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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im going through some changes witch makes me self conscious. We slowed down meeting people and my other half dong understand why any more. I just dont feel sexy any more and mont want to take my clothes of in front of him or anyone.
I know he loves me and he'll understand, I just dont know how to tell him. He has such a high sex drive and feel like ill be taking something away from him. Im so confused |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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best thing is an honest conversation with him about how you feeling about meeting at the moment hopefully he will understand and help you feel better about yourself. everybody must go through this at some point in their life. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"best thing is an honest conversation with him about how you feeling about meeting at the moment hopefully he will understand and help you feel better about yourself. everybody must go through this at some point in their life."
This 
Good luck x |
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Tell him. Chances are he will of already guessed.
Time out of the scene doesn't hurt. I felt the same years ago and we just stopped meeting, I craved the girl girl fun but couldn't go through with it. A few years later the confidence came back and so did we  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im going through some changes witch makes me self conscious. We slowed down meeting people and my other half dong understand why any more. I just dont feel sexy any more and mont want to take my clothes of in front of him or anyone.
I know he loves me and he'll understand, I just dont know how to tell him. He has such a high sex drive and feel like ill be taking something away from him. Im so confused"
Go swimming. That way you can be half naked and have people look & not touch. it changes your comfort zone. He may not understand at first but should accept your decision if there's love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You have to put yourself ahead of 'the scene' but keep positive and don't be afraid to explain things to your man. If he cares for you in the way he should, he will support you. If he puts his see drive ahead of you then I would be asking serious questions about your relationship. . .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im going through some changes witch makes me self conscious. We slowed down meeting people and my other half dong understand why any more. I just dont feel sexy any more and mont want to take my clothes of in front of him or anyone.
I know he loves me and he'll understand, I just dont know how to tell him. He has such a high sex drive and feel like ill be taking something away from him. Im so confused"
Your partner should be your best friend, talk with him hon xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you could use this as a opportunity to explore other areas that don' t include you takin a direct part physically, maybe direct a few things? he gets to play and you have the experience win win |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im going through some changes witch makes me self conscious. We slowed down meeting people and my other half dong understand why any more. I just dont feel sexy any more and mont want to take my clothes of in front of him or anyone.
I know he loves me and he'll understand, I just dont know how to tell him. He has such a high sex drive and feel like ill be taking something away from him. Im so confused
Your partner should be your best friend, talk with him hon xx "
this too |
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