless i'm pretty certain i'll be casting it to one side afterwards. 3rdly i am sleep deprived and a bit confused but if it's about that message 4 noths ago fuck nows what that was about or what my reply was, plus i was in a hostel then and couldn't meet that much. 4thly someone will need to find my eyes when they fall out soon. | |||
"Will you tell me to 'fuck-off' again if I say your arse looks pretty dam good in that avatar pic.
Just realised i never told you to fuck off before, what's all this again business? I shall be sleeping soon.
Yer, but you never said 'Ok, come on super stud I'm all yours'. So it's pretty much the same thing. Isn't it?
Nope. It isn't.
1stly i'm not even meeting.
2ndly i'm circling and wising people up all the time, i don't like to be rushed into anything unless i'm pretty certain i'll be casting it to one side afterwards.
3rdly i am sleep deprived and a bit confused but if it's about that message 4 noths ago fuck nows what that was about or what my reply was, plus i was in a hostel then and couldn't meet that much.
4thly someone will need to find my eyes when they fall out soon."I wasn't really being that serious to be honest. LOL. I was just bantering with you. We have cross posted and I think messaged in the past and you've never said anything wrong or told me to Fuck-off. I actually quite enjoy reading your posts because they are often succinct and to the point. | |||
"Will you tell me to 'fuck-off' again if I say your arse looks pretty dam good in that avatar pic.
Just realised i never told you to fuck off before, what's all this again business? I shall be sleeping soon.
Yer, but you never said 'Ok, come on super stud I'm all yours'. So it's pretty much the same thing. Isn't it?
Nope. It isn't.
1stly i'm not even meeting.
2ndly i'm circling and wising people up all the time, i don't like to be rushed into anything unless i'm pretty certain i'll be casting it to one side afterwards.
3rdly i am sleep deprived and a bit confused but if it's about that message 4 noths ago fuck nows what that was about or what my reply was, plus i was in a hostel then and couldn't meet that much.
4thly someone will need to find my eyes when they fall out soon.
I wasn't really being that serious to be honest. LOL. I was just bantering with you. We have cross posted and I think messaged in the past and you've never said anything wrong or told me to Fuck-off. I actually quite enjoy reading your posts because they are often succinct and to the point.
"Thanks, think that was some tired rambling going on there. Was on here trying to stay awake waiting for my youngest son to come home from his friends house while cooking tea for my other kids. I fell asleep, 20 mins later he was home and woke me up, not even tired now but still rambling lol. And tbh my profile thing states fuck off and it's on every message i post, maybe it was subliminal messaging? | |||
