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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is it just me or is the standard of the majority of single men's profiles awful ... A line about looking for NSA fun, no pics and every interest ticked. Do they really see this as appealing, I wouldn't talk to them, let alone meet them. There should be a minimum word count for profiles and a no pic no profile rule

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it just me or is the standard of the majority of single men's profiles awful ... A line about looking for NSA fun, no pics and every interest ticked. Do they really see this as appealing, I wouldn't talk to them, let alone meet them. There should be a minimum word count for profiles and a no pic no profile rule "

Use such profiles as a filter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The majority of them or the majority of the ones you've bothered to look at?

Tar.... Brush...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The majority of them or the majority of the ones you've bothered to look at?

Tar.... Brush..."

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By *ust a TeaseMan over a year ago

Earth

My profile is absolutely crap.

no really it is.

It is sometimes hard to write about stuff, when you know there is boobs on another click of the mouse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The majority of them or the majority of the ones you've bothered to look at?

Tar.... Brush..."

I only look at single male profiles and the vasdt majority are like that ... I have found some wonderrful profiles too, but surely if we are taking the time to fill it out properly everybody should that's all I'm saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are some bad Male and Female profiles on here oh and not forgetting the some couples as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones "

They haven't got a bad name as far as we are concerned .

We don't want to read a life story .

If they are fit and clean , that's good enough for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women do the same lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are some bad Male and Female profiles on here oh and not forgetting the some couples as well

You have to admit, there are so many awful men giving the others a bad name though?! Sometimes I find couples just as bad though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are some pretty awful profiles all around ( mine probably included) not just the men.

It's a shame really, I love a good story before bed, haha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones "

Nobody spoils anything for anyone other than themselves.

If those making no effort are obvious then surely it should work in your favour and make it far easier to spot those putting effort in??

Am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can experiment tho, with diferent length of the profile text

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have only had experience with single men profiles but for those who put the effort in with their profile it just feels like a cop out when all a profile says is looking to have fun. I don't mean a life story but more than one line

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some profiles are padded out with bullshit!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive put a lot of time and effort into my profile and ive only had 1 message using my "secret word" and she was a non smoker who doesnt meet smokers and was from darn sarf!

i think from the txt she sent alcohol played a big part

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By *lan43sumMan over a year ago

Leicester

I'm not moaning or doing a "look at me" jig -but there are lots of guys who have well written profiles with excellent pics (far better than mine) I'd love it if we could do a survey of the number of positive responses they get over the authors of the more minimalistic male profiles.

That said there have been threads that advise guys to make more effort which has been echoed by the posts on here.

When ladies have well written profiles it is only fair that we read them.

I expect that ladies with very little on their profiles still get bucket loads of emails. (sorry I said I wasn't moaning - just observing)

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By *ust a TeaseMan over a year ago

Earth

I stuck a song on my profile to make it look long haha

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

Mine is just me.

Perhaps I should add some bullshit

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive put a lot of time and effort into my profile and ive only had 1 message using my "secret word" and she was a non smoker who doesnt meet smokers and was from darn sarf!

i think from the txt she sent alcohol played a big part

Do you get annoyed with messages from people who have put no effort in though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are some bad Male and Female profiles on here oh and not forgetting the some couples as well

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not moaning or doing a "look at me" jig -but there are lots of guys who have well written profiles with excellent pics (far better than mine) I'd love it if we could do a survey of the number of positive responses they get over the authors of the more minimalistic male profiles.

That said there have been threads that advise guys to make more effort which has been echoed by the posts on here.

When ladies have well written profiles it is only fair that we read them.

I expect that ladies with very little on their profiles still get bucket loads of emails. (sorry I said I wasn't moaning - just observing) "

Like I said I have found some wonderful male profiles, just think maybe there should be a minimum profile length so that everybody has to make a reasonable amount of effort

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are some bad Male and Female profiles on here oh and not forgetting the some couples as well

You have to admit, there are so many awful men giving the others a bad name though?! Sometimes I find couples just as bad though

A profile only gives you a slight insight to there personality, Chatting to them gives you a bit more but only after meeting them can you really have a opinion,

Will update later when they have been on here for months/years are the worst in my opinion

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

Single guys get such a bad rap on here for their profiles and pics etc. Sure a lot of this is justified but many women's profiles are just as bad.

Too many women think they can take some kind of moral high ground on this site simply because they're women. For every piss poor single guy's profile there's a piss poor single girl's profile.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"There are some bad Male and Female profiles on here oh and not forgetting the some couples as well

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones

Nobody spoils anything for anyone other than themselves.

If those making no effort are obvious then surely it should work in your favour and make it far easier to spot those putting effort in??

Am I wrong?

Saved me typing

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Single guys get such a bad rap on here for their profiles and pics etc. Sure a lot of this is justified but many women's profiles are just as bad.

Too many women think they can take some kind of moral high ground on this site simply because they're women. For every piss poor single guy's profile there's a piss poor single girl's profile."

