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"Super important.. No kissing = no sex! " Exactly that!  | |||
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"Super important.. No kissing = no sex! " | |||
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"Very important! Gets me wet in all the right places "Wonder where they are!...  | |||
"How important is kissing? Not important, very important , maybe it's a complete no no. " Absolutely essential!!  | |||
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"Very important. It's what gets the ball rolling. "And keeps the ball rolling until it goes flying off the hill | |||
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"Massively important to me, could not meet someone without kissing x" You can kiss me all day and night xxxxx | |||
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"Very important! Gets me wet in all the right places
Wonder where they are!... "I think you may be able to guess | |||
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"I love a good kiss. Personally I'd find sex would be dull without it." Sex without kissing would be a pretty joyless experience. | |||
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"Kissing is the litmus test to me! Bad kisser - just wouldn't turn me on. Good kisser lights the fuse! "Lush lips tosh at your service  | |||
"Kissing is the litmus test to me! Bad kisser - just wouldn't turn me on. Good kisser lights the fuse! Lush lips tosh at your service "You got a light ? | |||
I love to kiss and have never had any complaints
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"Kissing is the litmus test to me! Bad kisser - just wouldn't turn me on. Good kisser lights the fuse! Lush lips tosh at your service
You got a light ? "well that's not a torch in my pants | |||
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"its all about the foreplay x x mmmmm kissing is so horny" Steady on love haha! | |||
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"Kissing to me is incredibly important and in my opinion tells you whether the sex is going to be good. When I've experienced bad kissers the sex has been shit." I wouldn't have sex with a bad kisser. A good/great kiss can turn me on | |||
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"How can you not kiss when having sex???? It is so wrong." Preference isn't wrong, it might be different to yours but that doesn't make it wrong. | |||
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"How can you not kiss when having sex???? It is so wrong. Preference isn't wrong, it might be different to yours but that doesn't make it wrong ." Sorry, but it is to me. Prostitutes don't kiss when having sex because it's too intimate & I'd feel like a prostitute if I didn't kiss when having sex. | |||
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"How can you not kiss when having sex???? It is so wrong. Preference isn't wrong, it might be different to yours but that doesn't make it wrong . Sorry, but it is to me. Prostitutes don't kiss when having sex because it's too intimate & I'd feel like a prostitute if I didn't kiss when having sex." Ok we'll have to agree to disagree. We don't kiss other people passionately because we save that for ourselves but I don't feel like a prostitute. | |||
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- Amy. x | |||
"Not important at all. I have NO desire to kiss anyone other than Bradley - everyone else's kisses felt like such a let down in comparison and I got bored of the disappointment. Would much rather sink my teeth into your neck.
- Amy. x"Well that's four of us on the whole of fab | |||
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"Not important at all. I have NO desire to kiss anyone other than Bradley - everyone else's kisses felt like such a let down in comparison and I got bored of the disappointment. Would much rather sink my teeth into your neck.
- Amy. x
Well that's four of us on the whole of fab "Cool, fancyafuk? | |||
"Kiss me. Rim me. But no atm xx" Diarrhea? | |||
"Not important at all. I have NO desire to kiss anyone other than Bradley - everyone else's kisses felt like such a let down in comparison and I got bored of the disappointment. Would much rather sink my teeth into your neck.
- Amy. x
Well that's four of us on the whole of fab
Cool, fancyafuk? " | |||
"I wouldn't meet without kissing. I love kissing.....a lot. " | |||
"Kiss me. Rim me. But no atm xx Diarrhea?" Nope. Open to both separately but together, not my thing.... yet. | |||
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"Not important... Essential." | |||
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"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary." I need a change of undies.. | |||
"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary." necessary to you, not to everybody. | |||
"Not important at all. I have NO desire to kiss anyone other than Bradley - everyone else's kisses felt like such a let down in comparison and I got bored of the disappointment. Would much rather sink my teeth into your neck.
