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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not socially acceptable on the forums to post asking for bareback meets... think along the same lines of having a fag in a non-smokers house.
My advice is put a meet up on your profile or read the local meets posted. But bare (yes pun intended) that maybe such a gangbang group may want recent STD tests before letting you in. |
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This place makes me chuckle at times. I see the word preference on here so much but the minute someone shows their own they are called all sorts of things.
I'm sure you will find what you are looking for as and I see this loads on here as well , there is someone for everyone on here.
As for everyone else I would say look after yourself and leave others to do the same.
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"This place makes me chuckle at times. I see the word preference on here so much but the minute someone shows their own they are called all sorts of things.
I'm sure you will find what you are looking for as and I see this loads on here as well , there is someone for everyone on here.
As for everyone else I would say look after yourself and leave others to do the same.
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I agree
I do bareback
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"It's not socially acceptable on the forums to post asking for bareback meets... think along the same lines of having a fag in a non-smokers house.
My advice is put a meet up on your profile or read the local meets posted. But bare (yes pun intended) that maybe such a gangbang group may want recent STD tests before letting you in. "
Perhaps if you had actually looked at my last sentence you wouldn't have felt the need to pass judgement. What you consider "socially acceptable" is your own opinion and you are free to have it. |
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"Yes there are bareback groups. But I think they are couples only.
And I hope you are ready to duck because there will be a lot of shit heading your way!!!"
I find the idea of "swingers" moralising over those who make other decisions which society as a whole may consider questionable rather amusing in a perverse sort of way. |
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Bareback police have arrived again. To some BB may be unacceptable to others it maybe the norm. No one had the right to tell someone else it is socially unacceptable. The OH is simply asking a question
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"This place makes me chuckle at times. I see the word preference on here so much but the minute someone shows their own they are called all sorts of things.
I'm sure you will find what you are looking for as and I see this loads on here as well , there is someone for everyone on here.
As for everyone else I would say look after yourself and leave others to do the same.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This place makes me chuckle at times. I see the word preference on here so much but the minute someone shows their own they are called all sorts of things.
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But bareback GROUP?  lol |
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If everyone in the group is aware of the risks and are consenting adults then who cares!!!
It's the people that try to hide it you should be more worried about. And if you think that everyone that has safe sex on their profile or no condoms no meet in the text don't ever bareback... I've had people that rant on about how bad it is in the profile message me asking for it! And when I've said they say safe only they say they put that on the profile as it puts people off them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps if you had actually looked at my last sentence you wouldn't have felt the need to pass judgement. What you consider "socially acceptable" is your own opinion and you are free to have it."
If you could be arsed to read my posts I was
not passing judgement but advising that you will come under flack for posting said request.
But saying that it is a public forum, I can post what I want within the forum rules and you can't control people's opinions. It was ridiculous to state that no one could post anything otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bareback police have arrived again. To some BB may be unacceptable to others it maybe the norm. No one had the right to tell someone else it is socially unacceptable. The OH is simply asking a question
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Again where do I pass judgement? You have taken one phrase of my answer and not read the rest? In doing that you are just as bad as the people condemning others for bareback. |
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"Bareback police have arrived again. To some BB may be unacceptable to others it maybe the norm. No one had the right to tell someone else it is socially unacceptable. The OH is simply asking a question
Again where do I pass judgement? You have taken one phrase of my answer and not read the rest? In doing that you are just as bad as the people condemning others for bareback. "
U was not the only one to comment so what makes u think I'm aiming it at u???? |
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"It's not socially acceptable on the forums to post asking for bareback meets... think along the same lines of having a fag in a non-smokers house.
My advice is put a meet up on your profile or read the local meets posted. But bare (yes pun intended) that maybe such a gangbang group may want recent STD tests before letting you in. "
I'll be sure to check with you before posting anything here just in case it's socially unacceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not socially acceptable on the forums to post asking for bareback meets... think along the same lines of having a fag in a non-smokers house.
My advice is put a meet up on your profile or read the local meets posted. But bare (yes pun intended) that maybe such a gangbang group may want recent STD tests before letting you in.
Perhaps if you had actually looked at my last sentence you wouldn't have felt the need to pass judgement. What you consider "socially acceptable" is your own opinion and you are free to have it."
So why are you whinging now? They've given their opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems there are lots of group meets on here, but are any specifically condom free?
