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what's your weapon of choice when dealing with those you'd rather not chat to if ignoring them doesn't do the trick?
Do you straight up tell them it aint gonna happen, or do you reach for the dreaded block button!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what's your weapon of choice when dealing with those you'd rather not chat to if ignoring them doesn't do the trick?
Do you straight up tell them it aint gonna happen, or do you reach for the dreaded block button!? "
If ignoring them after being polite block
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over a year ago
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I rarely block anyone , just tell them 'no thanks' . However, I'm starting to think blocking them would be a better option cus I get repeated messages from the same guys weeks later who have clearly forgot they have already messaged me already and been rejected  rather annoying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can ignore for months if need be. In fact, I'm ignoring a guy who has sent me a message every week for about three months now. I'm seeing how long it takes him to give up.  "
I have one like that do far he hasnt.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i politely say no thank you...some guys reply and thank me for a response , some ask why, and some become insulting..i now block why's and rudeness immediately.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can ignore for months if need be. In fact, I'm ignoring a guy who has sent me a message every week for about three months now. I'm seeing how long it takes him to give up.
I have one like that do far he hasnt.
Delete without reading"
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When I was meeting new people if they seemed genuinely nice and had paid attention to my profile I would tell them thanks but no thanks.
I have one local guy now who messages me about 3 times a day just saying hi, or what you up to, or how are you? This has been going on for weeks. I've never replied to him and won't either but I'll give him 10/10 for perseverance!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer the sorry not for us route but tonight we were verbally abused for the very first time after 5 years being on here lol think some need to put toys back in pram lol |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"I can ignore for months if need be. In fact, I'm ignoring a guy who has sent me a message every week for about three months now. I'm seeing how long it takes him to give up.
I have one like that do far he hasnt.
Delete without reading"
I do that but then they message me to ask why I deleted pity we cant send auto reply and apologise but no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always reply with a 'not for us' but we've found that in some cases when people don't have sign up for silver or gold membership they sometimes forget they've already messaged and then that time we just block |
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I add people to my block list before any contact has been made, usually people who I consider wouldn't be interested in messaging me ...eg ..no bi guys, no single guys..or ones with whinging profiles. Saves them cluttering up my browsing list. I rarely block people who have messaged me. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"what's your weapon of choice when dealing with those you'd rather not chat to if ignoring them doesn't do the trick?
Do you straight up tell them it aint gonna happen, or do you reach for the dreaded block button!? "
I am interested only in those who read my profile and meet my criteria
Those who write to me 'haggling', not having read my profile or pretending not to have read my profile have their message deleted without any response; afterall, they are the ones who are rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm close to blocking my first person, it's a gay man who keeps asking me to go round for a cup of tea, I politely responded to his first message, now he won't take the hint, even when I told him I was straight he took offence that I implied he wanted anything other than friendship ha ha, never had a problem with girls messaging me first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I rarely block anyone , just tell them 'no thanks' . However, I'm starting to think blocking them would be a better option cus I get repeated messages from the same guys weeks later who have clearly forgot they have already messaged me already and been rejected rather annoying "
You mean you get males approaching you with your limited written profile and no images? ... What on earth are they seeing that I don't? ... Don't get me wrong, I'm not having a go at you , I'm just trying to understand why the contact is happening?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's technically 3 times in the month... Not as consistent as some I know! I get lads asking me for fun on a Constance although it clearly states that I am not inetrested x  |
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Only blocked one guy so far. Friendly enough to start, then started begging new pics every time we spoke. Deleted him and the add requests kept coming. Gave h a 2nd chance and the begging started again.
Block.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely block anyone , just tell them 'no thanks' . However, I'm starting to think blocking them would be a better option cus I get repeated messages from the same guys weeks later who have clearly forgot they have already messaged me already and been rejected rather annoying
You mean you get males approaching you with your limited written profile and no images? ... What on earth are they seeing that I don't? ... Don't get me wrong, I'm not having a go at you , I'm just trying to understand why the contact is happening?!"
I get mail sometimes, no pics no text.
Some people are just fucking morons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get why the block button is dreaded or seen as some kind of punishment? We always say a polite one thanks and don't get any hassle but our block is used regularly for all sorts of other reasons. It's a useful tool to enhance our experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do any of you women ever change your mind to someone you have said no to in the past?
If I send someone a message and get a "no thanks" I block them as a way to remind me they said no already. Its not ideal but much easier than writing a separate note for each persons profile, which I forgot to check after anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if we're not interested in someone we ignore if the message again we block, it's annoying when you open wants account and you have 5 new messages all from people you've already ignored or said no to once, so block button it is, it makes everything easier and simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if we're not interested in someone we ignore if the message again we block, it's annoying when you open wants account and you have 5 new messages all from people you've already ignored or said no to once, so block button it is, it makes everything easier and simple"
I do both now, never used o on my old account but sometimes got abuse or the Spanish inquisition as to why I'm not interested trying to change my mind or got a message day/weeks later from then forgetting they've messaged before so saves time to all concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people seem to forget if they have messaged you previously so I find it easier to say no thank you then block. Saves wasting their time by contacting me again.  |
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"Some people seem to forget if they have messaged you previously so I find it easier to say no thank you then block. Saves wasting their time by contacting me again. "
I also have a bad memory but if I try to write to the same person again and not had a reply I get a message from the site telling me that its rude to keep writing.
Its a good feature of Fab as no polite person wants to cause offence or pester others.
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"Some people seem to forget if they have messaged you previously so I find it easier to say no thank you then block. Saves wasting their time by contacting me again.
I also have a bad memory but if I try to write to the same person again and not had a reply I get a message from the site telling me that its rude to keep writing.
Its a good feature of Fab as no polite person wants to cause offence or pester others.
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Yes its a good feature if the message you sent wasnt replied to, but if you reply to the person with a polite no.thanks you can message them further down the line without that message acting as a reminder |
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