 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I regret to say that I have no regrets. Every action in my life has had a consequence and that is a part of the circle of life. Everything happens for a reason.
However, I do with I'd not spent all that money in M&S today! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
what doesnt kill makes you stronger...would rather learn from my mistakes than regret them
life is too short to be stressing about things you cant change |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"regrets and things in your life so far or wish you had done or not done sexual or not  "
Better to rejoice in what you have and which went well rather than regret other things. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It would be nice to think I have none & with the upmost respect to those that say they have none I'm sure in reflection we all have some
Not saying something when you should have, bending the rules in your favour, telling a White lie. Mine is being allready on a phone call when my dad phoned to say my mum was dying & picking up an answermachine message instead!
Sorry bit shit but like has been said it makes us who we are
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Im doing some NLP at the moment and it has a good approach to regrets which is
just realise that even though it looked like a bad decision in hindsight it was the best decision given your state of mind at the time, learn to forgive yourself
tree hugging optional  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My Nan, god bless her lol. always used to say
Its better to die regretting the things you have done, rather than the things you hav'nt "
sounds like my nan, I think we lost a bloody great generation with that lot passed away |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"My Nan, god bless her lol. always used to say
Its better to die regretting the things you have done, rather than the things you hav'nt
sounds like my nan, I think we lost a bloody great generation with that lot passed away "
Ps what's NLP? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *andL1970Couple
over a year ago
hemel hempstead |
NLP is Neuro Linguistic Programming (something to do with how Channel 4 scheduled Derren Brown shows to catch the most gullible people I think!)
As for regrets, unless you lost a body part or caught an incurable disease, why regret? You can make pretty much anything right if you want to put the effort in, but if you try and live your life well, there shouldn't be too much to go back on! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
Well, you lot with no regrets are very lucky people! (although I am taking all that with a pinch of salt  )
Yeah, I have regrets! An uncle whom I loved dearly as rough as he was (Special Boat Squadren in WW2) He died and for various reasons (one a family rift) we didn't get to say goodbye to him properly.
I regret not taking the path in my career that I wanted to. Made life difficult for us, but hey ho...
I regret an action from my teens that I won't go into here but wasn't a nice thing to do... 
Yes I regret lots, but doesn't mean I haven't moved on. Doesn't mean I haven't learnt from them. Seems that everyone is falling over themselves these days to absolve themselves from guilt or regret..
(Remember, like Nan used to say. "If the cap fits, wear it!" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It depends what you call a regret.
With the advantage of hindsight most of us would have made one or two different choices... there are a few people I would have never bothered meeting, a few things I would not have let people borrow and a few hair removal creams I would not have tried without taking greater heed of the warnings 
But I wouldn't class any of them as deep regrets. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
for sure I do..
regrets on the wrongs I have done to people. ( many times due to a hissy fit cause I wasn't getting things my way ).
regrets I didn't grab special moments and make more of them.
regrets I didn't see more of family members before they left this earth.
but always balanced with...
the kindness I have also shown to some.
some times appreciated.
some times abused.
but always the first to admit to my wrong doings
and the first to celebrate any good.
that way, I can always look at myself in the mirror with a clear conscience. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Confucius, he say. “Only regret the things you don’t do,,,, never the things you have done….as good judgement comes from bad experience”…… Yeah Right !!!!….. bet Confucius never spent £9 on a pair of lush sexy stockings and ruined –em putting-em on cuz of he forgot to cut his lord of the rings style toenails properly….Grrrr Bahhhhh  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