Replies only from those into bareback sex, thanks."
Wasn't aware you could choose the replies you wanted on a public forum...
Learn something new every day.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bareback police have arrived again. To some BB may be unacceptable to others it maybe the norm. No one had the right to tell someone else it is socially unacceptable. The OH is simply asking a question
Again where do I pass judgement? You have taken one phrase of my answer and not read the rest? In doing that you are just as bad as the people condemning others for bareback.
U was not the only one to comment so what makes u think I'm aiming it at u????"
You quoted me, so I am going to think it is aimed at me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not socially acceptable on the forums to post asking for bareback meets... think along the same lines of having a fag in a non-smokers house.
My advice is put a meet up on your profile or read the local meets posted. But bare (yes pun intended) that maybe such a gangbang group may want recent STD tests before letting you in.
I'll be sure to check with you before posting anything here just in case it's socially unacceptable."
Advice, not judgement. But you didn't read the thread did you? Is it cloudy up on your high horse? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems there are lots of group meets on here, but are any specifically condom free?
Replies only from those into bareback sex, thanks.
Wasn't aware you could choose the replies you wanted on a public forum...
Learn something new every day.
Not allowed an opinion, or to give advice. Wish I had just judged OP now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want bare back find nice girl get married don't fuck any one else
Otherwise use condoms
No excuse idiot   "
Why call him an idiot? If he wants to take the risk that is his choice. It does not affect his intellect; or do you call skydivers, race drivers, divers, boxers, etc etc idiots?
Please can we allow others to make their own choices without them being insulted because they do not agree with your way of thinking.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want bare back find nice girl get married don't fuck any one else
Otherwise use condoms
No excuse idiot
Why call him an idiot? If he wants to take the risk that is his choice. It does not affect his intellect; or do you call skydivers, race drivers, divers, boxers, etc etc idiots?
Please can we allow others to make their own choices without them being insulted because they do not agree with your way of thinking. "
You will goin my little black book when I come to power you will be delt with
For not agreeing with my views
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want bare back find nice girl get married don't fuck any one else
Otherwise use condoms
No excuse idiot
Why call him an idiot? If he wants to take the risk that is his choice. It does not affect his intellect; or do you call skydivers, race drivers, divers, boxers, etc etc idiots?
Please can we allow others to make their own choices without them being insulted because they do not agree with your way of thinking.
You will goin my little black book when I come to power you will be delt with
For not agreeing with my views
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"Seems there are lots of group meets on here, but are any specifically condom free?
Replies only from those into bareback sex, thanks.
Wasn't aware you could choose the replies you wanted on a public forum...
Learn something new every day.
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As long as you have learnt it, that's fine. |
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"It's not socially acceptable on the forums to post asking for bareback meets... think along the same lines of having a fag in a non-smokers house.
My advice is put a meet up on your profile or read the local meets posted. But bare (yes pun intended) that maybe such a gangbang group may want recent STD tests before letting you in. "
I think you meant to say bear instead of bare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion it is still idiotic not to use condoms they could save you lot of heart ache protect you and others
What other consenting adults do is up to them
I'll stay safe thank you
Is there a requirement to loose your sense of humor in the forum some people take things so serious
Can't you tell a wind up ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This place makes me chuckle at times. I see the word preference on here so much but the minute someone shows their own they are called all sorts of things.
But bareback GROUP? lol "
If that's what takes their fancy then yes , long as they all consenting to it then that's their preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wouldn't it be really useful if people who liked bareback could just be honest about it, and not be judged for their preference.
They could then post freely about it, without fear of condemnation.
Then those who do not like bareback could easily see who to avoid.
It would then avoid the detective work of reading a profile, see safe sex listed, then looking through the pics to see multiple bareback pics with different people?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wouldn't it be really useful if people who liked bareback could just be honest about it, and not be judged for their preference.
They could then post freely about it, without fear of condemnation.
Then those who do not like bareback could easily see who to avoid.
It would then avoid the detective work of reading a profile, see safe sex listed, then looking through the pics to see multiple bareback pics with different people?
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"Wouldn't it be really useful if people who liked bareback could just be honest about it, and not be judged for their preference.
They could then post freely about it, without fear of condemnation.
Then those who do not like bareback could easily see who to avoid.
It would then avoid the detective work of reading a profile, see safe sex listed, then looking through the pics to see multiple bareback pics with different people?
