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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever had to fake an orgasm? Reason I ask is because we had a meet once a while ago and the othet guy that joined us wasnt all that. Im not sure if he was unexperienced but I felt sorry for him and faked an orgasm. He tried really hard to please both of u but it didnt happen.
He was over the moon when he thought he made me orgasm.
Was it wrong of me to do that? Should I said something?
Anyways.
Has that ever happened to anyone else? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm more vocal now days
When I was young I wouldn't ask for what I liked so if a guy was down on me I just accepted what he gave and often didn't enjoy it so faked an orgasum so he thought he'd done his job and stop
With age comes confidence, for me anyway
Now days if a guy is down on me and what he's doing isn't to my likings I will direct him towards doing what I do like
Some guys take offence at this but most are happy to follow my directions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes
I pretended Id cum in the condom during a meet when the truth is I couldn't ijust didn't fancy her.
I shut my eyes and pretended she was someone else .
Always have a social first now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes
I pretended Id cum in the condom during a meet when the truth is I couldn't ijust didn't fancy her.
I shut my eyes and pretended she was someone else .
Always have a social first now"
Stupid question but if you didn't fancy her why was you shagging her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm more vocal now days
When I was young I wouldn't ask for what I liked so if a guy was down on me I just accepted what he gave and often didn't enjoy it so faked an orgasum so he thought he'd done his job and stop
With age comes confidence, for me anyway
Now days if a guy is down on me and what he's doing isn't to my likings I will direct him towards doing what I do like
Some guys take offence at this but most are happy to follow my directions "
lads should never take offence I woman knows how to please herself better than anybody same as a man knows how to please himself, it's all experience for the future x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes
I pretended Id cum in the condom during a meet when the truth is I couldn't ijust didn't fancy her.
I shut my eyes and pretended she was someone else .
Always have a social first now
Stupid question but if you didn't fancy her why was you shagging her "
Yeah that is stupid  |
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"I would have just preferred honesty!
Ok I see your point. But I didnt want to hurt his feeling and make him feel awkward. "
Sex should be about each giving the other the best experience and most enjoyment possible. If pretending you're enjoying it more than you really were makes it a better experience for the other then why not.
In the other hand, if a regular partner constantly didn't please then you really should tell them. |
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"I would have just preferred honesty!
Ok I see your point. But I didnt want to hurt his feeling and make him feel awkward. "
It's nice of you to think of his feelings. I also see where you're coming from.
All I mean is I prefer to be told I was no good and why, than to think I was and have people fake on me.
If I wasn't enjoying someone, I would tell them. |
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When we first started I faked most of the time. When I told hubby that I faked he was genuinely upset on my behalf. He even offered that we should stop as he erroneously believed that if I wasn't organisming I wasn't really enjoying myself. I really was having fun and I had to persuade him that my lack of orgasms was more with me not willing to really let go of my inhibitions with others. Once I had let go of them, well I cum over and over every time  . I'm more at ease with the things I like to do sexually and far more at ease in letting our partners know what I like to have done to me. Hubby always knows what to do to make me cum and nothing shocks him anymore when I feel like doing something even more kinkier then the time before 
I see nothing wrong in faking per se, even though you may fancy your playmate they may not be hitting all the right buttons. We all get used to a certain way and our regular partners know all the right things to do but someone new won't really know unless you tell them. Let go of your inhibitions and tell the other what you want or ask what they want to do. |
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"When we first started I faked most of the time. When I told hubby that I faked he was genuinely upset on my behalf. He even offered that we should stop as he erroneously believed that if I wasn't organisming I wasn't really enjoying myself. I really was having fun and I had to persuade him that my lack of orgasms was more with me not willing to really let go of my inhibitions with others. Once I had let go of them, well I cum over and over every time . I'm more at ease with the things I like to do sexually and far more at ease in letting our partners know what I like to have done to me. "
Exactly this! I still find it really hard to completly let go and relax with someone new,
Her |
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"Exactly this! I still find it really hard to completly let go and relax with someone new,
Her"
Same here. Very VERY rare that I will cum the first time with someone, I just can't let go. Can get really close but can't push over the edge!
No point in me faking it, I wouldn't know how to do it convincingly and its pretty damn obvious when I do orgasm, so if it happened for real on future meets they would probably guess I had been faking it originally! I just explain that I'm really awkward  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Exactly this! I still find it really hard to completly let go and relax with someone new,
Her
Same here. Very VERY rare that I will cum the first time with someone, I just can't let go. Can get really close but can't push over the edge!
No point in me faking it, I wouldn't know how to do it convincingly and its pretty damn obvious when I do orgasm, so if it happened for real on future meets they would probably guess I had been faking it originally! I just explain that I'm really awkward "
Blokes can be that way too.....its rare I cum anyhow.....but first meet? No chance anyone on this green earth will get me to..helps so much if I know someone first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm more vocal now days
When I was young I wouldn't ask for what I liked so if a guy was down on me I just accepted what he gave and often didn't enjoy it so faked an orgasum so he thought he'd done his job and stop
With age comes confidence, for me anyway
Now days if a guy is down on me and what he's doing isn't to my likings I will direct him towards doing what I do like
Some guys take offence at this but most are happy to follow my directions "
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