- Amy. x
Well that's four of us on the whole of fab "do not take what a few people say on the forums as a reflection of the whole of fabswingers, it is far from it. | |||
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"How can you not kiss when having sex???? It is so wrong." Quite easily at clubs and parties, one on one, it's more important but in a pile of naked people, lips aren't really what I'm looking for... We used to have a no kissing thing because I really had little interest in being kissed by others but we realised how important it is to others so compromised...I'd still rather only kiss the Monkey but I'm more open to it in more intimate circumstances and enjoy it with some special friends... What's wrong for you isn't necessarily wrong for other people or other circumstances... | |||
"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. necessary to you, not to everybody." Well, yes. I try not to answer on other people's behalf. | |||
"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. necessary to you, not to everybody. Well, yes. I try not to answer on other people's behalf. " But then I prefer one-to-one's over groups where it would be very different. | |||
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"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary." Wow *takes a deep breath and tries to calm down* that sounds good | |||
"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. necessary to you, not to everybody. Well, yes. I try not to answer on other people's behalf. " well maybe adding at the end that kisses are necessary for you, would have made it sound like you were answering for you instead for everyone, just saying thats the way it read. | |||
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"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. necessary to you, not to everybody. Well, yes. I try not to answer on other people's behalf. well maybe adding at the end that kisses are necessary for you, would have made it sound like you were answering for you instead for everyone, just saying thats the way it read." Does everyone think that?  | |||
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"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. necessary to you, not to everybody. Well, yes. I try not to answer on other people's behalf. well maybe adding at the end that kisses are necessary for you, would have made it sound like you were answering for you instead for everyone, just saying thats the way it read. Does everyone think that? "I knew what you meant... | |||
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"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. necessary to you, not to everybody. Well, yes. I try not to answer on other people's behalf. well maybe adding at the end that kisses are necessary for you, would have made it sound like you were answering for you instead for everyone, just saying thats the way it read. Does everyone think that? "Errrr no because you started the post with 'I'..... | |||
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"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. necessary to you, not to everybody. Well, yes. I try not to answer on other people's behalf. well maybe adding at the end that kisses are necessary for you, would have made it sound like you were answering for you instead for everyone, just saying thats the way it read. Does everyone think that?
Errrr no because you started the post with 'I'..... "Would I be classed as pissy and immature if I responded with: Oh, well maybe adding at the end that's how *they* read it, then it wouldn't have sounded like they were saying that's how everyone read it. | |||
"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. necessary to you, not to everybody. Well, yes. I try not to answer on other people's behalf. well maybe adding at the end that kisses are necessary for you, would have made it sound like you were answering for you instead for everyone, just saying thats the way it read. Does everyone think that?
Errrr no because you started the post with 'I'..... "yes he stated he couldnt have sex with someone that doesnt kiss, fair enough thats his choice, but ending it with a broad strong statement of "kissing is necessary", when it simply would have been fairer to state "kissing is necessary for me" is my point, im not saying his choice is wrong and im not saying I didnt no what he meant, but my point is, there is no right and wrong in peoples choices on this, but with strong statement like that on the end of a comment it turns it into you looking like you think you are right and others are wrong, a couple of words is all the difference. | |||
"Not important at all. I have NO desire to kiss anyone other than Bradley - everyone else's kisses felt like such a let down in comparison and I got bored of the disappointment. Would much rather sink my teeth into your neck.
- Amy. x
Well that's four of us on the whole of fab
do not take what a few people say on the forums as a reflection of the whole of fabswingers, it is far from it."No I don't I was being a bit humorous . It was a reaction to some of the very strong statements being made about kissing and how important it is and the implications that makes for those of us who for whatever reason don't find it important. | |||
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"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. necessary to you, not to everybody. Well, yes. I try not to answer on other people's behalf. well maybe adding at the end that kisses are necessary for you, would have made it sound like you were answering for you instead for everyone, just saying thats the way it read. Does everyone think that?
Errrr no because you started the post with 'I'.....
Would I be classed as pissy and immature if I responded with:
Oh, well maybe adding at the end that's how *they* read it, then it wouldn't have sounded like they were saying that's how everyone read it. "really!!! Name calling because ive pointed something out, I wasnt trying to have an argument with you, or be pissy, I was simply pointing out that a couple of words make all the difference, but again its a case of people arent people when they are behind a computer, a simple conversation turns like this, would you really start calling me names if we were sat in a pub and I pointed out that adding a couple of words might make your statement a bit better. | |||
"Not important at all. I have NO desire to kiss anyone other than Bradley - everyone else's kisses felt like such a let down in comparison and I got bored of the disappointment. Would much rather sink my teeth into your neck.