And so did this

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've seen some pretty awful single female profiles on here, that have made me squirm and think OMG!!....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Single guys get such a bad rap on here for their profiles and pics etc. Sure a lot of this is justified but many women's profiles are just as bad.

Too many women think they can take some kind of moral high ground on this site simply because they're women. For every piss poor single guy's profile there's a piss poor single girl's profile."

As I said I only have experience with single men but liker I have said as minimum profile length will force evertyboidy to put in the effort. Not trying to claim the moral high ground I have just put some effort into my profile and I feel cheated getting nessasges from people with the bare minimum on there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm really not good with writing profiles. If people speak to me, i seem to tickle their interests. I don't think my profile is that bad is it?

However, women can have fuck all on their profiles and they'd still be inundated with messages.

It's not easy being a guy on here.

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By *callycatMan over a year ago

Mid Wales

"I've seen some pretty awful single female profiles on here, that have made me squirm and think OMG!!....

Bet they still get loads of attention though....that's the difference..

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones

Nobody spoils anything for anyone other than themselves.

If those making no effort are obvious then surely it should work in your favour and make it far easier to spot those putting effort in??

Am I wrong?

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I don't understand the problem here - or maybe I'm just being thick!

You see a shit profile - whether browsing or upon recieving a message. You decide that as the owner hasn't bothered putting in any effort that you're not interested.

Is that not a benefit? Does that not make identifying potentially compatible people who you might be interested in a far, far easier and less time consuming task?

I can't think of many things that make the decision making process simpler!

If people choose not to put effort in - why encourage them to do so by a 'quota' or minimum standard of profile creation rules?

It would just blur the lines between those choosing to make an effort and those doing so because they have to.

Rocket science it is not!!

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By *apillonNoirWoman over a year ago

There...

There are some awful profiles for males, females and couples. No one is exempt. I guess I'm not the only one who reads a profile before reading a message and then deciding whether to bother reading the message or just hitting the delete button! None of this is rocket science. It's a shop window for swinging...

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Unfortuntly i think they. They put to and to togeather.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive put a lot of time and effort into my profile and ive only had 1 message using my "secret word" and she was a non smoker who doesnt meet smokers and was from darn sarf!

i think from the txt she sent alcohol played a big part

Do you get annoyed with messages from people who have put no effort in though "
i dont get any!!

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I've seen some pretty awful single female profiles on here, that have made me squirm and think OMG!!....

Bet they still get loads of attention though....that's the difference..

My point being was that it isn't only males, it's females as well.... Whether they still get messages is down to the fact that some men aren't as fussy as females about profiles then

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones

Nobody spoils anything for anyone other than themselves.

If those making no effort are obvious then surely it should work in your favour and make it far easier to spot those putting effort in??

Am I wrong?

Saved me typing

I don't understand the problem here - or maybe I'm just being thick!

You see a shit profile - whether browsing or upon recieving a message. You decide that as the owner hasn't bothered putting in any effort that you're not interested.

Is that not a benefit? Does that not make identifying potentially compatible people who you might be interested in a far, far easier and less time consuming task?

I can't think of many things that make the decision making process simpler!

If people choose not to put effort in - why encourage them to do so by a 'quota' or minimum standard of profile creation rules?

It would just blur the lines between those choosing to make an effort and those doing so because they have to.

Rocket science it is not!!

Couldnt have been arsed with typing all of that.

But yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've put a lot of effort into my profile and I've taken note on the forums regarding pics, in fairness its paid off. Not all single guys are shallow

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I've put a lot of effort into my profile and I've taken note on the forums regarding pics, in fairness its paid off. Not all single guys are shallow

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

I think some women think because men outnumber them ten to one on here they don't have to put in much effort and the men will come running. They put in no effort and the men flock to them anyway. Sadly that's just how us men tend to operate. This also inflates their ego making them think they're more special than they really are.

They don't like cock pics (as you may have heard!) but I'm not overly impressed with a gallery full of arse/cleavage/leg/pouting lips pics. Or when was 'fill this bit in later' an adequate profile. Or a profile that's just a list of things they don't like. You really think that you're going to attract a decent guy like that?

Ok rant over! Will just end by saying there are some wonderful ladies on here and when you find one it's great but there are also a lot of dreadful ones too.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones

Nobody spoils anything for anyone other than themselves.

If those making no effort are obvious then surely it should work in your favour and make it far easier to spot those putting effort in??

Am I wrong?

Saved me typing

I don't understand the problem here - or maybe I'm just being thick!

You see a shit profile - whether browsing or upon recieving a message. You decide that as the owner hasn't bothered putting in any effort that you're not interested.

Is that not a benefit? Does that not make identifying potentially compatible people who you might be interested in a far, far easier and less time consuming task?

I can't think of many things that make the decision making process simpler!

