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over a year ago
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OK am I alone in this you are having a good chat via messages everything seems ok bit of flirting and giggles from both sides then nothing it stops dead your last message is just deleted .
I tend to go over it in my head re-read my message ,was I offensive , rude , I tend not to find the answer I never ask I just assume something has put them off but can never fathom it out . |
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yes it's happened to us. I can't tell you not to over analyse because it probably won't make you stop but it will get you nowhere quite quickly. People aren't always what they claim to be on here.
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"Yea I dont over analyse I just sort of look to see what I did wrong its good to try and learn from mistakes . It just sometimes puzzles me "
Yes it can be puzzling but I bet you my last chocolate hob nob the mistakes aren't all yours. |
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"Yea I dont over analyse I just sort of look to see what I did wrong its good to try and learn from mistakes . It just sometimes puzzles me
Yes it can be puzzling but I bet you my last chocolate hob nob the mistakes aren't all yours."
WOW a choc hobnob someones bloody well confident  |
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"Yea I dont over analyse I just sort of look to see what I did wrong its good to try and learn from mistakes . It just sometimes puzzles me
Yes it can be puzzling but I bet you my last chocolate hob nob the mistakes aren't all yours.
WOW a choc hobnob someones bloody well confident "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes the chat just fizzles out...especially if you aren't really attracted sexually...just chewing the cud so to speak
We have chatted to some great people but have yet to find a couple that we both click with....difficult with couples methinks
Had success on twitter and clubs.... It will probably stay that way too. |
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"Yea I dont over analyse I just sort of look to see what I did wrong its good to try and learn from mistakes . It just sometimes puzzles me
Yes it can be puzzling but I bet you my last chocolate hob nob the mistakes aren't all yours.
WOW a choc hobnob someones bloody well confident
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I will take your confidence as a compliment by the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't over think it, either they were fake or something just didn't click! I've done it, got on quite well with people then something just doesn't click or they say something that puts me off or I'm just not that interested! It's not great but it's the nature of the site  |
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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago
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"OK am I alone in this you are having a good chat via messages everything seems ok bit of flirting and giggles from both sides then nothing it stops dead your last message is just deleted .
I tend to go over it in my head re-read my message ,was I offensive , rude , I tend not to find the answer I never ask I just assume something has put them off but can never fathom it out ."
Sure u didn't sent the face pix with ure last message?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OK am I alone in this you are having a good chat via messages everything seems ok bit of flirting and giggles from both sides then nothing it stops dead your last message is just deleted .
I tend to go over it in my head re-read my message ,was I offensive , rude , I tend not to find the answer I never ask I just assume something has put them off but can never fathom it out .Sure u didn't sent the face pix with ure last message? "
No they had already looked at my profile and confirmed no vomiting happened |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's hard to meet people on here a lot of ppl arnt up for swinging it's more attention they want x "
or is it because they are up for swinging, just not with you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably fake profiles. It's anoying as you think you did something wrong, and it makes you second guess messaging in the future."
how is changing your mind and deciding not to talk to someone makes them fake? It doesn't make them fake, they've just changed their minds |
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"OK am I alone in this you are having a good chat via messages everything seems ok bit of flirting and giggles from both sides then nothing it stops dead your last message is just deleted .
I tend to go over it in my head re-read my message ,was I offensive , rude , I tend not to find the answer I never ask I just assume something has put them off but can never fathom it out ."
Its not a nice thing to happen but better than having sex and then everything going silent. Just move on from it |
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"OK am I alone in this you are having a good chat via messages everything seems ok bit of flirting and giggles from both sides then nothing it stops dead your last message is just deleted .
I tend to go over it in my head re-read my message ,was I offensive , rude , I tend not to find the answer I never ask I just assume something has put them off but can never fathom it out .
Its not a nice thing to happen but better than having sex and then everything going silent. Just move on from it "
Oh no the silence normally happens mid coitus ok trying to lighten the mood a little |
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