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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom 
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
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Yep. I don't like receiving and although I love giving Mr N is always willing to sacrifice himself if the other guy doesn't enjoy it.
Personally I think there's too much emphasis on oral sex to the extent that some people think that is the only type of foreplay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't care a jot if I didn't get a b.j.....but not being able to give oral....that's close to a deal breaker....I'm very selfish and do take a huuuuuge chunk of pleasure from giving.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us I think it would be a deal breaker as we both love to give oral... Have had many a meet where full penetration hasn't happened.
So yes for us I think it would be a deal breaker but that's why you talk to people first and find out what they like and see if your going to be right for each other x |
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
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There are Many ways to have lots of fun without oral
I love oral both ways but I wouldn't stop me meeting someone if there not into it
Kissing, stroking,massage,teasing,nibbling, erotic chat,finger play,nnipple play....... |
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Oral is great but safety is paramount. I like it but it won't be a deal breaker if it's not on the cards. To be fair I think any guy worth his salt should have a varied enough arsenal to work around it   |
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"Oral is great but safety is paramount. I like it but it won't be a deal breaker if it's not on the cards. To be fair I think any guy worth his salt should have a varied enough arsenal to work around it "
I did say to a man who couldn't hide his incredulity when I said I didn't care for receiving oral that other forms of foreplay are available. His astonished reply was "like what?" |
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
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I finished with a girl because she never gave oral!I was well impressed that I had discovered an obsolete woman in this day and age!..ok,its a bit different from a meet,but the thought if no BJ's for the rest of my days filled me with dread..although I wouldn't knowingly meet someone off fab if they gave no head either..or if they don't kiss.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
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We certainly couldn't , but there are plenty that could |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
Yep. I don't like receiving and although I love giving Mr N is always willing to sacrifice himself if the other guy doesn't enjoy it.
Personally I think there's too much emphasis on oral sex to the extent that some people think that is the only type of foreplay."
Interesting comments .
For us , oral , that being primarily Sabrina giving head , is not just foreplay - it's the main event !
Of course we all have our own interests , but when you play like us , there can only be an emphasis on oral  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy giving oral and can give or take receiving. As others have said there's more to foreplay than oral. It is disappointing though when men want a lot of oral and a quick fuck. Not worth shaving my legs for |
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"I enjoy giving oral and can give or take receiving. As others have said there's more to foreplay than oral. It is disappointing though when men want a lot of oral and a quick fuck. Not worth shaving my legs for "
You shave your legs for meets?  I dont even bother to shave my back  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
I finished with a girl because she never gave oral!I was well impressed that I had discovered an obsolete woman in this day and age!..ok,its a bit different from a meet,but the thought if no BJ's for the rest of my days filled me with dread..although I wouldn't knowingly meet someone off fab if they gave no head either..or if they don't kiss.."
Your relationship based on sex ? I didn't say I wouldn't give a bj to a partner. Just wouldn't give one to a guy I've just met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
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I wouldn't no
Foreplay/oral is very important to me sexually and I wouldn't meet someone who did not want the same as me
Many guys like to just fuck and go though so you should have no problems finding a meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
I wouldn't no
Foreplay/oral is very important to me sexually and I wouldn't meet someone who did not want the same as me
Many guys like to just fuck and go though so you should have no problems finding a meet "
Why would not doing oral just be a fuck and go meet ???
Fingers, toys etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
I wouldn't no
Foreplay/oral is very important to me sexually and I wouldn't meet someone who did not want the same as me
Many guys like to just fuck and go though so you should have no problems finding a meet
Why would not doing oral just be a fuck and go meet ???
Fingers, toys etc "
I suppose
I suppose I'm just judging on my own meets, I'm not really into penatrive sex so if oral was taken away there would be nothing for me
If you like toys in you and fucking then that's fine
Suppose we all like different x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
I wouldn't no
Foreplay/oral is very important to me sexually and I wouldn't meet someone who did not want the same as me
Many guys like to just fuck and go though so you should have no problems finding a meet
Why would not doing oral just be a fuck and go meet ???