- Amy. x
Well that's four of us on the whole of fab
do not take what a few people say on the forums as a reflection of the whole of fabswingers, it is far from it.
No I don't I was being a bit humorous . It was a reaction to some of the very strong statements being made about kissing and how important it is and the implications that makes for those of us who for whatever reason don't find it important."We're unnatural! And just wrong!! Burn us! | |||
"Not important at all. I have NO desire to kiss anyone other than Bradley - everyone else's kisses felt like such a let down in comparison and I got bored of the disappointment. Would much rather sink my teeth into your neck.
- Amy. x
Well that's four of us on the whole of fab
do not take what a few people say on the forums as a reflection of the whole of fabswingers, it is far from it.
No I don't I was being a bit humorous . It was a reaction to some of the very strong statements being made about kissing and how important it is and the implications that makes for those of us who for whatever reason don't find it important.
We're unnatural! And just wrong!! Burn us! "Lol. | |||
"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary." This is why kisses are good..... | |||
"I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss. Kisses when you meet, kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again. Kisses are necessary. I need a change of undies.." Here, let me help you out if those.. | |||
"How important is kissing? Not important, very important , maybe it's a complete no no. " Very important to both of us. | |||
"Would I be classed as pissy and immature if I responded with: Oh, well maybe adding at the end that's how *they* read it, then it wouldn't have sounded like they were saying that's how everyone read it. really!!! Name calling because ive pointed something out, I wasnt trying to have an argument with you, or be pissy, I was simply pointing out that a couple of words make all the difference, but again its a case of people arent people when they are behind a computer, a simple conversation turns like this, would you really start calling me names if we were sat in a pub and I pointed out that adding a couple of words might make your statement a bit better." It sounds to me, just to me mind, that humour also gets lost behind a keyboard. I also think that this is generally understood. But even so, I think sometimes we take things personally when we shouldn't. ... And I'm never preceding "I think" before every statement again, because it's bloody obvious when someone says something anywhere that it's their own thoughts and opinions. | |||
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"Would I be classed as pissy and immature if I responded with: Oh, well maybe adding at the end that's how *they* read it, then it wouldn't have sounded like they were saying that's how everyone read it. really!!! Name calling because ive pointed something out, I wasnt trying to have an argument with you, or be pissy, I was simply pointing out that a couple of words make all the difference, but again its a case of people arent people when they are behind a computer, a simple conversation turns like this, would you really start calling me names if we were sat in a pub and I pointed out that adding a couple of words might make your statement a bit better. It sounds to me, just to me mind, that humour also gets lost behind a keyboard. I also think that this is generally understood. But even so, I think sometimes we take things personally when we shouldn't. ... And I'm never preceding "I think" before every statement again, because it's bloody obvious when someone says something anywhere that it's their own thoughts and opinions. " Yes it is very easy for humour to be lost from behind a keyboard, making it more important to make it clear to everyone not just to those that you are agreeing with, which (back to my 1st post) is all I said to you, I noticed something, I politely pointed it out, in a face to face conversation thats fine, but on a forum it makes you public enemy number 1 to everyone that agrees with said poster. | |||
"Would I be classed as pissy and immature if I responded with: Oh, well maybe adding at the end that's how *they* read it, then it wouldn't have sounded like they were saying that's how everyone read it. really!!! Name calling because ive pointed something out, I wasnt trying to have an argument with you, or be pissy, I was simply pointing out that a couple of words make all the difference, but again its a case of people arent people when they are behind a computer, a simple conversation turns like this, would you really start calling me names if we were sat in a pub and I pointed out that adding a couple of words might make your statement a bit better. It sounds to me, just to me mind, that humour also gets lost behind a keyboard. I also think that this is generally understood. But even so, I think sometimes we take things personally when we shouldn't. ... And I'm never preceding "I think" before every statement again, because it's bloody obvious when someone says something anywhere that it's their own thoughts and opinions. Yes it is very easy for humour to be lost from behind a keyboard, making it more important to make it clear to everyone not just to those that you are agreeing with, which (back to my 1st post) is all I said to you, I noticed something, I politely pointed it out, in a face to face conversation thats fine, but on a forum it makes you public enemy number 1 to everyone that agrees with said poster." There is an element of truth in that, kissing is something that people seem to have an absolute opinion on and because they are sure that their opinion will be supported by the majority feel able to express it strongly. Few "each to their owns" like there would be if we were discussing anal for example. Having seen lots of these threads I know pretty what the consensus on kissing is but I sometimes just mention our opposing preference | |||