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"It's not socially acceptable on the forums to post asking for bareback meets... think along the same lines of having a fag in a non-smokers house.
My advice is put a meet up on your profile or read the local meets posted. But bare (yes pun intended) that maybe such a gangbang group may want recent STD tests before letting you in. "
The guy was just asking a question. Which I belive he is perfectly entitled to do.
And who are you to decide what what is morally acceptable for the rest of us. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"They who have not sinned may cast the first stone!!!
Its a preference, its not shared by everyone. You cannot be a swinger and judge people, if you do, then your not.  "
see thats a silly thing to say because everyone judges..... be that the person wearing the short skirt on a saturday night in a city centre... or the person wearing the onesie in the supermarket.... you judge everyone, clothes, hairstyles, waist size, ect ect ect
instead of people going into an arguement... if someones opinion offends you so much, i wish people would just use the block button... its there as a tool... use it |
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Fabio, your getting confused between having an opinion and judging my friend.
When i see someone wearing a onesie in Tesco, i think they are an eejit, but i dont judge them on it. When i see someone with pink hair, i think, get a haircut, but i don't judge them.
I'm 45, so everyone is going to be different to me, and they are entitled to be, but i don't and won't judge people on there idiosyncrasies.
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"They who have not sinned may cast the first stone!!!
Its a preference, its not shared by everyone. You cannot be a swinger and judge people, if you do, then your not.
see thats a silly thing to say because everyone judges..... be that the person wearing the short skirt on a saturday night in a city centre... or the person wearing the onesie in the supermarket.... you judge everyone, clothes, hairstyles, waist size, ect ect ect
I agree in part to what you say and respect your right to your own oppinion.
However the original post was a question about bareback groups. He didn't ask for peoples opinions on this merely if anyone new of such groups.
It is the OP's choice to bareback or not to bareback and we should all respect his honesty
instead of people going into an arguement... if someones opinion offends you so much, i wish people would just use the block button... its there as a tool... use it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would never do bareback but it would not give us any right to pass judgement on others. I ride a motorcycle and love every moment of it and others thing its dangerous and stupid.. each to their own.. just because we dont see what enjoyment other people get from their hobby donsent mean we have to vilify them for their OWN choices.
Good luck fella and hope you find what your looking for. |
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"What you're trying to organise here is an STD party"
Did you not understand the post? The OP was not trying to organise. He was asking a question.
Or perhaps by declaring yourself to be super safe you think you will have a better chance of a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What you're trying to organise here is an STD party
Did you not understand the post? The OP was not trying to organise. He was asking a question.
Or perhaps by declaring yourself to be super safe you think you will have a better chance of a meet?"
I really don't give a single shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am confused. Some say bare backers should be allowed to identify themselves so they (the condemners - sorry condomers) know who to avoid.
Surely, if condoms work and protect you from STIs, then why worry about whether or not a meet has bareback; you are protected?
If you do not think they protect you fully then surely avoiding barebackers is only a very marginally reduction in risk? You could still contract a STI from a condomer.
Disclaimer: Don't attack me as a bareback proponent. Please consider the logic of my hypothesis. |
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"I am confused. Some say bare backers should be allowed to identify themselves so they (the condemners - sorry condomers) know who to avoid.
Surely, if condoms work and protect you from STIs, then why worry about whether or not a meet has bareback; you are protected?
If you do not think they protect you fully then surely avoiding barebackers is only a very marginally reduction in risk? You could still contract a STI from a condomer.
Disclaimer: Don't attack me as a bareback proponent. Please consider the logic of my hypothesis. "
A very good point. And well put.
This is why we can not see the need to keep attacking people that wish to play bareback. |
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Why should bareback be kept just for a relationship when clearly there are people on here who want and will do it......
The simple solution is play how you want and let others play how they choose too without being so judgemental |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why should bareback be kept just for a relationship when clearly there are people on here who want and will do it......
The simple solution is play how you want and let others play how they choose too without being so judgemental "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems there are lots of group meets on here, but are any specifically condom free?
Replies only from those into bareback sex, thanks."
There are regular bareback gangbangs but you would be well advised to check the meets and events.
Not my thing personally but by being honest about your preference you may find other like minded individuals.
Good luck op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am confused. Some say bare backers should be allowed to identify themselves so they (the condemners - sorry condomers) know who to avoid.
