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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Semantics. It makes no difference when you fall back, sated and glowing. "
 . It's the person that is the swinger. Terminology has moved on. It used to mean couples 50 years ago. Now it's personal. |
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swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. "
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. "
Exactly my thoughts. I am into the above so that makes me a swinger. But when I meet up with single guys off here, that just makes me a bit slutty  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. "
Thats my view too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not a swingers
I'm a single woman with need, this site fills my needs
Yeah I could go out and pull in a pub but on here we all know where we stand I know I can meet a guy off here and not talk to him again without being made to feel guilty, guys out there in yhe real world start asking for your number and when they can see you again etc I just can't be arsed with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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According to dictionary a swinger is someone with promiscuous sex life, that's me, so yes I am, I meet singles and play groups, if I didn't I'd be in a monogamous vanilla relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. "
I do agree, but I'm a bit on the fence with the 121 not being swinging. For some it is just casual sex and they'd stop if they had a partner (which is fine) but I'd like to go to clubs or have threesome's but as I'm single it's not always something I can do (I'm too chicken to go to a club alone) so I do play predominantly with single men as that isn't as daunting for me. If I had a partner though I'd want to share this with them, just at the minute I'm enjoying the lifestyle as I can. |
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By *immy2xMan
over a year ago
aberdeen/inverness/ highlands |
Im just here to speed the process along to getting a fuck.im not into any swapping or bondage or groupsex. Ive a low boredom threshold and was on dating sites, i was just plain bored ofgoing in these coffee and dating meets sknetimes quite s few times before getting sex. For me this site is just to speed things along. Also i do like stickings and short dkirts ect and its gine to mention yhis right off on a place like here.
So am i a swinger? No i consider most swingers to be bi-sexual.
I work all over scotland and north england. Msg me ladies for some chat and see how it goes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers.
I do agree, but I'm a bit on the fence with the 121 not being swinging. For some it is just casual sex and they'd stop if they had a partner (which is fine) but I'd like to go to clubs or have threesome's but as I'm single it's not always something I can do (I'm too chicken to go to a club alone) so I do play predominantly with single men as that isn't as daunting for me. If I had a partner though I'd want to share this with them, just at the minute I'm enjoying the lifestyle as I can."
I agree with that. It's in the soul/ outlook. Some singles are swingers and some aren't.
Just because you (goldicocks) usually meet one on one, you are still a swinger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. "
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What's the name of this SITE! Fabswingers. Com.end of argument lol.am a swinger.no need to be guilty of being a swinger.most rich people was once a swinger.Richard Branson used to hold parties in the 70s and 80s.read his biography.
That reminds me before the Internet.when contact magazine was the only source of communication between swingers. Most people then consider swinging as filthy and degrading lifestyle.But now.Due to Internet and social media swinging is totally embrace by wider audience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're single?
Discuss 
No.
Is that no, you're not a swinger, or no, you're not going to discuss it "
Single people aren't swingers, shaggers yes, swingers no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I'm a swinger, sometimes im a slider.... Sometimes I like to sit on the grass and watch... It all depends how I feel when I get to the playground! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is a single not a swinger when they seek to and manage to meet couples or when they have friends within the lifestyle they meet other people with? I did that while I was single...yes a lot of meets were one on one but when your single, you don't get stacks of offers from couples etc....
Now I have a partner and we swap....but I still meet singly....what am i if I have a partner but also meet alone?
I think it's how one feels rather than how one is viewed...I feel like I have a part in the lifestyle, so yes, I count myself as a swinger now, and did when I was single too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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True swingers IMO people that love sex as a pastime and enjoy meeting and chatting to others who enjoy the same...even if sometimes it doesn't lead to sex....they are friendly, non-judgemental, and respectful of others when they say no....
Non-swingers looking for a quick shag are the ones that get rude and offensive when turned down...and become very judgemental when they don't get what they want (a shag) |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
I think that the be a swinger, you need someone to "swing" away from, but that you aways "swing" back to at the end. 
That said, I think that some singles are swingers and some aren't. If you are single and looking for a partner and either have previously been a swinger, or want to be a swinger in your previous relationship then you probably are. If however you are looking for a partner and as soon as you find one you intend to be monogamous then you're probably not.
There are a lots of people on here that are looking for an extra single to join them, so whatever singles are classed as, they are a very important and valued part of our community.
I there are some people who have moved away from the term "swinging"and instead use the more inclusive term "ethical non-monogamy" which can also cover polyamorous relationships too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. "
That's how I feel
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By (user no longer on site)
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Swingers are couples who have sex with other couples. It's still shagging however you want to call it,if they weren't shagging or soft swap they would just be meeting friends for a drink. Fundamentally swinging is shagging someone else's partner. I don't have a partner to swap for someone else's so I'm not a swinger. Neither are couples who only meet single people,regardless of meeting them in a swingers club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that the be a swinger, you need someone to "swing" away from, but that you aways "swing" back to at the end.
That said, I think that some singles are swingers and some aren't. If you are single and looking for a partner and either have previously been a swinger, or want to be a swinger in your previous relationship then you probably are. If however you are looking for a partner and as soon as you find one you intend to be monogamous then you're probably not.
There are a lots of people on here that are looking for an extra single to join them, so whatever singles are classed as, they are a very important and valued part of our community.
I there are some people who have moved away from the term "swinging"and instead use the more inclusive term "ethical non-monogamy" which can also cover polyamorous relationships too."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers.
That's how I feel
Ms "
Same here...I have regular fb's and would prefer to play with them over and above others x |
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I always thought being a swinger meant you have a relaxed attitude towards sex, if you are a couple then you have no hang ups about sharing yourself and your partner with others, as a single I still think that is relevant to me, I can give myself to others and share pleasure without any hang ups |
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"swinging is a mindset. so yes, some singles are swingers and some are not. singles just meeting one on one for casual sex isnt swinging, but those who enjoy parties, clubs and have a desire for threesomes and other permutations of group sex, then yeah, we see them as being swingers. "
Think that's a fair definition. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
I'm just a slag here for sex
Plus banter forums and long term friendships
Oh and sex
Did I mention the sex
Because I'd not be on fab if there was no sex
Um did someone say sex
Brilliant discuss that
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