Fingers, toys etc
I suppose
I suppose I'm just judging on my own meets, I'm not really into penatrive sex so if oral was taken away there would be nothing for me
If you like toys in you and fucking then that's fine
Suppose we all like different x"
If we were all the same .... Life would be pretty boring. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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It would be a deal breaker for me if the person I was planning on meeting didn't want to give me oral...if it was a man not wanting a BJ I'd maybe go along with that but I love oral both ways  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be a deal breaker for me if the person I was planning on meeting didn't want to give me oral...if it was a man not wanting a BJ I'd maybe go along with that but I love oral both ways "
Even guys not wanting oral bothers me
I couldn't meet a guy who didn't want a blow job even if he was willing to give oral because I would feel selfish and lazy, even if he was OK with that I wouldnt be 
I've turned down a few guys who have told me they don't enjoy blow jobs but love to give |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No oral would be a no meet for me .. much the same as soft swing only couples … myself i just can't see any point in meeting people and not having full sex if we are meeting to play ..
Its abit like the loser on bullseye , here is what you could have won |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry. Oral is my forte. Without oral, i'd be a bit lost to be honest. There's other ways to have fun i understand. But, i'm a lover of giving oral and that's what gets me going.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No oral is no meet to us but if you say that no one can complain.
What is your big fear here?
Catching something
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You can catch something with fingers, kissing, penetration, skin contact ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it wouldn't put me off meeting someone, and I could do without receiving but having my head between a woman's legs is one of my favorite things to do.. I'd prefer it wasn't off the cards completely |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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Has the OP ever indulged in a threesome with another lady? If so did everyone continually wash their hands between intimate touching between the ladies (transmission of fluids between the pair of them).
Dave |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has the OP ever indulged in a threesome with another lady? If so did everyone continually wash their hands between intimate touching between the ladies (transmission of fluids between the pair of them).
Dave "
Good question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has the OP ever indulged in a threesome with another lady? If so did everyone continually wash their hands between intimate touching between the ladies (transmission of fluids between the pair of them).
Dave "
Not since I choose not to do oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't meet a man who didn't allow me to give them oral. It's foreplay for me. Giving a good bj turns me on more than recieving. "
Will you squat whilst doing it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt meet if a couple didnt do oral. I love sucking a nice cock and going down on a woman! I also really love oral myself and that along with nipple stimulation is what makes me climax ! It would defo be a deal breaker for me, it would be pointless! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for me giving oral
to a woman is the biggest thing iam addicted to licking pussy and crave doing it xx
Well whenever your free  "
believe me Id love to but after reading through and loving your profile it seems I fall a little short of your age limitations x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for me giving oral
to a woman is the biggest thing iam addicted to licking pussy and crave doing it xx
Well whenever your free
believe me Id love to but after reading through and loving your profile it seems I fall a little short of your age limitations x"
And here was me thinking the 130 miles was the problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No oral is no meet to us but if you say that no one can complain.
What is your big fear here?
Catching something
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Genital warts are something your still risking catching. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for me giving oral
to a woman is the biggest thing iam addicted to licking pussy and crave doing it xx
Well whenever your free
believe me Id love to but after reading through and loving your profile it seems I fall a little short of your age limitations x
this is why we have transport ??
And here was me thinking the 130 miles was the problem "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think Will would check my pulse if I said that I wouldn't give him another BJ - it is my favourite hobby! Completely addicted! He does suffer!! Poor bloke
As for no oral on meets - I doubt it would put me off, but we do both enjoy giving, and receiving
Sara |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You speak for yourself not all of us are posh some of us only have a push bike
haha well push that bike to a train haha "
OK now your pushing your luck fella |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You speak for yourself not all of us are posh some of us only have a push bike
haha well push that bike to a train haha
OK now your pushing your luck fella "
awwwww ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be a deal breaker for me if the person I was planning on meeting didn't want to give me oral...if it was a man not wanting a BJ I'd maybe go along with that but I love oral both ways
Even guys not wanting oral bothers me
I couldn't meet a guy who didn't want a blow job even if he was willing to give oral because I would feel selfish and lazy, even if he was OK with that I wouldnt be
I've turned down a few guys who have told me they don't enjoy blow jobs but love to give"
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
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Oral isn't the most important thing for me; I can live without it and I can certainly live without giving it. Heck, I can live without sex altogether |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for me giving oral
to a woman is the biggest thing iam addicted to licking pussy and crave doing it xx "
I hear where you're coming from.. I'd be more than happy to meet a lady who ONLY wanted oral.