Surely, if condoms work and protect you from STIs, then why worry about whether or not a meet has bareback; you are protected?
If you do not think they protect you fully then surely avoiding barebackers is only a very marginally reduction in risk? You could still contract a STI from a condomer.
Disclaimer: Don't attack me as a bareback proponent. Please consider the logic of my hypothesis. "
I think your hypothesis doesn't hold water (or bodily fluids). The people who advocate the use of condoms probably don't want sex with anyone they consider high risk (e.g., barebackers). And no-one is naive enough to think that condoms provide complete protection. A condom only covers the penis, not the entire body. |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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Whenever this topic is raised here, I sigh. Considering the nature of what all of us are advocating by being on this site, judging the sexual preferences of others is just not acceptable. I feel this point sits above all others, regarding levels of risk and whatnot. It runs contrary to the spirit of swinging.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems there are lots of group meets on here, but are any specifically condom free?
Replies only from those into bareback sex, thanks."
you might has well dive in to a bin of used druggie needles if you value your own health has little has that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all about choice x"
That's true end of the day it's down to the individuals choice cover up or bb and what they do after. Ie get tested shortly after etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why should bareback be kept just for a relationship when clearly there are people on here who want and will do it......
The simple solution is play how you want and let others play how they choose too without being so judgemental "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion its natural and feels far better. If all concerned are consenting and the trust is there what is the problem. We are all adults,we all know what we like and what we want.
Have we to start criticising white women for sleeping with black guys because you dont agree with it.
If your gonna bang on about risk I suggest you do some research on the matter. Hiv and AIDs are debatable. Again do your research. Opinions are just that and facts on the matter are distorted by organisations who seek to make profit from us not questioning anything.
Look if you fuck everything that walks then your likely to catch something nasty. Just as if you drink drive every night you will likely get caught or have a serious maybe fatal accident. You also might get away with it. That's life.
Anyway Commonsense and respect what others choose to do. Peace respect and no spitting your dummies out. We are supposed to be intelligent beings. Bitchy comments on a postcard please. J |
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"I would never risk or put my health in danger with bareback... But, each to there own I guess. Just make sure you get checked a hella lot lol"
Well, good for you. But the OP wasn't asking what you you do.
Still, I suppose your inbox will now be over flowing with people wanting wanting meet somone as super safe as you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never risk or put my health in danger with bareback... But, each to there own I guess. Just make sure you get checked a hella lot lol
Well, good for you. But the OP wasn't asking what you you do.
Still, I suppose your inbox will now be over flowing with people wanting wanting meet somone as super safe as you."
There's nowt safer than safe sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bareback police have arrived again. To some BB may be unacceptable to others it maybe the norm. No one had the right to tell someone else it is socially unacceptable. The OH is simply asking a question
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This ^^^^
Again...to many....swinging isn't socially acceptable ... yet I bet you laugh at how judgemental these people are ... yet here you are passing judgement on other singers. .. very rich..
I say live and let live. ..
You worry about yourself and let others worry about their lives
The OP was asking a question and didn't invite moral do Gooders for their opinion.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What you're trying to organise here is an STD party"
Uhh..no....
If he were trying to organise an std party he'd advertise for those that to get tested and anyone positive not take their prescription and pass it around ....
If someone has done bareback it does not mean they are infected....for eg....a porn star..she will get tested today... have the all clear and do a shoot tomorrow. ...
So ppl that go to these BB groups could get the all clear today..attend a party next friday..Bareback. ..then return for testing Monday. ...
I love how some people here are on their moral high horses ... I bet said people ain't so fussy giving / receiving oral without condoms though are they??? In fact check some of your pics. ..
Oh...so your not so safe then right? ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What you're trying to organise here is an STD party
Uhh..no....
If he were trying to organise an std party he'd advertise for those that to get tested and anyone positive not take their prescription and pass it around ....
If someone has done bareback it does not mean they are infected....for eg....a porn star..she will get tested today... have the all clear and do a shoot tomorrow. ...
So ppl that go to these BB groups could get the all clear today..attend a party next friday..Bareback. ..then return for testing Monday. ...
I love how some people here are on their moral high horses ... I bet said people ain't so fussy giving / receiving oral without condoms though are they??? In fact check some of your pics. ..
Oh...so your not so safe then right? ??? "
Some infections don't show immediately, HIV for instance takes 2 months to be identifiable in a blood test |
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