"Would I be classed as pissy and immature if I responded with: Oh, well maybe adding at the end that's how *they* read it, then it wouldn't have sounded like they were saying that's how everyone read it. really!!! Name calling because ive pointed something out, I wasnt trying to have an argument with you, or be pissy, I was simply pointing out that a couple of words make all the difference, but again its a case of people arent people when they are behind a computer, a simple conversation turns like this, would you really start calling me names if we were sat in a pub and I pointed out that adding a couple of words might make your statement a bit better. It sounds to me, just to me mind, that humour also gets lost behind a keyboard. I also think that this is generally understood. But even so, I think sometimes we take things personally when we shouldn't. ... And I'm never preceding "I think" before every statement again, because it's bloody obvious when someone says something anywhere that it's their own thoughts and opinions. Yes it is very easy for humour to be lost from behind a keyboard, making it more important to make it clear to everyone not just to those that you are agreeing with, which (back to my 1st post) is all I said to you, I noticed something, I politely pointed it out, in a face to face conversation thats fine, but on a forum it makes you public enemy number 1 to everyone that agrees with said poster. There is an element of truth in that, kissing is something that people seem to have an absolute opinion on and because they are sure that their opinion will be supported by the majority feel able to express it strongly. Few "each to their owns" like there would be if we were discussing anal for example. Having seen lots of these threads I know pretty what the consensus on kissing is but I sometimes just mention our opposing preference "the worst thing is im not saying that his or there view was wrong, as there is no right and wrong, I simply stating to make it a fairer statement just add a couple of words. in my time here ive also seen many of these threads, and you always get the "essential" "its a must" etc comments, when the point im making is, its essential to them, not to everyone, its a choice that people make, those that choose to kiss are right, and those that choose not to kiss are right, no one is wrong for making a choice, and no one should be made to feel like they are wrong for choosing to do things there way, but these threads always do it, comments like, "you can suck my cock but I cant kiss you" etc, at the end of the day its all down to personal choice, personally we take or leave it, if the situation takes us there then we go if it doesnt then it doesnt, it isnt a must or essential, neither is it ruled out, but if we dont understand someones preferences we wont go questioning it or ridiculing it on a forum. | |||
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"Would I be classed as pissy and immature if I responded with: Oh, well maybe adding at the end that's how *they* read it, then it wouldn't have sounded like they were saying that's how everyone read it. really!!! Name calling because ive pointed something out, I wasnt trying to have an argument with you, or be pissy, I was simply pointing out that a couple of words make all the difference, but again its a case of people arent people when they are behind a computer, a simple conversation turns like this, would you really start calling me names if we were sat in a pub and I pointed out that adding a couple of words might make your statement a bit better. It sounds to me, just to me mind, that humour also gets lost behind a keyboard. I also think that this is generally understood. But even so, I think sometimes we take things personally when we shouldn't. ... And I'm never preceding "I think" before every statement again, because it's bloody obvious when someone says something anywhere that it's their own thoughts and opinions. Yes it is very easy for humour to be lost from behind a keyboard, making it more important to make it clear to everyone not just to those that you are agreeing with, which (back to my 1st post) is all I said to you, I noticed something, I politely pointed it out, in a face to face conversation thats fine, but on a forum it makes you public enemy number 1 to everyone that agrees with said poster. There is an element of truth in that, kissing is something that people seem to have an absolute opinion on and because they are sure that their opinion will be supported by the majority feel able to express it strongly. Few "each to their owns" like there would be if we were discussing anal for example. Having seen lots of these threads I know pretty what the consensus on kissing is but I sometimes just mention our opposing preference
the worst thing is im not saying that his or there view was wrong, as there is no right and wrong, I simply stating to make it a fairer statement just add a couple of words.
