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Are your physical requirements just for Fab or for relationships too?
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"For me, with Fab & 'sexual encounters' in general physical attraction is much more important than it would be if i was seeking a partner for a relationship. Saying that, i need some of the elements i'd seek in a long term partner in my short term fixes, the simple things like common sense & humility will always be important no matter the scene/setting." Agree | |||
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"Ooh I'm going to be controversial here and make some potentially inflammatory comments (which I accept are also going to be sweeping generalisations in many cases!) As this is primarily a sex site for people looking for 'no strings attached' shags, and given the male / female ratio on here, the ladies hold the balance of power and can be far more demanding of the men they meet on here than vice versa. Therefore an 'average' lady on here can demand, and get, meets from the 'elite' (for want of a better word) of the group of men in terms of physical attributes. That's not always true in reverse when it can be hard for an average guy to get meets at all! Now in the 'real world' I suspect (alert! alert! controversial comment warning!) that many 'average' ladies could not be so demanding of the PHYSICAL attributes they expect from a partner (rugged good looks, gym fit, big cock etc) and would have to 'settle' for something considerably more average. Natural selection in practice, in other words. Now of course I appreciate that many other factors come into play when choosing a long term partner, personality, sense of humour, shared interests etc etc but on here the ladies can definitely be more picky and choosy of who they go with in terms of physical attributes only as most encounters will be one-offs to be easily discarded. Anyway, flak jacket and tin hat on ... " I'd agree that they can be....I don't agree that many necessarily are. I can't be the only woman who finds the idea of punching above my weight and only meeting some sort of adonises who would only be meeting me because they can't manage to meet anyone else, not because they actually want to meet me, pretty off putting? I think that would make me feel like shit! | |||
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"Either on Fab or out in the real world as in a relationship, have would have the same preferences. I couldn't imagine myself wanting one set of physical likes on here and a different set outside swinging. What turns you on, turns you on i suppose. "  | |||
"Ooh I'm going to be controversial here and make some potentially inflammatory comments (which I accept are also going to be sweeping generalisations in many cases!) As this is primarily a sex site for people looking for 'no strings attached' shags, and given the male / female ratio on here, the ladies hold the balance of power and can be far more demanding of the men they meet on here than vice versa. Therefore an 'average' lady on here can demand, and get, meets from the 'elite' (for want of a better word) of the group of men in terms of physical attributes. That's not always true in reverse when it can be hard for an average guy to get meets at all! Now in the 'real world' I suspect (alert! alert! controversial comment warning!) that many 'average' ladies could not be so demanding of the PHYSICAL attributes they expect from a partner (rugged good looks, gym fit, big cock etc) and would have to 'settle' for something considerably more average. Natural selection in practice, in other words. Now of course I appreciate that many other factors come into play when choosing a long term partner, personality, sense of humour, shared interests etc etc but on here the ladies can definitely be more picky and choosy of who they go with in terms of physical attributes only as most encounters will be one-offs to be easily discarded. Anyway, flak jacket and tin hat on ... " Well, well, well... Don't presume we want gym fit and that is the elite. But yeah i do want a big cock and luckily everyone who's contacted me has had one. Well one guy wasn't, but mostly all the guys i've met have been. My exes have also had big cocks, except for one of them, i'm just lucky that guys with big cocks find me attractive. 
I think it's more down to guys with big cocks are more confident tbh and more likely to go for a gobshite like me. Or i have good sub,iminal detection for big penises.
I've always got chatted up a lot, good looking guys, mingers, average, it's coz i'm approachable, and i'm gonna also guess because i look easy. I'm friendly and chat to anyone so when i get to know a person irl they can tell me they fancy me. I think i'm only slightly better than average looking personally, but with an exclusive twist of being heavily tattooed, so guys obviously have something to talk about or go wow at. Of course this won't appeal to everyone but i'm well aware that exclusivity appeals to people, so does being friendly and approachable.
I honestly think most guys like anyone really and will probably fuck anything and lonely guys will seek out relationships with anyone, yes that's my generalisation, but the ones they feel they can approach they will approach them.
Obviously on here they are gonna feel they can approach anyone, if they think this is a fuck site. Which is why you see entitled guys on here all the time thinking the women are here to fuck anyone. That's the difference, most women are looking for something more than a fuck and most men aren't.
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"Ooh I'm going to be controversial here and make some potentially inflammatory comments (which I accept are also going to be sweeping generalisations in many cases!) As this is primarily a sex site for people looking for 'no strings attached' shags, and given the male / female ratio on here, the ladies hold the balance of power and can be far more demanding of the men they meet on here than vice versa. Therefore an 'average' lady on here can demand, and get, meets from the 'elite' (for want of a better word) of the group of men in terms of physical attributes. " You kind of miss the point - I don't demand anything, I respond to the approaches I get. If I am approached by 10 men obviously I will choose those more attractive to me, and, bully for me, some of them who have plenty of opportunity to meet other, younger, more attractive women, choose to come back and meet me again instead. In terms of relationships I am WAY more fussy, I am VERY demanding when it comes to character - that's why I am ON this site in the first place!! I certainly will not 'settle' for anyone I do not find attractive either, though the fact remains that the more involved I get emotionally, the more attractive someone becomes to me anyway! Character is way more important longterm, so yes, Adonis may be the first to get me into bed, but not the one who wins my heart in the end. I would not have settled, but been attracted by other virtues - it would have been a positive choice on my part. | |||
"Ooh I'm going to be controversial here and make some potentially inflammatory comments (which I accept are also going to be sweeping generalisations in many cases!) As this is primarily a sex site for people looking for 'no strings attached' shags, and given the male / female ratio on here, the ladies hold the balance of power and can be far more demanding of the men they meet on here than vice versa. Therefore an 'average' lady on here can demand, and get, meets from the 'elite' (for want of a better word) of the group of men in terms of physical attributes. That's not always true in reverse when it can be hard for an average guy to get meets at all! Now in the 'real world' I suspect (alert! alert! controversial comment warning!) that many 'average' ladies could not be so demanding of the PHYSICAL attributes they expect from a partner (rugged good looks, gym fit, big cock etc) and would have to 'settle' for something considerably more average. Natural selection in practice, in other words. Now of course I appreciate that many other factors come into play when choosing a long term partner, personality, sense of humour, shared interests etc etc but on here the ladies can definitely be more picky and choosy of who they go with in terms of physical attributes only as most encounters will be one-offs to be easily discarded. Anyway, flak jacket and tin hat on ... " | |||
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