If people choose not to put effort in - why encourage them to do so by a 'quota' or minimum standard of profile creation rules?

It would just blur the lines between those choosing to make an effort and those doing so because they have to.

Rocket science it is not!!

Couldnt have been arsed with typing all of that.

But yes

I'm on a week off.

If I don't keep typing when I get back to work I'll get finger cramp within hours!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm one of those shockingly bad female profiles. ...some guys still message but not a huge amount and that suits me just fine. I don't need a big list of what i want or don't want. Somehow i manage to hook up with those that i want to meet. Equally I've met guys with very little profile effort and they have been very worthwhile. The profile isn't the be all and end all to everybody.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The question is does the profile content really matter or do the pictures that will incline the respondent reply or not ?..I think in reality its the latter...A great well constructed profile with pictures showing a guy you will never fancy in a month of Sundays ?...

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If a profile is crap it works as another filter. Be grateful for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must say, having viewed a number of single ladies profiles they to lack effort, style, class or content. There are however some the complete opposite and that is refreshing to see...

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones

Nobody spoils anything for anyone other than themselves.

If those making no effort are obvious then surely it should work in your favour and make it far easier to spot those putting effort in??

Am I wrong?

Saved me typing

I don't understand the problem here - or maybe I'm just being thick!

You see a shit profile - whether browsing or upon recieving a message. You decide that as the owner hasn't bothered putting in any effort that you're not interested.

Is that not a benefit? Does that not make identifying potentially compatible people who you might be interested in a far, far easier and less time consuming task?

I can't think of many things that make the decision making process simpler!

If people choose not to put effort in - why encourage them to do so by a 'quota' or minimum standard of profile creation rules?

It would just blur the lines between those choosing to make an effort and those doing so because they have to.

Rocket science it is not!!

cool... don't need to write anything today....

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

"I'm one of those shockingly bad female profiles. ...some guys still message but not a huge amount and that suits me just fine. I don't need a big list of what i want or don't want. Somehow i manage to hook up with those that i want to meet. Equally I've met guys with very little profile effort and they have been very worthwhile. The profile isn't the be all and end all to everybody. "

This kind of profile is really quite nice. It's truthful and the pics are beautiful. It's those really whiny negative one's that tell you how much they hate the guy's on here and what they don't like that I really hate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

LOL - guess my username doesn't help me then!!! Guess that's where I've been going wrong!!

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By *az_1976Man over a year ago

Peterborough/Huntingdon

I've done my best (I think)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My favourite female profiles of all time include:

The classic

"Here 4 sum fun"

The unbeatable

"Hrny"

and the one that stood out the most was

p.s. the length and amount of effort in a profile does not equal amount of success. But mine is shite. Don't look at it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's an offensive generalization. I'm a single guy and have the loneliness that goes with that but I have standards in that there's things which I wouldn't do.

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

That's an offensive generalization. I'm a single guy and have the loneliness that goes with that but I have standards in that there's things which I wouldn't do. "

I find to find the generalization offensive im single too yet do everything to show im genuine pics and everything. Loneliness is such a terrible thing and is it too much to want some company from time to time? Also most wont look at you unless you have verifications but how can you get them if no one wants to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest all profiles are as bad as each other regardless of their status(Male/female/couple)

I'd rather go to a line profile than a profile that is just ranting just to make up word count.

However,what you have read about them does it say who they really are?

Everyone swings for different reasons...

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

To be honest all profiles are as bad as each other regardless of their status(Male/female/couple)

I'd rather go to a line profile than a profile that is just ranting just to make up word count.

However,what you have read about them does it say who they really are?

Everyone swings for different reasons...

Good point. A person's profile won't tell you all the in's and out's of their personality and psyche. Although with some of the women's profiles they do come across as moaning cows. Moan, moan, moan! You're always going to have to chat to someone a little first to get any idea if they're what you're looking for.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Mines quite long. It's quite informative though. Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

100 % agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I loved reading the '3 facts about you' threads the other day - I thought to myself at the time that some of the comments on there gave a far better insight than their actual profiles.

If we were looking for new friends I'd have messaged a few based on that thread alone - but the profiles by themselves wouldnt have attracted.

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By *r jblMan over a year ago

from parts unknown

I guess we can't please everybody.

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By *ickyBrownEyesMan over a year ago

Gillingham, Wiltshire & Brighton, Sussex

How does mine read out of interest ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes but don't ova look em as I've found a few hidden gems behind rubbish profiles

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

My profile is only long as i want folks to know as much about me as possible x

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

If there was a minimum word count i bet there would be profiles that still said nothing more than just looking for nsa fun then the rests of the characters are a screen full of x's or some daft crap like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone's opinion is different on profiles some you may find boring yet someone else may find interesting. I agree though one liners should be made to put more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I loved reading the '3 facts about you' threads the other day - I thought to myself at the time that some of the comments on there gave a far better insight than their actual profiles.