On the flipside, a good social meet, getting a good idea of what makes the other person tick can stop 'not into oral' being seen as a dilemma. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
Oral isn't the most important thing for me; I can live without it and I can certainly live without giving it. Heck, I can live without sex altogether "
You DO know what site this is... don't you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find anyone not liking oral, either giving or receiving, as weird as those that don't like kissing.
I mean?..what's the point..it would be pointless without those 2 things imo. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
Oral isn't the most important thing for me; I can live without it and I can certainly live without giving it. Heck, I can live without sex altogether
You DO know what site this is... don't you? "
Ofcourse I do; now don't be stupid
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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Do what YOU feel comfortable with and don't play with anyone who doesn't respect your boundaries and comfort.
I completely respect your decision, but something you could do, is get some flavoured condoms and dental dams (I got free flavored dental dams from icash in Cambridge ) and give them a try, maybe they aren't as bad as you imagine? I haven't tried the dams yet, but my wife should be home in about half an hour |
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
Oral isn't the most important thing for me; I can live without it and I can certainly live without giving it. Heck, I can live without sex altogether
You DO know what site this is... don't you?
Ofcourse I do; now don't be stupid
Wanna exchange knitting patterns? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few bi curious women are happy to receive only rather than give ..especially when its all new to them and we are happy with this
.lots of chat before meet has ensured all goes well and have met some that possibly wouldnt have because they think it has to be both ways Sx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Would you meet someone that says oral is not an interest ?
Since back due to safety reasons I have decided not to include oral either giving or receiving. I don't fancy giving a bj with a condom
Can you have just as much fun without this aspect of a meet ????
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I wouldn't want to meet a woman who did not want to receive oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A few bi curious women are happy to receive only rather than give ..especially when its all new to them and we are happy with this
.lots of chat before meet has ensured all goes well and have met some that possibly wouldnt have because they think it has to be both ways Sx"
But would you meet them if they didn't want to receive either? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A few bi curious women are happy to receive only rather than give ..especially when its all new to them and we are happy with this
.lots of chat before meet has ensured all goes well and have met some that possibly wouldnt have because they think it has to be both ways Sx
But would you meet them if they didn't want to receive either?"
Yes probably ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It wouldn't put me off at all. I find most guys have no idea how to please orally so I wouldn't see it as a great loss - a relief in some cases!
Mr T would probably find it a deal breaker though. He's very fond of giving and receiving oral |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Knowing how close I have been in the past to receiving from the OP, the fact that she has chosen not to indulged anymore is her personal choice and I respect that.
Hope to be able to try new skills in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a problem here. The main thing is that you communicate what you will and won't do so there is no confusion.
Have been with someone many years ago who would not give oral. As much as I like receiving, it didn't get in the way.  |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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We wouldn't meet if a profile said no oral but that's just our preference - I am a very licky girl.....
I am sure there are plenty on here that would be very happy to meet with your preferences. That's the coolest thing about this site - there is always someone out there that shares your interests |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well, I don't do oral with guys - either way - simply because I don't like it!
That's my preference, I'm clear about it and expect it to be respected...
...but some guys just still can't resist messaging me to ask why? What is it that they don't understand?
Do they think that somehow they can change my mind? No means NO...
And I don't feel that I'm missing out because of that - in the same way that I'm not missing out on other things that I don't like - smokers, people who want to tie me up and whip me, people who are young enough to be my grand-children, people who want to watch......
It's about matching preferences - enjoying the things that you like to do and not doing things that you don't like!
Set your own rules and stand by them!
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"Well, I don't do oral with guys - either way - simply because I don't like it!
That's my preference, I'm clear about it and expect it to be respected...
...but some guys just still can't resist messaging me to ask why? What is it that they don't understand?
Do they think that somehow they can change my mind? No means NO...
And I don't feel that I'm missing out because of that - in the same way that I'm not missing out on other things that I don't like - smokers, people who want to tie me up and whip me, people who are young enough to be my grand-children, people who want to watch......
It's about matching preferences - enjoying the things that you like to do and not doing things that you don't like!
Set your own rules and stand by them!
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It's quite straightforward isn't it but kissing and oral are two things that some people find it impossible to accept when people don't like them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have had a number of meets since making the decision
Not once have I felt that I'm missing out and the guys that I have meet haven't had an issue with it.
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