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felt scared at a meet!
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over a year ago
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Twice (her), the first was a meet in a hotel that went wrong after he got a bit too rough with me, and the second a meet in a guys house where he had 3 devil hounds trying to eat their way through a solid wood kitchen door in order to either rip out my throat or lick me to death, either way I didn't stick around!  |
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"Twice (her), the first was a meet in a hotel that went wrong after he got a bit too rough with me, and the second a meet in a guys house where he had 3 devil hounds trying to eat their way through a solid wood kitchen door in order to either rip out my throat or lick me to death, either way I didn't stick around! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes a little wary, that's why I meet socially first.
We had met these people socially first."
That's not a good place to be then. I generally think I can suss a person out during a social meet. |
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"Yes a little wary, that's why I meet socially first.
We had met these people socially first.
That's not a good place to be then. I generally think I can suss a person out during a social meet."
We got it badly wrong in this instance. It made us change certain things about the way we meet and taught us never to ignore even the slightest doubt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy once who just gave me bad feelings, his topic of conversations were a little iffy and the tone in his voice a bit aggressive, so I made my excuses and left |
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over a year ago
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"Yes a little wary, that's why I meet socially first.
We had met these people socially first.
That's not a good place to be then. I generally think I can suss a person out during a social meet.
We got it badly wrong in this instance. It made us change certain things about the way we meet and taught us never to ignore even the slightest doubt."
Sounds like you had an awful experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I generally chat a fair bit first.
The forums can help as you can gauge them a lot better, whether or not you're gonna get on etc..etc..
You get a feel for people.
It's harder to gauge outside of the forums until they are right in front of you...but even then I like to have a good idea first.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes a little wary, that's why I meet socially first.
We had met these people socially first.
That's not a good place to be then. I generally think I can suss a person out during a social meet.
We got it badly wrong in this instance. It made us change certain things about the way we meet and taught us never to ignore even the slightest doubt."
Absolutey this ^^
Never compromise on the slightest doubt, trust your instinct. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Met a couple once & discovered the guy to be d up!"
About 11 years ago I had similar experience with a meet with a couple + a female friend of theirs at their pkace. Had a great evening and they all went to bed and I crashed on sofa as I'd had a couple of drinks (not loads) and didn't want to chance driving 90 odd miles home.
In the middle of the night the couple had a really heated blazing row and I overheard him saying that she'd been doing . I was going to leave at that point as I felt intimidated, the keys were in the front door but and I planned to let myself out, lock the door and post keys through the letterbox. For some reason I couldn't get the door unlocked so I was stuck there listening to them rowing for hours. In the morning they where suprised to find me still there as they thought I left when they went to bed |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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No I have never felt scared on a meet...
Have been put off on a couple of occasions by someone's attitude when chatting so have cut the meet short. That's be to expected we don't assume everyone who meets us will like us and vice versa. |
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"did they tell you they vote ukip?"
That would be enough to scare me off. I went to a meet recently where the guy had laid out his dildo collection on the ground at the end of the bed and there was one huge black one as big as my forearm and hand combined. That has put me off. I will only meet socially first now!!!! |
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"Yes a little wary, that's why I meet socially first.
We had met these people socially first.
That's not a good place to be then. I generally think I can suss a person out during a social meet.
We got it badly wrong in this instance. It made us change certain things about the way we meet and taught us never to ignore even the slightest doubt.
Sounds like you had an awful experience "
We did, it's not something we talk about but the word sinister sums it up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never scared but like a few who have posted above, have been very uncomfy when I've realized one (or both) are d up out of their heads! It's happened 3 times, (1 in eureka and 2 in the USA) the times in the US I just finished up and made my goodbyes - I'm not going to waste a good opportunity 
The time at Eureka, he couldn't get it up and left the room. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One bad experience and I had met him for a social first, he seemed really nice, but alone in his house was very scary. I managed to get out unscathed apart from a few bruises where he got too rough sexually.
I only meet in clubs now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Twice (her), the first was a meet in a hotel that went wrong after he got a bit too rough with me, and the second a meet in a guys house where he had 3 devil hounds trying to eat their way through a solid wood kitchen door in order to either rip out my throat or lick me to death, either way I didn't stick around!
Omg! "
the hotel man I had met 5/6 times prior and no hint of being violent, and we had chatted for weeks before meeting too! Just shows even when you think they're ok, sometimes they're not...he retaliated by posting my mobile number on an event post on here...dick! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I've felt threatened and vulnerable when I asked him to stop he laughed and continued saying get used to it"
This sounds abit too far to me. Border line against your will surely? |
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