If we were looking for new friends I'd have messaged a few based on that thread alone - but the profiles by themselves wouldnt have attracted.

I enjoyed that thread too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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Sorry, just making up the minimum character count for my post! I don't want to force effort out of someone I may meet, I want them to put it in because they want to not to tick a minimum standard box. You make a minimum character demand and all you'll get is random text like my opening line or a sentence about how their trying to make up the minimum word count to pad out an effortless profile. Leave them to their 'will fill in later' and look for like minds who know putting the effort in will help get meets

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

Interesting.....

I have just tweaked my profile on Monday just removed some bits that were not working, and added some bits.

I agree for a single guy profile is like a cv, you have to sell yourself, a mixture of a good summary, decent photos but also get yourself know on forums and chat, go to clubs and socials.

I am lucky that none of my veris are sexual, as for me to much detail is a bit full on. I like for people to see me as I am.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Relax, many womens are utter shit too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Relax, many womens are utter shit too."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why?

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

some just make no effort whatsoever .their shit profile is often accompanied with 10 lines of legal threats for anyone that uses their so called profile..would be funny if it wasnt so common on here

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By *MP3Man over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

I am the exception to that rule! Kinda, well maybe...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't read people's profiles - no women do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a Single Male I contest! Short and to the point does not mean lazy. I have had both detailed and short profiles. I find the latter can work to your favour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't read people's profiles - no women do"

I always read profiles. A well written one can be the difference to me being interested or not. The pics could be of the fittest bloke on the planet but if the profile is non existent then I wouldn't be interested.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't read people's profiles - no women do"

I do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You don't read people's profiles - no women do"

I certainly do, if I didn't I wouldn't have made the comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You don't read people's profiles - no women do

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By *MP3Man over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

You don't read people's profiles - no women do

The same goes for everyone on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't read people's profiles - no women do

I think there is a certain cut off point to that. If you were very attracted to the person you would still message to gage their personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You don't read people's profiles - no women do

I think there is a certain cut off point to that. If you were very attracted to the person you would still message to gage their personality."

A bland profile means they have made no effort which is as personality trait that I do not find attractive so I wouldn't message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Relax, many womens are utter shit too."

I've already put my hands up to that one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't read people's profiles - no women do

I think there is a certain cut off point to that. If you were very attracted to the person you would still message to gage their personality."

True for some maybe but I really don't like chatting too much on here, find it very sterile chatting via written text. I like a profile to engage me enough and say enough about what a person wants and is like so I can gauge whether I want a social so I can message then arrange. Hate all this message ping pong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But you only have one pic, and it gives absolutely no clue as to what you look like. How could anyone decide if they find you 'appealing'? Or is there a different standard for single females?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But you only have one pic, and it gives absolutely no clue as to what you look like. How could anyone decide if they find you 'appealing'? Or is there a different standard for single females?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've made a bit of an effort, have a selection of pics, am always polite, try and use a bit of humour. I don't even use the Sydney uni 'disclaimer' as it's not worth the screen its written on!!

I'm always open to feedback though,I'm well aware I'm not everyones cup o tea!

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By *eithoWoman over a year ago

Chatham

I think if your profile text is sparse then you need to have pics or vice versa. Give me something to get excited about!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never know what to say ? Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have re-written my profile 3 times since I have been on here and am sure I will do it again as I get older and wiser

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But you only have one pic, and it gives absolutely no clue as to what you look like. How could anyone decide if they find you 'appealing'? Or is there a different standard for single females?"

the point of this thread isnt about being deemed appealing but putting in effort. I don't want to advertise my face as I have found far too many people I know here. I am more than happy to message pics as my profile states. And as I lack public pics I have filled out my profile honestly and with effort to show im genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're not all the same, some of us do try and make an effort, honest!

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

Ive tried myself to make a decent profile. Im a decent honest guy but other idiots ensure that we get tarred same brush.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It don't matter what it is these days unless you have a cock that's as big as a bat and a 10pac lol..............just saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant think of anything else to say because these moany threads are boring and shouldnt be taken seriously so here's a pancake recipe

100g plain flour

Pinch of salt

1 egg

300 ml milk

1 tablsp. melted butter or sunflower oil

To Cook

Sift the flour and salt into a mixing bowl and make a well in the centre. Crack the egg into the well; add the melted butter or oil and half the milk. Gradually draw the flour into the liquid by stirring all the time with a wooden spoon until all the flour has been incorporated and then beat well to make a smooth batter. Stir in the remaining milk. Alternatively, beat all the ingredients together for 1 minute in a blender or food processor. Leave to stand for about 30 minutes, stir again before using.

To make the pancakes, heat a small heavy-based frying until very hot and then turn the heat down to medium. Lightly grease with oil and then ladle in enough batter to coat the base of the pan thinly (about 2 tablsp.), tilting the pan so the mixture spreads evenly. Cook over a moderate heat for 1-2 minutes or until the batter looks dry on the top and begins to brown at the edges. Flip the pancake over with a palette knife or fish slice and cook the second side.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to have a long profile text shallowly talking about myself and what im after . It got me a few meets in the early days !