in my time here ive also seen many of these threads, and you always get the "essential" "its a must" etc comments, when the point im making is, its essential to them, not to everyone, its a choice that people make, those that choose to kiss are right, and those that choose not to kiss are right, no one is wrong for making a choice, and no one should be made to feel like they are wrong for choosing to do things there way, but these threads always do it, comments like, "you can suck my cock but I cant kiss you" etc, at the end of the day its all down to personal choice, personally we take or leave it, if the situation takes us there then we go if it doesnt then it doesnt, it isnt a must or essential, neither is it ruled out, but if we dont understand someones preferences we wont go questioning it or ridiculing it on a forum."In that case it sounds like your projecting your experiences from other threads onto a particular poster on this thread who neither ridiculed nor questioned... | |||
"It all depends who you are and what you are looking for really, singles meeting singles, not technically swinging more casual sex, but nonetheless I would imagine kissing would be quite important. Whereas a 3some situation would entirely depend on the people involved as to whether its important or not. cuckolding it should probably be discussed at the beginning as to whether its important or not. group sex, gang bangs and the like it probably isnt very important at all. " | |||
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"It's been a topic of many discussion with me and the Mr he thinks that kissing should just be between us bit for me it's a huge part of foreplay and don't think I could not kiss It's something that is actually holding us back if iam honest " Can imagine that's quiye hard. Before I met Mr I didn't kiss... I mean at all. Not with partners or anyone... I love kissing Mr now... I adore watching him kiss others and I enjoy kissing women. I feel a bit put out if now a guy in a couples situation won't kiss me while his Mrs is kissing my Mr but I do find that I don't get the thrill that kissing Mr gives me when I kiss others. It's nice if they are any good at it... But it doesn't get me all wet and ready.. where as a kiss from Mr can do more to me than full sex with another person x but guess that comes down to it being what it is x We don't often meet none kissing couples but more because I love seeing Mr kiss other women x | |||
"No kissing for me is pretty close to being a deal breaker......there's too much in a kiss to not have them..." I agree - I enjoy it too much as part of foreplay.. | |||
"How can you not kiss when having sex???? It is so wrong. Quite easily at clubs and parties, one on one, it's more important but in a pile of naked people, lips aren't really what I'm looking for... We used to have a no kissing thing because I really had little interest in being kissed by others but we realised how important it is to others so compromised...I'd still rather only kiss the Monkey but I'm more open to it in more intimate circumstances and enjoy it with some special friends... What's wrong for you isn't necessarily wrong for other people or other circumstances..." See, that used to be my opinion, and then it dawned on me: Why should I do something I don't enjoy just to please the other party? If you didn't enjoy Anal, you wouldn't do it... It hasn't exactly hindered our experiences and those who do demand kissing can go and whistle.
- Amy. x | |||
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"How can you not kiss when having sex???? It is so wrong. Quite easily at clubs and parties, one on one, it's more important but in a pile of naked people, lips aren't really what I'm looking for... We used to have a no kissing thing because I really had little interest in being kissed by others but we realised how important it is to others so compromised...I'd still rather only kiss the Monkey but I'm more open to it in more intimate circumstances and enjoy it with some special friends... What's wrong for you isn't necessarily wrong for other people or other circumstances... See, that used to be my opinion, and then it dawned on me: Why should I do something I don't enjoy just to please the other party? If you didn't enjoy Anal, you wouldn't do it... It hasn't exactly hindered our experiences and those who do demand kissing can go and whistle.
- Amy. x"
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"How important is kissing? Not important, very important , maybe it's a complete no no. " Depends what I'm doing. If say I'm changing a light bulb or having a shit for example it's not that important! | |||
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"How important is kissing? Not important, very important , maybe it's a complete no no. Depends what I'm doing. If say I'm changing a light bulb or having a shit for example it's not that important! " | |||
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"It is an important part of foreplay." for you. | |||
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"Never been a lover of kissing males... Once or twice but just turn me on...but flipped with a female its a must and I feel myself get warm quite quickly. I am a tad warped though as throughly enjoy watching a fm couple kiss while in certain positions and turns me on immensely. " Nothing sexier than two females locking lips! Ooo...Just the thought! | |||