Now mines a two liner and my only public pic is my arse and ive got lots of friends who want to meet and ive had plenty of meets of this newer profile .

Think the OP is just another Man basher .

She wants pics on profiles but only has one herself ....

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By *on1Man over a year ago

spain

Single guys want a shag ! Can you help. ? Sweet shop ring a big bell. Please don't call us. For looking and wanting what is or might be on offer ? Like I said might . .... love to dream do you ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd like to improve my look, feel free to give me constructive criticism, please!

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By *on1Man over a year ago

spain

Hey you fight your own corner. I was just saying ?

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By *on1Man over a year ago

spain

Ops !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The majority of them or the majority of the ones you've bothered to look at?

Tar.... Brush...

Couldn't agree more.....but married guys pretending to be single often don't have the time to do a decent profile....so wise to avoid!

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By *on1Man over a year ago

spain

Married single when it comes to being on here. Yes shes noses .

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By *on1Man over a year ago

spain

Talking about playing this field

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Single guys get such a bad rap on here for their profiles and pics etc. Sure a lot of this is justified but many women's profiles are just as bad.

Too many women think they can take some kind of moral high ground on this site simply because they're women. For every piss poor single guy's profile there's a piss poor single girl's profile."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Single guys get such a bad rap on here for their profiles and pics etc. Sure a lot of this is justified but many women's profiles are just as bad.

Too many women think they can take some kind of moral high ground on this site simply because they're women. For every piss poor single guy's profile there's a piss poor single girl's profile.

And yet men and couples still mail those women with piss poor profiles......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But you only have one pic, and it gives absolutely no clue as to what you look like. How could anyone decide if they find you 'appealing'? Or is there a different standard for single females?

But it was you who started using the 'appealling' word. My point is that you have chosen to put up one pic that won't help anyone looking at your profile. It's your choice, and that's fine, but it's a bit rich for you to then complain about other profiles not being appealing (again, your word).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Single guys get such a bad rap on here for their profiles and pics etc. Sure a lot of this is justified but many women's profiles are just as bad.

Too many women think they can take some kind of moral high ground on this site simply because they're women. For every piss poor single guy's profile there's a piss poor single girl's profile.

And yet men and couples still mail those women with piss poor profiles......

"
and get meets and have fun ... Hmmm i wonder.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Says the woman with a pic of her cleavage and a profile that is all about what she wants.

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"And yet men and couples still mail those women with piss poor profiles......

I think women with no profile text at all and just a thumbnail pic of their boots are the worst

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The reality on here is that a woman could have a one line profile, no profile pic or public pics and she will still get messages, a guy probably won't. Who cares what people put, its their profile at the end of the day, they can do what they like with it. I will message the profiles I'm attracted to and not the ones I'm not.

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By *plhunterMan over a year ago

Birmingham

I've tried to make mine as best as possible I know I could insert a face photo in public but we all have jobs in the public but discretion is key for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chap your profile text is moany and demanding with one generic mundane pic that why profiles like yours attract messers they just want to wreck your head with no plans of meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reword your profile and put up better picturea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I think it's rather important to have a face pic public or private a profile that shows who you are and I do believe then your on to a positive response but you will always get noobs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We aint all the same

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones "

I'd say their lack of effort makes the genuine guys' profiles stand out more....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've tried to make mine as best as possible I know I could insert a face photo in public but we all have jobs in the public but discretion is key for me

Agree with this, loads of women and couples say if they see cock pics they are instantly turned off, most want face pics but how many people are comfortable putting a face pic on their profile or attaching a face pic on initial contact email? The recipient could be someone who knows you!

Question for everyone on here -

If you received a message with a face picture, and you realised you knew the person, whether that be a work colleague, friend etc, would you -

a. say hello and welcome them to your swinging world

b. not reply / politely decline but keep it confidential to protect your own privacy

c. have a great laugh and get the rumour out there that they are a sexual deviant

d. Tell their husband / wife / partner if they are attached

Back on topic, strangely though, some of the simplest profiles displaying the largest cocks seem to have the most verifications….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've tried to make mine as best as possible I know I could insert a face photo in public but we all have jobs in the public but discretion is key for me

Question for everyone on here -

If you received a message with a face picture, and you realised you knew the person, whether that be a work colleague, friend etc, would you -

a. say hello and welcome them to your swinging world

b. not reply / politely decline but keep it confidential to protect your own privacy

c. have a great laugh and get the rumour out there that they are a sexual deviant

d. Tell their husband / wife / partner if they are attached

Back on topic, strangely though, some of the simplest profiles displaying the largest cocks seem to have the most verifications…."

Which is why you shouldn't take too much notice of the people on the forums. They are a fraction of the site. Men who are attractive to the masses will not struggle to get meets,if you haven't got it no amount of advice will help.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Says the woman with a pic of her cleavage and a profile that is all about what she wants. "

Absolutely spot on !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The majority of them or the majority of the ones you've bothered to look at?

Tar.... Brush...

Couldn't agree more.....but married guys pretending to be single often don't have the time to do a decent profile....so wise to avoid!"

You've just tarred all the married guys with the same brush there! I've noticed no correlation whatsoever between quality of profile and whether they're married or single.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no idea whether my profile is good or bad. But judging from the minimal first messages I receive, it can't be anything special. If I message someone and they then actually look at my profile, I may get a response. This is how it works for me and I have no complaints. I may message, which is then instantly deleted without the recipient ever having looked at my profile. I know all about stealth mode, but with the speed it is deleted.....

So I think for many pictures/avatar is more important than profile anyway.

Like others I have seen some very poor profiles, single females and couples. I can't comment on single males, because I don't look at them. I don't think the op is single male bashing, just pointing out that with them being the majority on here, how do they expect to make a good first impression when they have nothing to say about themselves.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I'd say their lack of effort makes the genuine guys' profiles stand out more...."

and this is what it simply comes down to....

the site gives you the chance to stand out.... if you want to!!!

when you see a lot of the "what am i doing wrong" threads... have a look at the profiles, I don't think some realise that it sometimes takes a modicom of effort...

its one of those things i label as "basic common sense"..... if people cant be bothered to use it, i don't see why people should have to point it out to them.....

as others have said.... if it offends people, use it as a filter.. i wish more people would..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont know why your statuses make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Says the woman with a pic of her cleavage and a profile that is all about what she wants.

Absolutely spot on !"

Didnt you know that women are nore superior than men on this site? They can put what they want when they want and then slag others off for doing the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never reply to messages that say...

Hey looking for NSA fun

What are you looking for... Hello!!!!

Just wish they could make an effort, kinda making a joke of this place and spoiling it for the genuine guys who have a bad name cos of the lazy ones

Nobody spoils anything for anyone other than themselves.

If those making no effort are obvious then surely it should work in your favour and make it far easier to spot those putting effort in??

Am I wrong?

Saved me typing

I don't understand the problem here - or maybe I'm just being thick!

You see a shit profile - whether browsing or upon recieving a message. You decide that as the owner hasn't bothered putting in any effort that you're not interested.

Is that not a benefit? Does that not make identifying potentially compatible people who you might be interested in a far, far easier and less time consuming task?

I can't think of many things that make the decision making process simpler!

If people choose not to put effort in - why encourage them to do so by a 'quota' or minimum standard of profile creation rules?

It would just blur the lines between those choosing to make an effort and those doing so because they have to.

Rocket science it is not!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find the majority of single female profiles to be the same. It is rather annoying. They still get meets though, somehow.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I find the majority of single female profiles to be the same. It is rather annoying. They still get meets though, somehow."

I agree.

My profile has had the bare minimum effort put into it. One photo, minimal text etc My inbox is constantly full though. It’s definitely different for women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the majority of single female profiles to be the same. It is rather annoying. They still get meets though, somehow."
Yes and one of the reasons is the ratios, so they dont have to put in so much effort.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the majority of single female profiles to be the same. It is rather annoying. They still get meets though, somehow.

I agree.

My profile has had the bare minimum effort put into it. One photo, minimal text etc My inbox is constantly full though. It’s definitely different for women. "

Try having no photo and see what happens.

It's one heck of a pic, hardly a surprise you get mail.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I find the majority of single female profiles to be the same. It is rather annoying. They still get meets though, somehow.

I agree.

My profile has had the bare minimum effort put into it. One photo, minimal text etc My inbox is constantly full though. It’s definitely different for women.

Try having no photo and see what happens.

It's one heck of a pic, hardly a surprise you get mail.

True, that might be different.

Thanks

I’m actually standing on my bath

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"I find the majority of single female profiles to be the same. It is rather annoying. They still get meets though, somehow."

Because they have a pussy, and that’s all the majority of men in here are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the majority of single female profiles to be the same. It is rather annoying. They still get meets though, somehow.

I agree.

My profile has had the bare minimum effort put into it. One photo, minimal text etc My inbox is constantly full though. It’s definitely different for women.

Try having no photo and see what happens.

It's one heck of a pic, hardly a surprise you get mail.

True, that might be different.

Thanks

I’m actually standing on my bath

Really sorry, I just winked you by accident! I went to check out your bath.

Brilliant. X

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I find the majority of single female profiles to be the same. It is rather annoying. They still get meets though, somehow.

I agree.

My profile has had the bare minimum effort put into it. One photo, minimal text etc My inbox is constantly full though. It’s definitely different for women.

Try having no photo and see what happens.

It's one heck of a pic, hardly a surprise you get mail.

True, that might be different.

Thanks

I’m actually standing on my bath

Really sorry, I just winked you by accident! I went to check out your bath.

Brilliant. X"

Haha no probs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tried with mine. There is thousands of males on here though so it's hard to stand out.

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By *ister195Man over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Most definitely a minimum word count needed and atleast one public pic. Maybe a maximum too as I'm sure my profile has too much lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or girls ones that say ‘will fill in later’.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Or girls ones that say ‘will fill in later’. "

Exactly. It's not gender specific, just more noticeable due to numbers.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I find the majority of single female profiles to be the same. It is rather annoying. They still get meets though, somehow.

I agree.

My profile has had the bare minimum effort put into it. One photo, minimal text etc My inbox is constantly full though. It’s definitely different for women.

Try having no photo and see what happens.

It's one heck of a pic, hardly a surprise you get mail.

I had to look.

I concur.

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By *nnocentimesMan over a year ago

over there by that tree

Profile writing is fairly tough for some, impossible for most and the ones that have managed it have nailed it completely.

1,Do you try to be witty and funny? - not everyone’s humor is the same.

2, Humble brag? - no one likes smug.

3, List of likes? - possibly risk turning it into a shopping list.

A mixture of the 3 is a good shout.

Sometimes people are not very good at using the written word in a way which sells them the best, and hopefully hit a chord with the 1st message.

But Imo the majority are just to lazy to bother with anything half decent.

Yes an extremely broad generalisation I know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been reading a lot saying putting in no effort

I think have put a fare bit of effort in my profile more the some couples and single woman.

One or no photos at all but demanding a face photos in the first message you send them.

Then long list of bull shit ruling out 98% of the whole male population world wide.

If your going to want lots of effort ask you self are you worth that sort of attention would you go in to a night club in the real world thinking the men there should sweep you off your feet

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Been reading a lot saying putting in no effort

I think have put a fare bit of effort in my profile more the some couples and single woman.

One or no photos at all but demanding a face photos in the first message you send them.

Then long list of bull shit ruling out 98% of the whole male population world wide.

If your going to want lots of effort ask you self are you worth that sort of attention would you go in to a night club in the real world thinking the men there should sweep you off your feet "

And I hope that every lady on here thinks “yes, I am worth the effort”. Never settle.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Been reading a lot saying putting in no effort

I think have put a fare bit of effort in my profile more the some couples and single woman.

One or no photos at all but demanding a face photos in the first message you send them.

Then long list of bull shit ruling out 98% of the whole male population world wide.

If your going to want lots of effort ask you self are you worth that sort of attention would you go in to a night club in the real world thinking the men there should sweep you off your feet "

I'm a person and I expect to be treated as an individual, with respect, dignity, and courtesy. That's true whether I attract sexual attention in the real world or not.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The idea that unattractive women should be treated worse than attractive women is fucking gross.

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By *hunderstruckMan over a year ago

Northampton

What difference does it make really

Everyone in this site is looking for sex in some shape or form .

I’ve had a few meets off here and it’s usually from chatting . not the profile or the pics that make the meet happen .

If someone wants nsa they will be happy

You can’t judge anybody from a profile .

You can’t put personality into words or pics .

Others copy text from well written profiles

Most lie and have outdated pics or use angles to make them look better ( it’s only natural ) to make yourself out to be nicer or more appealing.

I get more action in pubs than from here

Ironic really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have a look at mine, I think it’s ok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women do the same lol

Not all..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been reading a lot saying putting in no effort

I think have put a fare bit of effort in my profile more the some couples and single woman.

One or no photos at all but demanding a face photos in the first message you send them.

Then long list of bull shit ruling out 98% of the whole male population world wide.

If your going to want lots of effort ask you self are you worth that sort of attention would you go in to a night club in the real world thinking the men there should sweep you off your feet

I'm a person and I expect to be treated as an individual, with respect, dignity, and courtesy. That's true whether I attract sexual attention in the real world or not. "

This is the real world and if your going to come on here talking and acting like your something your not your going to get treated the same way as you would in a pub.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely, male, female or couples profiles should be a blance of interesting profile txt and decent pictures.

Having said that if they have a face like a bag of pork scratchings it would kill it stone dead for me and the same for them if they found me not to their own taste.

When you go into a resteraunt and order what you hope is going to be a delicious meal do you not read the menu first!....

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Been reading a lot saying putting in no effort

I think have put a fare bit of effort in my profile more the some couples and single woman.

One or no photos at all but demanding a face photos in the first message you send them.

Then long list of bull shit ruling out 98% of the whole male population world wide.

If your going to want lots of effort ask you self are you worth that sort of attention would you go in to a night club in the real world thinking the men there should sweep you off your feet

I'm a person and I expect to be treated as an individual, with respect, dignity, and courtesy. That's true whether I attract sexual attention in the real world or not.

This is the real world and if your going to come on here talking and acting like your something your not your going to get treated the same way as you would in a pub.

I'm a person. I expect to be treated like a person.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And in a pub, if you treated me the way some people talk on here, I'd have your arse thrown out and/or call the police. Seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely, male, female or couples profiles should be a blance of interesting profile txt and decent pictures.

Having said that if they have a face like a bag of pork scratchings it would kill it stone dead for me and the same for them if they found me not to their own taste.

When you go into a resteraunt and order what you hope is going to be a delicious meal do you not read the menu first!....

Face like a bag of pork scratchings

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The idea that unattractive women should be treated worse than attractive women is fucking gross. "

This.

Just be nice.

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I dont understand the issue , undesirable men are informing you they are undesirable, if they fool you with a profile you would only end up disappointed later anyway x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont understand the issue , undesirable men are informing you they are undesirable, if they fool you with a profile you would only end up disappointed later anyway x"

That's why I hate profile advice threads!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"And in a pub, if you treated me the way some people talk on here, I'd have your arse thrown out and/or call the police. Seriously. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The majority of them or the majority of the ones you've bothered to look at?

Tar.... Brush..."

Well pointed out. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And in a pub, if you treated me the way some people talk on here, I'd have your arse thrown out and/or call the police. Seriously. "

Reality of it is sad. It's not just single men who speak such a way. Very few speak as they would face to face. That includes couples and females. Let's not start this single guy bashing again. Gets boring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surprise surprise.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"And in a pub, if you treated me the way some people talk on here, I'd have your arse thrown out and/or call the police. Seriously.

My point goes for anyone really. Treat people as people, no matter how attractive you do or don't find them.

And yes, I delete without reply all the time. But the equivalent in a pub would be a no thank you or being asked to be left alone. Different standards in different environments.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't reply to all. I don't have the time to be honest,but when i do it's as i would in person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And in a pub, if you treated me the way some people talk on here, I'd have your arse thrown out and/or call the police. Seriously.

Your making a very good point plus nice ass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont understand the issue , undesirable men are informing you they are undesirable, if they fool you with a profile you would only end up disappointed later anyway x"

I don’t understand what you find to be ‘undesirable’ about the quoted post? Surely as a single male there’s a lack of meets never mind building anything more than a one night nsa marathon.

If there’s nothing on their profile, it makes no difference, women still don’t reply when there is. What’s wrong with ticking all of the preferences? Surely if they’re into trying it out, that’s entirely their decision - it doesn’t make them undesirable.

Just an observation.

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I dont understand the issue , undesirable men are informing you they are undesirable, if they fool you with a profile you would only end up disappointed later anyway x

I don’t understand what you find to be ‘undesirable’ about the quoted post? Surely as a single male there’s a lack of meets never mind building anything more than a one night nsa marathon.

Just an observation. "

Why would you have any interest with anyone who does not have the wit to work such simple concepts out for themselves?

Just an observation x

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By *n080971Man over a year ago

Billericay

I’ve been told mines quite good, seems to work

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another "let's bash single men again" post

On the contrary I've been told my profile is OK. The funny thing is the amount of boring, unimaginative, lazy messages, friend requests without a word spoken I get from Single Women and Couples...

They must think we're all desperate. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The idea that unattractive women should be treated worse than attractive women is fucking gross. "

The world is fucking gross its a cruel hard place and coming on here thinking you can stay in a safe bubble where everyone is going to tell you what you want to hear is not doing your self any favours.

I have always had the attitude on fab would people say that to my face and every time so far when they have had the opportunity they just went red with embarrassment and did not say a word to me.

You all like single men bashing as makes you fell better about your self's and that's truly gross

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"The idea that unattractive women should be treated worse than attractive women is fucking gross.

I have always had the attitude on fab would people say that to my face and every time so far when they have had the opportunity they just went red with embarrassment and did not say a word to me.

You all like single men bashing as makes you fell better about your self's and that's truly gross "

The world is cruel and gross but that’s no excuse to act that way.

Oh and not “all” women on here like to bash single guys so let’s get that straight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I admit that my profile is crap. Some people, like myself are rubbish at self promotion. All I can do is be upfront and cut out the bullshit. I personally would steer well clear of anyone that accepts every age group and every preference.

Agree with you 100 percent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine took ages to prepare and took alot of thought, imagination and class, I feel like it's abit of a blanket statement for single males

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The idea that unattractive women should be treated worse than attractive women is fucking gross.

I have always had the attitude on fab would people say that to my face and every time so far when they have had the opportunity they just went red with embarrassment and did not say a word to me.

You all like single men bashing as makes you fell better about your self's and that's truly gross "

Soz ard

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I admit that my profile is crap. Some people, like myself are rubbish at self promotion. All I can do is be upfront and cut out the bullshit. I personally would steer well clear of anyone that accepts every age group and every preference.

Agree with you 100 percent

There's nothing wrong with your profile. I agree with the every age group and preference as well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think mind is abit long winded but was first time I joined and can't be bothered starting from scratch

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